Follow the Metapill and the realism, without extremal points like black or blue pills, then you will be 50% there. There's 50% more which lays on you: how well you will gymmaxx your neglected body, where you will live as a geomaxx strategy and how well you will manage your details of life, as capital, business, styles and thinking and emotions. Of course, if you behave insanely like here (the boss wants to know respectfully if you want 3 boards or not, but you rudely call his question pointless and so on), it's impossible to deal with a woman in a relationship.