[Zhang Jie]

Above I posted in Chinese and here I will translate my post in English. What I told him is: "Brother, are you kidding? I also live in China. There are so many fat people, old uncles, and feminine boys here -- they are uglier than you, but they all have girlfriends. How can a good-looking young man like you want to commit suicide?! You have no appearance problem at all! If you are a normal person without mental illness, you must have a girlfriend!


And why the United States? It's not as perfect as you think. Choose a safer country.


You asked how to become a super handsome guy (a.k.a Chang). You are handsome enough, but you can start to gymmax and to do exercises such as Chinese martial arts or MMA, eat healthy (fruit and vegetables), do not smoke, and do not drink strong alcoholic drinks like baijiu. You will look better and better gradually. Don't give up."

还有我没有抽烟喝酒的习惯，不过我不健身，因为没兴趣。

[Gay]

哎呀！How without gym-maxx? 你不是说要当Chad吗？If you want to be a Chad (Chang) you should be like this: .

Take a look:

肌肉男生最帅照片刷屏啦，这也太撩了，你不是Monkey你是壮汉惹~

https://baijiahao.baidu.com/s?id=1691018018152952832

[MSL]

兄弟，你开玩笑吧？我也住在中国。这边那么多胖子们，老叔叔们，娘的男孩子们--都比你更丑，可是都会有女友。你那么好看的年轻人，怎么会想要自杀，什么的？！你一点都没有外貌的问题啊！如果你是个正常的，没有精神病的人，你肯定会有女朋友啊!

而且，为什么选择了美国？那边没有你想的那么完美。选择个更安全的国家。

你问怎么变个超级帅哥。你已经够帅，可是你可以开始做健身，锻炼多武术或MMA那类的运动，吃健康的（水果，蔬菜），不要吸烟，不要喝白酒。这样慢慢你越来越好看。不要放弃。

谢了。我知道美国不安全，但是心理测量学在美国最发达，这个很难解释，总之美国确实是教这个教的最好地方，其他地方都太水。这门课因为本来就很冷门，全世界都没几个教授研究这个的，但是我很感兴趣。我现在只恨的是自己英语不够好，还有就是我怕到时候没钱去那边留学。
我家是住在上海但是那边留学钱真的很贵。

 明白了。So, let's continue in English (because most of the people here don't understand Chinese and because my English is better.    Plus, you should practice your English well.  )
 In this case, if your money isn't enough for the best (as you said this major is the best developed in the USA), then you should think of the second best. I suppose Japan or some European country also developed well this major. There is cheaper to study and to live, so you can try them. (It's not necessary to graduate in the best university in order to be the best professor. If you love the major and you learn well offline and online, you will become one of the best too). Don't be too strict to yourself like some "tiger mom" （老虎妈妈）because it's counter-productive. Just do the best with what you have.

[Zhang Jie]

兄弟，你开玩笑吧？我也住在中国。这边那么多胖子们，老叔叔们，娘的男孩子们--都比你更丑，可是都会有女友。你那么好看的年轻人，怎么会想要自杀，什么的？！你一点都没有外貌的问题啊！如果你是个正常的，没有精神病的人，你肯定会有女朋友啊!

而且，为什么选择了美国？那边没有你想的那么完美。选择个更安全的国家。

你问怎么变个超级帅哥。你已经够帅，可是你可以开始做健身，锻炼多武术或MMA那类的运动，吃健康的（水果，蔬菜），不要吸烟，不要喝白酒。这样慢慢你越来越好看。不要放弃。

谢了。我知道美国不安全，但是心理测量学在美国最发达，这个很难解释，总之美国确实是教这个教的最好地方，其他地方都太水。这门课因为本来就很冷门，全世界都没几个教授研究这个的，但是我很感兴趣。我现在只恨的是自己英语不够好，还有就是我怕到时候没钱去那边留学。
我家是住在上海但是那边留学钱真的很贵。

 明白了。So, let's continue in English (because most of the people here don't understand Chinese and because my English is better.    Plus, you should practice your English well.  )
 In this case, if your money isn't enough for the best (as you said this major is the best developed in the USA), then you should think of the second best. I suppose Japan or some European country also developed well this major. There is cheaper to study and to live, so you can try them. (It's not necessary to graduate in the best university in order to be the best professor. If you love the major and you learn well offline and online, you will become one of the best too). Don't be too strict to yourself like some "tiger mom" （老虎妈妈）because it's counter-productive. Just do the best with what you have.

