If you didn't, please take a look at
Just be white -- one side thinking.
What you're saying resembles the pessimistic, blackpilled and racepilled point "Only the white guys are handsome, if you're not white, you're done and it's over!" Don't fall in this trap, created by low IQed incels.
You're living in Shanghai, so, yes, you saw Chinese women with white men,
but you also saw Chinese women with black man and south Asian, Arab, African etc. men (semi-white or non-white) for sure. Maybe you heard that some Chinese women also marry Japanese (even most of Chinese can't believe it), Koreans, etc.
And now, check this out -- when you're outside, start to count the couples and you'll find out that MOST OF the Chinese females are with Chinese boy-friends and Chinese husbands...
We
do agree that there is something called "white worship" in China (Chinese avoid the sunshine, no tan fans, many people think that the people from the North, like 东北人 are better looking than the darker and shorter southerners). But it's a detail -------------------------> maybe being a whiter and taller will give you 10% or 15% advantage, but if you're lacking these:
- money
- knowledge and character for love
- good man (male) body (or something fashionable like K-pop style feminine look),
then you white-ness, Caucasian-ness and stuff is worthless.
Well, now let's suppose you're a very typical souther Asian (I think you're not 100%, because you're also having some northern traits -- for example, your skin isn't dark like that of the people in Hongkong, Guangdong, Guangxi, Yunnan and Hainan), then what?
Then more and more (更加!) you have to maxx the things that females find attractive: muscles (gymmaxx), capital (moneymaxx), status (being a professor is a good statusmaxx!) and so on (for example, artmaxx) -- learn playing guitar or singing well, or even something traditional like guzheng (古箏).