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Title: "500 Rejections"
Post by: Incel on July 15, 2022, 07:24:08 PM

500 Rejections

by Poor Bald Short Gymcel

"The First Ever Incel Oriented Free E-book"

 To the brocels (incels who I feel like my "fate brothers") who really want to get some experience. As an older incel I got some to share. This is helpful for the young incels and for the incelologist and other scientists who're going to make efforts in the future to help the society to solve the problem called "inceldom".

REJECTION #1

I met a girl in the bus. She was something like 26 years old. I told her to add my chat if she wants. And later she really did it. We chatted for a few days or a week. Then I asked her if she has a boy-friends. She answered negatively and then I asked her if she would like to meet me. She said "Yes but with one condition." I asked her what's that condition and her answer was like: "Well, I have a rule that I follow 100% with all of the males who like me. The rule is simple: we start to date but the first 6 months there will be no sexual activity, no kiss and even no hugging."

My immediate answer was: "Agree! But I also have got one condition. During these 6 months I don't invite you to cinemas, dinners, travel spots, etc. We only go to run in the park, to sit in a garden or to walk on the main streets. Is it okay?"

The answer was: "NO! IT IS NOT! IF YOU'RE COUNTING YOUR SPENDINGS SO MUCH, THEN I AM NOT DATING SUCH A STINGY MAN!"

Later I tried to explain her that only stupid guys will spend tons of money in half a year for nothing. She even can't promise that she will become a real girl-friend (which means at least some intimacy like a hug or a kiss) after that period. What if she's just using these guys to pay her bills? And what if she already has another boyfriend?

I am proud I didn't fall for this!

To be continued...

Title: Rejection #2
Post by: Incel on July 16, 2022, 11:05:22 PM

Rejection #2

It was late, around 10:00 p. m. Walking alone to home after a long working day. I prefer to walk, instead of all those buses, taxis, bike and so on. I have no car too. Walking gives me a way to burn some calories (of course only this is not enough to lose weight but it's like an additional help). I felt a girl (a bit younger than me, that time, it was around 2005) walking behind me. Soon she started to walk next to me. I felt she is interested to have some chat with me. We said "Hi" to each other. Later we exchanged our e-mails.

After some e-mails we had a date. The date was simple, in a local Mc Donald's. I paid a hamburger for her and a soft drink. We talked and she said she'll call me again.

I was glad. Even started to prepare some topics for our next date. Started to think where to take her next time. What clothes to wear. I was much naive that time and I believed that if a person say "I will call you again and we'll meet again." it's 100% true. Later I realized that many people like her don't care about honesty. She never call me again, never sent a single e-mail again. I was totally ghosted and rejected!

Months later I met her in the chat (we used mIRC that time). She said nothing about her dishonest behavior. The same nothing happened. Instead she tried to introduce me some uglier friend of her (probably a girl who nobody wants to date). I didn't mind to date an uglier girl because I'm not so into the looks. I value things beyond the looks (like hygiene, honesty, education, same hobbies and so on) but I was so disappointed that I refused to meet her and her uglier female friend. I even told her something like

"Don't bother me please! I have a girlfriend now. Probably going to get married soon."

Her answer was highly impudent like: "Oh, yeah? Then may we (me and my friend) meet you both and to join your wedding."

I deleted this person and never ever wanted to chat with her again.

Title: Rejections #3
Post by: Incel on July 18, 2022, 02:36:07 AM

Rejection #3

It's one of my first rejection abroad. One of the first university student females that talked with me in a train.

She was traveling with her brother and her family. She was very interested to talk to me and we had long conversation with her and from time to time with her and her brother. She looked very pretty, nice and honest. We talked about the different cities, her major, language questions and so on. At one point I asked her "Do you have a boy-friend?" and she said "No, I haven't." I believed her and even started to hope that she might be my future (soon to be) girlfriend.

Even I started to work in another city, I kept the hope that something will happen between us. I sent her emails, she answered but in one of the emails she said that she lied me about the boyfriend; in fact she had and has a boyfriend. I felt very, very sad and I felt so unhappy and betrayed. After that I stopped to write to her.

Years later, I decided to search her again. I found her and, as I expected, she was already married. We had some neutral chats and, of course, nothing more happened. She is still in my contacts but we didn't chat for a long time.

Title: Rejection #4
Post by: Incel on July 20, 2022, 02:43:37 AM

Rejection #4

One of the phone rejections that many of the nowadays incels will call "brutal black pill" or "my first black pill". "Phone rejection" because me and that woman met in a conference line (phone conference line) many years ago when there wasn't internet.

So this is the story. One night, maybe around 2:00 a. m., there were not many people on the phone's conference line. I liked to use it in the late hours (early morning ours) because at that time there weren't so many other males and the competitions was low. Well, this helped me to find the woman in question. She sounded like a young, sexy college girl (probably 21 or 22 years old). We talked around 10 to 15 minutes about different common topics like "Are you from the same city?", "Where do you live?", "Are you sleepy?", "Do you like night conversations?", "How did you learn about this conference line?", "I like this new song... and you?" and then came the "black pill moment". She asked me how tall I am and what's my weight. I answered her honestly. That time I was around 171 cm and around 65 kg. This is something average (or slightly below average) for that area. 45%-50% of the males are around that height and a bit heavier (that time the obesity wasn't that big problem as nowadays). So, I felt okay. I can't say "pretty confident" but I really didn't feel I'm very rejectable because I wasn't fat, I practiced martial arts and I read a lot of books; also I wasn't that old at that time and I was proud of my choice to avoid the alcohol and the cigarettes. So, I felt myself as a young, educated and healthy (and sporty) boy. It wasn't enough for her! She said straightly and honestly (and I am thankful for that) something like "Oh! It's not enough good for me. I like taller, stronger, massive males. Otherwise my vadge is not going to become ready for..."
 It really surprised me (because till that time no female was so straight and so open in the way she explains the things) but I am really thankful and I never felt any hate to this woman because she made me to think that for the females the looks, the body, also do matter and only "Be healthy, be smart, be polite and have a hobby" is not enough.

Title: Rejection #5
Post by: Incel on July 22, 2022, 04:43:48 AM

Rejection #5

It's a short story but with morals. From that phone conference line I had a date with one young woman who worked in some Xerox (copy services) garage. She said I may go to see her there, in her work place. Seems it was a good idea, to her, because in this way she can just see the person and decide if she likes him or not without the need to spend with him more time somewhere and to suffer in case she feels that he is ugly or has another problem.

So, I went there and I saw she was an ethnic girl (or someone with mixed blood) -- more dark than the average people in that city. I like this type of skin. And also she was with a long black hair, slim body, cool face. I liked her at once. Then I went there again, after some days, but I found out that she's not interested. She didn't like me at all. I got upset and told her with judgmental tone:

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You don't like me!

She answered with rude tone but what she said made me realize for the first time a blackpill or a redpill truth and to start to respect people's decisions when it comes to choice. Her rude toned but meaningful answer was that short:

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And is it mandatory to like you?!

Is is mandatory if you like somebody the same one to like you too? Just because you like her/him? Well, obviously it's not. Later I learned more about the things like love is a bilateral process, consent and so on.

Well, till the present days, I still feel "not in fair" that some females that I like will go after another man (who is stupider, less educated, less polite, less healthy and so on). But I'm trying to say to myself "You also don't want to be forced to be with some woman that you dislike, do you?" so, usually, I am telling them that "I understand that they don't like me and I'll do my best to improve myself; wishing them happiness...", etc. I'm not going to criticize or to press them. The incels who insult women for not willing to be with them are very wrong. They really make the things worse. Because if they accept the women decision with patience and not aggressively later they have much more chance to find someone, even the girl that they liked before. Leaving bad memories is not the good choice. Leave good memories to have more chance later and to have a better image; not to have a ruined one.

Title: Rejection #6
Post by: Incel on July 23, 2022, 02:22:18 PM

Rejection #6

There was that ethnic girl (I suppose related to south Asians). I usually don't care about the origin of the people so I didn't ask her exactly about her parents or grandparents. She was a bit chubby (not very fat) and sort of attractive. According to my low standards that time (now maybe they're even lower than before!) she was a 4/10 to 5/10 Becky.

So, we went to have a date and she ordered some expensive drink. I am a poor person but I paid it and then we went to my hope. I tried to kiss her but she stopped me. It was something like a semi-kiss. And that was all. After some minutes she said she wants to go home. Never called back. Maybe she was that type of person "I can order everything on a first date but you can't kiss me on a first date."

Since that time I learned a lesson never to try something more intimate on the fist dates. Well, some guys do it but if you're not at least a Chidlite and with other attractive and valuable capitals like popularity, money, etc. don't risk your future relationship in this "fast mode" date. Better wait until there is some proper period of time because it is really stupid to lose your chance and to lose some (potentially) good female just because you was in a rush and made her think that you're not serious or dangerous and other negativities.

Title: Rejection #7
Post by: Incel on August 15, 2022, 04:10:39 PM

Rejection #7

It's one of the most unforgettable. We became penpals. That time we haven't Internet and people made new friends using mails. The post offices were happy. In one period there was a boom of mails exchange.

During all my conscious life I tried to be an informed, educated and knowledgeable person. I was looking for a girlfriend who is interested in science, Discovery channel or at least the Martial arts and China (or another East-Asian country). One day, in a teenager newspaper, I saw that advertising: she was a high-school girl interested in astronomy, music and popular science. I ran to the post office to buy some envelopes and wrote her an introduction letter. She answered me. Our cities were far away from each other but it doesn't stop me to think that "This is my right girl!"

The several interesting details were these:

• She refused to send me her photos. This made it clear that she's an insecure, not confident about her looks. In other words, she was an ugly girl. I knew it; I was sure she is something like 3 of 10 (on the decile scale) or maybe 2 of 10. But this fact didn't stop me to like her more and more. To read and reread her letters. To write her back and sometimes to write her additional letters, as a surprise just to tell her how much I miss her and how I'm willing to meet her during the upcoming summer vacation (that time I was at the beginning of my university life.)
• Her writing style was simple but deeply educated and from almost every single letter from her I could learn something new, interesting and to improve my knowledge about the astronomy, English language, musical news, geography and speleology. This made me to fall in love more and more and more and more. It was so cool to see that there is at least another person from the opposite gender who is valuing the knowledge and who makes progress.
• She wasn't fake like many of the others. She was a polite but straight person, a real person who may tell you the truth in your face without hesitation. She earned not only my respect but my admirations as well.

And the long-awaited summer vacation came! We really met. We chose a place, next to the seashore where she and her last year classmates camped (before the final high school exams). When I met her for the first time and I saw her face for the first time I was (just for a second or two) a bit shocked because it was a face that can't even pass a 1.5 of 10. Her body was better (around 5 of 10). But as I wrote, I didn't care much about her looks once she got all that rich internal world. So I felt that I like you the same and her ugly face didn't influence my previous admiration.

The next day I met some of her classmates, there were some prettier girls but I didn't feel anything special towards them and I focused all my attention, emotions, thoughts on this girl which I was already sure that "She is the rightest one for me."

Sadly there was her best friend (another girl). That best friend looked like someone who dominates their friendship and that "my girl" listens to her best friend as a kid who listens to his beloved mommy. For example she decided where we'll go, when we'll meet, what movie we'll watch and if we're visiting the beach or not. I didn't interfere because I was educated enough to know that a quarrel with the best friend is an (almost sure) "negative score". Well, we went to watch a movie (still remember it was one starring Sean Connery) and after that I asked "my girl" when we'll meat tomorrow. Her best friend said something that tomorrow we're not meeting... some hours later, somehow I met only "my girl" and asked her what's going on, if she is not going to spend at least some moments with me alone and to have at least some days a "you and me" vacation. (All I dreamed was just to sit on the beach, to watch together a sunset, to have a hug, maybe a kiss. This kind of semiplatonic love. I knew she was a virgin too so I even didn't mention anything like "hug" or "kiss" too.) But all this attention, kindness and carefulness were in vane. She said something like "We must only remain very good friends." (It was a total shock for me because in her letters, especially the ones before we met, she expressed more warm feelings and even readiness and sort of willingness to have an emotional, beyond friendship, relationship). I got it. She didn't get the vibe (or her best friend, who as even uglier and colder than her; a type of Tomboy girl, was single and probably jealous of our potential falling in real love, was the real reason "my girl" to reject me so coldly and unemotionally?) It will be one of the enigmas in my life: if it was that in the reality I wasn't what she imagined (I did my best to keep fashioned, taking showers, using perfumes, making good hairstyles... from my present perspective the only mistake that I had was that I didn't hit the gym and I was a skinny boy. Now I never ever miss a day to keep myself fit, strong and confident by means of gyms and sport tools)? Or it was only because her best friend was a blocker who controlled her free will and actions to that degree? Or there was some combination of both? Or there was another, third factor, that will remain unknown?

Whatever. I was so sad that I cried in front of my landlord (an old grandmom who expressed her sincere condolences and said that her bet is that the best "friend" ruined our potential true love relationship). It was my first and last seashore vacation when I was so depressed that I even didn't go to swim. Only visited the nearest beach, touched some sea waves, said "Good bye" to the sea and left earlier (at least to save some money. This travel cost me a bike; I couldn't buy a new bike because of this and I was thinking that if I knew earlier that she will surprise me with this shock I better never spent the money and better to have the bike which at least could help me keep healthy and save me some money from the public transportation).

The end of the story was that I remain bikeless  ;D for a long time (in the next chapter I'll tell you why I had to rent a bike from my best friend, because of another girl) and we never exchanged mails any more.

Title: Rejection #8
Post by: Incel on August 27, 2022, 08:24:36 PM

Rejection #8

This isn't a 100% rejection because for a short time (a few days) the girl in question was my girlfriends (we had some kisses; I'm not  a kissless incel.) but I'm sharing this story because

• a/ at the end she left me
• b/ I promised you to tell you about that bike story

A friend of mine told me a lie that this girl looks almost the same as his sister. His sister was my "one-it-is" and I considered her as the most pretty person in the world. When I met the girl I saw she doesn't look like his sister (the similarity wasn't more than 2% at most) but she wasn't ugly or something so I decided to give her a chance. She was almost the same tall as me. I wasn't sure if she's going to give me a chance but we end up as a couple for a few days. I did my best: took her to some pretty national parks, parks, gardens, cafes; draw some romantic pictures for her, made her small presents and so on.

She doesn't seem to love me so much but jealous a lot. For example we exchanged a joking dialog with her female classmate who learned some Turkish (I learned some Turkish language too). And my girlfriend then suddenly said: "What you too are talking? Translate now!!!" Another time there was some mIRC (online chat) female friend who said I look good or something like that and my girlfriend then saw it (I showed her because I am frank and share all; no secrets) and get literally red face, heartbeat, temperature... I thought she's going to have a heart attack at that moment... I told her the chat pal is far away, not going to meet her, don't love her... but it wasn't enough.

Well, you think that if someone jealous you probably she or he is not going to go meeting others and flirt with them, or even worse? You're wrong. She was full of jealousy but she doesn't self-limit herself to meet and even dance closely with boys. One night she said she's going to a club with her female classmates and there will be no boys. Oh, sure I believed it. A club full of males who 90% are there not for the dance or the drinks but for the mating and "no boys"... I went there too (some hour or two after she was there) and I saw her dancing with some fatty... She saw me, I made a question sign and she just smiled like "Oh, I am so sorry, he invited me to dance and I couldn't say "no"! Don't mind me, it's okay!"

Later she had to go her village (parent's home) every weekend. I was sure she's meeting there other boys (it's a typical story in our region - some people have boyfriends in the towns or cities but when they visit their villages they do have another boyfriend there, for the time being... or just some flirts, one-night stands...) so I decided to be there too. But at that moment I had no bike, no motorbike of course and even no money for the bus. I walked 35 km to the village to meet her for a while (I really met her, it was so romantic according to her cousin)... Then a best friend of mine when heard this story and was shocked that I walked 35 km said that he's going to rent me a bike or to lend me his bike for a long time. I agreed but his bike was in his village and I had to walk this time another 20 km to his village. His grandmother was shocked how I walked to there on foot. He smiled and said "Don't worry about him, he used to; he is a tourist."  ;D Then I was so happy that I have a bike and I ride it back to the city. Even went to meet her in front of her cram school with the bike and to tell her: "You see, I'm already equipped with a vehicle and we'll be together more!" but when I met her I fall with the bike in front of her  ;D it was embarrassing but I was young and fast, in less than a second I stood up and said to her about the bike...

It was less than a week since we were a couple I went to her home to give her some cassette tape as a present but she said she want us to break up. :o :( :'( I was very shocked, sad and... even found her father to tell him words like: "You see, uncle! I was so good to your daughter but she decided to break up with me! From now on if she meet another one and he's a bad man, don't blame me, it's not my responsibility." I am not a hooligan and that time I wasn't as strong and sporty as I am now because I was at the very beginning of my sports development. But I was ready to fight with him if he was like "My daughter is right, you loser!" Well, he was a polite man, he just said "Oh, sorry... I see." and it was a peaceful separation.
 
A few days later (or 2-3 weeks later maybe, around this kind of time period) I saw her walking with another boy who was much taller and bigger than me; a "real Chad" as some present days incels will say about him. She saw me too, said something to the "Chad" with some foxy smile (I guess it was like "That short guy is my ex-boyfriend. Can you imagine me being a girlfriend of such a loser?!") and that was all. We even didn't greet each other and I'm glad that the "Chad" wasn't some asshole who'll say some bad words to me because I was with a knife in my pocket that time (in the country I grew up there are many dangerous guys outside and often we wear different weapons for self-protections) and I wasn't sure if he start to attack me how long I could protect myself without using the knife. I'm a reasonable person and I don't want to go to jail but when it's about love, the emotions are too strong to control them and I am just happy that "Chad" was a reasonable man too and nothing happened.

Since that time I started to train harder; I knew I'll be not become as tall as he was, nor as handsome as he was. But I knew (and I was right) that the sports will make be better looking, stronger and with improved health. As a result I become a man who doesn't need a knife to protect himself and who won several fights (some friendly and some not very friendly).

