[Xsokii]

Also, Incel sounds like he has some real bad problems. Dunno how to help.

  Don't get it personal, I　ｓｐｅａｋ　ｉｔ　to ｙｏｕ　ａｎｄ　ｔｈｏｓｅ　ｗｈｏ　ｈａｖｅ　ｔｏ　ｋｎｏｗ　ｉｔ．　If you didn't notice it's a board for "incels" and it's normal in a board for incels there to be someone with a nickname "incel". Incel = someone who can't find even one girlfriend (or lover; wife). Yes, it's a really bad problem. And if you don't know how to help at least don't make the things worse with saying that his nickname sounds like he "has some real bad problems". There is a proverb in my language which says "If you can't help a person, at least don't make the things worse for him or her."
 You're really not helping him with stating that he sounds this or that. If you can let him know a girl who may like him or show him some way to become a really attractive man -- this is a real help. Otherwise we're the same as those who when you ask them to help you to find something (job, for instance) they're answering you that you are depressed and you need psychological help.

No, I was talking about his post in psychology.

[MSL]

 Ah, the book about the 500 rejections! I see now. Well 500 rejections is a problem but at least the book is going to be interesting.
 

[Xsokii]

Ah, the book about the 500 rejections! I see now. Well 500 rejections is a problem but at least the book is going to be interesting.

You misunderstood what I meant but that's ok! I didn't mean anything bad about his username.

[MSL]

 At the beginning I thought that she is really going to be nice and to help, to be a friend. She was the one who offered her friendship and potential help. Later I found out that she's even not reading all of the content that I sent to her (according to her comments Just an example -- I won a chess game. And I told her "Another example why I try even when it seems 0  chance: I ｗｏｎ　ａｇａｉｎｓｔ　ｔｈｉｓ　Iｎｄｉａｎ　ｐｌａｙｅｒ　ｅｖｅｎ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ａ　ｑｕｅｅｎ： (screenshot sent). ．　Uｓｕａｌｌｙ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ａ　ｑｕｅｅｎ　（ｔｈｅ　ｍｏｓｔ　ｐｏｗｅｒｆｕｌ　ｐｉｅｃｅ　ｉｎ　ｃｈｅｓｓ）　ｔｈｅ　ｇａｍｅ　ｉｓ　ｏｖｅｒ．　" but she didn't comment it at all) and she's not helping with something practical, something real (of course, I didn't expect her to give me some money when I speak to her about my jobless period and when I am describing my hard life because there are not so many people around the world who can give you cash just because you're in need, but at least I expected she to assist me to find a job or at least a part-time job). I　ｄｉｄｎ＇ｔ　ｋｎｏｗ　ｔｈａｔ　ｓｈｅ　ｉｓ　ｅｘｐｅｃｔｉｎｇ　ｍｅ　（ｔｈｅ　ｐｏｏｒ　ｏｎｅ）　ｔｏ　ｐａｙ　ｈｅｒ　ｆｏｒ　ｔｈｉｓ　ｌｉｔｔｌｅ　ｆａｖｏｒ．　Also, I don't know how her niceness and recognition disappeared so fast. I guess, because I　ｒｅｆｕｓｅｄ　ｔｏ　ｕｓｅ　ｓｏｍｅ　ｒｅａｌｔｏｒ　ｗｈｏ　ｓｈｅ　ｈａｄ　ｉｎ　ｍｉｎｄ．　I  gave her my honest answer:

Yes, I bought an apartment 11 or 12 years ago. I hoped I　ｃａｎ　ｓｅｔｔｌｅ　ｄｏｗｎ　ｈｅｒｅ　ａｎｄ　ｂｅｃｏｍｅ　ａ　ｒｅａｌ　Cｈｉｎｅｓｅ　（ｗｉｔｈ　Cｈｉｎｅｓｅ　ｃｉｔｉｚｅｎｓｈｉｐ）． Didn't know that this dark future is coming...


But I can't just sell it right now and starting to eat up from its money. My rule is "Don't eat your house."

Aｎｄ　ｂｅｆｏｒｅ　I  am sure  I　ｈａｖｅ　ａ　ｓｔａｂｌｅ　ｊｏｂ　ａｂｒｏａｄ，　I  can't sell it so willingly...

