Think about it the other way around: what if some lazy, stupid and dirty landwhale (obese female) wants you to be her boy-friend because she has "the right" to have you? Is she entitled to you? Or to another man who feels nothing but disgust? So, yes, the feminists and the non-feminists who think that nobody is entitled to love/sexual activity/friendship are right. This is the word of free choice and free to choose your standards. There is no another normal possibility. (The abnormal possibilities like violence I even don't want to discuss.) So? Do your best to be your best version of yourself and nothing more or less.