Brocel and all of the rest dear brocels, allow me to add something precious from my inceldom which I could include above but I was afraid it's going to be a long post.
Years ago I met a gay who was honest to speak up the truth and said my frame is too small, he even went to details about shoulders, neck, etc. Thanks to him, for the first time, I started to notice how my "just martial arts + push ups" isn't enough. And then I started to become a pro-athlete step by step. Recently I went sport-crazy and included heavy training (heavy weights), running, more MMA, pull ups, sit ups, expanders, handgrips, step aerobics, simple yoga and others. It's an endless list of gymmaxxing, you got it.
My frame is still the same (I mean the bone structure is something you can't change with softmaxx, without syurgeries) but I added mass and I am leaner, more muscular, better looking and with great speed, moves, etc. I was sure I don't need to think about
geomaxx.
Haha, what a naive mistake! I was pretty sure I am going anywhere and I am fit enough. I
was fit enough when I was around southerners but I got the bad luck to move to an area where most of the people are from Henan! Oh, noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! Even 80% of the females were with larger bones than me, 40% were taller than me. The Henan males without one elder dude and another one, were taller or around my height. Almost 99% were with better frames!
Yes, I have no beer belly and I still look like a model next to all these dadbod males, but the females think of me as a midget. They will chose a tall, fat Henan Norman over me.And brocel, keep in mind that:
A/ I am taller than you with at least one head above.
B/ I am with more masculine face, at least 20%+.
C/ I am gymmaxed, at least 50%+, I am not sure, you never showed up your body pics.
D/ I am more exotic because I'm nearly white (mayocel).
So, if I feel mogged and nobody sees me as a man around Henan people, how you think you'll be perceived around Westerners...?