Well, at the end, if here the COVID 0 madness continues endlessly, I　ｈａｖｅ　ｔｏ　ｓｅｌｌ　ｉｔ　ａｎｄ　ｔｏ　ｌｅａｖｅ　ｔｈｅ　ｈｅｌｌ　ｅｖｅｎ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ｊｏｂ．　(sad)

But realtors charge too expensive; I understand 90% of the Chinese characters, so I　ｃａｎ　ｄｅａｌ　ｄｉｒｅｃｔｌｙ　ｗｉｔｈ　ｔｈｅ　ｓｅｌｌｉｎｇ；　ｔｈｅｒｅ　ａｒｅ　ｍａｎｙ　ｎｅｉｇｈｂｏｒｓ　（ｍｏｒｅ　ｔｈａｎ　１０）　ｗｈｏ＇ｒｅ　ｗｉｌｌｉｎｇ　ｔｏ　ｐａｙ　ｍｅ　ｄｉｒｅｃｔｌｙ　３００　０００　ｔｏ　３５０　０００　ｙｕａｎ．

Aｓ　ａ　ｒｅａｓｏｎａｂｌｅ－ａｎｄ－ｐｏｏｒ　ｍａｎ　I  should avoid realtors. (thumb up)

Yeah, there are those men who think "Why?! It's only a small %, you'll pay them only 15 000 yuan!" Gosh (sweat), did they know HOW　MUCH　ｉｓ　１５　０００　ｆｏｒ　ｍｅ？　Fｏｒ　ｔｈｅｓｅ　(thumb down)ｒｉｃｈ　ｂａｓｔａｒｄｓ(thumb down)　ｉｔ＇ｓ　ｌｉｋｅ　１　ｗｅｅｋ　ｗｏｒｋ．　Fｏｒ　ｍｅ　ｉｔ＇ｓ　ｍｏｒｅ　ｔｈａｎ　３　ｙｅａｒｓ　ｗｏｒｋ　ｔｏ　ｈａｖｅ　１５　０００　ｙｕａｎ　ｒｉｇｈｔ　ｎｏｗ　（ｗｉｔｈ　ｉｎｃｏｍｅ　ｏｆ　４００－５００　ｙｕａｎ　ｐｅｒ　ｍｏｎｔｈ．）

Sｏ，　ｓａｖｉｎｇ　ｍｏｎｅｙ　ａｓ　ｍｕｃｈ　ａｓ　I  can, including buses, realtors, restaurants, cinemas... just focused to not die from hunger and to have some liquid (tea, water)...

 Note about the word "bastards": in one of its meaning it's not rude, it's just informal and means "a person of a specified kind:
"He was a lucky bastard". (Source: "Oxford Languages" via Bing.)

 As my partner said, she probably hoped that she can earn some percent of the realtor's commission. I wasn't very sure if this is the agenda but after her last words "I don't  work for free" (even when it comes about helping to find a job) I also guess so -- she expected to earn some money from me and when I showed her honestly and clearly that I am not the right person for this she showed her real face and now I know that all those words like " I am concerned. " or "I am so sorry you are having such struggles. " were nothing but a mask. Now we know the real face, the real she.

[Xsokii]

Was she pretty?

[MSL]

 It depends if you take into account her age. I never asked her age (becuase you maybe already know me -- for me the age is just a number and a sort of social construct) but according to her looks, she is maybe the age of your grandmother. (You said you're a young girl so I suppose your grandma is something like her). And because most of the grandmas are not so pretty as the young girls (and the younger selves), you can guess that she isn't someone who I can perceive as "pretty" but I don't think she is some ugly or scary woman; she is just a normal, average elder woman. (I am objective and I am not like her -- when get angry to somebody to start to speak bad things about him/her; it's so childish For example, a week or two ago you speak to somebody how he's genuine, gifted, clever or something like this, and when you get upset you're telling him or her that she/he's stupid and other bad words... -- so, honestly I can't say something bad like "Oh, she is hell ugly! Blah-blah!" and I just can rate her objectively like a person with an average face (and maybe, body too, I don't know), i. e. a solid 5/10 woman, for her age).

[Xsokii]

It depends if you take into account her age. I never asked her age (becuase you maybe already know me -- for me the age is just a number and a sort of social construct) but according to her looks, she is maybe the age of your grandmother. (You said you're a young girl so I suppose your grandma is something like her). And because most of the grandmas are not so pretty as the young girls (and the younger selves), you can guess that she isn't someone who I can perceive as "pretty" but I don't think she is some ugly or scary woman; she is just a normal, average elder woman. (I am objective and I am not like her -- when get angry to somebody to start to speak bad things about him/her; it's so childish For example, a week or two ago you speak to somebody how he's genuine, gifted, clever or something like this, and when you get upset you're telling him or her that she/he's stupid and other bad words... -- so, honestly I can't say something bad like "Oh, she is hell ugly! Blah-blah!" and I just can rate her objectively like a person with an average face (and maybe, body too, I don't know), i. e. a solid 5/10 woman, for her age).

I'd say I'm not the prettiest but I'm above average for sure.

[MSL]

Good. If you want to be prettier you should have healthy life -- eat vegatebles and fruit, drink a lot of water, do more sports. It will keep your skin and the whole body healthy and you'll be more pretty in 2-3 years for sure!

[Xsokii]

Good. If you want to be prettier you should have healthy life -- eat vegatebles and fruit, drink a lot of water, do more sports. It will keep your skin and the whole body healthy and you'll be more pretty in 2-3 years for sure!

That's literally what I do everyday, besides teach myself how to write with both hands by writing 15 paragraphs worth of words a week.