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"Inceldom cannot be escaped" = pessimism and fatalism

 This cliche is very pessimistic and even fatalistic. It's counterproductive too. My advice is people to be more realistic and at least to try, but to try seriously, hard and responsibly. There is a room for improvement in many different sides: knowledge, body, health, earnings, jobs/business, character, location. More tries = more chances.

[Non-SEO]

It's already deleted in incels.co, but I saved it and repost it here. Someone tried to make laugh at the book and the comments are low leveled as we can see:

"JFL] How to Escape the Inceldom: A QUICK GUIDE TO Deincelization
 Thread starter Lewis Carroll  Start date 19 minutes ago
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Lewis Carroll
Lewis Carroll
Looking for his Alice
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Aug 10, 2019
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19 minutes ago
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Book


I know, I'm basically advertising, whatever. Anyone has a dime for a good laugh?
Incline
Incline
SEA is my only hope, failing that I kill myself.
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May 1, 2019
4,065
17 minutes ago
#2
I will not pay him to waste my time reading this shit.
MayorOfKekville
MayorOfKekville
Toxic Misogynist™ with a Bad Personality™
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Nov 9, 2017
8,471
15 minutes ago
#3
JFL

Nice broken Engrish too.
nihility
nihility
Forever stuck
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Jul 26, 2019
3,353
11 minutes ago
#4
Inceldom cannot be escaped
Lame Dude
Lame Dude
Lamest dude that ever lamed.
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Jan 2, 2020
839
11 minutes ago
#5
I will make you ascend. Just gimme money. :feelskek:"

[MSL]

Answer to an incel nicknamed "Lewis Carroll" in incel.co:

I know, I'm basically advertising, whatever. Anyone has a dime for a good laugh?

Thanks for the ad! And how someone who even hasn't a dime knows that a serious book, written to give peace of mind and to help you based on realism and atleastism is going to be funny?!

[MSL]

Answer to an incel nicknamed "Incline" in incel.co:

I will not pay him to waste my time reading this shit.

It's your free choice to pay or not to pay. But don't insult something like a good book (which you even didn't read) as "shit" because it just makes your post a useless and shitty one. If you "waste" your time to read more good books, probably you'll not produce this kind of low (rude and insulting) posting.

[MSL]

Answer to an incel nicknamed "MayorOfKekville" in incel.co:

JFL

Nice broken Engrish too.

Often those who criticize the English of the non-native English speakers are the ones who have got many English errors of different kinds. Recently here was shown an example.

Let me also translate this: a) "JFL" = "Just for laugh", b) "Engrish" = "A slang term for the misuse or corruption of the English language by native speakers of Asian languages." ^{https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Engrish.}

 In fact, I'm a European (or a Eurasian), but let him think of me as an Asian. I like many of the Asians, so it's a pleasure for me.

[MSL]

Answer to an incel nicknamed "nihility" in incel.co:

Inceldom cannot be escaped

Please, read that inceldom can be escaped!

[MSL]

Answer to an incel nicknamed "Lame Dude" in incel.co:

I will make you ascend. Just gimme money.

Every real help deserves some gratitude. Most (at least more than half) of the incels surely can ascend, if they work hard and do the right things. Don't you think that most of the people, including most of the ones, who are involuntary celibates (a.k.a. incels) are able to get better in: body musculature, knowledge, skills, income (earnings; money; capital), character (ethics, moral) and so on? This improves their chances and the fact is that there is ascending non-stop all around the world.

[Non-SEO]

Some people are really desperate. I remember when I had faith that one day it would happen (to find a real love). Nowadays I just see it as probable as winning the lottery. It could happen but I wouldn't bet on it so much.  Of course, to escape the inceldom doesn't necessarily means to find a true love. As far as you have a relationship, it's already an ascend.

[MSL]

 Depends on the definition, but usually, those who have at least a sexual partner (even one who is not their "true love"), they're not incels. Of course, the better way to escape the inceldom is to find a complete relationship (not just sexual one), but here we mean all of the ways, which may lead to ascending/escaping the inceldom. Let me make this analogy. If you're hungry, it's okay to escape the hunger via good lunch (soup, salad, main dish, fruit), but if you can't because you just can't have all of these but at the same time you have got, for example, an egg and a mandarine, well at least you're not starving, right?
 Finding true love is the ideal variant, the ideal escaping the inceldom.

[Non-SEO]

The importance of the patience and intelligent effort when once you start your deincelization: some quotes -- "Quality is not an act, it is a habit."; "Good character is not formed in a week or a month. It is created little by little, day by day. Protracted and patient effort is needed.", "We cannot live better than in seeking to become better."

[SEO]

A person nicknamed WorkingHapa wants to know about relation to hapas (of the book about the deincelization).

[MSL]

A person nicknamed WorkingHapa wants to know about relation to hapas (of the book about the deincelization).

