Could be (the psychology) but why you're not considering other ways too, or you did? See, for a wimpy man like you <no offence!> who dislikes gyms, struggles, confrontations and who just want it easier in life why giving up the Buddhist or others male monks communities? You don't need it (sciencemaxxing or what they call it) once you may gaymaxxing successfully. The Buddhism is teaching you to forget about your needs but as long as your body needs it and you can't have the women, then you will be in touch with some hot (we may hope from gays point of perspective yeah) homosexual monk or guru and then yeah here is our gaymaxxed happiness without dharmas, sciences and others which only make you suffer to practice, to learn, to struggle. Just be gay.
Sincerely: Mr Internet Gay