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Normal Incels (Incels Without Hate) => A forum for incels who are normal people (no terrorists, no rapists, no racists, no pedophiles, no haters and so on) => Topic started by: Good incel on March 18, 2023, 04:05:10 AM

Title: "and now I know how desperate you are."
Post by: Good incel on March 18, 2023, 04:05:10 AM

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and now I know how desperate you are.


A female said it to me. I do admit it. An incel is desperate. Being desperate is a part (a result) of the inceldom. According to an online dictionary the adjective "desperate" is
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feeling, showing, or involving a hopeless sense that a situation is so bad as to be impossible to deal with:
"a desperate sadness enveloped Ruth"

I don't know how long I may live (the death is always around the corner when you're living in or around totalitarian countries and when you're too poor to protect yourself). I have nobody to love me for real. There is nor emotional neither biological love in my life. So to tell me "now I know how desperate you are" is equal to "now I know how incel you are". Inceldom = desperate living.
 
Title: Re: "and now I know how desperate you are."
Post by: MSL on March 18, 2023, 04:07:28 AM
 At least she knows. There are millions of females who even don't know about it. They can't imagine what is to be an incel -- loveless, sexless, friendless (often) and so on.
Title: Re: "and now I know how desperate you are."
Post by: xxs on March 18, 2023, 04:10:00 AM
Making friends is easy.
I just hop on discord to chat with people and I can make friends in a day.
Title: E-friends
Post by: Деси on March 18, 2023, 04:44:39 AM
You're talking about e-friends. Read this to find out some differences:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/stuck/202211/why-is-friendlessness-trending (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/stuck/202211/why-is-friendlessness-trending)
Title: Re: "and now I know how desperate you are."
Post by: MSL on March 18, 2023, 04:35:30 PM
 Friends and friendship are often overestimated. What I mean is that there are many cases when it's better to be friendless than being with a friend who's not a real friend or who's just someone who you can't deal with right. For example, there are those friends who will think that you should do everything for them, including crimes. This is their understanding of the "real friend" and if you're not a moron or a complete freak, then you know that it should be the end of this dangerous friendship. Or, imagine that: your friend is a vegan or a stoner (a marijuana user) and he/she wants you to join it (to become another vegan or another stoner), otherwise "What friend you are?!" and if you're not okay with this, obviously, it's a big problem for your friendship. And what about all those who are asking for more than they give? Like you're helping him all night long with some homework or spending hours to resolve some of his problems and he even refuses to do you a 5 minute long favor (like helping you with a little computer problem or calling somebody instead of you)?
 I think that incels (and other people) who complain too much about being friendless don't know how difficult it is to find a real problemless friendship. The difference with being in a love relationship is that when you have a girlfriend, usually, you'll get some things for sure: passion, hugs, kisses and maybe more and it's nearly granted no matter how good is she, what are her personal qualities and so on. But with a friend nothing is granted, nothing is sure, you never know what to expect because it's less predictable.
Title: Re: "and now I know how desperate you are."
Post by: Incel on March 18, 2023, 05:05:06 PM
And now she knows how desperate we are? ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D High IQ!
Title: Re: "and now I know how desperate you are."
Post by: Alexa on March 19, 2023, 03:02:09 AM
To tell you the truth maybe she just wanted to hurt you with these words. But you do maxx and you will escaped the inceldom if you're healthy and alive; I believe.
Title: Re: "and now I know how desperate you are."
Post by: SEO on March 20, 2023, 04:32:36 AM
Avoid this type of females.
Title: Re: "and now I know how desperate you are."
Post by: Ethnicel on March 21, 2023, 03:08:01 AM
This type is the one that likes to hurt us but we'll survive! 8)
Title: Re: "and now I know how desperate you are."
Post by: xxs on March 21, 2023, 03:12:09 AM
Maybe. Or maybe they got into an argument.
Title: Re: "and now I know how desperate you are."
Post by: SEO on April 22, 2023, 11:42:03 PM
It's good to develop more empathy. The empathy gaps are a terrible thing.