Why she rejected me? The rejection according to that friend was because my bad clothes (honestly I was more poor than now; I had no money for more than second hand clothes) but that friend was sort of not very clever and he tended to explain all with the clothes, shoes, hairstyle and other stuff that many incels now know as "blupilled" (too naive or brainwashed). I just think that she rejected me because she already met that taller, handsomer and richer man. The classical hypergamic behaviour, the classical hypergamic woman who doesn't feel shame to do so and even maybe proud to say "I found a better one and I don't care if I broke the heart of that poor, short and uglier one!"

Title: Rejection #9
Post by: Incel on August 28, 2022, 03:54:23 PM

Rejection #9

 In this chapter I'll make a bit clear about these two moments which I mentioned in the previous chapter:

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I am not a hooligan and that time I wasn't as strong and sporty as I am now because I was at the very beginning of my sports development. But I was ready to fight with him...

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I was with a knife in my pocket that time (in the country I grew up there are many dangerous guys outside and often we wear different weapons for self-protections) and I wasn't sure if he start to attack me how long I could protect myself without using the knife.

There was a university mate (an educated and cultured person) who said ones "From all people I know I am the one and only who still didn't buy a weapon." Since that time I decided to buy some simple weapons like knives.
 Later I met a rap oriented guy who wanted to be my friend. He even had a gas gun (gas pistol). Later I bought one too.
 So this rap guy and I went to meet 3 girls. The result was that they decided to give us back a call and to say if they like us or not because they feel shy to give us a real life straight answer.
 I was more handsome and more educated than this guy; also with better manners. But the girls said (phone call): "One of us don't like both of you. The rest two like only that rap man."
 The "rap man" was flattered (he got 2/3 likes and I got 0/3) but didn't like those 2 girls and nothing happened after this. I was like "Oh, gosh... at least he also didn't get 3/3 likes, so there is some subjectiveness and I have chances next time."

Title: Rejection #10
Post by: Incel on August 31, 2022, 01:59:21 AM

Rejection #10

  One of my first rejections abroad. There was that girl (a young colleague) who was very nice and sweet to me. I was impressed how polite, warm and tender can be a female person. Well, she become a cold and avoiding me person just after that moment when she realized that I'm not from Britain but from a smaller, poorer and not that popular country. I don't know why she was thinking that I am a British. Maybe just because I am white and I speak English. Whatever. Once she got the information from me that I'm not from Britain she showed a very disappointed face, became speechless and it was clear that all her warmness, tenderness and politeness were just a product of her hope to impress well a British guy not me personally. I suppose she was a kind of a visa girl (for her the British or some similar visa and/or citizenship is more important than the holder of this citizenship).
 I couldn't call it 100% rejection because I even didn't ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend. I waited for an opportunity and I wanted it to be more warm approach (to know her better and she to know me better). Well, at the end of the day, I really started to know her better and I'm glad I didn't get involved with someone who only chases the the visas (citizenships).

Title: Rejection #11
Post by: Incel on August 31, 2022, 02:48:43 AM

Rejection #11

  One of my latest rejections abroad. There was that woman who assumed (without asking me where I am from) that I'm from the USA. Just because I am white and worked as an English teacher?! Well, some people just have this limited logic like "Yellow = Chinese", "Black = African" and "White = American". I can't call it 100% rejection because I even wasn't sure if there will be a day when I can (probably, theoretically) feel something towards her and then to ask her out. She was an elder 3/10 auntie.
 She wanted me to teach her swimming and I started to teach her but after 2 lessons she sticked to "her way" which was to keep her head long under the water and to use my pinkies as "swim ring" or something when she is trying to swim. I am a person who trains his fingers, including his pinkies, because I like Tiger style kungfu (虎拳 ) and still her heavy body and long holding and pulling of my pinkies gave me pain which continued for weeks.
 The situation was similar to the previous one ("Rejection #10"). In this case I am not sure if the auntie was also after visas (citizenships) but when she learned that I am not from the US she said one disappointed "Ohhhh..." and after that I saw how all her smiles, interest, friendliness and other positive traits disappeared. Well, I didn't feel very sad or something like that but it was really another ridiculous experience.

Title: Rejection #12
Post by: Incel on September 10, 2022, 03:36:47 PM

Rejection #12

  A very simple one and maybe boring but it counts. There was that girl interested in martial arts who I met in a forum related to this matter. Her boyfriend was a karate trainer and he was pretty good; better than me probably; a real pro. But he wasn't very educated and cultured. She said she likes my romantic poems and my science based thoughts. Maybe she also preferred my face? I am not sure. So we started to exchange warm and emotional e-mails. I wasn't against it because I thought that "it's just e-mails", I even don't touch her so it's not something like she is cheating her karate boyfriend. Also, I had that hope that someday she may officially break with that karate man and come to my city, become my girlfriend. Of course, I didn't press her to do so, I am totally for this: she to make her free and independent choice. I even was concerned about her well-being and told her several times that it's not a good idea to exchange so warm and emotional e-mails because if her karate boy-friend find out she will be in trouble. I didn't worry about me so much because I was ready to spare with him for her (if in case there was this ideal situation: "Let's fight and she is choosing the winner!"  ;D ) Well, nothing like this happened. The worst happened - he really found out that she is in an "e-mail relationship" with me; she started to hate me, speak some rough and unpleasant words towards me in that martial arts forum (of course most of the people would think that it was just a sort of "virtue singnaling", which, according to a definition, is "The public expression of opinions or sentiments intended to demonstrate one's good character or social conscience or the moral correctness of one's position on a particular issue.") Simply, she started to fool him and the others that it was all my fault, she was too naive to believe me, she loves only him, blah-blah-blah-blah...
 Later I lost connection with her and she didn't left something that I can miss (I can't compare her with some others who also rejected me but at least they were unforgettable women) but, for sure, she was a sporty, cute and pretty girl (at that time; no idea what she become now). And that karate man tried to be bitter, attacking, competing against me in that forum and one bigger forum but I was many times more knowledgeable than him and he had to suffer a lot of emotional losses online and he was really embarrassed and many people thought he looks like a looser, not me. Later I heard he died in some traffic accident and because I never hate him (I was his enemy but he wasn't my enemy; I mean he had much stronger negative emotions towards me.) I felt like "Oh, gosh! Pity boy. First his stupid girlfriend, then all his misery online and now dead so young!" And now all I can say is "Rest in peace, man! I don't hate you."

Title: Rejection #13
Post by: Incel on September 12, 2022, 02:42:51 AM

Rejection #13

There were some rejections of this type but I'll count them as one because they were really identical.

You remember that pre-Internet phone conference line that I mentioned before, right? Well there were those girls who wanted to meet somebody but were shy to describe themselves and/or were afraid to say something like: "I'm with short, brown hair, green eyes and I'll be wearing a red coat and blue jeans, waiting you in front of the clock tower." or like "I'm wearing yellow skirt and white T-shirt. I have long black hair and blue eyes. I'll meet you in front of the city library." So I decided to give them an opportunity to choose if they want to have a date with me or not without knowing who are they, which was super convenient for them: every time only I described myself and my clothes and they knew where I'll be waiting. Then they could just pass there safely and if they think that I'm good enough for them, then they can say "Hi" otherwise just pass and I'll just go home.

As you can guess, there were some of them who really didn't choose to date me after they saw me.

Later I stopped this way because once there was that case that the girl said "Hi" and we had a date but she was scary ugly (I even didn't know that so ugly girls may exist) and after this emotional shock, I decided to abandon this way.

Title: Rejection 14
Post by: Incel on September 21, 2022, 12:42:31 AM

Rejection 14

It was a deja-vu of the rejection 12. Another girl online from forums that we visited together (about martial arts and about zoology). She even knew that girl and she said she has a boy-friend too. But she said she likes me very much and wanted to be my pen-pal. We ended up chatting online 12 hours once... she showed me even her childhood dolls and said that her boyfriend isn't the right person for her. I was in a sort of a problem because I hate to lie but she said to keep it a secret from him. Once he chatted with me too, I didn't tell him anything about her girlfriend and me. Well, one day happened the same -- she was sure he is not able to see her chats and private messages but he did. Then she started to behave like another person, to speak against me, to swear in front of him how much he loves him and he decided that it was only my fault, not her fault (the same as I started all this and she wasn't the initiator). We even had some angry words exchanges online and we agreed to meet and to fight but we never had this opportunity. He banned me from one of the forums where he was a mod and I was just a member continuing to believe that all is my fault and his cheating girl-friend is just an innocent lovely girl. Naive man. I was also very surprised how fast she could turn against me (like she was afraid that he will beat her or something) and all her tender words to become cold, bad and so on. 100% hypocritical person. Later I heard that they both went to university (different majors though) and that was the last info (also from her because she decided to chat with me again but only as "pure friends". That time I kept it 100% pure and only official chats related to her major and study. Maybe she expected something more again? Maybe, because soon after I didn't get emotional as before and kept it pure she stopped chatting with me.) All I can think is that highly likely she cheated on him again (and maybe not only online) and that they're not together soon after that moment.

Title: Re: Rejection 14
Post by: xxs on September 21, 2022, 02:20:43 AM

Quote from: Incel on September 21, 2022, 12:42:31 AM

Rejection 14

It was a deja-vu of the rejection 12. Another girl online from forums that we visited together (about martial arts and about zoology). She even knew that girl and she said she has a boy-friend too. But she said she likes me very much and wanted to be my pen-pal. We ended up chatting online 12 hours once... she showed me even her childhood dolls and said that her boyfriend isn't the right person for her. I was in a sort of a problem because I hate to lie but she said to keep it a secret from him. Once he chatted with me too, I didn't tell him anything about her girlfriend and me. Well, one day happened the same -- she was sure he is not able to see her chats and private messages but he did. Then she started to behave like another person, to speak against me, to swear in front of him how much he loves him and he decided that it was only my fault, not her fault (the same as I started all this and she wasn't the initiator). We even had some angry words exchanges online and we agreed to meet and to fight but we never had this opportunity. He banned me from one of the forums where he was a mod and I was just a member continuing to believe that all is my fault and his cheating girl-friend is just an innocent lovely girl. Naive man. I was also very surprised how fast she could turn against me (like she was afraid that he will beat her or something) and all her tender words to become cold, bad and so on. 100% hypocritical person. Later I heard that they both went to university (different majors though) and that was the last info (also from her because she decided to chat with me again but only as "pure friends". That time I kept it 100% pure and only official chats related to her major and study. Maybe she expected something more again? Maybe, because soon after I didn't get emotional as before and kept it pure she stopped chatting with me.) All I can think is that highly likely she cheated on him again (and maybe not only online) and that they're not together soon after that moment.

Ouch. Maybe the boyfriend was abusive and she was afraid. Who knows.

Title: Rejection #15
Post by: Incel on October 01, 2022, 03:42:54 AM

Rejection #15

It's a very fresh one. Literally from the last few minutes. She found me first. Sent me a PM. We started to chat about this and that. She said she's even eager to come to visit me. I thought we're getting close and shared with her something more intimate but seems like it was a mistake. Well, she decided to friendzone me. In fact, there are true friendzones and fake friendzones. In make case, it was a fake one because she even blocked me after she said that she want to make friends with me (what kind of friendship is it if you even block a person's ability to communicate with you?) But, of course, I'm not surprised. This is what my life is: a perpetual loneliness.

Title: Re: Rejection #15
Post by: xxs on October 01, 2022, 03:44:05 AM

Quote from: Incel on October 01, 2022, 03:42:54 AM

Rejection #15

It's a very fresh one. Literally from the last few minutes. She found me first. Sent me a PM. We started to chat about this and that. She said she's even eager to come to visit me. I thought we're getting close and shared with her something more intimate but seems like it was a mistake. Well, she decided to friendzone me. In fact, there are true friendzones and fake friendzones. In make case, it was a fake one because she even blocked me after she said that she want to make friends with me (what kind of friendship is it if you even block a person's ability to communicate with you?) But, of course, I'm not surprised. This is what my life is: a perpetual loneliness.

Dear Incel, I will unblock you provided you don't send me porn.
Regards, Anita.

Title: Re: "500 Rejections"
Post by: Incel on May 16, 2023, 06:27:14 PM

Still, nothing happened. She is living abroad and she's too young. Not even possible.

Title: Rejection #16
Post by: Incel on May 16, 2023, 06:41:12 PM

Rejection #16

Well, there are many like this one (called "ghosted"). To ghost means (as a verb) to end a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. This is one of many (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "ღ桥" (不完美女孩). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:

"2019-09-13
8:15:05 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
10:36:11 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-31
7:06:37 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
5:02:42 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ..." (the last one was some philosophy of life).

Months of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and I had to delete this contact.

Title: Rejection #17
Post by: Incel on May 17, 2023, 01:43:10 AM

Rejection #17

 It was in Europe. I met a pretty, slim, gentle girl with long hair and good face in the train. I was very glad to find out that she was interested in chatting with me (more than 3 hours before I get off the train). Later (we exchanged our mail addresses) she started to exchaange some letters with me. It was very nice and I felt very happy to check the mail box almost every day and double happy when I see her letter. I read her letters at least 4-5 times each. One day decided to invite her to come to visit me but she said she's lacking of money. I was poor too (I was able to provide her a place to sleep and to share with her my food and even pay for some tea but not more than this) and we decided to wait until she get some money from her relatives. And she got them! It was something like EUR 40 which was enough for the travel to my place and back. But she described how she bought for herself a jean skirt and some other things. I asked her: "How do you have now money to buy a jean skirt but not having money to come to visit me?" and she never answered back. I missed her but I coped with that she has a neurological disorder (epilepsy) and maybe it was better to be rejected earlier than to deal with the epilepsy problem all my life.

Title: Re: "500 Rejections"
Post by: xxs on May 17, 2023, 02:32:17 AM

Quote from: Incel on May 16, 2023, 06:27:14 PM

Still, nothing happened. She is living abroad and she's too young. Not even possible.

This thread is very bitter and sad.

Title: Re: "500 Rejections"
Post by: Incel on May 19, 2023, 12:55:16 AM

Thanks for the comment but it's not a simple ordinary thread. It's my free e-book (in which I'd like to collect my 500 rejections from the past and the ongoing ones). And as far as the rejections usually are something sad the average reaction is being bitter, frustrated, unhappy, etc. See, it's just the way it's meant to be.

Title: Rejection #18
Post by: Incel on May 19, 2023, 01:09:42 AM

Rejection #18

This is another one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "小丫" (有些东西，不应该太在乎，也许在乎是一个伤害). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
8:10:48 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
7:13:20 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
3:52:05 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:46:21 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-15
3:24:30 AM
已经不用QQ吗？
3:25:08 AM
微信呢？"

Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and I had to delete this contact.

Title: Rejection #19
Post by: Incel on May 19, 2023, 01:19:41 AM

Rejection #19

This is the third one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "MOUSE-杨" (嫁给一个成功的男人是女人的本能，使自己所爱的男人变成功才是女人的本领！). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-06-07
 4:25:47 PM
端午节快乐！
 2019-09-13
8:07:05 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
3:48:21 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:43:52 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-08
2:27:03 AM
已经不上QQ吗？
 2021-08-10
2:24:34 PM
我现在跟你聊天在微信。就放心。我们认识的。
2:50:30 PM
你删掉了我？！
 2:50:42 PM
好吧。我也删掉你。"

Years of fruitless "communication". (If you don't count that she added me for a while in her WeChat but she deleted me there too...) Well, really 100% ghosted and I had to delete this QQ contact too.

Title: Rejection #20
Post by: Incel on May 19, 2023, 01:35:05 AM

Rejection #20

This is the fourth one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "杏子电脑" (No slogan). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:

"2020-01-31
7:09:18 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:52:57 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
5:01:59 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
"
The last message from me was a virtual "happy birthday card" (sent on 2020-04-13 at 8:41:20 AM
...) but nothing... and I deleted this QQ contact too.

Title: Re: "500 Rejections"
Post by: xxs on May 19, 2023, 01:51:20 AM

So are most of the people you talk to Chinese or from that Country?

Title: Re: "500 Rejections"
Post by: Incel on May 19, 2023, 02:22:26 AM

It's just because I live in China for many years and 99.99% of the females I tried to connect with are from China (or Chinese living abroad). I am from Europe myself.

Title: Re: "500 Rejections"
Post by: xxs on May 19, 2023, 02:51:23 AM

Where?

Title: Re: "500 Rejections"
Post by: Incel on May 19, 2023, 03:04:26 AM

European Union's one.

Title: Rejection #21
Post by: Incel on May 19, 2023, 03:15:31 AM

Rejection #21

This is another one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a " 寡欲des1re＃" (所谓的狐狸精，就是让男人像狗样的女人。). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
8:05:14 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
3:46:24 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:42:24 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-07-28
1:56:23 AM
在吗？
 2021-08-04
10:18:11 PM
已经一点都不用QQ吗？"

Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and I had to delete this QQ contact as well.

Title: Rejection #22
Post by: Incel on May 19, 2023, 03:26:48 AM

Rejection #22

Well, let me take a break from these online ones and to tell you about an offline one. It was in one of the first sushi restaurants in China. There was a waitress which I liked. I was a regular visitor and she knew me. I liked her because she looked quiet, gentle and polite. Also she was my type -- slim, a bit darker than others and shorter, plus she had a pretty face (I'd say at least 7/10).

So one day I invited her to meet up. And she accepted my invitation. She asked me if she may come with a female friend. I dislike it but because this was a girl I really liked I didn't want to blow up my chance with her and I agreed. Maybe it was a mistake but I was afraid I'd blown my chance if I refuse (what if she said "Then I am not coming." or "Okay, next time..." and never comes back because she is thinking that I am a dangerous type.) And then we met, I paid everything in another restaurant, we had honest talk, she and her friend (some average Becky, maybe a classmate or some ex-colleague, almost the same age) also asked some questions. I was frank -- I'm having a good salary (that time it was 5 times better than their salaries), but I haven't own house (I'm renting)... Well, I thought everything is going smoothly but... never met her again. She didn't like my answers or maybe her friend told her "Nah, he's too poor for you, you need a better one." or "He's a foreigner, he's going to leave you soon, find a local guy!"... there are many possible scenarios what happened in fact and I'll never know. But it was a sad rejection.

