[Incel]

Rejection #15

It's a very fresh one. Literally from the last few minutes. She found me first. Sent me a PM. We started to chat about this and that. She said she's even eager to come to visit me. I thought we're getting close and shared with her something more intimate but seems like it was a mistake. Well, she decided to friendzone me. In fact, there are true friendzones and fake friendzones. In make case, it was a fake one because she even blocked me after she said that she want to make friends with me (what kind of friendship is it if you even block a person's ability to communicate with you?) But, of course, I'm not surprised. This is what my life is: a perpetual loneliness.

[Xsokii]

Rejection #15

It's a very fresh one. Literally from the last few minutes. She found me first. Sent me a PM. We started to chat about this and that. She said she's even eager to come to visit me. I thought we're getting close and shared with her something more intimate but seems like it was a mistake. Well, she decided to friendzone me. In fact, there are true friendzones and fake friendzones. In make case, it was a fake one because she even blocked me after she said that she want to make friends with me (what kind of friendship is it if you even block a person's ability to communicate with you?) But, of course, I'm not surprised. This is what my life is: a perpetual loneliness.

Dear Incel, I will unblock you provided you don't send me porn.
Regards, Anita.

[Incel]

Still, nothing happened. She is living abroad and she's too young. Not even possible.

[Incel]

Rejection #16

Well, there are many like this one (called "ghosted"). To ghost means (as a verb) to end a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. This is one of many (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "ღ桥" (不完美女孩). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:

"2019-09-13
8:15:05 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
10:36:11 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-31
7:06:37 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
5:02:42 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ..." (the last one was some philosophy of life).

Months of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and I had to delete this contact.

[Incel]

Rejection #17

 It was in Europe. I met a pretty, slim, gentle girl with long hair and good face in the train. I was very glad to find out that she was interested in chatting with me (more than 3 hours before I get off the train). Later (we exchanged our mail addresses) she started to exchaange some letters with me. It was very nice and I felt very happy to check the mail box almost every day and double happy when I see her letter. I read her letters at least 4-5 times each. One day decided to invite her to come to visit me but she said she's lacking of money. I was poor too (I was able to provide her a place to sleep and to share with her my food and even pay for some tea but not more than this) and we decided to wait until she get some money from her relatives. And she got them! It was something like EUR 40 which was enough for the travel to my place and back. But she described how she bought for herself a jean skirt and some other things. I asked her: "How do you have now money to buy a jean skirt but not having money to come to visit me?" and she never answered back. I missed her but I coped with that she has a neurological disorder (epilepsy) and maybe it was better to be rejected earlier than to deal with the epilepsy problem all my life.

[Xsokii]

Still, nothing happened. She is living abroad and she's too young. Not even possible.

This thread is very bitter and sad.

[Incel]

Thanks for the comment but it's not a simple ordinary thread. It's my free e-book (in which I'd like to collect my 500 rejections from the past and the ongoing ones). And as far as the rejections usually are something sad the average reaction is being bitter, frustrated, unhappy, etc. See, it's just the way it's meant to be.

[Incel]

Rejection #18

This is another one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "小丫" (有些东西，不应该太在乎，也许在乎是一个伤害). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
8:10:48 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
7:13:20 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
3:52:05 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:46:21 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-15
3:24:30 AM
已经不用QQ吗？
3:25:08 AM
微信呢？"

Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and I had to delete this contact.

[Incel]

Rejection #19

This is the third one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "MOUSE-杨" (嫁给一个成功的男人是女人的本能，使自己所爱的男人变成功才是女人的本领！). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-06-07
 4:25:47 PM
端午节快乐！
 2019-09-13
8:07:05 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
3:48:21 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:43:52 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-08
2:27:03 AM
已经不上QQ吗？
 2021-08-10
2:24:34 PM
我现在跟你聊天在微信。就放心。我们认识的。
2:50:30 PM
你删掉了我？！
 2:50:42 PM
好吧。我也删掉你。"

Years of fruitless "communication". (If you don't count that she added me for a while in her WeChat but she deleted me there too...) Well, really 100% ghosted and I had to delete this QQ contact too.

[Incel]

Rejection #20

This is the fourth one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "杏子电脑" (No slogan). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:

"2020-01-31
7:09:18 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:52:57 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
5:01:59 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
"
The last message from me was a virtual "happy birthday card" (sent on 2020-04-13 at 8:41:20 AM
...) but nothing... and I deleted this QQ contact too.

[Xsokii]

So are most of the people you talk to Chinese or from that Country?

[Incel]

It's just because I live in China for many years and 99.99% of the females I tried to connect with are from China (or Chinese living abroad). I am from Europe myself.

[Xsokii]

Where?

[Incel]

European Union's one.

[Incel]

Rejection #21

This is another one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a " 寡欲des1re＃" (所谓的狐狸精，就是让男人像狗样的女人。). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
8:05:14 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
3:46:24 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:42:24 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-07-28
1:56:23 AM
在吗？
 2021-08-04
10:18:11 PM
已经一点都不用QQ吗？"

Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and I had to delete this QQ contact as well.