[Incel]

Rejection #95

The best looking even hitting the wall type, an elder Stacy (cool body, at least 7.5/10 Stacy-tier person), that at the beginning I perceived as an younger or the same age person. She was a dancer and a dance teacher. At the beginning showed some real interest every time when we met on the street, in the lift, etc., but later when we exchanged the contacts she started to behave coldly from the first chat. It was like "Why are you asking me this? You sound like a policeman." (in answer of some elementary, normal question like "Are you married?' or "What is your occupation now?") and soon it was like a semi-ghosted, fruitless chat... Later, once I tried to talk to her (I had some beers outside and met her by accident in the public transportation) and she was polite and smiling but nothing more and still didn't warm up the chats, the further communication. I think she had some issues, can't think of the reasons why she did so... But, just count it as a rejection #95.

[Incel]

Rejection #96

Well, this is a ghosted type, but before it, it was full of fake promises and excuses (like, "Sure, let's meet.", "Oh, right now I'm in another town." and "I have to go to work tomorrow.")

Nicknamed "乞丐" ("beggar") (''''):

''2018-07-08
 17:19:15
你好！ 现在你在海口吗？
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 18:09:45
在啊
18:09:45
您好，我现在有事不在，一会再和您联系。
 18:30:43
有空的时候要我们去看电影，去沙滩，喝饮料，这样吗？       
 2018-07-09
 14:36:58
 (resend)
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 14:53:55
可以啊
 2018-07-14
 17:18:04
 周日吧。明天。好吗？
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 17:18:29
我在三亚，没有时间了，
 17:19:27
   
 17:19:30
跟男朋友吗？
 17:23:07
 
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 21:16:18
跟姐妹
 23:43:21
OK. 什么时候回来海口呢？
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 23:53:08
明天
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 23:53:20
只是我后天要上班
 23:54:44
(hug emoji) 好的。
 2018-09-20
15:02:05
你好！
 15:02:19
怎么不找我？ 
 15:02:50
已经2个月多没有聊天了。你还好吗？
 15:49:43
  "

Ghosted 100%... That's the way it is. The life goes on.

[Incel]

Rejection #97

About some married one who agreed to meet me but after saw my photos disagreed, i . e. started to ignore me for hours and then, LOL "We are just friends" ... Didn't pass the looks threshold obviously. She was intelligent, artistic and knowledgeable person, so I think she valued/liked my other sides (artmaxxed, edumaxxed, knowledgemaxxed (especially sinology-maxxed) but that time I wasn't gymmaxxed enough and no wonder I didn't pass her looks criteria.

'EmilyZhou'''("生活的哲学，潜心修行，接受世界的不同，做这个世上独一无二的你。"):