That's it.

Title: Rejection #23
Post by: Incel on May 19, 2023, 04:01:58 AM

Rejection #23

This is another one of many ghosted type rejections (but not 100%, see below).

So, it's about a "Dylan" (越努力 越幸运). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2020-01-31
 7:10:23 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:48:33 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-10
12:11:35 AM
已经不上QQ吗？
 2021-08-13
12:05:28 AM
我加了你的微信。
"

Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and didn't answer me in WeChat too, so I had to delete this QQ contact as well. But... here comes the interesting part! Hey, it wasn't 100% ghosting! She answered in WeChat but... never met each other again in the real life and... that was just another fruitless "relationship".

Title: Rejection #24
Post by: Incel on May 19, 2023, 04:08:47 AM

Rejection #24

This is the next one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "Coffeemate" (老师一个字一个字地批阅……我看哭了。).

I thought she's speaking English because of this entirely English nickname. So, I started this chat in English:

"2019-07-27
11:00:41 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
11:01:12 PM
How are you, coffeemate?
Coffeemate 11:03:02 PM
？？
11:03:14 PM
不懂英语吗？
Coffeemate 11:03:28 PM
不懂
11:03:32 PM
 (a pic)
11:03:41 PM
我是个外国朋友，欧洲的。
Coffeemate 11:03:50 PM
哦
11:08:48 PM
我在海口的。你也是吗？
Coffeemate 11:32:32 PM
没有
11:33:12 PM
回来的时候可以见面。
 2019-07-28
 2:00:37 PM
(a pic)
 2:00:43 PM
现在你在哪里？
 2019-08-08
 2:54:18 PM
(a call)
2:54:23 PM
(a pic)
 "
And that was all. No answers, no chatting... 100% ghosted.

Title: Rejection #25
Post by: Incel on May 21, 2023, 08:02:57 PM

Rejection #25

A very simple (to describe) one. There was that Stacylite girl that I meet often when I go to do some running. And I said to her "Hello" many times, tried to say something more polite like "Good evening!" and even to make some small conversation but she just passes and even didn't say something like "Hi!" or "No." Acting like a mute person (but I am sure she's not a mute one because I heard her talking several times, to others). Sad.

Title: Rejection #26
Post by: Incel on May 22, 2023, 12:04:05 AM

Rejection #26

This is the next one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "低端小气下档次" (故作的坚强、虚伪的力量。). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
8:03:58 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
3:45:51 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:41:56 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-05-11
8:29:37 AM
(A happy birthday virtual greeting.)
 2021-08-12
4:25:26 PM
已经不上QQ吗？"

Years of fruitless "communication".  Well, really it's what I call 100% ghosted and I had to delete this QQ contact too.

Title: Rejection #27
Post by: Incel on May 22, 2023, 12:46:32 AM

Rejection #27

And this is the next one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections).

So, it's about a "霓虹的绚烂耀不过你的眼眸" (no slogan). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
8:07:50 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
7:11:04 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
3:57:21 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
2:44:47 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-07-01
8:07:52 AM
(Happy birthday virtual greeting)
 2021-08-12
4:36:28 PM
你不用QQ吗？
 2021-11-27
2:29:48 PM
微信呢？
2:30:53 PM
(Trying to make a call)
2:32:09 PM
你不用QQ吗？
European  2:32:14 PM
微信呢？
 2022-07-01
1:19:10 AM
(another Happy birthday virtual greeting)
1:19:42 AM
我是那个外国的朋友。你还记得我吗？
 2022-11-21
5:29:40 PM
说吧。
 2023-01-10
2:47:32 AM
最后一次试试：看看我的身体，可能你会喜欢！让我们试试一次吧！
2:47:40 AM
 (a photo of my sporty body)
2:47:45 AM
 (another photo of my sporty body)
 2023-04-15
美德 12:53:50 AM
不喜欢吗？"

Years of fruitless "communication"!  Well, really, it's what I really call 100% ghosted and I had to delete this QQ contact too.

Title: Rejection #28
Post by: Incel on May 23, 2023, 04:46:52 AM

Rejection #28

It was one of the most pretty teenage girls I ever met (a schoolgirl who I met in a central KFC) and I hoped we can be at least some friends, to start some Platonic love and later, maybe, more but she ghosted me after some days of chat that I enjoyed more or less because I was full of joy and some hope.

Here are it is (without the very personal details):

That time she was nicknamed in another way, recently, just a "-" (下次是哪次 改天是哪天)
"肯德基的那位啦
10:48:30 PM
 
 10:52:12 PM
我是欧洲的，欧盟人。经常教外语。我也写书，做网站。这样的。 
 2020-06-24
错过. 6:41:56 AM
哈哈哈哈 好呀
11:15:11 PM
你有什么爱好的？你喜欢做什么？
11:16:08 PM
我喜欢做短的电影。可以给你例子：
 11:16:26 PM
        。
错过. 11:16:28 PM
我应该没什么爱好吧
错过. 11:16:30 PM
哈哈哈哈哈
 11:16:55 PM
那个是我的第一个的例子。还有个最近的，可笑的。
错过. 11:17:27 PM
嗯…那天在肯德基店里的小孩是你孩子吗
 11:17:31 PM

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 幽默的。
错过. 11:17:35 PM
  (sweating) (sweating)
11:17:55 PM
非常爱做电音的。
错过. 11:18:05 PM
很有趣
11:18:38 PM
当然，我是个文明的，科学的人，所以我也喜欢写书。我已经出版了3本的。
错过. 11:18:46 PM
哇哦
错过. 11:18:58 PM
你叫什么
 11:19:29 PM
看我的3笨书： ， ， 。
错过. 11:19:48 PM
这个这个 我看不懂
错过. 11:19:50 PM
 (surprised) (surprised)
 11:20:24 PM
我就是教英语的。但是当老师是比较无聊，所以有空的时候我做短电影或写书。
错过. 11:20:55 PM
你一般都在哪
11:21:13 PM
我的英语的名字叫 ... 。
11:21:21 PM
在海口。
错过. 11:21:21 PM
什么意思
错过. 11:21:24 PM
/问号脸
11:21:43 PM
你问我叫什么，我说我叫 ... 。
11:21:59 PM
我的英文的名字。我的书本的是 ... 。
 11:22:26 PM
随便一个。中文的也有：...
错过. 11:22:57 PM
  (surprised) (surprised)
11:22:58 PM
 (handshake)
错过. 11:23:41 PM
你经常去肯德基那吗？
11:24:02 PM
你没有英文名字吗？现在很多人有个中文的和一个英文的名字。
错过. 11:24:17 PM
我没诶
错过. 11:24:21 PM
 (confused) (confused)
11:24:25 PM
如果有学生的话，我去。因为我教英语在KFC的。
错过. 11:24:38 PM
为什么呢
11:24:41 PM
好。没关系。
11:25:01 PM
因为我没有自己的学校。就是个家教老师。
错过. 11:25:11 PM
哈哈哈哈
错过. 11:25:29 PM
你帮我弄个  (shy) (shy)
11:25:40 PM
你看到了，上次我教了个小男孩子在那里。这样。
错过. 11:25:57 PM
哦 我知道了
11:26:06 PM
可以。我可以选择个很合适你的中文的名字英文名。
错过. 11:26:15 PM
我上次读的那个单词是风景/颤抖/颤抖
11:26:17 PM
你叫什么名字？
错过. 11:26:17 PM
读错了
错过. 11:27:10 PM
那个单元我们没学过 要自己先预习
11:27:32 PM
是的。你读的是”6“（six）.我听懂了。
错过. 11:27:35 PM
所以我都不怎么会
11:28:09 PM
很好。自己早联系很好。我也是这样：努力，早点学习。   
错过. 11:28:15 PM
啊？我读的不是6吧 
错过. 11:28:41 PM
哈哈哈哈
错过. 11:28:41 PM
加油加油
11:28:47 PM
慢慢啊。我的中文100%是自学的。我这样，天天，慢慢学习新的单词。后来中文越来越好。
错过. 11:29:42 PM
是呀 我都能听懂好多
11:30:16 PM
我听了你读的是差不多"six".你发音了"sex"，我猜你们的书本不会有"sex"。所以我猜是“six”.
11:30:32 PM
 (OK)
错过. 11:30:50 PM
哈哈哈哈
错过. 11:30:56 PM
我要睡觉啦
错过. 11:31:10 PM
明天聊吧
错过. 11:31:14 PM
 :D
11:31:39 PM
嗯。好。明天说你叫什么，我找到给你最适合的英文名字。
错过. 11:31:52 PM
谢谢你
11:32:20 PM
晚安 
错过. 11:32:26 PM
晚安
11:32:34 PM
不客气。
 2020-06-26
3:29:33 PM
下午好！
3:29:51 PM
你的新的自拍的照片真厉害！ 
吻甜. 3:29:58 PM
下午好
吻甜. 3:30:11 PM
哈哈哈哈哈
3:30:20 PM
我以前也做了个厉害的。给你看看我的最厉害的照片：
 3:30:41 PM
是这张：
 
 
吻甜. 3:31:52 PM
哈哈哈哈
3:32:47 PM
 我就喜欢武术啊。

"

And this was the end. She just ghosted me (and deleted me). Tried to add her (re-add her) many times. No result.

Title: Re: "500 Rejections"
Post by: xxs on May 23, 2023, 05:16:17 AM

Ouch. I'm still here to message yk. Never will ghost, ever.

Title: Re: "500 Rejections"
Post by: Incel on May 23, 2023, 08:59:45 PM

That's a decent position! Thanks for it! Appreciations! And a karma + for you! 8)

Title: Rejection #29
Post by: Incel on May 23, 2023, 11:18:12 PM

Rejection #29

The long story short? Well, it was that "I just don’t have the feeling but you're handsome, don't worry and be confident!"; "Just not my cup of tea, you see?"... I liked her because she was young and her English abilities were good, and also, she sounded like a person who's (sort of) educated... but all my hopes and efforts were fruitless. It's an online story too, so here we go (without some personal details, as usual):

"🐅 1:55:02 PM
Hello, Joy! How are you today?
Joy 2:47:10 PM
Hi! Not bad. How about u?
该用户通过“海口英语角ING”群向你发起临时会话，前往设置。
张艳璐 5:55:50 PM
我是张艳璐
🐅 5:56:31 PM
Well, just so-so. You know, my life is poor and boring, because I'm just an English teacher in the recent years.
🐅 5:56:49 PM
But I love China and Chinese, anyway, that's for sure.
🐅 6:04:05 PM
If you're in Haikou, let's meet and teach you English once a week. How do you think about it?
张艳璐 8:07:35 PM
Sorry to know this
张艳璐 8:07:45 PM
And thank you for your proposal
张艳璐 8:08:13 PM
But I am in Yangpu two hours away from HaiKou
张艳璐 8:09:05 PM
If I can find a good job in HaiKou, let us meet up when you are free if you’d like to
张艳璐 8:15:07 PM
Two hours’ ride
🐅 11:05:12 PM
OK, I see. So what now? You're searching for job in Haikou, right?
 2019-06-20
张艳璐 8:19:16 AM
Yes. I am searching for job in YangPu otbHaikou
🐅 12:00:50 PM
Your English is good. Of course you can find a lot of jobs in Haikou. Yangpu is small and I don't know the chances around there.
张艳璐 3:15:48 PM
Thank you for your kind positive feedback on my English
张艳璐 3:16:33 PM
The available opportunities related to English is not much in HaiKou
张艳璐 3:16:44 PM
 
张艳璐 3:18:08 PM
Btw, can I know your name?
🐅 9:16:42 PM
Non-stop they're searching English teachers in Haikou and some other things like this. Maybe you just didn't search well?
🐅 9:16:57 PM
Yes, I'm xx. And you?
张艳璐 10:35:50 PM
Hi xx! Pls call me Joy
张艳璐 10:36:14 PM
I am looking more for international trade
🐅 10:40:51 PM
That changes the conditions a lot. Because it's a hyponym of "job". Yes, there are many jobs in Haikou, but exactly "international trade"... very specific.
 2019-06-21
张艳璐 10:38:24 AM
Hahah, yes, you are right. If I cannot find proper job in international trade, I will try to find some opportunities in English teaching
🐅 1:20:25 PM
What I meant is that you may find a lot of jobs in Haikou (especially when you're a Chinese person), but it's not "all kind of jobs". Just don't be very picky and you 100% may have a (some) job.
 2019-06-24
🐅 1:26:11 PM
What kind of people exactly do you search/need?
张艳璐 1:52:36 PM
?
张艳璐 1:52:51 PM
Do u mean job?
🐅 1:54:45 PM
No, I just feel you need job + some sort of guy. Because yesterday you tried to speak in the group again. I think you're searching for people.
张艳璐 2:13:37 PM
Yeah
张艳璐 2:13:41 PM
Hahaha
张艳璐 2:14:01 PM
I just want to find someone to chat in English
🐅 2:15:48 PM
But... I'm chatting with you already (and I'm an English teacher + I'm a foreigner). This should be enough, it's "just someone to chat in English". Maybe you need more special one? Hm, I wonder...
张艳璐 2:17:02 PM
No..., I were just afraid to disturb u and not sure u were available at that time
张艳璐 2:17:15 PM
 
张艳璐 2:18:32 PM
I am kind of think-too-much guy and always not brave enough to start a chat
🐅 2:18:55 PM
  Yes, seems that I was very unavailable at that time: 
张艳璐 2:18:55 PM
So glad to know you like to chat with me
张艳璐 2:20:10 PM
Btw, how about ur weekends?
🐅 2:20:19 PM
Even when a man answers with "Hello", you still thing that he's busy and not stuff?  WOW! You rock!
And I was thinking that I'm the most shy person around.
🐅 2:21:11 PM
Just lonely weekends. Some teaching, some sport... poor, lonely guy. Nothing interesting, in fact.
张艳璐 2:21:19 PM
U reply Hello at 11pm, I were going to sleep
张艳璐 2:21:25 PM
Replied
张艳璐 2:21:46 PM
Sorry for the tense mistakes
张艳璐 2:22:01 PM
I see
🐅 2:22:12 PM
Well, I hope you got it. If it's so, you may search me anytime. I'm often online and I'm lonely.
张艳璐 2:22:57 PM
Noted
🐅 2:23:07 PM
Yes, there is 1 tense mistake, but it's quite understandable.
🐅 2:23:12 PM
 
张艳璐 2:23:24 PM
What kind of sport you played often?
🐅 2:24:01 PM
Wushu (kung fu) and ordinary fitness. Just these 2. Well, some running from time to time, but I don't count it.
🐅 2:24:37 PM
I used to be fat. Now my body is getting better and better.
🐅 2:25:25 PM
You see...
🐅 2:25:56 PM
Still not with big muscles, but at least NO MORE FAT! Which makes me feel better and sort of proud.
张艳璐 2:28:39 PM
Wow 
🐅 2:29:17 PM
Now I eat healthy, drink healthy, do sports. And at least I got a normal body.
张艳璐 2:30:23 PM
Applaud for you🥳🥳   
张艳璐 2:30:39 PM
I hope I can pick up running
张艳璐 2:31:24 PM
I practiced Wushu when I was 9 years old
 2019-06-24
🐅 2:32:06 PM
A couple of years ago. I met a Chinese girl, who was honest. It's rare to meet honest people, you know. And I asked her to tell me what's my problem? Why so many women DO NOT like me? I'm: clean, nice, lovely, very clever and very educated. And she said it's just because I'm too fat. OK, I lost weight and guess what? STILL NOBODY LIKES ME. No matter what...
张艳璐 2:32:51 PM
Oh no way
🐅 2:32:55 PM
I started when I was 12. But I'm just an average one, not pro. It's mostly for myself and for my harmony.
张艳璐 2:34:21 PM
Maybe your Ms.Right doesn’t come out in ur life
🐅 2:34:43 PM
Yeah, that's the problem. Every time they DISLIKE something in me, but rare someone dares to say what... Last time I asked one TWICE and no response... It's hard to change yourself if you don't know what exactly to change... The only thing I guess is that I'm not rich, but as you can see -- many poor guys may have lovers, girl-friends, etc. So probably it's not the main problem...
张艳璐 2:34:46 PM
Time will give you the best
🐅 2:35:37 PM
In fact there aren't "Right people" in life. There are just "better" and "worse" people. Nobody is "Right". Humans are imperfect.
张艳璐 2:35:46 PM
I think u are honest and candid to yourself and ur relationships
张艳璐 2:36:49 PM
Yeah, but ‘Right’ is the one who finds ur good and accept your imperfections.
张艳璐 2:37:01 PM
And vice versa
张艳璐 2:37:56 PM
Better or worse is a comparison. Right is not a comparison, but a acceptance.
🐅 2:38:12 PM
No. Do you know that? Time will give you less and less usually. For example if now you're ugly, when you get older you'll be MORE ugly. If now you're ill, when you get older you'll get more sick and you'll die early... Time (mostly) is against us, because years later we're getting older, weaker, uglier and so on. Even the job is not easy for the old people. Try if you are a 60 year old woman to find a job and you'll see -- EVERYWHERE there are "Up to 35 year old".
🐅 2:38:27 PM
Sometimes even "to 30"...
张艳璐 2:38:52 PM
Hahaha
🐅 2:38:56 PM
I'm 100% honest and realistic. So I speak the facts. The reality is harsh.
张艳璐 2:39:52 PM
You said out a harsh fact about time
🐅 2:40:52 PM
Let me show you the most popular French handsome male actor - A. Delon: BEFORE: and NOW: . Time gave him the best? NO, time made him look like shit...
张艳璐 2:43:28 PM
 
