[MSL]

Incel, incels, r/incels (incel reddit; incels reddit) -- how a good idea was destroyed by bad elements

  Let's face it -- what's this, what was this and what it could be (what it may be).

Incel definition

 It's an English word, a noun -- "incel" (countable and uncountable, plural "incels"). A neologism. Meanings:
1) A person who inadequately or never has sexual activity, despite wishing to.
2) (informal, uncountable) involuntary celibacy.
 (Etymology:  A blend /i. e. a word or name that starts with the start of one word and ends with the end of another/ of  involuntary +‎ celibate.

 Source (and more): https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/incel.

 

What was that r/incels

 It was a subreddit (an "r/") in Reddit (reddit.com). It (reddit.com) is one of the most popular sites on the world. Millions of active users discuss almost everything over there. There are many subreddits (sections) dedicated to different things. Sometimes some subreddits enter the mainstream, and ends up in other websites, on television and the media at all. This is the case with r/incels recently (a subreddit called /r/incels), which has come into the limelight (i. e. into the focus of public attention).
 Originally, it (r/incels) was a good idea -- to quote the moderators, "r/incels is a support group for people who lack romantic relationships and sex, but mostly geared towards those lacking a girlfriend or seeking marriage." A good idea like an online lonely hearts club, but /r/incels apart from being an online support group for the involuntary celibates (i. e. the incels) it became a misogynistic echo chamber! (Misogyny /mɪˈsɒdʒɪni/ is the hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women and/or girls.^{https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misogyny}). When the hatred toward women and girls is the dominant (or one of the main) theme (topics), then it's already bad (and it's not useful, too)! It's also idiotic, because some of the incels are females (women)! And, over time, this /r has developed its own lingo (i. e. jargon) -- women and girls were called "femoids" or even "sluts"; non-incel men are called "normies" and "Chads". It became a sort of dangerous echo chamber in which its members reinforce their pathological views, confirm their biases, and make the situation they have found themselves in even harder than it has to be!
 No wonder, that

This community has been banned

This subreddit was banned due to a violation of our content policy, specifically, our sitewide rules regarding violent content.

^{https://www.reddit.com/r/incels} And more about it we already have here.

How it may be (become) good

In fact, as I said, it's a good idea and if there is no hate, no stupidity, no aggression, and if there is more realistic, scientific point of view (and attitude), it may be a useful thing like this very good alternative of r/incels and v/Incels
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 If the participants are good, educated, civilized, then this topic (and all of the others) may be good, useful, creative, truthful (giving the true facts) and so on. Because it depends not only of the idea (topic; thread), it depends of the persons who're doing it.

[SEO]

Exactly! Incel = loveshy, love-shy or love shy. So, if you need an incel forum (or love shy forum, love-shy forum, loveshy forum), you may use it, but use it wise -- no insults, no death, no aggression, no threads, no harass. Just be normal, polite and share and/or help with others around. It's easy.

[MSL]

 I'm trying to join a group of incels in order to learn more about it. I answered some questions:

if you don't answer all the questions you won't be approved. with that out of the way, were you in the first group?

No, I'm fresh. I learned about it recently.


how do you feel about the friendzone?

Not so good...

what do you know about incels?

Just the basic stuff.

 About the so called friendzone -- I'd like to add here, that it depends who is in the friendzone -- if there is a person that I also want to be just my friend, then it's okay; but if you really love and wish somebody -- "just friends" is not so comfortable. This is what I feel and what I mean.

[Non-SEO]

I see... Step by step.

[Gay]

I don't know how many were so far 'invented', but here are the ones I learned about today:

1. currycel -- an incel (involuntary celibate) of South Asian background (Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, etc.) Source: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=currycel.

2. braincel -- an incel (involuntary celibate) due to mental issues such as social anxiety. Source: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=braincel.

3. fakecel -- a fakecel is someone who pretends to be incel or who thinks they are on the inceldom spectrum but aren't. Source: https://wiki.incels.info/w/Fakecel.

4. femcel -- it's easy: "female" + "incel"; a female incel.

[SEO]

Many people just want to get rid of the inceldom and to learn how to be better.