''2018-07-31
EmilyZhou 22:18:15
我是EmilyZhou
 22:18:31
Good evening!
 22:22:21
晚上好啊！
 22:22:31
Why did you add me?
 22:24:26
请问，你为什么加了我？
 22:34:33
If you don't answer, I'll delete you.
 22:34:43
不要说话的话，我删掉。
 22:38:59
Okay, bye!
 22:39:08
好的。拜拜了！
22:39:26
 (screenshot of the delete option)
22:39:34
 (screenshot of the delete button)
22:39:41
 (OK)？
22:39:47
 (OK)
Deleted. But then she re-added me.
 2018-08-01
EmilyZhou 12:58:26
我是EmilyZhou
12:58:48
 (Screenshot of all my unilateral messages)
12:59:33
Yesterday already we wasted some time. I hope today to chat and to be okay. Otherwise, I'll not add you again anymore.
 13:00:21
昨天已经浪费了时间。今天你再加了我，可是我希望我们会真的聊天或者我已经不会再加你。
EmilyZhou 14:13:27
很抱歉
EmilyZhou 14:14:12
Qq用得比较少，所以没及时看到信息回复你
EmilyZhou 14:14:16
Sorry
EmilyZhou 14:15:36
看到你对学习的态度，所以才加你
18:29:05
好的。我是欧洲的，欧盟人。白种的。你是哪里的？
EmilyZhou 18:38:53
中国人
EmilyZhou 18:39:17
你现在是在中国吗
18:40:09
嗯。我住在海口的。
18:40:16
你是大陆的吧？
EmilyZhou 18:40:21
海南的
18:40:28
现在你也住在海口吗？
EmilyZhou 18:40:29
那你现在在做什么
EmilyZhou 18:40:31
是的
 18:40:52
本地的？哦。你有点想大陆的。可能你的爸爸是大陆人吧？
18:41:09
我的人类学比较好，所以我这样猜猜的。
EmilyZhou 18:41:12
我是本地人
EmilyZhou 18:41:16
谢谢
EmilyZhou 18:41:39
但是祖先是大陆的
 18:41:43
不用。你的英语好吗？我们会用英语聊天。
EmilyZhou 18:41:49
可以
18:42:04
就是。我马上觉得你的祖先不会是海南的。
EmilyZhou 18:42:06
我在阿联酋待过一段时间
EmilyZhou 18:42:33
May I have your name?
EmilyZhou 18:42:45
周新尾EmilyZhou
 18:43:01
Sure. My name is xxx.
 18:43:21
You have a very pretty face, I like it. Really.
 18:43:29
What do you work now, in here?
EmilyZhou 18:44:22
Thank you. I am just photogenic
EmilyZhou 18:44:40
Now I am working in insurance company
EmilyZhou 18:45:33
How about you
 18:45:36
I  see. But, still, I think you look very well (face and body).
 18:45:54
Working on some websites and webpages; teaching some English.
 18:48:26
You're living and working in Haikou, right?
 19:07:55
懂了没？
 19:30:26
我是说我做网站和网页；我也教外语的。我的专业是“哲学与人类学”，我是硕士的。
 20:21:27
我不吸烟，不喝白酒。我喜欢锻炼武术。
 20:21:49
非常喜欢天天看书，学习越来越多的信息。我会5门外语的。
EmilyZhou 20:36:37
Sorry. I’m kind of busy right now. I will talk to you later
20:37:46
Alright. I hope we may talk later!     
EmilyZhou 22:21:50
Do you use WeChat
22:25:10
No. I don't use it at all.
EmilyZhou 22:27:52
Ok
EmilyZhou 22:28:10
Facebook?
22:28:11
Yep. Only QQ.
 22:28:23
No. Facebook is forbidden in China.
 22:28:40
在中国是不行的。
 22:28:50
而且FACEBOOK有什么用的？
 22:29:08
Mostly useless and time-consuming.
EmilyZhou 22:31:01
可以翻墙
EmilyZhou 22:31:08
Use vpn
EmilyZhou 22:31:25
Nothing. Just asked
 22:33:20
可以的，可是我不要问题的。我爱中国，我爱中国的共产党，我不太要用禁止的网站。没有什么需要的。有百度，有BING，有QQ，有WIKIPEDIA就够了吧。不要VPN什么的。我真的不需要那些美国的FACEBOOK，TWITTER，什么的。对我没有用的。
(Adding that there is no more Wikipedia in China too. I'm also not sure if there is something more banned but Yahoo and LinkedIn were the last (that was shut down in China) I knew about.)
 22:33:29
 嗯，好的。