张艳璐 2:43:36 PM
I am wrong
张艳璐 2:44:00 PM
Do u try the blind date?
张艳璐 2:44:27 PM
Or attend parties to meet new friends?
🐅 2:45:09 PM
 --- very rare case. And after some years, most of the people starting to find more and more needs and they just separate or divorce, because they see their partners can't give them what they want. People are greedy, mostly... So, you understand why more and more divorces, right? The acceptance is usually temporary (if there is any). More and more people are incels.
张艳璐 2:45:13 PM
Extensive social activities will improve the possibility to find the ‘right’
🐅 2:45:41 PM
* incels = involuntary celibates (n., pl.)
张艳璐 2:47:37 PM
I have confidence in that there are some girls/women who are honest and with a golden heart
2:48:40 PM张艳璐撤回了一条消息
🐅 2:48:43 PM
 --- here, all of them, when I invite them to date they do not come. They're afraid. Or just "busy"...
张艳璐 2:49:29 PM
Maybe u can change another place
张艳璐 2:49:44 PM
Like ShenZhen, Shanghai
张艳璐 2:50:21 PM
These places are more open-minded to foreigners
🐅 2:50:25 PM
 --- I meet new people non-stop, but in 99% of the cases they're already engaged or married. The rest 1% think I'm not okay, because I'm a foreigner or because of some hidden reason, so... just no way... --- To tell you the truth it's not helpful here at all.
🐅 2:51:10 PM
 --- Yeah, I met one only. But she's around 100 kg, so... well... you know. I can't...
🐅 2:52:03 PM
You're right about Shenzhen and Shanghai, but it's not my place. I like clean air and tropical climate, so I'm living already only here. But you're right about it. There people are more educated and more open.
张艳璐 2:53:38 PM
I see
张艳璐 2:54:38 PM
Have u been to Sanya? I think Sanya is also more open than HaiKou
🐅 2:56:12 PM
Yes. 2 years and half. But there the job opportunities are limited, so I had to come back to Haikou.
🐅 2:56:26 PM
The salaries in Sanya are also not so good...
🐅 2:57:11 PM
So, I love the place, but the companies, bosses, etc. there are just not very good... Some of them make people to work almost non-stop and the wages are very low...
🐅 3:06:05 PM
Sometimes I even don't understand why some men (smoking cigs, having a lot of tattoo, speaking bad /cursing/ and so on) are still able to have pretty girls. And I -- so nice, educated, clean, healthy and gifted person -- am just nothing to them... How it comes they do prefer savages?!
🐅 3:12:29 PM
我不知道你明白了我的这个意思。所以我给你这个例子：比如这样的一个男子：又像黑道，又像同性恋者，又像精神病的人。可是好多女人们会说她们喜欢这类的男子： （其实我不认识这个人，只有觉的他是个很好的例子。）
张艳璐 3:13:57 PM
hahaha
张艳璐 3:14:51 PM
   
🐅 3:15:39 PM
And I know it's a product (a result) of the subcultural influences (from the US, S. Korea, HK, etc.), but this knowledge do not make me feel better. I just feel I'm a loser, even I have no wrongs...
张艳璐 3:16:01 PM
No, pls feel confident
张艳璐 3:16:51 PM
Everyone should love themselves. Only when they love themselves, they can have the ability to love others
🐅 3:17:02 PM
The same. Shy or confident, they don't care that much. The most they care about looks (外貌协会) and money (+ status)...
🐅 3:17:20 PM
I have no problem with my love ability.
张艳璐 3:17:22 PM
I think u are a nice man and u deserve better
🐅 3:17:29 PM
I loved a person many years before.
🐅 3:17:48 PM
I walked (on foot) several hours for another person before.
张艳璐 3:17:52 PM
Then u should not be changed by their world view
张艳璐 3:18:01 PM
Wow,
🐅 3:18:08 PM
I spend day and night to write a home-work for third person before.
🐅 3:19:27 PM
I gave all of my heart, energy and emotions. So I do love 100%, but... seems these ingrats do not care about it... All of them found another men -- rich men, popular men or just ordinary men, but not me.
🐅 3:21:48 PM
So, these things are platitudes (confidence, love ability, etc.) The females cares mostly for: look (are you handsome, tall, muscular, white), status (what do you work, what are your parents) and money (how much you're able to spend for them).
🐅 3:22:44 PM
My look is just so-so. I'm just an ordinary teacher (nobody cares about my Uni's degree) and my parents are not rich... So? What do I expect? Should I?
张艳璐 3:27:30 PM
Have u bought a house in HaiKou?
🐅 3:29:01 PM
No. I have to wait until my father die. Then I can inherit his house abroad and then I can buy one here. I'm too poor to buy now. You see, how much is 1 sq. m. now? RMB 10 000 and more. Too expensive for an ordinary person like teacher.
🐅 3:29:10 PM
Being poor sucks.
张艳璐 3:29:12 PM
U know, there are many bad stories about foreigner man+Chinese girl like the girl got pregnant and that man abandoned when he came back to his own country
张艳璐 3:30:17 PM
So maybe Chinese girls become more conservative when it comes to date a foreigner
张艳璐 3:31:08 PM
Abandoned her and their children
🐅 3:31:44 PM
那，你知道吗？跟中国男人们是一样的。那么多中国男子们只有喜爱做爱，射精里面，后来跑了。可是中国人们觉的中国男子们可以，可是老外们是不可以的。每一次是这样的：“我们的人--没事，可是老外的--不行！”
为什么你认为这类的男人们是只有老外的？！中国的也是。男人是男人。不是民族的问题，是男人们的问题。好多男人们不要当父亲。他们只要做爱，射精，可是不要孩子们。事实。
张艳璐 3:32:13 PM
那也是哈
🐅 3:33:08 PM
自己看看：
张艳璐 3:33:15 PM
不过社会上确实有很多负面新闻关于嫁给外国人：比如被打，被抛弃，被骗等
🐅 3:34:06 PM
网络上有好多，好多这类的内国的事情。所以这个问题不是外国来自的，是原来子的。每一个民族有这样的男人们。
张艳璐 3:34:53 PM
嗯嗯
🐅 3:34:55 PM
问题是，人家，大多数不爱看书，不爱学习，不爱想好。他们只有知道“老外这样，那样”。偏见，偏见，偏见。。。。。。 没办法的。
张艳璐 3:35:01 PM
是的
张艳璐 3:35:06 PM
hahaha
🐅 3:35:57 PM
还有，有些本地的女人们是180度的：她们认为老外们100%是更好的，是天使。好多次我说了：“外国人们也有好多不好的。不要相信每一个老外是个王子或天使。”
张艳璐 3:36:34 PM
我觉得你三观很正哎
🐅 3:37:30 PM
I'm objective. But most of the people are not objective. They just make easy and wrong conclusions about the life, countries, males and females, etc. Most of the people around the world are stupid. Maybe only 20% of the population is clever or almost clever. So, it's hard to feel good around ignorants.
🐅 3:37:56 PM
Thank you. But most of the ppl will never get what I mean.
🐅 3:42:26 PM
Back to the house problem: right now 1 sq. m. equals around 5 average salaries. So? If you want a 60 sq. m. apartment, how many salaries you'll need? 25 years' salaries! And can you save all your salaries? No... So, if you're poor, there is no option to buy it. Well, only if you want to be a 房奴。
3:49:45 PM张艳璐撤回了一条消息
🐅 3:50:30 PM
Very funny... When your salary is LOW, does it matter how hard you work?
张艳璐 3:50:40 PM
Ur words make me want to work hard and earn money
张艳璐 3:51:02 PM
Maybe change another company
🐅 3:51:04 PM
Only if you find a good salary job... Otherwise?
张艳璐 3:51:14 PM
Yeah
张艳璐 3:51:21 PM
The living cost is so high now
张艳璐 3:51:32 PM
Fruit and food is expensive
🐅 3:52:02 PM
They're paying almost the same. They just follow the current levels. For example if they can pay you only 100, they'll never pay you 200. They're like this -- natural capitalists.
张艳璐 3:52:03 PM
Much higher thank Dongguan and Shenzhen
🐅 3:52:17 PM
Sure.
🐅 3:52:40 PM
I know.
3:52:57 PM张艳璐撤回了一条消息
张艳璐 3:53:06 PM
Bosses care every penny
🐅 3:53:16 PM
True. 100% capitalists.
🐅 3:53:30 PM
All around the world.
张艳璐 3:53:37 PM
 
张艳璐 3:54:03 PM
I really like this song, it is a healing
张艳璐 3:55:15 PM
张艳璐 3:55:33 PM
This song is also great
🐅 3:59:56 PM
They're old, but evergreen Western songs. I know them.
🐅 4:00:34 PM
Well, I have to go to teach 2 classes now. I'm a "working poor". See you later online!
🐅 10:01:08 PM
"Working poor" = “穷忙族”
🐅 10:28:55 PM
What are you doing recently?
 2019-06-25
张艳璐 9:04:06 AM
Looking for a job
张艳璐 9:04:10 AM
 
🐅 2:23:47 PM
As usual, I see.
🐅 3:03:23 PM
Like me... All time long I'm "as usual"... No change...
🐅 3:03:40 PM
And I can't achieve it... no matter how hard I try.
张艳璐 4:45:47 PM
Seems u are in a struggle now
🐅 4:46:09 PM
I'm just without choice now.
🐅 4:47:21 PM
 
🐅 4:47:49 PM
 
🐅 4:48:33 PM
 
🐅 4:49:00 PM
It's just nothing left to struggle...
张艳璐 4:49:41 PM
Maybe one year later, the environment in HaiKou will be better
张艳璐 4:49:56 PM
Coz HaiKou is a FTZ
张艳璐 4:50:10 PM
Free trade district
🐅 4:50:47 PM
Yes. I hope about it already for MANY years. It's good to hope, but it's bad when you see you're hoping more than 10 years and nothing is coming good to you...
张艳璐 4:51:01 PM
And many companies are planning to set up sub-company
张艳璐 4:51:13 PM
I am struggling
张艳璐 4:51:26 PM
To find a good job in HaiKou
🐅 4:51:35 PM
And they'll need me? The humanitarian, the ordinary teacher? He-he-he... You're such an optimist.
张艳璐 4:52:01 PM
U know several languages
🐅 4:52:36 PM
Even you, a Chinese person with Chinese ID card and with good English may see how difficult is it. Do you know how far more difficult is for me as a foreigner to get working visa and job? I bet you have no idea...
🐅 4:52:42 PM
And? What?
张艳璐 4:52:46 PM
Maybe u can try to take some business lessons like: project management
🐅 4:53:11 PM
If the companies CAN'T hire foreigners, what if I know these many languages?
张艳璐 4:53:37 PM
Have u thought to do some international trade?
张艳璐 4:54:13 PM
By using ur multi-cultural background
张艳璐 4:54:50 PM
I like philosophy: 我喜欢叔本华，尼采，黑塞和加缪
🐅 4:54:57 PM
Really? And then what? Without this university certificate AND/OR without a company who wants a foreigner, what I'll do with this management knowledge? 你真的不懂：好多公司又不要老外又不会做工作的签证。对我们不是容易的。我没有中国国籍。
张艳璐 4:55:23 PM
也是哈
张艳璐 4:55:43 PM
我家里也是没有钱的
🐅 4:55:58 PM
Yes! But they said to register a trade company you need to pay 500 000+ yuan. I am poor. I can't do it. (而且他们说老外不会做个体户。）
张艳璐 4:56:11 PM
出来也只能靠自己
张艳璐 4:56:22 PM
Maybe we can cooperate
🐅 4:56:22 PM
所以对穷人没有什么希望的。对穷的老外更加没有。
张艳璐 4:56:28 PM
 
🐅 4:56:39 PM
OK, tell me how to cooperate and I will do it.
张艳璐 4:56:46 PM
但是只要去做才有希望
张艳璐 4:57:06 PM
我在东莞认识生产商
张艳璐 4:57:35 PM
但开发客户也不是那么容易，有时也是靠运气
🐅 4:57:47 PM
 --- Me too, but once you have no capital, it's sort of pointless... It doesn't improve your life. And most of the guys just don't care about it.
张艳璐 4:58:38 PM
目前有这样一个我们可以合作的想法
张艳璐 4:59:03 PM
yeah, now I realise the importance to make enough money
🐅 5:05:07 PM
合作-我喜欢，可是问题是我们会不会有合作的机会。因为在现代的世界最重要的是钱（资本）。比如没有钱，就不会开始商店，学校，等等。那里都要好多钱。比如以前跟另外的中国人要了做学校，可是他们说：你要100 000 人民币在银行 + 要200平方米（租产地）+其他钱。谁会有那么多钱？！所以我们的学校主意失败了。
张艳璐 5:07:04 PM
嗯嗯
🐅 5:07:11 PM
做个简单的外国菜饭店也要好多钱。比如20平方米的小吃：需要付多少钱？一年的租产地，如果1个平方米是6000元就是120 000 人民币。A lot of money!
张艳璐 5:07:26 PM
电子商务不需要那么高的成本
张艳璐 5:07:52 PM
餐馆的风险还挺高的
张艳璐 5:08:00 PM
固定成本高
🐅 5:08:44 PM
所以，我觉的穷人们的未来大多数是没有希望的在这类的资本的世界。我的希望是彩票。每周买一点，可是没有猜了。
张艳璐 5:08:46 PM
 
张艳璐 5:08:54 PM
哈哈
张艳璐 5:09:09 PM
别丧气
🐅 5:09:19 PM
什么意思？卖电脑吗？
张艳璐 5:09:24 PM
积极心理学还是挺有用的
张艳璐 5:09:25 PM
不是
🐅 5:09:40 PM
我是现实的，也是哲学的。我就是说我们的现实是怎么样。
🐅 5:09:51 PM
那个法国佬说什么？
🐅 5:09:59 PM
我不太懂法语。
张艳璐 5:10:05 PM
昨天在linkedin是一个法国人问题邮箱和公司网站
张艳璐 5:10:16 PM
他说他也是做外贸的
张艳璐 5:10:41 PM
其实每天全世界很多人都在寻找做生意的机会
🐅 5:17:33 PM
好的。我要问问：以前我们要了跟其他中国人做个合法的外贸公司。但是注册资金需要500000元。那，你怎么做的？非法的？
张艳璐 5:19:36 PM
哪有那么高
🐅 5:19:39 PM
我不明白你怎么没有外贸的公司可是还会买卖？
张艳璐 5:19:55 PM
重点不是外贸公司
张艳璐 5:20:06 PM
而是你能找到供应商和客户
🐅 5:20:07 PM
他们这样说了。其实要多少钱？
🐅 5:20:40 PM
你会找到。可是海关呢？
🐅 5:21:08 PM
不是要合法的吗？
🐅 5:21:40 PM
如果有这么容易，怎么只有富有的公司做的？
🐅 5:21:56 PM
你告诉我，如果我们做个外贸公司，要多少钱？
张艳璐 5:25:13 PM
 
张艳璐 5:25:13 PM
 
张艳璐 5:25:13 PM
 
张艳璐 5:25:22 PM
几千元就好了
张艳璐 5:25:44 PM
外贸主要是找到靠谱的工厂和目标客户
🐅 5:28:09 PM
我不太明白你要做什么方式的，可是都要合法的，因为中国的法律是很厉害的。好多人已经在监狱。
🐅 5:28:28 PM
Wish you good luck. Hope you'll be safe and successful.
张艳璐 5:32:19 PM
HahA
张艳璐 5:32:34 PM
Enen
2019-06-25
张艳璐 5:33:00 PM
当然要合法
🐅 5:34:55 PM
我不知道。它们写的不需要办公室，不需要地址，WORDPRESS在中国不行的。。。。。。等等。不太相信这类的是合法的。可是你自己看看怎么做的。
🐅 5:35:29 PM
 
🐅 5:36:07 PM
所以，这个我不太相信。你要问在公安局是不是合法的。
张艳璐 5:44:27 PM
wordpress是需要翻墙的
张艳璐 5:44:54 PM
这是用来搭建公司网页的
张艳璐 5:45:16 PM
话说，你可以在italki上申请老师
张艳璐 5:45:39 PM
italki 教语言，赚外快
张艳璐 5:46:25 PM
 
🐅 10:44:54 PM
 <---- Yes... but it's not very good to oppose the Chinese restrictions. I like to abide the law (守法).
🐅 10:45:48 PM
Yes, I know it. I was an online tutor before. I prefer teaching offline (outside). I avoid use computers/phones too long, because it's bad for the health. ”健康第一。“
 2019-06-26
🐅 11:15:10 PM
About that way, I asked a Chinese partner. She said she thinks it's not legal and it's avoiding the official laws for export. I have got the similar feeling.
 2019-06-27
张艳璐 8:15:24 AM
Yeah, I got it
张艳璐 8:16:09 AM
I am not that sure. Coz someone I knew operated like that to do international trade
🐅 1:43:40 PM
Of course, there are MANY people who never abide the laws and don't care about the laws. I'm sure that there are a lot of illegal or semi-legal companies... Often we can see this happens on the news - for example a kindergarten without ANY documents and permissions.
But if you want to be safe, you should ask at least in 公安局 is that okay to proceed so.
🐅 2:02:13 PM
And, if you already gave up finding trade jobs in Haikou, let me tell you which schools need Chinese Eng. teachers. There you may be able to start as soon as you wish.
张艳璐 6:25:01 PM
Well, I take ur kind advice and thank you
张艳璐 6:25:35 PM
About teaching, u know I don’t have much experience in English teaching
张艳璐 6:26:09 PM
And I don’t have English-teaching certificate
张艳璐 6:27:09 PM
I am not sure any institute would like to give me some necessary training
🐅 10:04:24 PM
Most of them don't teach so high level as you imagine, so probably they'll accept you, but before try, you never know...
🐅 10:10:25 PM
Today I saw a job about selling mobile phones. 5000 yuan salary. It's good for Haikou. If you want, let me know.
 2019-06-28
张艳璐 10:47:48 AM
Yeah, I need to try
张艳璐 10:48:34 AM
About selling mobile phone, I am not very interested coz there is nothing with my advantage.
张艳璐 10:59:59 AM
thank you a lot~
🐅 2:45:44 PM
No problem. I see you just want that one-and-only job (the trade stuff). You're picky. And it's good, but doesn't have many chances to find exactly this job and exactly in Haikou or in that other place.
🐅 2:46:16 PM
But, I suppose that you're not in hurry, because you have parents (and/or a man) to provide you money.
张艳璐 3:59:02 PM
Non, I just have some savings from last job
张艳璐 4:00:23 PM
If I cannot find proper job in international trade, I will try to find a job in teaching institution or selling houses
🐅 4:39:36 PM
Okay, it's a good plan.
🐅 4:40:34 PM
What topics do you like (to chat about)?
 2019-06-29
🐅 11:13:34 PM
We can chat about everything. Including love, romance and sexual desires. 100% all.
 2019-06-30
🐅 6:47:54 PM
Wow, you have iPhone8 . You're just a rich girl, you know...
张艳璐 8:55:40 PM
Hello
张艳璐 8:55:46 PM
How are u today?
张艳璐 8:56:13 PM
I have no idea about topics
张艳璐 8:57:17 PM
I used to have 7500/month salary
张艳璐 8:58:26 PM
So I bought a iPhone8 from HongKong when the exchange rate HK/RMB was close to 0.8
张艳璐 8:59:06 PM
Right now, iPhone8 is not expensive
张艳璐 8:59:55 PM
 
