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« on: June 13, 2023, 06:05:39 AM »
Well if a post is not constructive it can't be a good post.
My suggestions for shortcels are(well maybe they are vacuous so take them or leave them):
1. Get a therapy or something like that that can recover your desparate incel mindset. You may say therapists can't change your height and they tend to just 'cope' you. Well firstly, you gotta get a therapy to get medications for your awful mental state. Secondly, why can they cope you? Isn't it because there are short men that can be used to cope? I think everyone can encounter with or know of a short man who is leading a good life can't it? Then think about why you can't be used to cope? Finally therapy is not just coping you. It contains multiple sessions and there are feedbacks per session for a therapist to analyze to recover your mental state.
2. Learn the lesson that you live for yourself, not for others. Maybe even if you could get taller, there may be someone who said you were ugly, would you consider a plastic surgery? Even if you could get it, there may be someone who said you were poor, would you consider getting richer because of what he/she said? Don't you find it ridiculous to do something just because of a man/woman's word? As for how to live yourself, well IMO if you are doing what you like to do, you can say you are living for yourself. Some shortcels seem to me they are so obsessed over their heights that they've forgotten they should live for themselves.
3. Accept that life is indeed unfair, and no one should believe in it, but that does not mean you should give it up because you are suffering from its unfairnesses. You gotta realize that being short is not the worst thing. I can name of a handful of things that are worse than being short. So you are 'luckier' than those who are suffering from worse things. Can't being luckier make you feel good?
4. Learn that, if not only are you short but also you are negative, women will not only reject you as their boyfriends but also they will reject you as 'friends', and even no men will accept you as a friend because your inferior complexity can only make them feel pale. So you can see being negative will not only be detrimental on your mental state but also make you isolated.
5. Learn that there are many things that do not require height. Learning Math, playing League of Legend, bsing on reddit, etc., neither of them require your height. So you are not mistreated when you are doing those things. Just enjoy those things that do not require being tall. There are some cases that I knew of in which a man/woman is limited in what he/she likes to do because he/she is short. Well I feel sorry for him/her, but I think you will only be limited by being eligible for doing what you like to do as a major/occupation, of course it is sad but you can still do them, and if you really like to do them, you should be motivated by yourself to do them even though being eligible to do them as a major/occupation.