EmilyZhou 23:03:08
Good
23:04:14
Yeah...
 23:04:27
So, do you have a boy-friend?
EmilyZhou 23:04:48
I'm married
 23:04:53
How about you
 23:05:23
I'm okay.
2018-08-01
 23:05:35
Where is your husband now?
EmilyZhou 23:05:49
In Hainan
EmilyZhou 23:06:05
What means ok
 23:08:16
OK.
 23:08:24
Well, I'm single.
 23:08:31
So, he's in Haikou, or?
EmilyZhou 23:24:51
Sometimes in Haikou
 23:25:43
I see. So, often you feel lonely, right?
EmilyZhou 23:26:27
Depends how you look at it
 23:26:51
Of course.
 23:27:04
If you wish we may meet soon.  (glasses with champagne emojis)
EmilyZhou 23:27:53
Ok
EmilyZhou 23:28:01
Can I see your picture
23:28:35
Yes.
23:30:54
  (photo 1 normal type)
  (photo 2 model style type)
 2018-08-02
12:07:10
所以？
 12:07:30
是不是你不喜欢我的外貌？
 12:40:04
说实话；如果你不要我的话，我会介绍给你另外的一个外国朋友。他比我更强。
EmilyZhou 12:50:15
没有啊
EmilyZhou 12:50:43
What do youmean stronger
EmilyZhou 12:50:54
We are just friends
 20:25:49
就是我觉得你要了见面我，可是看到了我的照片后，你不太想。可能我不是你喜欢的类型吧？
 20:26:04
就是他有更多肌肉。
EmilyZhou 21:41:40
我不看重这些
EmilyZhou 21:42:22
加你为好友，只是把你当朋友看，别无他想
EmilyZhou 21:42:43
I hope you don’t misunderstand
 21:44:43
好吧。随便你。如果是只有朋友的话，没有需要问人发给你照片。外貌对友谊不是重要的。
EmilyZhou 21:46:07
我加你为好友你第一反应是不是想知道我长啥样
EmilyZhou 21:46:20
至少在脑海里有个印象
 21:48:08
对我外貌的是无所谓的，因为我不是外貌协会的。
EmilyZhou 22:32:18
如果你无所谓你就不会评论我的长相的
 22:34:00
因为我认为了你要我们见面，你要外国男友，什么的。可是如果是只有对普通的朋友，一点都没有关系外貌的。
 22:34:40
我还觉得你要了我们见面，可是看照片后已经不要。我不是你喜欢的男子。
EmilyZhou 22:36:26
我已经结婚，我为什么还要男朋友
 22:37:06
我不知道了你已经结婚了。而且你说了你的老公不在，你孤独。。。。。。
 22:37:38
我真的不明白你为什么找老外？免费英文？情人？
EmilyZhou 22:38:22
我有老公，那意味着我已经结婚。我没有说我孤独，是你认为。。。
🐅 22:39:17
好的。如果你那么关你的老公，为什么还要加老外男子呢？说直接的。我们不要浪费时间。
EmilyZhou 22:39:28
拜托，我在国内工作的时候有很多外国同事，在国外同样也有很多外国同事朋友。不要以为中国女孩子加老外就是想入非非
EmilyZhou 22:40:17
我不知道你是男是女，我加你是因为你的学习态度吸引我
 22:40:21
我什么都不以为，只有不明白：1.你有老公 +２。你有很多外国朋友们。你还在找什么？
EmilyZhou 22:41:23
 (screenshot of our previous chat where she circles the moment where speaks about she likes my attitude about the learning/study)
22:42:10
你哪里知道我的学习态度？！  　我一点没有表达了它。我只有说了一般的。
22:42:25
看到了，可是这个好像个接口。
EmilyZhou 22:42:37
麻烦你去回看群聊天记录
 22:42:57
不用。我还记得。
 22:43:49
好的。看起来我们的联系不会有用的。你已经有老公，你已经有很多外国同事们和朋友们。我对你会有用吗？
EmilyZhou 22:46:49
麻烦你不要误解中国女生加你为好友就会有什么想法，我很纳闷你为啥要发两张图片，我不知道你想表达什么。作为朋友不一定要有利益才能成为朋友
EmilyZhou 22:47:05
中国有句话说朋友多了路好走
EmilyZhou 22:48:17
就像中国一样，有好多好邻居，但是也需要和其他国家建交，保持友好关系
 22:49:50
同志，我已经住在中国１５年了。我非常好知道笨的的女生们。我马上告诉了你的外貌是东北的。我的知识对中国是高手的，专业的。中国很大：什么都女人们有。不是只有一种的。所以不要认为我不懂。
 22:51:49
你要了发给你照片，所以我发给了你。
 22:52:10
 (A screenshot about how she agreed to meet up soon but wanted to see my picture.)
 22:52:37
我说了我们会见面，你说“OK了，我能看看你的照片吗？”忘记了吗？
 22:53:30
无所谓。算了。
 23:04:31
打错了：*笨的 －－要说“本地的女生”。我已经中国通了。什么也清楚了。
 23:04:38
拜拜。
EmilyZhou 23:15:05
朋友之间第一次见面本来就要先看照片
 23:15:05
您好，我现在有事不在，一会再和您联系。
EmilyZhou 23:15:36
  (bye-bye) (bye-bye)''
 Deleted. And it's over. Yes, it never began.