 2019-07-01
🐅 12:44:17 AM
Yes. Just around 2 of my salaries.
🐅 1:58:45 PM
Many guys in Haikou are happy, if they can earn at least 3000 per months. The salaries here are low...
🐅 2:05:20 PM
Some girls and boys are working in weekends just for 50 yuan/day...
张艳璐 3:21:38 PM
I think the average salary is too low
张艳璐 3:21:46 PM
And the living cost is too high
张艳璐 3:22:11 PM
Higher than Shenzhen but salary much lower
张艳璐 3:23:17 PM
I guess that is the reason why ShenZhen, DONGGUAN, Guangzhou can attract young people
🐅 5:29:26 PM
Yes. If I wasn't a fan of the clean air, the sea and the warm weather here, I could move to some of those polluted cities, because there the economy standard is as you said.
🐅 5:30:50 PM
Usually the island provinces are like Hainan. I heard that the situation is similar in Hawaii -- high prices and the people over there have to work 2 or 3 jobs at the same time...
 2019-07-02
🐅 12:17:51 AM
台风来了，你要小心！
张艳璐 1:44:40 PM
嗯嗯
张艳璐 1:44:46 PM
感觉台风已经走了
🐅 1:46:08 PM
 Still not. It'll land here tonight.
🐅 1:46:46 PM
I miss you. How are you doing?
🐅 2:19:55 PM
Send me some photograph of yours.
🐅 3:47:49 PM
 
 2019-07-03
🐅 10:22:36 PM
Why no chatting these days? Are you okay?
 2019-07-04
张艳璐 10:54:38 AM
Hello xx! I am Okay
张艳璐 10:55:51 AM
Sorry for a late response. I have been learning online courses this week and didn’t check QQ messages
🐅 1:05:33 PM
You should check it often, because I miss you!
张艳璐 5:37:20 PM
hHa
🐅 9:57:43 PM
Yes. And, also, you know that I'm the most clever foreigner around. So, it's the best for you to chat with me often.
 2019-07-05
🐅 1:42:40 PM
Send me some pic, okay?
🐅 1:54:29 PM
I'm missing you more and more!
🐅 3:33:01 PM
So, come on, please!
张艳璐 4:31:47 PM
Why pics?
张艳璐 4:31:59 PM
I am an ordinary looking guy
🐅 11:28:40 PM
Just to know you better and to enjoy your face.
 2019-07-06
🐅 11:37:01 PM
Seems you're not interested in me...
🐅 11:37:41 PM
So, maybe I can send you my photos and let you to decide is it worth to keep in touch?
🐅 11:37:54 PM
Maybe you may like me?
 2019-07-07
🐅 1:49:09 PM
OK, so let have a try. I'll show you two of my photos in China. They're 2 photos with my Chinese ex-gf:  . So, if you think I'm attractive enough for you, let's continue our communication.
🐅 5:26:04 PM
So?
🐅 5:26:20 PM
🐅 5:26:26 PM
Do you like me?
🐅 5:56:43 PM
Hello?
🐅 5:57:02 PM
 你发送了一个窗口抖动。
张艳璐 8:29:47 PM
Hello
张艳璐 8:29:51 PM
xx
张艳璐 8:30:14 PM
Sorry for I missed your call
张艳璐 8:31:15 PM
Sometimes I cut off stream to keep the network attraction away
张艳璐 8:36:40 PM
We can be friends, but not deeper
张艳璐 8:37:09 PM
I think u are handsome and u will find the right lady someday
🐅 10:36:07 PM
What's wrong with you? Why you're not the right? I think it's just because I'm not rich and because you don't think I'm handsome enough.
 2019-07-08
张艳璐 7:42:53 AM
no, u are good and u should be confident
张艳璐 7:43:21 AM
I just don’t have the feeling
🐅 10:26:53 PM
How to be confident when everyone speaks like you?
 2019-07-09
🐅 2:11:04 PM
And I think that I don't need to waste your time anymore. You dislike me. So, let me delete you. Best wishes to you!
"

Just the reasons, as I see them: poorcel for sure as number one, and her high standards (I guess she is at least like "Chadlite at least") when it comes to the looks.

Title: Rejection #30
Post by: Incel on May 25, 2023, 06:25:37 AM

Rejection #30

Another one (" Niki") ("十年前～十年后") that didn't get "the feeling" with me (an online try) and I had to delete her, after she willingly deleted me because I didn't want to be "just a friend". Here it is:

2019-11-09
10:54:01 PM
Hi, Niki! How are you doing? Nice to meet you!
🤔Niki 11:02:00 PM
hello
🤔Niki 11:02:16 PM
 take a shower....
该用户通过“海口英语角ING”群向你发起临时会话，前往设置。
11:03:05 PM
Good! I like clean too.
11:03:19 PM
When you're ready, let's chat more!
🤔Niki 11:03:49 PM
okay
11:04:20 PM
 Nice!
1525264846 11:04:23 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
 2019-11-10
1:42:41 PM
你好吗？
 1:42:52 PM
在干什么?
1:43:54 PM
美丽的女孩子，你起床了吗？
🤔Niki 1:50:11 PM
在景区
1:53:04 PM
很好。你在海口住吗？
1:53:17 PM
现在在琼海
1:53:20 PM
我非常喜欢景区，特别是喜欢那些海边的。
1:53:35 PM
我以前那边上班了。教了英语。
🤔Niki 1:53:38 PM
爬山
🤔Niki 1:53:40 PM
 
1:53:45 PM
你是琼海人吗？
1:53:49 PM
哦。
🤔Niki 1:53:53 PM
是的
1:54:13 PM
博鳌的海边很美丽。我去过了。
🤔Niki 1:54:56 PM
白石岭
1:55:03 PM
平时你住在海口吗？
1:55:43 PM
白石岭 -- 这个我不知道。我是外国人，有些本地的地方我没听过。
🤔Niki 2:02:00 PM
好吧
🤔Niki 2:02:06 PM
在玩
2:02:23 PM
平时你住在海口吗？
🤔Niki 2:02:29 PM
住
🤔Niki 2:02:42 PM
在玩，不玩手机了拜拜
2:02:46 PM
Usually you're living in Haikou. I see. Me too.
2:02:54 PM
OK, I see. Have a good time!
🤔Niki 2:03:31 PM
OK
 2019-11-11
2:29:50 PM
So, say something now. Let's chat.
2:30:00 PM
What do you do?
3:25:28 PM
(Trying to make a call)
 3:25:33 PM
在吗？
🤔Niki 5:50:38 PM
 ?
10:19:07 PM
就是找你聊天。我是那个外国的朋友。
 2019-11-12
 2:36:54 PM
Hello!
2:37:02 PM
Are you already in Haikou?
11:16:00 PM
你已经回来了吗？
🤔Niki 11:16:09 PM
没有
🤔Niki 11:16:21 PM
我近期比较忙哟
🤔Niki 11:16:25 PM
谢谢您
11:16:50 PM
Yes, I can see.
🤔Niki 11:16:50 PM
一般没有过多时间，近期属于休假，想好好休假
🤔Niki 11:16:56 PM
不希望有打扰
11:17:27 PM
Yes. That's it.
 2019-11-28
10:40:59 PM
你好！ 现在在哪里？
 2019-11-29
🤔Niki 2:01:21 AM
Thailand
 2019-12-11
3:27:25 PM
And where are you now?
 2020-01-05
2:18:18 PM
怎么那么长时间不要回复我？你到底不要跟外国男人介绍，见面吗？
🤔Niki 3:05:18 PM
不好意思
🤔Niki 3:05:27 PM
几乎不看信息
3:07:44 PM
(Sent her all the messages that I have sent till that moment.)
         
🤔Niki 6:43:38 PM
？
11:19:41 PM
我发给了你我们的全部的聊天。这样你可以看看一下那么多次我找你，那么多次你不太关我。
你，到底，不找外国男人吗？ 我是外国男人。
 2020-01-06
🤔Niki 9:02:13 AM
只是聊天朋友，谢谢
2020-01-06
🤔Niki 9:03:11 AM
我只看感觉不管是哪的男生
2:55:55 PM
什么感觉？我们还没见面了。还不会有真的感觉的。
3:04:25 PM
看起来你是漂亮的，好的女孩子： 。我们可以见面一次。是不是？
🤔Niki 3:38:56 PM
不好意思
🤔Niki 3:38:59 PM
谢谢
 2020-01-07
2:13:31 PM
什么”不好意思“？你找外国朋友，我是：会说汉语的外国白人，有好的教育，爱运动，看书。不吸毒，不喝白酒，不吸烟。我觉的我人很好的。你为什么害怕我？你的目标就是找到老外，我是个很好的老外。
2:13:51 PM
不用谢。就来给我们一次机会。
🤔Niki 3:02:54 PM
  只是朋友 ，我没有说目标找老外
3:04:20 PM
好的，那你说我们的友谊怎么可以发展呢？如果不见面，如果你不找我聊天，那这个是真的“朋友”吗？
我真的不明白，你的原来的目标是什么？
🤔Niki 3:12:27 PM
 其实只是网友而已
🤔Niki 3:12:59 PM
我很忙，在国外 没空
🤔Niki 3:13:02 PM
聊天和见面
3:13:20 PM
但是你不找我聊天。有我这个老外网友有什么用？
3:14:03 PM
那好吧，你就是不要我的。我没有办法的。可以删掉我。没有需要浪费你自己的时间和我的时间。
3:47:12 PM
 
 2020-01-13
2:53:58 PM
很好，我也删掉你了。

Her official statement was that she's not going to meet me, she wants only a friend and it should be only/just an online relationship. Why? Because "no feeling", even before meeting each other... Well, the mutual deletion was a good choice.

Title: Rejection #31
Post by: Incel on May 25, 2023, 06:50:33 PM

Rejection #31

This is about one short, sweet dark skinned local girl that said she's "too young for a relationship" (a college girl, but "too young", okay...), "too busy" and other excuses just to show me that she dislikes me and it will never happen between us. Looks like she wanted me only to help her to earn some money (I met her on the street when she promotes some new apartments, flats, houses and she wanted me to show up there, pretending I am interested in this new property... maybe this brings her some bonus...) and nothing else. Pity...

Here we go, "perference." ("如果经济自由 我将一生都在路上"):

"3094754526 9:01:32 PM
我是
9:01:50 PM
 
 9:02:01 PM
很高兴认识你！
9:02:16 PM
我是个欧洲的的，欧盟人。在这里当老师。
9:45:26 PM
你好吗？
野草莓 11:11:15 PM
你好
野草莓 11:12:34 PM
我来自海南科技职业大学，刚大一
 11:12:48 PM
我很高兴认识你！
野草莓 11:13:00 PM
我也是哦
 11:13:08 PM
我毕业了。专业是“xx”。你在学习什么？
野草莓 11:13:08 PM
 
野草莓 11:13:19 PM
制药工程
 11:13:50 PM
 
野草莓 11:13:52 PM
你在海南工作吗？
野草莓 11:14:00 PM
还是来这边旅游一下
野草莓 11:14:06 PM
 
11:14:21 PM
很好。我有点懂这个。我父母是医生。
 11:14:32 PM
 
野草莓 11:14:39 PM
这么厉害
野草莓 11:14:58 PM
那你以后在这里定居吗？
 11:15:01 PM
我已经说了--我这里当老师。公寓也有。稳定了。 我爱中国。
 11:15:11 PM
嗯。 
野草莓 11:15:12 PM
哇哦
野草莓 11:15:25 PM
棒！！！
野草莓 11:15:29 PM
 
 11:15:41 PM
我就是喜欢这里。不像其它外国人们只有这边来短时间的。
野草莓 11:16:16 PM
你有微信吗？
11:16:28 PM
我就是要一直住在中国。喜欢海南。这里比大陆的是更好（温暖，没有污染，大海好，沙滩漂亮，椰子漂亮。 ）
 11:16:37 PM
没有。我只有用QQ。
野草莓 11:17:12 PM
对啊，海南空气很清新
野草莓 11:17:32 PM
海南人又热情
野草莓 11:18:22 PM
我是本地人
野草莓 11:18:59 PM
我那个工作是大学兼职，赚点生活费
野草莓 11:19:30 PM
 
野草莓 11:19:56 PM
粽子吃过吗？很好吃哦
 11:20:15 PM
对。我也觉的本地的人比北方的好多。
 11:20:31 PM
我以前在东北上班了。那边比海南是差的。
 11:21:35 PM
嗯，你是本地的。我以为了你是黎族的。说实话你是美丽的。我很喜欢这样的黑黑的女孩子们。因为我是白的，我不喜欢太白了。
野草莓 11:21:43 PM
我们高考的时候，我们班主任给我们的，用头顶一下，寓意是高中的意思，就是考上好的大学
 11:21:58 PM
知道了。
 11:22:59 PM
当然吃过了。粽子，饺子，馒头--什么也吃了。 我已经几年在这里，没有什么没吃的。
 11:24:00 PM
这样啊。好。 
 11:24:56 PM
 。你真可爱。我保证周二我来看看那个房子。
野草莓 11:25:07 PM
 
野草莓 11:25:08 PM
 
野草莓 11:25:12 PM
 
野草莓 11:25:16 PM
 
野草莓 11:25:19 PM
 
野草莓 11:25:24 PM
 
野草莓 11:25:25 PM
这个是我的小镇
野草莓 11:25:31 PM
 
11:25:59 PM
希望会帮忙你的。也希望我们当朋友。 
 11:26:07 PM
临高吗？
野草莓 11:26:25 PM
我们会成为好朋友的，哈哈哈
野草莓 11:26:30 PM
是的
野草莓 11:26:41 PM
 
野草莓 11:26:58 PM
我今天走了32000多步
野草莓 11:27:08 PM
就一直逛逛
 11:27:20 PM
刚才说了： 
 11:27:24 PM
  2020-11-28
 11:28:00 PM
我很爱走路，也会跑步。我是比较运动的。我锻炼武术和瑜伽。
野草莓 11:28:00 PM
嗯呢
 11:28:17 PM
临高不错。
野草莓 11:28:25 PM
热爱运动
野草莓 11:29:03 PM
还好吧，我个人肯定是喜欢我的小县城，但是客观它还是不太好的
 11:30:17 PM
是的。但是只有这些：武术，跑步，瑜伽，健身。我不爱篮球，足球。我不像其它（好多）男孩们。我也不吸烟，不喝白酒，不开车。我是比较特别的。 
野草莓 11:30:55 PM
哈哈哈，挺好的
野草莓 11:32:02 PM
我比较喜欢记录生活
 11:32:09 PM
我喜欢，因为是海南的--有大海，是干净的，看来友好多商店，饭店。。。。。。
野草莓 11:32:14 PM
我也喜欢我现在的生活
 11:32:49 PM
 
野草莓 11:33:07 PM
是的，请继续喜欢中国，喜欢海南吧 
野草莓 11:33:32 PM
 
野草莓 11:33:33 PM
 
野草莓 11:33:36 PM
今天的
 11:33:49 PM
请周二提醒我见帮忙你。 
 11:33:59 PM
海南是中国的最好的啊。
 11:34:11 PM
所以我这边买了公寓的。
 11:34:14 PM
 
 11:34:40 PM
我住这里附近。
 11:34:48 PM
你在宿舍吗？
野草莓 11:34:54 PM
不用了，哈哈哈，我不干那份兼职了，谢谢你哦
野草莓 11:35:04 PM
在宿舍
野草莓 11:35:26 PM
我也是这么认为的
野草莓 11:35:45 PM
我爱我的小岛
11:36:20 PM
没事。周二是我的空。现在我有只有1天空。其它--我每天6个小时上班。
 11:36:44 PM
你们的宿舍在哪里？
野草莓 11:36:57 PM
在学校
野草莓 11:37:37 PM
 
野草莓 11:37:43 PM
这个是我的学校
 11:38:56 PM
它是中国的第二大的岛吧。不太小。 在欧洲有比海南更小的国家。比如摩纳哥，圣马力诺， 安道尔， 等。 
野草莓 11:39:09 PM
 
野草莓 11:39:18 PM
三角形是我们遇见的地方，圆形是我的学校
 11:39:35 PM
 
 11:39:45 PM
你是不是在大学城那边？
野草莓 11:41:23 PM
没有
 11:41:29 PM
看起来，左右，是那边的。
 11:41:33 PM
 
