The ideal woman
The ideal itself is, by definition, not existing. So, if not about the ideal women, let's think about the good ones.
What is the good woman
Undoubtfully many of the young women want to develop themselves well and to be as better as possible, as "true women" as possible, as successful as possible and so on. But how many (or, I'm afraid I have to say "nearly most") of the women deal with this dream (this goal)? They develop and they care about their appearance, so they are into: fitness (aerobics, etc.), make up (cosmetics), clothes, shoes, jewelry, accessories (bags, belts, scarves, watches, rings, etc.) and even -- not that necessary plastic surgeries!
All these women forget (or they never knew) that the women (and the men, as well) aren't only appearance and body. I don't mean the so called "soul" and "spirit". These two are just religious concepts, scientifically unproven and that's why I don't want to write about them. What I mean is that a person is not just a body and face; a person is also: mind/thinking/psyche/knowledge/behavior. I'm talking in this scientific materialism sense.
Taking care about our appearances (bodies) via fitness, washing, taking a shower and so on, is important, but more important is the care about our brains (mind, thinking, knowledge, etiquette, ethics, behavior). That is why it's good for the young women (and not only for them, because the human beings may learn and develop themselves all life long), when they're not busy with job (or other duties) to take some time and to learn more about (for example): Hegel, Marx, Engels, Lenin, etc. (philosophy), Renoir, Rubens, etc. (art), English, Spanish, Russian, Korean, etc. (foreign languages)... It's also good to read or watch more local and world news, to learn some geopolitics... All this learning -- slowly, step by step. The point is not one to exhaust herself or himself, but somehow, to learn more or less, because only charm, beauty and sexual attractiveness (a.k.a. 'sex appeal') aren't enough for the personal wholeness (i.e. not enough for being a real good person). There are other necessary things, as I already mentioned some of them, as: knowledge, the way of behaving in life (etiquette, morals), dignity and so on. (If it comes to women with husbands and kids, then it's already more complicated: good parenting, cooking and other housework (no matter if it's shared with the husband and/or with the kids, or it's individual).)
So, as a conclusion, I can say that the ideal (or the good) woman is the harmony developed woman. The harmonic development means that a person is developed not only in 1 or 2 aspects: you're not a harmony developed person, if you only have good knowledge, but you're obese, because of lack of sport activity or you can't cook a simple dish. Or, you're not harmony developed person, if you're with good body and good cooking skills, but your personal hygiene is low and you and you have no idea about the reality around you (elementary particles, atoms, molecules, microorganisms, animals, people, political and economical situation, cultural and scientific events, countries, world, galaxy, universe).
That's the way it is.