[Incel]

Rejection #98

A very strange Stacy who years later (as I see now) become a middle--tier Becky. Why strange? Because at first she got my business card but didn't contact with me. Later added me but pretended that she just added my number by accident (i. e. she never met me before)... It wasn't clear what is she up to but, as usual, it never began and then it was over:

"儿女双全" ("永远身体健康快乐……" "宝宝妈妈很爱你"):

2018-09-12
 12:14:10
你好
 12:14:35
你好！
 12:25:30
你好吗？你是谁？ 
 2018-09-13
 12:52:20
 
 12:52:32
请问，你是？
 14:21:00
说吧。为什么不说话？！我是个外国朋友。你呢？
我只想给你宠爱 14:36:12
哦
我只想给你宠爱 14:36:26
你是老师吗？
 14:40:45
  (resending my questions in screenshot mode)
 14:42:20
第三次问一下：你是谁？
我只想给你宠爱 14:43:00
我随便加你的
我只想给你宠爱 14:43:13
你也不认识我
我只想给你宠爱 14:43:32
我的名字陈亚丽
 14:44:12
不是的。你已经有过了我的QQ号码。看看：  (a proof that she added me via the concrete QQ number which is unique)   
 14:45:03
所以，你直接说谁给了你我的QQ？你想要什么？（我喜欢坦白的女孩子。 ）
我只想给你宠爱 14:45:32
我不想要什么
 14:45:52
好的。拜拜！  (OK) (respect emoji)
我只想给你宠爱 14:46:02
请问你是教英语的老师吗？
 14:47:40
请问，如果你不认识我，为什么你觉的我会是教英语的？说实话吧：谁给了你我的QQ号码？（我已经看到了你不是随便加我的，有人给了你我的QQ号码。）所以，说实话，我是非常直接的男子，我会理解。来。
我只想给你宠爱 14:49:10
是你给我Q号的
14:49:47
哪里？
 14:50:34
在哪里（在哪个地方）？
我只想给你宠爱 14:50:50
是以久之前你给我的Q号，还对我以后要是小孩可以学英语，可以找你教！
 14:52:08
好吧、我相信你。
 14:52:15
是的，我是外教。
 14:52:25
做教教。
 14:52:48
也是一名网站管理员。
 14:52:52
 
我只想给你宠爱 14:53:06
在白沙门，游泳那边那个海边，小卖部卖水和卖吃的那里？
我只想给你宠爱 14:53:50
很久了，好几个月的事了，现在才加你
 14:54:09
OK。我以前经常去过了白沙门。
 14:54:18
所以我忘记了。
 14:54:28
好的。清楚了。
 14:54:37
你要教你的孩子吗？
我只想给你宠爱 14:54:41
是你用纸写你的Q号我的
 14:54:52
嗯。
我只想给你宠爱 14:55:13
多少钱一个月
 14:55:35
不是一个月。是一次的。
我只想给你宠爱 14:55:54
一次多少钱
 14:57:03
价格是这样的：幼儿园的孩子们：70元， 小学生们：80元，初中以上：100元。
 14:57:44
一个小时的。
我只想给你宠爱 14:57:53
哦！
 14:58:16
   
我只想给你宠爱 14:58:50
等他以后小学，再给他教。
我只想给你宠爱 14:59:21
不好意思，打扰问一下你而已！
 15:01:55
没事，亲爱的美女！  (rose)
我只想给你宠爱 15:08:30
我不是美女了，是妇女了。
我只想给你宠爱 15:08:42
 