 11:41:41 PM
我的意思是，是比较远。
野草莓 11:41:50 PM
哦哦哦
野草莓 11:41:59 PM
 
 11:42:19 PM
但是，无所谓，如果我们要的话，我们可以见面的。距离不是问题的。
野草莓 11:42:32 PM
 
野草莓 11:42:47 PM
你好厉害哦，你都硕士了 
 11:43:20 PM
我天天上网，因为我做网站，写书（电子书本），等。所以我可以经常跟你聊天。
11:43:28 PM
谢谢。   
 11:43:46 PM
发给你我做瑜伽的照片吧。
 11:44:06 PM
 
 11:44:18 PM
 
 11:44:26 PM
 
野草莓 11:44:42 PM
哇，棒！
 11:45:13 PM
这个是跟一个同学：
野草莓 11:45:47 PM
很好
 11:45:47 PM
   
野草莓 11:45:54 PM
 
野草莓 11:46:10 PM
我室友写的毛笔字
 11:46:31 PM
她已经结婚了，有孩子。但是天天做运动，所以有点像女孩子。
野草莓 11:46:37 PM
这个好看
野草莓 11:47:05 PM
 
 11:47:07 PM
哦。很好。我不会书法。我只有打拼音。 但是我喜欢中国的汉字。

2020-11-28
野草莓 11:47:59 PM
你中文很棒哦
野草莓 11:48:13 PM
我都不会英语
野草莓 11:48:15 PM
 
 11:48:39 PM
我看懂。但是我不会写汉字。
 11:48:55 PM
没事，我会教你。我保证。
 11:49:22 PM
这个是我的健身的照片：
 11:49:33 PM
试试做好点的肌肉。
野草莓 11:49:46 PM
 
 11:50:20 PM
最后一个的是我的最爱的--武术：   
 11:51:09 PM
这样。我就是爱看书，写书，学习，做运动。不吸烟，不喝白酒。试试当个好的人。 
 11:51:32 PM
希望你会喜欢我的。   
野草莓 11:51:50 PM
我也喜欢看书
野草莓 11:52:18 PM
 
野草莓 11:52:25 PM
会的哦
野草莓 11:52:36 PM
好，那你先忙吧
 11:53:00 PM
对了，我忘记了告诉你--我是100%相信科学的。我不相信上帝，魔鬼，天使，鬼，等等。我没有宗教。所以你会放心--我不会跟你聊天这些无聊的东西。
 11:53:50 PM
 太好了！你又漂亮，又聪明！ 真的幸福认识你这个人！
野草莓 11:54:22 PM
没关系，因为每个人都有每个人的特点，个性，我们都应该尊重每一个人
 11:54:33 PM
我不忙。但是如果你要睡觉的话，你睡觉吧。不要那么累。
野草莓 11:55:27 PM
好的，你也要早点休息哦
 11:55:51 PM
是的。我只要告诉你我不像那些宗教的老外。还有我不喜欢那些吸毒的，骂人的流氓。我真的是个文明的和文化的外国哥哥。 
 11:56:08 PM
   
野草莓 11:56:27 PM
好的，那我就是你的海南妹妹 
 2020-11-29
 12:03:08 AM
是啊。你是100%海南的美丽的宝宝！   我真的以为了你是黎族或苗族。你有特别本地的脸（我最喜欢这类的脸）。所以我也觉的你是个很真的海南妹妹！   祝福你!
晚安！明天（一定）再聊天！
野草莓 12:03:27 AM
 
 12:04:06 AM
晚安 ，我去睡觉。 
野草莓 12:04:27 AM
晚安~
 9:07:29 AM
 
野草莓 11:13:13 AM
午好
 11:47:47 AM
 我在教小朋友们。刚才下课了。很高兴看看你的信息！
 11:47:59 AM
   
野草莓 1:16:41 PM
嗯呢，嘻嘻
 2:07:52 PM
Good afternoon!~ Have a nice day!~ 
 2:37:24 PM
 
野草莓 3:41:08 PM
 
 3:57:29 PM
送给你花园：   (sent her many roses)                                           
野草莓 3:57:54 PM
哈哈哈谢谢
野草莓 3:58:02 PM
你现在不去教课吗？
野草莓 3:58:21 PM
周末我们大学不上课
 3:59:27 PM
我就在学校。教课。有空的时候看看qq.
 3:59:40 PM
 
 3:59:47 PM
 
野草莓 4:00:07 PM
挺好的
野草莓 4:02:46 PM
对了，星期二你不用帮我了，因为我不干那份工作了
 8:44:35 PM
我回家了。
 8:46:35 PM
好的。你决定。需要帮助的时候，教我。
野草莓 8:49:32 PM
叫
野草莓 8:49:41 PM
真的？
野草莓 8:50:16 PM
海南的家吗？还是回自己的家
野草莓 8:51:14 PM
我想问一下，你是哪个国家的人？  如果不方便回答就不回答
野草莓 8:51:26 PM
 
野草莓 8:52:13 PM
 
野草莓 8:52:21 PM
我在背单词
野草莓 8:52:46 PM
我英语是小学生水平 
 8:53:16 PM
对。我打字的时候打拼音，所以有些汉字是不对的。你懂就好。 
野草莓 8:54:02 PM
好的嘻嘻
 8:54:28 PM
真的。我的意思是我回家了（在海口的公寓，不是”回国“的意思。）我一直住在中国。我不回国。
 8:55:00 PM
我是欧洲的啊。欧洲的，欧盟人。
野草莓 8:55:33 PM
欧洲不是有很多个国家吗？
 8:55:51 PM
你的英文的单词我看到了。大多数是对的。
2020-11-29
 8:56:38 PM
 没事。如果我们会经常见面，我会每一次教你的。你很快可以进步的。我保证。
野草莓 8:57:18 PM
好，谢谢你~
野草莓 8:57:34 PM
那我先学习了
野草莓 8:57:40 PM
 
野草莓 8:57:47 PM
 
 8:58:25 PM
是的，我是从欧盟的。给你看看地图：（蓝色的是欧盟）
友 8:58:41 PM
好的。 
 2020-11-30
 1:06:15 PM
 
野草莓 1:06:31 PM
午好
 1:07:10 PM
  Have a nice day! 
野草莓 1:07:38 PM
yes
 5:44:37 PM
在干什么？
野草莓 5:44:54 PM
上英语课
野草莓 5:45:10 PM
 
 5:45:30 PM
好。我在教英语课。
 5:45:58 PM
 
野草莓 5:46:15 PM
挺好的
 2020-12-01
 2:04:29 PM
 
 2:04:42 PM
我做这些。
 2:05:00 PM
天天锻炼瑜伽，武术，健身。身体越来越好。
 2:08:28 PM
 
野草莓 6:13:54 PM
锻炼确实在一定的程度上会让人开心
野草莓 6:14:09 PM
继续坚持锻炼吧
野草莓 6:14:15 PM
 
 11:46:19 PM
Yes. You're right.   
 2020-12-02
 12:34:42 PM
你好！ 
 12:35:14 PM
你什么时候来海口市内的？我们什么时候可以见面？
野草莓 3:11:24 PM
我一直在海口上学
但是见面等有缘会见的
 4:04:50 PM
"市内的"
野草莓 4:05:22 PM
是的
 4:05:36 PM
你们的上课地方是不是远的那个地方？还是也在我们的这边，市内的？
野草莓 4:06:01 PM
我是美兰区的
野草莓 4:06:27 PM
坐车要20，30多分钟吧到你那边
 4:06:58 PM
嗯。所以没有那么大的问题吧。
野草莓 4:07:49 PM
不不，还在上学，有学业要忙，而且在学校也要兼职的
 4:08:06 PM
你来附近的时候可以叫我见。
野草莓 4:08:14 PM
好的好的
 4:08:24 PM
周末的时候大概你有空。
野草莓 4:08:39 PM
没空
野草莓 4:08:48 PM
可能要回家
野草莓 4:08:57 PM
或者是写作业
野草莓 4:09:34 PM
反正有缘会见面的啦
 4:09:42 PM
那，如果我来你们的那边，可以有空见吗？
野草莓 4:09:55 PM
不要纠结这个
野草莓 4:10:16 PM
不好意思，发错了
 4:11:00 PM
不要纠结这个？
野草莓 4:11:06 PM
我觉得不用特意来
野草莓 4:11:31 PM
意思就是不要太过于介意见不见面的问题
 4:11:54 PM
明白了。就是你不要我们再见面。
野草莓 4:12:54 PM
你要是这样想，就这样想吧 
野草莓 4:13:19 PM
反正自己开心就好
野草莓 4:13:31 PM
 
 4:14:41 PM
不是我要怎么想，就是事实上啊--我要我们见面，可是你找到了那么多原因不会见你的。我是有教育的，聪敏的人。我懂如果一个女孩子不要见我。
 4:15:38 PM
怎么开心如果你不要见我？每一次是这样的--没有人会要见我。一直不喜欢我的，一直害怕我的。哪里有开心？！
 4:15:46 PM
 
野草莓 4:17:00 PM
因为对于一次见面的人，不能确保他是不是好人， 女孩子还是要以小心谨慎为主，要懂得保护自己
 4:17:56 PM
我这个老师+硕士=危险的人吗？
 4:18:42 PM
我不喝白酒，我不吸烟，我写诗，等。你害怕这类的人？！
 4:19:00 PM
算了。你就不喜欢我。清楚了。
 4:19:30 PM
(sad) (cry)
2020-12-02
野草莓 4:19:35 PM
不是
野草莓 4:19:44 PM
为什么一定要见面呢
野草莓 4:19:57 PM
这样难道不好吗？
野草莓 4:20:01 PM
就是
 4:20:01 PM
因为我喜欢你！
野草莓 4:20:34 PM
我不能理解
野草莓 4:20:37 PM
为什么啊
野草莓 4:20:42 PM
那种喜欢
野草莓 4:20:45 PM
？
 4:21:03 PM
我喜欢你，所以希望了我们可以见面。这个是非常正常的。希望了帮忙你，教你外语，运动，科学。一起开心。
野草莓 4:21:56 PM
不了不了，女孩子一定要有那种保护好自己的那种意识
野草莓 4:22:01 PM
我们现在还不够熟悉
 4:22:15 PM
不会吧！怎么不明白？！我喜欢中国，海南。你是个美丽的女孩子。我100%喜欢上你了。有什么奇怪？！ 
 4:23:20 PM
好吧，等几个月慢慢够熟悉。但是后来我不要你说“不好意思，我已经找到了男朋友！”
野草莓 4:23:46 PM
你是哪种喜欢？
野草莓 4:24:29 PM
是那种喜欢海南人的喜欢我吗？还是男女朋友的喜欢？
 4:25:24 PM
以前也是这样。我相信了个女孩子够熟悉。我几个月天天发给了她信息关于我的生活。因为要够熟悉，够熟悉，够熟悉。但是后来她删掉了我。后来第二个的也是：天天聊天，信息，信息，信息。我们够熟悉，但是她同时找到了男朋友。非常不公平！
 4:26:23 PM
都是！喜欢海南人的喜欢你+男女朋友的喜欢你。一起的。
 4:26:56 PM
你是海南的+你是美丽的。所以我全部喜欢你了。
野草莓 4:27:54 PM
不可以，我还很小
野草莓 4:28:10 PM
我们只能是朋友关系
野草莓 4:28:46 PM
我跟你聊天不是因为男女朋友之间的喜欢
 4:29:34 PM
 所以你觉得见面本地的男人们没事，可是见外国的是有事？那我为什么毕业了好的专业，为什么天天看书，为什么天天当个好人，如果你还以为我是怪物？我怎么可以当个不让你害怕的感觉呢？
 4:32:26 PM
我早点说了。就是你不要我。你已经找到了1万借口：“还很小”“作业”，“不安全”，“忙”。。。。。。 直接说你觉得我是个丑老外就好了。不要浪费你的时间。我已经知道在你的眼睛我不够好，不够帅。可以。
野草莓 4:33:11 PM
没有没有，我绝对没有这种意思
野草莓 4:33:49 PM
但是，我觉得我们现在不能再做朋友了
野草莓 4:34:10 PM
祝你好运吧
野草莓 4:34:12 PM
 
野草莓 4:34:26 PM
再见，加油，坚持锻炼
  "
 A very hard to accept rejection and it was really painful; I tried my best to explain that I'm not dangerous, I'm a well educated person and so on, but the rejections were permanent and very painful. At the end it was a 100% one with even "We even can't be friends." That's it.

Title: Rejection #32
Post by: Incel on May 30, 2023, 04:48:44 AM

Rejection #32

This is one of those rejections (recently you may meet them more often than before) which is "I dislike foreigners." Well, it's not every time xenophobia but it may be. Depends on the female's motivation to say this.

Her nickname is "星辰" and it was fast:

"8:55:35 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
 8:55:40 PM
 
 8:55:49 PM
认识你很高兴！
星辰 8:55:54 PM
你好
 8:55:56 PM
我在海口。你呢？
星辰 8:56:01 PM
在
 8:56:31 PM
好的。我是欧洲人（白人）。我在这里教外语，也写书。你呢？
星辰 8:56:58 PM
哦，谢谢你，
 8:57:17 PM
谢谢我
星辰 8:57:32 PM
嗯
 8:57:51 PM
为什么？ 我只有介绍了一下自己。
 8:58:09 PM
你做什么的？在学习还是上什么班？
星辰 8:58:29 PM
没有什么，我不喜欢跟外国人交流"

In short: "Thank you! I don't like to communicate with foreigners."

Title: Rejection #33
Post by: Incel on June 04, 2023, 02:11:06 AM

Rejection #33

Well, she was a fitness maniac working in a bra shop and I started to communicate with her. But she wasn't interested in my intellectual traits. All she need was the physical traits, so soon she pointed to my (that time) chubby body and later I saw her dating a white man, later on a black man... One of them was sort of lanky, the other one was a bit muscular, i . e. she wasn't 100% into bodybuilder type and she obviously was a fan of the foreigners but she just couldn't accept a fat (or a chubby) male. I tried to explain to her that the body is, well, important but the intellect, the knowledge, the soul (art, poetry, etc.) matter too but she was too primitive for this, all she posted online was her body (like her legs or her gym training) and she got even sort of angry for telling her that only caring about the body doesn't make a person his/her best. At one moment she stopped to answer my messages (when I asked her to give me a chance after he, anyway, dated many other males, including foreigners) and these were my last (ghosted; one-sided) sentences (to her QQ account with a nickname Leona and a slogan "新动力"; "。。"):

"2019-02-25
10:35:18 PM
(Birthday e-card)
 2019-02-26
8:39:28 PM
  (thumb up + Okay emoticons)
 2019-04-09
12:27:41 PM
(phone call try)
12:28:21 PM
我跟伙伴开始了个培训学校了。 (a photo) 天天发给广告。
12:28:31 PM
已经找到了2个学生们。
 2019-04-14
11:20:39 PM
现在天天努力上班，天天努力锻炼： (a photo)。"

Well, as you see my money-maxx and gym-maxx tries were fruitless. She just blocked me. I hoped when I become a well gymmaxxed and some sort of moneymaxxed she will give me at least a minor chance but it never happened. She was a very sexy, dark girl, totally my type and I still miss her body but there is just no way. Well at least she was one (of three) honest ones who pointed my problem with the weight and made me realize that I am too bluepilled (thinking that the education, personality and other spiritual, mental things may compensate the obese body) and then I started my way to the self-improvement.

Title: Rejection #34
Post by: Incel on June 04, 2023, 04:34:41 AM

Rejection #34

When it came to the sports, getting gymmaxxed and so on, I remember another sporty girl which was a pro. I didn't get what sport is she practicing but her body was the best female body I ever saw! Like a perfect statue of a goddess. Not joking. And I started a conversation about the calories, energy, products and stuff (I met her in a local Corner's Deli shop in Haikou city). She answered many questions and I learned from her for the first time about the BMI (body mass index), the percentage of fat. She told me she has more fat in her body than she needs and needs to lose weight. I told her that her body is amazing and no need to lose any weight! She answered me that for a normal woman she is okay but for a pro sportswoman she isn't, she needs to work out more; her trainer told her so. Wow...
 She was with a very pretty face too. This combination -- the perfect female body ever + a pretty face made me to wish to be her friend (at least) and I gave her my contacts but she never added me. Maybe I didn't impress her enough with my body that time because I was at the middle of my gym-maxx progress. Sad. I wish she could be at least a net-friend, you know...

Title: Rejection #35
Post by: Incel on June 04, 2023, 05:07:18 AM

Rejection #35

This is just another one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections as you know).

So, it's about a "蔷薇花" ("。。。"). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
8:15:10 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
10:36:19 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-31
 7:06:50 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:33:35 PM
 (picture)
 2021-01-16
8:42:36 AM
(Happy b-day e-card)
 2021-02-05
5:27:40 PM
你好！
5:27:48 PM
好久不聊天了。
5:28:05 PM
 (my gym photo) 我在做运动。
 2021-02-07
4:27:47 PM
现在你在海口吗？
 2021-04-06
8:55:26 PM
现在你在海口吗？
 2021-07-29
 3:15:15 AM
怎么不说话？！  :(
 3:26:26 PM
在海口吗？
 2021-08-08
 11:42:27 PM
这个要知道的：
 (important news)
 2021-08-15
 3:30:58 AM
已经不用QQ吗？微信呢？
 2021-10-01
  1:38:52 AM
已经不用QQ吗？微信呢？
  1:38:55 AM
已经不用QQ吗？微信呢？
  1:39:05 AM
(a call try)
 2021-12-20
1:09:03 AM
已经不用QQ吗？微信呢？
 2022-01-13
 8:16:19 PM
生日快乐，亲爱的宝贝！
 2022-05-23
 6:38:08 PM
外国哥哥想你了。  <3
 2022-07-12
 5:30:26 PM
我的新的2张照片： 

(gym photos)
 2022-07-15
 12:04:32 AM
怎么啦？
 2022-10-09
 2:32:34 AM
 (rose emoji)
 2022-11-15
 12:58:32 AM
在吗？
 2023-01-29
 3:23:17 AM
 (Happy Chinese New Year e-greeting)
 2023-02-10
 9:20:19 PM
想你。
 9:20:41 PM
可以发给我一个信息吗？
 2023-02-15
 1:26:34 AM
  (Valentine's Day pics and greetings)
 2023-04-02
3:11:27 PM
怎么不说话？
 2023-04-05
 3:12:59 AM
要看看我的新的照片吗？
 2023-04-09
11:03:41 PM
                                                 HELLO！                           
 2023-04-17
 6:16:17 AM
宝贝，在吗？
 2023-05-04
 6:18:57 PM
那这个我的喜欢吗?
 (sexy photo)
 2023-05-05
2:25:54 AM
喜欢吗？
 2023-05-10
小兔 9:16:52 PM
今晚要不要做个热情的聊天？(hug) 
今晚要不要做个热情的聊天？ (hug) "

Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and I had to delete this contact too.

