Good points.
1. To you especially, it's good that you found vids about Japan/Japanese people. This is what was discussed already in the Japan-maxx topic that... well, Japan may be a great country in many aspects but about being rich and having free time there, gosh, it's impossible eve for their middle class. Many Japanese and non-Japanese ppl in Japan are working poor or hell busy. In this conditions imagine how difficult is to not just ascend but also to keep a relationship, to raise children maybe...
2. Yes, there are some poorcels who are really lazy and thus they're poor but the majority of the poor people (incels, volcels and noncels) aren't lazy just not lucky or not enough smart to be richer.
3. We (the majority in this forum) as moderately poor to very poor people, never blame the poor people as far as they're not some terribble poor people like those aggressive beggars on the streets or thieves, etc. and we do revere the hard-workingness because we're a part of those hard-working ones incels, volcels and noncels.