15:09:21
可是我觉的你的外貌特别漂亮，而且身体性感的！
 2018-09-14
我只想给你宠爱 11:10:11
没有啊！
 12:56:02
我一直说直接话。在我的眼睛里，你就是个美女。 
我只想给你宠爱 13:10:55
你怎么知道我是一个美女？
 13:12:04
我看到了你的QQ上的照片。   
我只想给你宠爱 13:12:41
哦
 13:35:22
现在你做什么工作的？
我只想给你宠爱 13:37:27
没有做工作，只在家里带孩子。
 13:37:52
哦。好。 "

As I said she never called me back. It was naive to think that she'll call me to teach her kid when the kid is in the primary school. By the way she's not the one and only. There are often those promises that they don't keep. Some of them even think that it's just being polite (that strange definition of politeness: I'll lie you that I'll do something in the future and you see, I'm being polite.) I don't know what happened with her but she just ghosted me and never met her again. It's over...

[Incel]

Rejection #99

One of the most high-tier Stacies ever. Looks, well, 9.5/10 or around. She was introduced to me by a friend who said that she is a very open girl (sharing with her friends, like him, that she's having a rich, elder lover; something like sugar daddy). I decided to try my luck and as an incel-tier or incelish person just... it never began.

It was difficult to chat with her. It was rare when she answers and the chats were short like this:

"2018-08-10
22:23:29
你什么时候准备来海南？
 2018-08-12
xxx的朋友 20:47:06
没那么快
 20:47:55
我以为了你是说2018的夏天（现在的）。
 2018-08-14
xxx的朋友 20:37:47
 
 20:39:50
。。。。。。"

And logically at one point I decided to stop this cope and got more realistic so just deleted this fruitless and highly impossible contact. I don't mean that the rest were possible but this one was obviously impossible because she targets only very rich males.

[Incel]

Rejection #100

It was a funny one because it was ''predestined'' to be so. What I mean? Well, too many factors that made the situation clearly "It's over" or "It never begins": far away (thousands miles away), age gap (I don't mind very much but usually many of them are agecucks, i. e. ageists.), I'm not more than a 5/10 (usually they'll search for a 7/10 and above) and it was like a fun for me. Well, there was a small, tiny hope because she was nicknamed "lonely." ("众里寻他千百度，蓦然回首，那人却在，灯火阑珊处。" which means "Searching for him thousands of times in the crowd, suddenly looking back, the person was in the dim light.") but I didn't think of it as more than a 0.1% or 0.2%. That's why I behave more humorously than usual (jester type chat):

"lonely. 6:04:07
hi

 6:05:36
Hi

 6:05:41
Where are you now?

 6:05:50
I am in Haikou, Hainan. And you?

lonely. 6:07:46
I am in Hangzhou, Zhejiang

 6:08:01
I see.

 6:08:15
Do you have a boy-friend? Or you're really lonely?

lonely. 6:10:15
I don't have a boyfriend, I'm very lonely

 6:11:46
Wow... me too.

 6:11:54
Show me a photo.

 6:17:14
Do you have a picture? Show me one, please.

lonely. 6:19:31
Sorry, I don't like taking photos.

 6:24:30

(2 gym photos sent)
 6:24:41
My photos. Do you like me?


I am sporty.


And clever.

 6:27:10
And I do yoga.

 6:27:49
(yoga photo) (okay emoji) (thumb up emoji)


 6:28:31

(another yoga photo) (thumb up)

 6:28:54
Don't you think I am a great person?

 6:31:43
I think you don't like me. Right?

 6:32:07
If this is the case, no problem. You can delete me. It's okay. (peace emoji)

"

Juts taking it easy. Inceldom but... take it easy, brocels.