Title: Rejection #36
Post by: Incel on June 04, 2023, 05:17:27 AM

Rejection #36

And this is also just another one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections as you know).

So, it's about a "培培" ("今天你俩开心了"). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2020-01-31
 7:17:23 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:52:06 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
 5:06:03 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
 2022-07-15
 1:10:03 AM
你已经不用QQ吗？
 2023-01-20
 1:01:17 AM
 (sexy photo)
喜欢吗？
 2023-01-27
 5:39:24 PM
 (more sexy photo)
 5:39:32 PM
怎么样？
 2023-04-17
 4:00:29 AM
喜欢吗？
 2023-05-03
 4:51:00 AM
(rose emoji)
 "

Well... Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and I had to delete this contact as well.

Title: Rejection #37
Post by: Incel on June 04, 2023, 06:47:41 PM

Rejection #37

Well, this is also just that one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections as you know).

So, it's about a "唯⒈的执著" ("你不知道，我开通流量，整天上线，只为等你，和你说上那么一句话。"). For a long time she didn't send any message. It was sort of pity because she seemed she's a sensitive, sensible person with poetic soul and good looking... I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
8:10:30 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24

 7:13:06 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
 3:52:59 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:45:49 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-15
3:23:15 AM
已经不用QQ吗？
 3:23:51 AM
微信呢？
 2022-11-20
 12:16:15 AM
聊天吧。
 2022-11-21
3:33:12 AM
你很美，知道吗？
 5:21:47 PM
要我的照片吗？
 2023-01-19
 7:30:45 PM
 喜欢吗？
(a sexy photo)
 2023-01-27
 10:46:18 PM
这个呢：(a more sexy one) ？
 2023-02-15
 1:27:46 AM
   /Happy Valentine's pictures/
 2023-03-25
 4:20:25 PM
/rose emoji/
 2023-04-09
 11:04:26 PM
                                                 HELLO！                           
 2023-04-17
 5:15:41 AM
在吗？"

Well... As usual in such cases -- years of fruitless "communication". I was 100% ghosted and I had to delete this contact as well.

Title: Rejection #38
Post by: Incel on June 08, 2023, 05:14:38 AM

Rejection #38

Okay, this is also just that one of many ghosted type rejections (but I'm going to share about them all because they're part of the 500 rejections as you know).

It's about an elder auntie-type female "sophia" (""). For a long time she didn't send any message but I sent her some:


"2019-09-13
 8:09:29 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
 7:11:35 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
 3:53:28 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:45:20 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-15
 3:20:09 AM
已经不用QQ吗？
 3:20:44 AM
微信呢？
 2021-08-28
 11:25:41 PM
Come on, Sophia, say something!
 2021-09-02
  3:21:10 PM
Alright. Deleted?
  3:21:27 PM
 (screenshot that I'm going to delete her)
  3:21:31 PM
 (screenshot of the "delete" button)
  3:21:42 PM
Cool."

Well... As usual in such cases -- years of fruitless "communication". I was 100% ghosted and I had to delete this contact as well but I sent her some screenshots of the deletion option with the hope that she may say "Don't!". Well, she didn't.

Title: Rejection #39
Post by: Incel on June 08, 2023, 05:35:09 AM

Rejection #39

It's a short one. There was a crying girl, sitting next to the grass and talking on her cellphone with (highly likely) the (already) ex-boyfriend. I decided that it's a good moment to show my interest and to give her hope, to see there is another male in her life who is... me. And I gave her my business card after that I left her to continue her crying talk with the (ex?) boyfriend. Later, maybe after 15 minutes, I went back, to see what's going on; if she's still there and what I saw was my business card smashed and thrown. Seemed that she used it to transfer her negative emotions on it. Needless to say that she never gave me a call.

Title: Rejection #40
Post by: Incel on June 08, 2023, 07:07:33 PM

Rejection #40

And this one is about one girl with the current nickname "0～0" (""). Well, it's a very strange story because she was at first polite, welcoming, showing interest after I met her once in Starbucks but later became hostile without any obvious reason and had to finish this fruitless and hurting my feelings communication.

Here is what happened:

"10:36:18 PM
刚才星巴克的那位
 10:36:31 PM

 10:36:48 PM
刚刚回家了。双击查看原图双击查看原图
... 10:36:53 PM
你好
 10:36:54 PM
[自动回复]你好，我现在有事不在，一会再和你联系。
 10:36:56 PM
认识你很高兴！
... 10:37:09 PM
双击查看原图
... 10:37:38 PM
你是刚来海南的吗
 10:39:04 PM
我觉得我们以前见了在海口市内吧。但是不知道是不是真的。可是我记住你的脸吧。如果你教英语的还是上班在药店的话，我肯定见了你。双击查看原图因为我经常去教外语的，还有经常在药店买对肌肉好的东西。我喜欢锻炼几种运动。
 10:39:36 PM
不是。我已经几年在这里了。以前在市内经常。现在大多数在这里了。双击查看原图
... 10:39:54 PM
这样子呀双击查看原图
... 10:40:10 PM
应该没见过以前双击查看原图
 10:40:17 PM
嗯。你现在也这里附近住吗？
... 10:40:20 PM
嗯
 10:40:46 PM
是吗？你在海口多久？是本地的人还是大陆的？
... 10:40:56 PM

... 10:41:38 PM
你也知道我们海南人叫外省叫大陆呀双击查看原图
 10:41:49 PM
很好。本地的人大多数很好。双击查看原图我喜欢这里的。特别喜爱黎族的文化。
... 10:42:02 PM
那你在海口应该生活了挺久
 10:42:38 PM
是的。我对中国有比较好的知识。而且我毕业了哲学，我懂比较多。我的爱好除了运动就是学习（看书）。双击查看原图
 10:42:43 PM
几年了。
 10:42:54 PM
你是做什么工作的？
 10:43:22 PM
我又教课，又做网站，又写书。
... 10:43:48 PM
那你的工作好多呀
 10:45:04 PM
是的，有些我做为了钱，有些为了我喜欢。比如我喜欢写书，写文章。
 10:45:13 PM
你呢？你做什么？
... 10:45:37 PM
我现在主要是在考证
... 10:46:17 PM
之前干审计的
... 10:47:22 PM
你写啥文章
 10:48:32 PM
我不太懂"之前干审计的"意思。我的中文是自学的。看到了这个现在差不多懂了。
 10:49:13 PM
关于人类，爱情，心理学。我的硕士的是关于人类的，所以我喜欢学习和写关于人。双击查看原图
... 10:49:29 PM
双击查看原图
... 10:49:53 PM
你之前都是在市区 现在大部分在这边吗
... 10:50:41 PM
挺厉害的呀自学中文
 10:51:08 PM
对。因为现在更多学生在这边。但是在市内我也有公寓。每周去那边几次。你住这里还是那里？
... 10:51:30 PM
嗯 我住在这边
 10:51:45 PM
我会5门外语的。可是中文比较难极了。慢慢学习，还没有学完了好。
... 10:52:10 PM
看来你很喜欢学习
 10:52:17 PM
很好。这边的地方不错--空气没有污染的，大海干净的。双击查看原图
... 10:52:37 PM
嗯
... 10:53:16 PM
你一个人在海南吗
 10:53:27 PM
是。我一遍学习，一遍做运动（瑜伽，武术，健身）。大多数这个是我的生活。我不太喜欢去喝酒。我不喝白酒。我也不吸烟。比较健康的人。
 10:53:36 PM
是的。父母在欧洲了。
... 10:53:42 PM
哦哦
 10:54:37 PM
你是什么民族的？我只有问问而已，因为我喜欢海南的人，这里有汉族，黎族，苗族，回族还有有些其他。
... 10:54:48 PM
汉族
 10:55:06 PM
好的。你会英语吗？
... 10:55:12 PM
会一些
... 10:56:41 PM
你是不是在海南都很久没能回家跟父母团聚了？
 10:57:07 PM
要学习的话，我会帮忙你。就找我。双击查看原图双击查看原图 当然，我不是给了你我的名片因为只有我找学生。我就觉得你是个美丽的，可爱的，好的女孩子，所以希望了跟你可以联系。双击查看原图
... 10:57:18 PM
双击查看原图
... 10:57:27 PM
谢谢
 10:57:47 PM
是的。我一直住在中国，因为我更喜欢中国。在西方的地方没有中国这么和谐的，安平的，文明的。
... 10:58:29 PM
嗯嗯
... 10:58:34 PM
我也喜欢中国
 11:00:51 PM
客气了。双击查看原图双击查看原图 我真的这么以为。当然，如果你须要学习我的东西--哲学，英文，俄文，韩文，电脑，等，我会教你的，可是我给了你名片的只有因为我觉得你是个特别好的姑娘。双击查看原图双击查看原图
 11:01:13 PM
中国越来越强。双击查看原图双击查看原图
... 11:01:40 PM
我不觉得自己好双击查看原图
 11:02:09 PM
你爱喝咖啡吗？还是就喜欢在辛巴克坐一坐？
... 11:02:39 PM
有时候在里面学习
2021-07-22
... 11:02:56 PM
有时候在里面喝咖啡
 11:03:23 PM
很少人们会喜欢自己的。每一个人觉得自己有什么事儿的。“我胖”，“我丑”，“我不够高”，等。可是，事实上，每一个人在其他人们的眼睛中，没有那么不好的。
... 11:03:39 PM
今天是吃完晚饭散步然后进去坐了一会
... 11:04:17 PM
是的 人都是不自信的多
 11:04:18 PM
我更喜欢喝茶。有时候也喝点红酒。但是如果有好的人，我也会跟他（她）喝点咖啡。
... 11:04:45 PM
你当初为什么来海南？
... 11:04:51 PM
是因为喜欢吗
 11:05:38 PM
嗯。比如在海南好多人们说“我们很矮的，黑的”。但是在欧洲，每周，等，好多人（跟我一样）觉得这么黑黑的皮肤和不太高是很好看的。
... 11:05:45 PM
比起咖啡我更喜欢喝奶茶
... 11:05:59 PM
这样子吗
... 11:06:49 PM
欧洲人喜欢黑黑的皮肤吗
 11:07:35 PM
我开始的时候上班了在东北。但是那边不太适合我的--空气污染了，人家不太爱洗澡（我天天爱洗澡，他们1周一次或一个月一次洗澡），好多醉鬼，好多骂人的流氓。所以我换了地方。在南方这里又干净，又温暖，又没有冷。就这边特别好。
 11:07:56 PM
我也喜欢奶茶。   
 11:08:26 PM
可能欧洲的人们，90%多，喜欢更黑的。
... 11:08:41 PM
物以稀为贵估计是
... 11:08:50 PM
欧洲白的人多
... 11:09:02 PM
所以就喜欢黑一点的
 11:09:18 PM
所以好多人们那边去海边，要当更黑一点。我给你看看我们的沙滩是怎么样。那边90%多要当更黑一点，所以很爱太阳的。
 11:09:41 PM
嗯。好多人们觉得白不是好看的，不是性感的。
... 11:09:55 PM
哦哦
... 11:10:52 PM
你是18年来海南的吗
... 11:11:12 PM
2018年
... 11:11:43 PM
中国宣布要把海南搞成自贸港
 11:12:05 PM
   
 11:12:55 PM
嗯。对。
... 11:13:03 PM
特意去晒太阳他们
 11:13:07 PM
现在发展了好多。
... 11:13:29 PM
嗯 海南这几年发展了不少
... 11:14:00 PM
我们这边叫西海岸
 11:14:02 PM
是。可是这样不是健康的。我也爱去沙滩。可是我穿衣服的--T-血，短裤。这样的。因为我不要皮肤癌症。
... 11:14:31 PM
嗯嗯
 11:14:57 PM
我在沙滩的时候走路，坐下，看海浪，星星。这样。不太爱太阳的。最爱晚上的和夜晚的海边。 
 11:15:04 PM
你喜欢大海吗?
... 11:15:17 PM
喜欢大海
... 11:15:34 PM
我觉得大海会让我心情很放松
 11:16:01 PM
你的家乡有大海吗？还是你就是海口人？其实，你是海南那里的？
... 11:16:27 PM
我是海口人
 11:16:34 PM
我也这样觉得--让心情放松。
 11:17:10 PM
好。 这里的大海没有三亚的那么好，可是最近是比较干净，所以我喜欢。
 11:17:40 PM
其实，我觉得在博鳌是最好的大海。以前去过了许多次，因为在琼海上班了。
... 11:18:33 PM
你主要的工作是？
... 11:18:50 PM
教英语还是做网站还是？
 11:19:01 PM
教课的。那个时候我在外语培训教了孩子们和成人。
... 11:19:10 PM
嗯嗯
 11:20:05 PM
做网站是我的副业的。
 11:20:13 PM
 
... 11:20:28 PM
嗯嗯
... 11:20:33 PM
设计网站那种吗
... 11:20:41 PM
程序员？
 11:22:12 PM
你早睡觉还是晚睡觉？我是”夜猫“，所以对我没事。只有担心你会不会累，要睡觉什么的？
 11:22:48 PM
算是设计网站那种吧。我不会程序。
 11:23:59 PM
我的网站，是用HTML做的。简单的。我更关注网站的内容。不太管外貌的。
 11:24:25 PM
未来的时候我会给你看看我做了什么样子的。他们是简单的，可爱的，有意思的。
... 11:26:21 PM
我还没睡
... 11:27:23 PM
你现在住在西海岸吗
 11:28:55 PM
在肿瘤医院附近。你知道这个医院吗？
... 11:29:42 PM
知道
... 11:29:52 PM
伊泰天骄？
 11:30:12 PM
后面一点。
 11:30:18 PM
你呢？
2021-07-22
... 11:30:41 PM
我也住附近
 11:31:09 PM
好。你自己的公寓还是租房的？
... 11:31:25 PM
租房 我一个人
... 11:32:10 PM
你呢
 11:32:14 PM
可能是少的公寓。我跟伙伴一起租的。70平方米的。2000元一个月。
... 11:32:32 PM
那也不贵
... 11:32:40 PM
一个人一千
 11:32:46 PM
是。
... 11:33:09 PM
你伙伴是中国人吗
 11:33:22 PM
你有自己的房子吗？在海口市？还是那里那个是父母的？
 11:33:30 PM
是的。也是教外语的。
... 11:33:41 PM
父母有
 11:34:11 PM
我在市内的也有，可是现在是空的，没有人住的。
... 11:34:33 PM
市区那个是你自己买的吗
 11:34:41 PM
是。
... 11:35:01 PM
海南房价是这两三年贵起来
 11:35:37 PM
对。那个时候我买了250 000 元多。只有31平方米的。
... 11:35:57 PM
嗯
... 11:36:24 PM
挺便宜的
... 11:36:38 PM
西海岸的贵
 11:37:41 PM
你看来是比较年轻的。没有结婚过吧？男朋友或情人有吗？
... 11:37:53 PM
没 单身
 11:38:46 PM
哦。因为我担心如果你有的话，他会不会反对我们做朋友。 所以问问一下。
... 11:39:31 PM
我要是有男朋友是不加异性的 
 11:40:25 PM
哦。这个是个好的规则。
 11:40:30 PM
 
 11:41:07 PM
你现在不上班，那钱呢？父母给你还是做什么小工作的？
... 11:41:37 PM
父母给的
... 11:41:58 PM
现在在准备考CPA
 11:42:00 PM
很好的父母。我的已经不会给我。
 11:42:57 PM
是不是这个：
 11:44:06 PM
CPA = 注册会计师 ?
... 11:44:07 PM
你嗯
... 11:44:09 PM
对
... 11:44:21 PM
为了生存
... 11:44:28 PM
所以要考证
 11:45:24 PM
我希望未来的时候自己开个自己的培训学校，做一家外采的饭店。可是现在还没有那么多资本的。
... 11:46:00 PM
加油
... 11:46:19 PM
你父母来过海南吗
 11:46:37 PM
我刚才跟另外的网友聊天了这些事情： 
 11:47:29 PM
没有。他们不太喜欢旅游。
 11:47:46 PM
很少去其他地方的。我也是差不多的。很少去旅游的。
... 11:48:05 PM
那你好几年没有回家了吧
... 11:48:09 PM
回欧洲
... 11:49:31 PM
你家人应该挺想念你的
 11:49:56 PM
因为我喜爱这边。我已经移民了这里。在欧洲没有什么事儿要我的。而且我也真的觉得上飞机，旅游，等，是麻烦的。 海南这么好，我真的没有什么想要的感觉要旅游。这里，在海南旅游了一下。比如去过了八所一次。
 11:50:23 PM
我们用网络联系，没事的。 
... 11:50:34 PM
嗯嗯
 11:50:49 PM
你考证后，要那里上班呢？
... 11:50:59 PM
海口
 11:53:27 PM
在会展中心这边还是海口港？或还没有选择了地方？
... 11:53:53 PM
海口市都可以
 11:54:33 PM
哦。那你为什么选择了来这边租房？我因为工作这里附近，你呢？
... 11:54:59 PM
我家也在这边
 11:55:47 PM
在附近的村吗？
... 11:55:50 PM
我不喜欢市区
... 11:56:14 PM
我就喜欢西海岸这里
... 11:56:35 PM
我自己大海
 11:56:38 PM
市区有点吵，满。。。。。。 我理解。
... 11:56:46 PM
喜欢新鲜的空气
 2021-07-22
... 11:56:55 PM
不喜欢公交车的味道
 11:57:39 PM
我也是一样的。我喜欢自然的地方。这边也有好多公园。我经常去公园或海边。
 11:59:33 PM
等一下，我还要出去--跑步一下，做下在公园或花园。夜晚的空气很好--又凉，又干净  。你喜欢跑步或散步在夜晚的时候吗？
 2021-07-23
 12:05:28 AM
 