Wait, shouldn't Eurupe have higher costs? The tutoring, the living, the migrating has higher prices although you can make more money there and it is indeed safer.
I think the Nordic is the best.

[MSL]

 Depends on where in Europe. For example living in Moldova and living in Germany is not the same. But the prices of plane tickets are cheaper and the rents too.
 My idea is that there SHOULD BE at least 1 second best psychometry country in the world which is better than USA (for example, let's suppose it's Japan or South Korea)... there you can go easier and cheaper. This is what I mean.
 I will give you another example -- because of the recent emperorization of China (lack of collectivism in the Party) and more xenophobic laws and attitudes, I gave up my dream to become a Chinese (to obtain Chinese citizenship or Chinese green card). I spent in China almost 19 years and it was my dream to become a Chinese citizen but I didn't know that after the dear comrade Hu Jintao, the situation will become so difficult here (especially for the poor foreigners like me), so I wanted to move to some another place full of Chinese (hua ren) like Singapore. Singapore is the best, isn't it? But later I found out that there is difficult to find a job and it's expensive for the poor people like me, so now I think of something like "second best" and it will be somewhere in South-East Asia like Thailand, Cambodia, Malaysia... this is it. When you can't afford the best, try the second best.

[Enlighten3d]

Go to Poland. Easy start with low budget, one of safest countries. You won't get very high life standard but far better than where you are now. We are shithole, but rest of the world is even worse

Also if you do one of the worst jobs now, you will have easy start, because you will have comparison, here to live on the street for few years you must want it, there are many normal job offers without advanced knowledge. Production, in shops, gastronomy etc. If you catch weak job here you will be happy because it will allow you to live normally, not on the street. Also we have law that treats immigrants almost equally. I can help you to move here if you want.

[Zhang Jie]

Depends on where in Europe. For example living in Moldova and living in Germany is not the same. But the prices of plane tickets are cheaper and the rents too.
 My idea is that there SHOULD BE at least 1 second best psychometry country in the world which is better than USA (for example, let's suppose it's Japan or South Korea)... there you can go easier and cheaper. This is what I mean.
 I will give you another example -- because of the recent emperorization of China (lack of collectivism in the Party) and more xenophobic laws and attitudes, I gave up my dream to become a Chinese (to obtain Chinese citizenship or Chinese green card). I spent in China almost 19 years and it was my dream to become a Chinese citizen but I didn't know that after the dear comrade Hu Jintao, the situation will become so difficult here (especially for the poor foreigners like me), so I wanted to move to some another place full of Chinese (hua ren) like Singapore. Singapore is the best, isn't it? But later I found out that there is difficult to find a job and it's expensive for the poor people like me, so now I think of something like "second best" and it will be somewhere in South-East Asia like Thailand, Cambodia, Malaysia... this is it. When you can't afford the best, try the second best.

Agree. Better than rotting away in my own house because of lack of money. If I can't afford USA then go to Singapore or other countries whose native language is English and excellent at Psychometrics.
You are always contributing gold suggestions to me bro!

[Zhang Jie]

Go to Poland. Easy start with low budget, one of safest countries. You won't get very high life standard but far better than where you are now. We are shithole, but rest of the world is even worse

Also if you do one of the worst jobs now, you will have easy start, because you will have comparison, here to live on the street for few years you must want it, there are many normal job offers without advanced knowledge. Production, in shops, gastronomy etc. If you catch weak job here you will be happy because it will allow you to live normally, not on the street. Also we have law that treats immigrants almost equally. I can help you to move here if you want.