[Incel]

Rejection #101

There was one from another province who came to talk to me on a ferry when I was back from a very pretty SAR of China called "Macau" (a.k.a. "Macao" or "Aomen"). Then she said she will add me and she really did. At last when we had to meet she avoided it and said she's having a person who already likes and I decided to end this relationship because it was like "Sorry, man, but you're too ugly for me I need you only as a friend just because you're sort of unique (foreigner which is a comparatively rare around, educated and knowledgeable) but nothing more because, you see, I like another type of men!" and... as usual, it never began:

Nickname "怒火 (fire)", which means "anger; fury; wrath; ire; flames of fury":

"2018-07-30
G 14:07:17
我是G
 14:07:52
你好！
 14:07:58
我回来了！
 14:08:04
你在哪里？
G 17:49:01
hello
G 17:49:09
good  night~
G 17:50:39
I'm  sorry~I have  just  got up
 17:56:09
I see. Where are you now?
 17:56:35
My photo from Macao: 
(One of my best photos from that time.)
18:21:13G撤回了一条消息
G 18:21:28
In  a  very  distant  place
 18:22:47
我希望你回来海口的时候我们会见面。
18:23:02G撤回了一条消息
 18:24:31
 (a rose)
G 18:30:32
thank   you~
 18:31:04
  YOU　ARE　WELCOME！
G 18:32:42
Have  you   eaten  dinner?
 22:11:58
Yes. 
 2018-07-31
 13:31:35
Good afternoon! Where are you today?
 2018-08-02
 22:02:46
怎么已经一点不回答我？
宝盖莹 22:02:52
对不起
宝盖莹 22:02:54
最近很忙
宝盖莹 22:03:03
我是在乡镇下面的
宝盖莹 22:03:06
你找不到我的
宝盖莹 22:03:08
   
 22:03:41
哦。我明天要去三亚。可能八月份我一直在三亚。
宝盖莹 22:03:55
去三亚哪里?
 22:04:35
三亚市。
 22:04:50
市内。
宝盖莹 22:05:13
什么旅游景点呢
 22:06:43
不。我去那边教课。
 22:06:58
教英语。
宝盖莹 22:07:38
这样啊
宝盖莹 22:07:45
今天我也去三亚了
 22:08:39
我去明天到9月。
 22:09:03
如果你再去的话，我们一定会见面。 (rose) 
宝盖莹 22:15:20
好的
 22:17:00
(a shaved face photo)
 我刮胡子的时候更可爱。 
宝盖莹 22:17:35
是的是的，今天去三亚看见很多外国人
 22:18:09
那边大多数是俄罗斯人。
宝盖莹 22:18:23
那他们在这边居住吗
 22:19:11
他们都是旅游的。我居住。很少外国人爱在中国居住。
宝盖莹 22:19:29
哦，这样啊
宝盖莹 22:19:40
因为我知道
宝盖莹 22:20:08
你们美元换人民币会很多…所以在这里买房应该对你们来说不难
宝盖莹 22:20:26
美元一直在升值
 22:23:06
有些外国人是穷人。有些也不用美元。这个是美国的币。
宝盖莹 22:34:16
哦哦
宝盖莹 22:34:33
我在考虑要不要买美元，等升值卖出去
宝盖莹 22:34:34
   
 22:35:18
我不懂这些外币的买卖。
宝盖莹 22:35:30
哦哦
宝盖莹 22:35:33
好呗
宝盖莹 22:36:16
你喜欢理财吗
22:38:34
喜欢，可是我没有那么多钱。我比较穷。
宝盖莹 22:39:11
你在海口买房多少钱呀？
宝盖莹 22:39:25
理财不需要多少钱的
 22:39:29
200 000.
22:39:41宝盖莹撤回了一条消息
宝盖莹 22:40:10
200 000一平方?
2018-08-02
 22:41:25
怎么可能？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？
宝盖莹 22:41:31
哈哈
宝盖莹 22:41:38
那就很便宜了
 22:41:51
６４００　元　一个平方米。
22:42:14宝盖莹撤回了一条消息
宝盖莹 22:44:06
那就一共31平方米这样?
宝盖莹 22:44:24
房子应该挺温馨的吧！
 22:44:33
是啊。就是。我是穷的，我买不了大的公寓。
宝盖莹 22:44:43
没事，慢慢来
 22:44:54
很少的，不舒服的。可是我没有钱买大一点的。
宝盖莹 22:45:40
可以去美国工作，去那边挣钱，在回来中国买大公寓
宝盖莹 22:45:47
   