Well, as far as the book ("How to Escape the Inceldom: A QUICK GUIDE TO Deincelization") is written in hope to help the incels and some of the hapas (see more about the term in Wikipedia's article about it) are incels too, I think that the relation may be there at least for those of them who're really incels and who really do want to get some deincelization (deincelification; ascending; ascension), i. e. to have a good experience about escaping their inceldom. Concretely there are many useful points for these people. I know some of them are very depressed, but they shouldn't be, because they have great potential that may be developed.

[MSL]

The inceldom during the COVID-19

  During the COVID-19 pandemic and the lockdowns (quarantines), it's going to be a hard time for many people, but the worst it'll be for the poor ones -- those who lack of something: lack of money and/or lack of health and/or lack of love (partner). All of the incels are people without love (except those nearly impossible cases when there is some Platonic love) and many of them aren't rich (usually the rich persons are able to find at least one partner, no matter what are their other problems), some of them aren't healthy (and their diseases are the main cause of their inceldom).
 Now, imagine how hard will be this quarantine time for most of the incels! Yes, some of them used to stay mostly at home and to communicate mostly online. But the majority are people who go to school, college, university, work; used to have long lonely walks, to have some drink outside or just to sit quietly in some park or in front of the sea/mountain/river. The ones who are struggling hard and trying to escape the inceldom (like the gymcels for instance) will feel it at once: the gyms are locked and they can't gymmaxx; the clubs, bars, libraries, restaurants, amusement parks and so on are locked and they can't socialmaxx; even the brothels (in the countries where they're legal) are locked and the so-called "escortcels" can't be escortcels any more.
 Even if you live in a place where you may go out (in this case never forget to wear mask well, to have spirit or another hand sanitizer with you and to keep a few meters distance from others!) the nearly empty streets, the scared/nervous people and the locked shops, bars, cinemas, etc. are just giving you more depressive feelings.
 Of course, not everyone will feel it this way; there are some people who don't care that much and some are even happy. But what about the majority of the incels (and the rest of mankind) when they have to suffer a long quarantine? The only good advice I can give you is to use this time to improve yourselves: do more sports at home (at least those simple ones: push-ups, jumping, etc.) and lose weight (if you're obese) and/or build some muscles; never stop to learn (if you can't learn something more complicated like philosophy or psychology, then at least start to learn a foreign language); try to statusmaxx (via some viral videos, writing a good e-book, etc.); learn some new skill online (for example basic dancing or easy martial arts' techniques) and never forget to keep as healthy as you can: good hygiene, healthy food and healthy drinks, enough fresh air (ventilation of your home) and getting rid of the bad habits.

Best wishes to you all and please don't give up: Geser Kurultaev (the author of the e-book "How to Escape the Inceldom: A QUICK GUIDE TO Deincelization" -- https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0855FTRZ1)

[MSL]

A man sent me an answer from an incel in a Facebook incel group. This person is named (or nicknamed? I don't know is it his/her true name) "Caleb Scott". And he/she posted that "Who wants to bet this book is filled with nothing but strawmen, and just ends up arguing with himself, thus not helping anyone."

My answer here: Caleb Scott or "Caleb Scott", if I wanted to fill a book with "strawmen", I'd prefer not to write it at all, or just write another book (as I do currently; now I'm writing my third English language e-book). Also, I don't need to argue with myself because I made my mind already and I'm sure about what I'm writing. About helping anyone, I'll be glad if the book may help at least to 60% of the incels, but even it ends up helping just 5% of them it's still much better than nothing! I wrote it honestly, with an open heart and open mind and with enough professionalism, knowledge. Thus it's possible to help. By the way, it's the cheapest possible, because I wanted to be easy to get (easy to buy) it, because as we know, many (or most?) of the incels are poor or not rich enough.

[SEO]

There are 2 new neologisms (jargon; slang) among some of the incels -- tablemaxxing and gardenmaxxing. Their origin is from an idea given by someone with the nickname "spunyuns" in Reddit:

Stop this fantasy shit. No sane girl is going to talk to you like this. You all have been watching too many animes. This metaphorical dialogue may be comforting to you, but I am sorry to say this this will never come out of a person's mouth. Think to yourself - is this something you would say? Hell no.
If you all keep focusing on this concept of "chad vs virgin" or whatever you're just going to continue to perpetuate your self fulfilling prophecy. If you even manage to get a date and already go into thinking "wow I don't deserve this" you have already lost.
Stop this "woe is me" narrative and focus on bettering yourself without the validation of woman. Plant a garden, build a table, learn a new skill - not for the girl, but for yourself. Your 'dream girl' is not just around the corner and continuously pining over it is doing nothing but hurting yourself.
Maybe you all are too far gone at this point.

After that, even memes appeared about these tables and gardens things. But the point of the person is rational.