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Normal Incels (Incels Without Hate) => A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) => Topic started by: Ren on May 24, 2023, 06:53:53 PM
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"The hard thing about changing Incels’ minds is that they’ve frequently made being an Incel a core part of their identity"
""The hard thing about changing Incels’ minds is that they’ve frequently made being an Incel a core part of their identity" (Harris O'Malley, better known as Dr. Nerdlove) https://www.salon.com/2018/11/18/a-traumatic-vision-of-masculinity-lies-at-the-root-of-a-resentful-incel-movement/
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Based.
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It's good to be aware... Stay alert and aware of your inceldom but don't make it a core part of your identity.
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And the gay people sometimes do the same...
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The gayceldom. :)
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:) :) :) Inceldom...
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Okay...
Let's think about it more deeply.
Well, if they're objective and normal people, who're doing their best to ascend in normal, social way, via different softmaxxes like gym-maxx, edu-maxx, money-maxx, popularity-maxx, fashion-maxx, health-maxx, etc., it's not a problem if the core part of their identity is "I'm an incel." It's like someone who's poor and trying his/her best to get richer: if he/she is just working legally and improving the situation step by step, being awake and knowing "I'm poor; I'm still poor." is okay and it's like a reminder to do the things better, smarter, etc.
Of course, if it makes you worse (like permanently depressed, frustrated and so on) it's better to focus on something else about yourself, for example "I'm a historian.", "I am a football player.", "I will try to learn a new skill.", "I will try to win the lottery."
About the so-called "incels' minds" -- if you meet many incels you'll realize that there is no just one kind of mind. Every incel is an unique person (if he's not a part of some nearly-cult society like "Only the blackpill matters!", "The self-improvement is a cope.", etc.) ;D
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It's sort of normal, when you're hungry you are thinking mostly about the food, the hunger... when you're thirsty -- the water... when you're a loveless incel -- the love, the inceldom... I think that only the very primitive incels would associate themselves only with "I am an incel." The majority for sure will think of themselves more like "I am a Japanese/American/Russian/Ukrainian/Polish... " + "I am a doctor/teacher/driver..." + "I am a socialist/democrat/liberal/..." and so on.
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Er... why the guy think the incel's mind should be changed? I see it if you're some asocial or a terrorist oriented incel, but if you're just one of many normal incels who're quietly dealing somehow with their inceldom what is the problem with that? ::)
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Yeah unfortunately our whining old man already in the ffffffffffffffffffff dementia MSL identifies himself as a ffffffffffffffffffff hopeless old baby who is hopeless because his ffffffffffffffffffff father relinquished his ffffffffffffffffffff apartment to his lover so that being with no stable and big sources of income became of him and well he indeed is one but what is only wrong about him is ffffffffffffffffffff that his low integrity has resulted in his current delirium and menopause-like frustration!
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As we mentioned many times here the incel above (Zhang Jie from Shanghai: a crimecel-psychocel) has no idea that males have no menopause. Some people tried to explain that simple biological fact to him but his memory is like zero so it was in vain. He is the person who exactly behaves like the one with dementia (he is young and looks childish but his brain is worse than the brains of the old people with dementia...) On top of that, he is a schizophrenical criminal and projects his own psychopathology problems on innocent people like Desi, me, MSL.
For example, Zhang repeats how short, ugly, boyish/feminish and gayish is he, how people can't like him and the females don't see him as a man... But all of a sudden he projects this (or really sees it in his hallucinator's head) as MSL's problem.
:D
Also, the delirium thing. You can see how sane, responsible and logical is MSL. And the opposite of him - Zhangcel who is a total joke with his delirium, psychotic reactions, lies, hallucinations... And now he, the despicable criminal and psychocel thinks/sees others as in delirium.
The only real thing (which is rarity for the Zhang Jie's posts which are usually lacking of something real) is that MSL lost his apartment but at least his father doesn't control him which banks he can use (Zhang's mom controls his bank choices), doesn't control what he will eat and drink (Zhang's father chooses his menu because Zhang is retarded and can't go shopping himself) and I a word MSL is a mature, strong, free and educated male but Zhang is an underdeveloped (body and brain), weak, dependable and low educated person who doesn't make difference between clock and countdown timer, for example and who hallucinates, lies, commit hate crimes, follows fascists and so on... The typical loser.
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Sure, all is right and correct. But better fully ignore the criminal schizophrenic incel!