宝盖莹 22:46:15
毕竟那边的币比较值钱
 22:48:01
不是的。美国的价格很高。省钱很难。好多美国人没有自己的房子。他们住在车里面还是在街上。
宝盖莹 22:48:43
这样吗！
宝盖莹 22:49:59
海口很多外国人
宝盖莹 22:50:05
黑人，白人
宝盖莹 22:52:38
不是
宝盖莹 22:52:40
三亚
宝盖莹 22:52:48
三亚很多外国人
 22:52:50
嗯。
 2018-08-09
 13:43:54
那，现在你在哪里？怎么又不找我聊天？  (
宝盖莹 13:44:04
我准备回家了
宝盖莹 13:44:06
   
13:44:10宝盖莹撤回了一条消息
宝盖莹 13:44:18
准备离开海南了
 13:44:53
哎呀，我们一点都没有了机会见面。 
13:45:02
我回来了海口呢。
宝盖莹 13:45:03
那么想跟我见面吗
宝盖莹 13:45:05
 
宝盖莹 13:45:07
哦哦
宝盖莹 13:45:09
好的
 13:45:16
对啊。因为我喜欢你了。
宝盖莹 13:46:06
    为啥呀
宝盖莹 13:46:10
我又不漂亮
宝盖莹 13:46:12
   
13:46:41
因为我喜欢南方的姑娘，对我你是个非常美丽的女孩子。
 13:47:03
而且看来你的性格是比较好的。
宝盖莹 13:47:04
 (3 photos of her)
宝盖莹 13:47:13
对啊
宝盖莹 13:47:19
还行，和蔼那种吧
 13:47:28
 (a heart emoji)
宝盖莹 13:49:40
你不是有老婆了吗
 13:50:06
 (a cool photo of mine)
 13:50:11
没有的。
宝盖莹 13:50:21
上次那个不是你老婆
宝盖莹 13:50:24
?
 13:50:33
是我的同事伙伴。
宝盖莹 13:50:47
哦哦
宝盖莹 13:51:02
可是我有喜欢的男生了！
宝盖莹 13:51:04
   
 13:51:26
好的。祝福你们。
宝盖莹 13:51:49
你觉得我哪里漂亮呀
宝盖莹 13:51:52
 
 13:52:21
无所谓。我不知道了你已经有喜欢的男生了。祝福！拜拜。
宝盖莹 13:52:27
好的
宝盖莹 13:52:28
 
"

After rereading the chat during posting it in this e-book I am thinking that except the looks maybe there was another reason -- she was emphasizing; focusing too much about all those the dollars, trading, finance, property, earnings things... well, in a word, she thought that I am too poor for her. And then started to speak that she has a person (a male) she likes... and still wanted to continue to receive my words of admiration (that "tell me more how I am pretty" stuff) but I decided that it's good not to waste my time with some kind of a girl who thinks that I'm not enough attractive and not rich enough for her.

[Incel]

Rejection #103

Some "南烟" (the meaning is "Southern smoke") ("世界总是一样的，只是我们的心情和遭遇不一样而已。") who ghosted me and then de-ghosted me only to send me some spam. Ridiculous rejection, isn't it?

"2018-09-16
南烟 22:11:04
我是菲菲，好久没联系了，最近怎么样呢？
 22:12:41
这边有台风。在家里上网。你呢？
 22:23:01
 
 22:37:27
说吧。怎么不说话？
 2018-09-17
南烟 3:03:47
给你说个一天能收入七八百块的兼职，不用出门，动动手就行了。Q群875978698，赶紧来吧，赚了钱要请我吃大餐哦
 13:15:21
I see. In fact you don't care about me, you just wanted to send me this spam. No, thanks!"