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A reply: I am a professional philosopher which is the opposite of being "blind" and "look at the surface". Exactly because I look at the deep meaning I see that it's nothing deep here (by the way one of the reasons is that the author is a psychologist, not a philosopher. About being "cold" or not, it's a personal choice and when we are talking philosophy, it's not important (the emotional status of the debaters).