Incel in denial (denialcel)
A denialcel
Incel in denial or a
denialcel is a person who is dealing somehow with the inceldom but he (she) has no idea that he/she is an incel (femcel). He or she just deny or underestimate his/her inceldom.
And here is my newest chat with a denialcel (he is a Chinese good man, educated too, with some good earnings from the educational business in Guangdong). The main reasons causing his inceldom are that he's not very attractive as face (3/10 to 3.5/10 at best) and he's short (shorter than most of the Chinese in South China).
Because he's mostly a shortcel, I think, this is his main problem and I tried to give him a hint that he should at least gymmaxx (to improve his body and to compensate at least a bit his shortness). If he's gymmaxed, he may achieve a 4.5/10 status (because seems he's already moneymaxxed and statusmaxxed, also he has very good personality)
but he surprisingly thinks that he's already enough good to have a girl-friend and even asked me to connect him with a foreign girlfriend (without knowing good English and without improved body)
and he is feeling that it's so normal to have a girlfriend in his situation that even said that he doesn't want to use online dating because it's too slow for him; he wants someone to introduce a girl directly to him and to start dating asap.
This is how entitled are many of the incels (denialcels especially) today (
they can't imagine that women do have wishes, ideals, needs and they can't just accept you because you need a girlfriend.)
Some moments from the chat:
我做教育,成功了啊;只是没有女朋友,可以介绍个外国女友么
(I am in the educational business, successful; just have no girlfriend, can you introduce a foreign girlfriend to me?)
After a website (in English where he can try to find some foreign women) idea:
但是我英语不好啊
(But my English isn't good!)
After I found for him a website in Chinese:
网络上的,一般要很长时间
如果直接有人介绍,就好很多
(When it comes to online dating, usually it takes a long time
If there is a person who can directly introduce someone, then this is the really good thing.)
So, do you think this man will find a girlfriend if he continues to keep his status unchanged? I think he's almost without chance to ascend if he's not going to improve himself (much) more.