I am too lazy to do my own researches but, how about Poland's Psychometrics? It is a very unpopular subject so there are very very limited countries that can be the options. China sucks at Psychometrics like hell as far as I know. USA contributes 99% of cognitive tests to the whole world so admittedly it is the best country in the sense of Psychometrics. I took many cognitive tests including Old sat gre gmat, lsat, wonderlics, Dentist Aptitude Test, etc., and they were all authored there. No matter how shitty it is in other aspects but in the vein of Psychometrics, it is the 'greatest country' lol.
Actually any country that meets up 3 standards will be my option:
1.Good at Psychometrics.
2.The native language is English.
3.Have cheap tutoring costs.

[SEO]

Enlighten3d, he is from Shanghai, which is the biggest city in the world and has higher GDP than every Polish city and town. You're right that for an average Chinese town maybe Poland maybe better but Shanghai is a very big exception and I am afraid that if he jump from Shanghai to Poznan for example, he'll get very disappointed. He's just from the TOP-tier cities and from a comparatively rich family, so I think he needs something more.

Just letting you know this. Also many Chinese expect wonders abroad and when they go there they're depressed that it wasn't what they imagined.

My respect to Poland and its achievements, just this Chinese is not from the average ones.

Just for a little comparison. A street in Poznan: VS. a street in Shanghai:

I am afraid he'll feel in Poznan like in some Chinese little town or a big village... but it's up to you. Just don't think China is very undeveloped, especially Shanghai which is even bigger than New York.

Btw, the average salary in Shanghai is USD 3523.50. Can he get that much in Poland?

[SEO]

1.Good at Psychometrics.
2.The native language is English.
3.Have cheap tutoring costs.

Native English countries and cheap tutoring costs? A bit difficult. There is this economy law: "develop countries = high prices". The locals have high salaries = the prices are high. It's made for them. Not made for poor foreigners. But you're not very poor, so may be you can pay if you find a job there too.

[MSL]

I found one in Britain -- Cambridge's https://www.psychometrics.cam.ac.uk.

[Good incel]

Yes, brocel, I am really not a native English speaker and English is a second language for me but you use words that even the Brits are not using. You are a high IQcel.

[Ineedloveandpassion]

Bro, it's cool and best wishes!

But you are not tall, aren't you? If you're not at least 1.85 m in the Nordic countries you'll look like a midget and no woman will take you seriously as a man even professor-maxxed. You should find a wife from the Philippines or from your country.

Just sayin' because you said you're mogged even in Shanghai. I can't imagine what mog will be there for you in a Nordic country. Maybe even a 15-year old like Lexi is taller than you. She is Norwegian.

[Enlighten3d]

Sorry for not pointing this, but my suggestion to move to poland was for MSL not LibGen
Psychometrics in Poland sucks.

[Zhang Jie]

Bro, it's cool and best wishes!

But you are not tall, aren't you? If you're not at least 1.85 m in the Nordic countries you'll look like a midget and no woman will take you seriously as a man even professor-maxxed. You should find a wife from the Philippines or from your country.

Just sayin' because you said you're mogged even in Shanghai. I can't imagine what mog will be there for you in a Nordic country. Maybe even a 15-year old like Lexi is taller than you. She is Norwegian.

I don't care about my sexual appeal tbh. I never made myself up well and that is why I never gymmaxxed, at least not for sexual purposes. I've already had two relationships so I don't need to care about how girls think of me anymore. I even feel sick of them when they abuse their perks in the heterosexual relationships due to an increasing amount of ignorant, paranoiac, void, immature simps and their nature perks(women are natally authorized to select their couples rather than men because their eggs have more values than sperms), complaining how worthless nowadays males are, selecting men as if we were just some kind of exhibitions in the showcase, 'coping' their own bad statures and faces but dreaming of getting adored by random 'princes' of make-believe, etc.. Of course not all of women are in this camp but they are kinda leading to my Misogyny!
I just want to be a ffffffffffffffffffff great professor and I don't want to tap with uni female students either! If they had acadmiec questions for me to answer and I could lend my hand to their academic performances then bring it on but if they evaluated me as if they were the appreciaters of a male model then fk u!