[MSL]

Incelology

 Incelology: it "is the study behind what causes inceldom. As of the 2010s, it may be described as a protoscience since its models remain at the nascet stage of scientific analysis. Prominent incelologists include social psychologist Brian Gilmartin and Denise Donnelly." (Source: https://incels.wiki/w/Incelology.)
 "The study behind the factors that cause some people's romantic overtures to consistently result in only inceldom, incelibacy, nearceldom or trueceldom. Not an actual academic field, but nonetheless it is often written about or researched as a social science or subset of anthropology." (Source: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=incelology.)

[Non-SEO]

5. Poorcel -- an incel whose poverty has been a major factor behind his/her inceldom. By the way, it's interesting:

ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females.

^{Source: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S109051381730315X}

[MSL]

Inceldom denialism

 The term "inceldom denialism" means the belief that inceldom does not really exist.

[PageRank]

Inceldom spectrum

Inceldom spectrum? Is that necessary? According to some people, yes, it is. And what exactly -- well,  it's a scale wherein one can measure how deeply one is submerged with the condition of inceldom. The person who is most deeply submerged is the truecel, i. e. someone who is never even touched someone of the opposite sex, never mind dated. The least submerged is the nearcel, who carries many characteristics of inceldom, yet has some degrees of normalcy (the state of being usual, typical, or expected), i. e. might have dated a few times but seems to regularly go through lengthy dry spells (a period characterized by a lack of success or productivity). The median in between these two extremes is the incel. And it can be useful to view inceldom as a spectrum, because incels may experience inceldom in varying degrees of intensity. As an analogy, for example, think of poverty. There is the underclass (it is the segment of the population that occupies the lowest possible position in a class hierarchy, below the core body of the working class) as well as the homeless. Although they're dealing with the similar issue of poverty, the homeless person is arguably worse off than the underclass since someone in the underclass may still have a roof over his/her head. Furthermore, the homeless person may not even be the worse off on the scale of poverty. There might be some people in poverty in famine stricken areas who may look at the homeless person with envy, because whilst the homeless person isn't necessarily hungry, the person suffering from malnutrition may believe they're about to die a slow death tomorrow through a lack of food.

[Incel]

"There's no gym for your face"

There's no gym for your face. This is an expression that means those with an ugly face can't rectify this situation through exercise, and therefore it's over for them.
 

[MSL]

"There's no gym for your face"

There's no gym for your face. This is an expression that means those with an ugly face can't rectify this situation through exercise, and therefore it's over for them.
 

 Well, it makes only a little sense. "There's no gym for your face" -- it's just not completely true and here is why:
1) Once you are regular in the gym (or just at home doing sports) or just use another way (outdoors activities) to improve your body, then your face could improve, at least a bit, too. For example when one is a fat person. After losing weight he or she, usually, will be more attractive (according to the most of the nowadays tastes around the world).
 2) Sport keeps you younger and healthy (in some degree). Healthier and younger face is prettier than ill and old face, isn't it?
 So, gyms (and the sports at all) are useful in a certain degree for your faces.
 Something related: https://www.webmd.com/fitness-exercise/news/20091201/molecular-proof-exercise-keeps-you-young#1 .

[SEO]

Anti-inceldom

anti-incels

You should know that there are anti-incels. There is anti-inceldom.

[MSL]

Soon going to finish my e-book about how to fight the inceldom. what do you need to include more in its content?

Hello, fellows!
I'm an anthropological philosopher (Master's degree) and I majored in human love. That's why I learned a lot about the inceldom and decided to write an e-book, with the hope that it may help at least half of the incels to escape from the inceldom. I promise not to sell it expensive (something like a dollar per book sounds good and cheap, right?), and I promise that it will be written in simple and understandable English, but I need your help: just tell me which QUESTIONS and PROBLEMS do you want to be included (I don't want to miss anything of importance!!!). So far I finished these topics:
- fatcels
- standardcels
- baldcels
- thincels
- shortcels
- locationcels
- denialcels
- oldcels
- framecels
- mentalcels
- gymcels
- fakecels
- incels' delusions.
Any answer is warmly welcome!

[SEO]

There weren't many good suggestions. Good luck to the book about the deincelization!