Social-maxxing (Socialmaxxing) -- don't overrate it.
As you know it's good to be objective -- don't unverrate anything but also don't overrate. Here I'm going to post a bit about the
social-maxx (
socialmaxx). Usually the problem with it is that it's overrated. For example, the PUA techniques (even those which aren't fake or naive) are sort of this -- they just tell you go there, be social, say/do this and that and the woman will be impressed. But (about this many of the incels are right) if you're not good-looking, not rich and so on, it's not going to work. No matter how much you socialize (aka "socialmaxx"; aka "meet and spend time with people in a friendly way") if you're not good enough for them (and you know that now the standards are higher in many regions) it's not going to work. It's really pity to see all those fatcels, poorcels, uglycels, etc. who are just trying to make a girlfriend with a pure social-maxxing effort. They're like "Why?! I go meet people, I start a conversation! Isn't it enough?" Well, it really isn't. Two points:
- The social-maxx isn't that unique anymore. You see, there are sometimes more chances for you online (in some forums, online groups, social networks, etc. than offline where most of the women will never start to chat with a stranger and even worse -- you can be accused of being a "creep" or a "stalker".)
- The social-maxx (even the online one, which is more powerful) isn't enough. Well, most of the maxx-es aren't enough too but there are tons of more powerful, i. e. more effective ones like gym-maxx, money-maxx, geo-maxx, etc. which gives you chance to ascend like 10%, 20%, 25% at least but a pure social-maxx, if you're a truecel, well, I can't give it more than a 0.5% chance and it's only in a geomaxxed area (i. e. very luck related) one.
So, to tell you the truth, the social-maxxing should be the last thing that you may use. Before it, you have to maxx (i. e. improve) your body, your money (capital) and/or status, your location, your fashion style (if there is a need; in some places it's pointless), your knowledge (like some foreign language-maxx, at least), your culture (some form of art-maxx, for example, at least singing, playing piano, writing poems)...
Don't just go and talk. It's a myth and it's very overrated. (When you're not ready for this.)