 12:07:35 AM
我等一会儿，出去--跑步一下，做下在公园或花园。差不多每一个晚上做这样的。 
 12:14:17 AM
你睡觉了吧？还是我给了你不好感的感觉？ 如果有问题的话，对不起
 12:15:06 AM
那，我走了。
 1:37:03 AM
我回家了。
 1:38:33 AM
今天和今晚一共4个多小时锻炼了。现在我慢慢读书关于苏格拉底和孔子。写下文章关于瑜伽。天天运动，学习，努力工作。希望我会当个成功的人。 
 1:38:46 AM
祝你晚安
... 6:54:27 AM
我睡着了昨天
... 7:01:44 AM
你这么晚去散步会不会很安静
 1:46:33 PM
 
 1:47:01 PM
就是又安静，又凉，又新鲜的空气。
 1:47:44 PM
你有空的时候去什么地方？有空的时候爱做什么？
 2:01:40 PM
不在吗？
 2:04:13 PM
我现在要去吃饭在肯德基，然后去上面锻炼在个健身俱乐部。后来去市内教课。晚上的时候打算回来这里，在家里做饭。夜晚的时候可以去海边。
 2:09:09 PM
 再见。
... 3:57:51 PM
我午睡了刚醒
... 9:32:24 PM
我现在也在散步
 11:22:15 PM
我刚才回来了。现在做饭一下。后来，12：00钟左右，我去会展中心后面的海边。有空的话，你也可以来。   
 2021-07-24
 12:03:17 AM
不来吗？
 12:03:34 AM
我已经要出去。
 2:05:59 AM
我回来了。今晚海边真好：月亮很亮的，大海很安静，空气--凉凉的。几个伴侣在沙滩散步。。。。。。 真安静的和完美的感觉。差不多完美的，因为我一个人，孤独地。
 2:06:35 AM
你已经睡觉吧。晚安，亲爱的朋友！   
 1:14:37 PM
 
 1:27:04 PM
在干什么？
 1:33:40 PM
我现在在学习瑜伽，后来去远大做健身，也要市内教课。晚上回来这边。
... 1:35:07 PM
去买点东西
 1:59:31 PM
发给你花园：        (lots of roses, like an ASCII art)                                                                       
 2:15:48 PM
看来晚上的时候你不太敢出去。现在白天的时候要见吗？比如下午的15：30种？
 2:42:36 PM
没收到吗？还是不要？我已经要出去。
... 2:50:54 PM
去哪里？
 2021-07-25
 12:43:04 AM
你知道这边的地方没有那么多选择。可是还可以：去看大海，去公园，去看电影，喝饮料，吃饭。。。。。。 如果2个人要在一起，可以选择比较OK的。比如，我可以买进口的红酒，后来去海边坐下，喝一下。     
 2:16:41 PM
 再发给你一次。
 2:20:05 PM
你觉得怎么样？
 2:23:53 PM
我不知道你听了什么关于外国人，可是我不是个简单的老外。我不泰像其他的，因为我又不喝白酒，又不抽烟，又不喜欢快速度汽车，又不浪费时间看足球。我一直在锻炼，看书，做健康的食物，试试省多点钱，因为要发展商业的。我是合理的，友谊的，有卫生的人。所以你可以放心，如果有担心什么的话。 
 3:19:07 PM
或者，我还在想一想，能不能你有对外国人的或对男人们的偏见。会不会不相信男人？以前有没有男人伤害了你？伤心了你？或有没有人家说“每一个老外有病毒，小心。”这类的？我知道越来越多在这里对外国人有不好的态度，不好的单词，不好的思想。现在的政治是不容易的，所以好多可怜的人们会痛苦的。但是我真的是个文明的，有卫生，有文化的人。我希望我们可以做朋友。
 3:44:32 PM
好多人有错误认识的;误解的。所以有问题的或不明白的话，要直接说，直接问。
 5:38:39 PM
我真的不知道你害怕还是担心什么，我要告诉你：对我重要的是给你开心，给你幸福，给你好玩。一点都不要问题的，要百分之百开心的，好玩的和幸福的友谊。
... 6:30:57 PM
我今天睡午觉了
 9:35:10 PM
关于见面呢？
 9:38:37 PM
是不是你觉得我们还没熟悉，所以不太敢见我？还是就觉得我对你不够好？  我真的希望你可以直接说，到底，我们会见还是不会？我不要给你压力（所以我会给你时间，我们可以天天聊天，我会介绍我的生活从幼儿园的到现在）。但是我也不要浪费你的时间如果你已经决定了我是个丑的老外。所以，我就试试找到最好的方式对你。 
 9:43:18 PM
所以你更喜欢怎么样？1、马上开始见。2、先给你时间，天天跟你聊天关于我的以前的生活，让你熟悉我好一点。3、一点都不要再麻烦你。选择“1”，“2”或“3".这样我会清楚的。 
 2021-07-26
 12:51:33 AM
考虑一下。我期待你的直接的回复。 
 2:54:13 PM
 所以你更喜欢怎么样？1、马上开始见。2、先给你时间，天天跟你聊天关于我的以前的生活，让你熟悉我好一点。3、一点都不要再麻烦你。选择“1”，“2”或“3".这样我会清楚的。  考虑一下。我期待你的直接的回复。 
 11:09:16 PM
今晚请你去肯德基喝饮料。
 11:10:35 PM
 开玩笑了。我知道你不会来，你这个不要见面我的美女。   
 11:11:48 PM
这样的吧，你自己不会选择1，2或3.我自己选择2.它就是“先给你时间，天天跟你聊天关于我的以前的生活，让你熟悉我好一点。“
 11:12:35 PM
我理解你不要马上见个男人。如果你真的要认识我好点。没事。我慢慢可以跟你说我的生活从小到大。
 11:12:41 PM
从幼儿园开始。
 11:19:22 PM
我小的时候在我们的镇有了3个幼儿园。我们选择了最大的。那边我发现了不太适合我的，所以我只有一个月上了。我反对了没有那么关心的和正义的。比如孩子打架，老师们不管。我自己告诉了她们这样是不对的。所以我找了爷爷跟我合作。爷爷帮忙了我离开幼儿园。后来，一年后我上了小学在个大的城市。下次我告诉你关于我的小学的生活。 
 2021-07-27
 2:10:27 PM
 今天我继续。
 2:13:33 PM
我保证了我会给你熟悉我的100%。我现在可以说关于我的小学的生活：开始的时候我在大的城市上了个师范学校。那边的老师天天打了孩子们。我当了个很好的小学生。我会了认识字母（其他孩子们还不会了），我弹钢琴了，我那个时候开始了做简单的运动还有天天洗澡。其他孩子们没有了我这么高级的，可是老师也打了我，因为我一次忘记了作业，和一次聊天了在上课的时候跟同学关于地理。后来父母决定了我们换个学校，因为他们不要了我从小的时候天天打。对身体不好，而且父母是医生，我们是文明的家人，不会随便让大家打我们。
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后来，我们选择了个更好的小学。那边有了几个外国学生们，老师不打孩子。所以我慢慢开始了理解好多外国的，国际的文化。也好好学习了共产的思想。那个时候开始了锻炼中国的武术。越来越多开始了喜爱中国的文化，开始了慢慢学习汉语和中文。毕业了很好。
 2:14:30 PM
初中的时候父母决定了他们要去非洲，赚钱（美元）。他们2年多在北非洲开始了上班在个医院。我也去过了2年那边。下次有空的时候，我告诉你怎么2年在那边我见了好多韩国工人，怎么学过了韩文和跆拳道，怎么努力学习了几个东西在那个恐怖的北非洲地方。 现在我打算去锻炼在健身。后来跑步在海边。回家的时候要做健康的沙拉和鸡蛋。今晚再聊。  住你美好的一天！ 
 7:06:18 PM
天天，慢慢，稳定给你熟悉我的很好。 现在我只有发给你3张关于我的已经说过的学校：
 7:06:34 PM
   
。现在你已经知道我成大了在什么地方的。 
 7:07:47 PM
我就继续我的历史。 父母决定了去北非上班2年多。那边是危险的，可是工资高，所以他们这样做了。我是比较勇敢的，所以那个时候我也参加了他们2年多在那个不文明的阿拉伯的地方。可是那些2年我见了好多韩国工人。他们帮忙了我学习有些汉字，韩文，跆拳道。所以我没有后悔这个时间。那边2年学习了在欧洲的学校。学过了好多国际文化和语文。后来回国了。上了高中。
 7:09:00 PM
那个时候我学了在个古典学校。现在发给你一张照片
 
。那个时候我开始了学习好好哲学的。从那个时候我的知识已经深了，高了。慢慢比其他人更聪明了。好多同学以为了我是个天才或哲学家。那个时候我当了最好的学生。毕业了最好的考试 （第一名的）。那个时候喜欢了这个女孩子
 
。她有点像中国人。那个时候我越来越喜欢了中国的。可是她不喜欢了中国，她要了美国。而且她更喜欢了那些更大的，更黑的男子。所以我失败了。那个时候这个是我：
 
。毕业后，我选择了来中国，可是那个时候没有那么容易。所以我考试了大学在欧洲的。成功了在最大的东南欧大学。下次告诉你关于大学的生活。 
 10:59:37 PM
看完了吗？ 
 1:16:03 AM
大概看完了吧。
 1:16:22 AM
我要继续。
 1:17:24 AM
大学的时候我成功了考试3个专业的。我选择了哲学。它是最高级的知识。所以5年多我读了哲学。我得到了硕士的水平，我选择了人类学的哲学话题。所以现在我已经非常懂人类的文化，人类的心理，人类的思想。大学的时候我们的教授是本地的欧洲的和有些国外的。我学过了东方的，包括中国的，哲学和文化。那个时候我自己选择了学习多点专业--比如学过了几个新疆话，政治学和医学的心理学。
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大学的时候我爱过了个比我一年大的姑娘。可是她不喜欢了我，已经有过了个混蛋土耳其人男朋友。他经常打了她，可是她说她还在爱他，想他，等。看来我爱了个错误的女人。她的外貌是差不多东方的，亚洲的，这类的外貌：
 
。这个不是她，我只有给你个例子，因为我没有她的照片。后来我毕业了很好（最好的之一在全部的国家。写完了个107页毕业书本。）这个就是那个大学：
 
。后来我开始了做电视台的节目，做报纸和电影。
 1:35:31 PM
 看晚了关于我的大学的时候吗？
1:35:47 PM你撤回了一条消息
 1:36:13 PM
*看完了关于我的大学的时候吗？
 1:36:35 PM
看完了关于我的大学的时候吗？
 1:37:18 PM
不用说哈。放松。 我们的目标就是越来越熟悉。所以你只有看。有问题的话，也可以问我。我让你熟悉我完全地！  我们会的。加油！
 1:38:04 PM
现在我去锻炼，后来要玩玩国际象棋。晚上的时候我发给你关于我的在中国的生活。
 
 
 
 
 3:34:16 PM
我赢了 ！
 
 3:40:03 PM
我一边玩国际象棋，一边在想你在干什么。我希望你真的看看我的信息。我想我们的开始的时候聊天。很可惜你现在不回复我的。
 7:07:15 PM
晚上好，你这个不要跟我聊天的美女！ 
 7:08:58 PM
我继续关于我的中国的生活：在中国来自的时候我超级高兴了因为中国就是我的小的时候梦想。开始的时候上班了在东北（吉林，黑龙江，辽宁），后来我觉得了北方的生活不太适合我的，所以选择了来南方。这边什么都适合我的。所以最后的几年我一直住在海南。上班了在三亚，琼海和定安。最近一直在海口，因为这里是最好的。   有过了中国女朋友，可是我们已经分手了几年以前。
 
。现在大多数的工作是教外语和哲学
 
，写书，做网站。下次可以告诉你关于我的家人。
 2021-07-29
... 12:24:55 AM
生活不容易 加油
 12:27:25 AM
当然。但是我慢慢可以成功。现在我的收入是这样：一个月内我的钱是左右8000人民币。（网络上的也有几十人民币每一个月内。）这样的。慢慢，我希望，可以发展自己的几个公司--比如一个教育的，一个网络的，一个食物的。
... 12:32:35 AM
没这么容易的
... 12:32:49 AM
赚钱没这么容易
... 12:32:57 AM
理想很美好
 12:34:29 AM
是的，可是我努力试试。我已经省钱了几万。而且我有伙伴们。他们（她们）也省钱。未来的时候我自己做+合作。我不会一直当个工人。我肯定会当自己的老板。我要自己的商业。
... 12:34:58 AM
当老板不代表啥
... 12:35:08 AM
不一定赚到钱
 12:37:37 AM
我毕业了哲学。而且我天天努力学习经济学。我知道你说的那些(”不要太相信“，“要现实一点”，“没有那么容易”，“有好多障碍”。)你说的都是对的。 但是，我已经几年好好准备--省钱，学习，试试。所以我有机会成功。当然商业的成功没有百分之一百。但是我慢慢，小心方式的，要试试。我已经开始了一点--现在慢慢做自己的家教学校和自己的网络科学网站。
... 12:38:29 AM
你现在怎么做家教学校？
... 12:38:35 AM
没有资金支持
... 12:39:17 AM
一盖个学校都不知道要多少钱
... 12:39:36 AM
没有资金怎么做？
... 12:40:11 AM
你现在一个月在海口赚八千块买房都不容易
... 12:40:46 AM
我都没有这么多幻想的 我觉得自己就是平凡的人
 12:40:58 AM
 -- 老板吗？这个我说这样：老板的（老板们的）最重要的优点是自由。自由是很重要的。如果你自己控制你的生活和你的专业（商业）--这个已经算是个成功。小成功，可是重要的成功。因为如果你在其他人的公司上班，这样的话--你有1个或2个多老板们（比如经历，总经理，等）。有老板的人，不能发展自己的很好。
... 12:41:35 AM
对我来说有些不切实际的幻想我不会去追求
... 12:41:47 AM
就好比金钱
... 12:41:54 AM
就好比生活的质量
... 12:49:31 AM
你现在生活在一座不是自己家乡的城市 其实更不容易
... 12:50:02 AM
我是比较热心肠的那种
 12:50:11 AM
看起来你不看（还是不看好）我打什么字。我已经发给了你：我的收入是8000元多，我已经省钱了几万元，我也有伙伴们。资本不太大，可是对小的生意是够了。那，如果你觉的这样还是比较穷，我理解你--大概你的父母是超级有钱的人。可是我就是个医生的儿子。我妈爸没有这么多钱。他们就买了我个中国公寓（在海口市内的。我已经告诉了你我有公寓在海口市，但是你不记住我跟你说什么。 自己看看： ），关于商业，我自己赚钱。是不是原来你觉得我是个”穷逼“，所以你不太要跟我聊天？ 我知道我不是富有的，可是我比好多海南人有更多钱一点吧。
... 12:51:15 AM
几万块钱一点都不多
... 12:51:29 AM
不是
... 12:51:32 AM
是没时间
... 12:51:37 AM
你别想多了
... 12:51:43 AM
我都不知道你收入
... 12:51:56 AM
我对别人收入不感兴趣
... 12:52:24 AM
你也看到了我都没有回复你信息
... 12:52:31 AM
你发了很多前面
... 12:52:54 AM
我也没有想去了解你哪方面的东西
... 12:53:08 AM
更谈不上关心你收入对吧
... 12:53:33 AM
我是看了一堆你发的信息
... 12:54:04 AM
我觉得你可能太过于乐观
... 12:54:14 AM
我也不知道这是不是好事
... 12:55:06 AM
我不喜欢跟别人闲聊的 你别误会 我对你的工作收入啥的不感兴趣的
... 12:55:40 AM
所以更不会存在我在乎不在乎你赚钱多不多这些了
... 12:55:48 AM
因为我本身不感兴趣
 12:56:00 AM
我就奇怪为什么开始的时候你对我有了比较好感，后来一点都不要理我的。我自己找我的错误--我决定了：可能你还在害怕我，因为我是老外的或你以前跟其他男人们有过了不好的经验   。。。。。。 但是今晚你那么会聊天。回什么事儿？ 怎么突然那么会聊天？    喝点酒了还是另外的男子给了你后悔？
... 12:56:03 AM
我之所以回复你是看你发了这么多信息
... 12:56:11 AM
不回复感觉没有礼貌
... 12:56:46 AM
觉得别人会误解认为我对外国人有偏见
... 12:56:51 AM
我想说的是
... 12:57:09 AM
我是觉得文化有差异的
... 12:57:23 AM
就是不同的国家文化是不一样的
... 12:57:42 AM
听不懂你说的
... 12:57:51 AM
我说了你听不明白吗
2021-07-29
... 12:58:37 AM
我是觉得你对我发的信息已经超越刚认识的陌生人的那种
... 12:58:47 AM
让我觉得特别不适应
... 12:58:53 AM
我不想回复你
... 12:58:58 AM
但是你一直发
... 12:59:14 AM
我觉得一直不回复可能没礼貌
 12:59:15 AM
 这个是在好多欧洲国家和其他外国国家5年多的高工资。在中国，对有钱的中国人们，肯定是”不多“。你大概是有钱的父母女儿吧？ 如果是这样的话--恭喜你。你是个幸福的人。可是，大家，在外国和在中国没有这个幸福的。比如在海口，一般的人工资是3000元到5000元。
... 12:59:27 AM
所以我才回复了这会
... 12:59:48 AM
你看我开始跟你说话我对你工资感兴趣吗
... 12:59:53 AM
没有吧
... 1:00:21 AM
我本来就对你无论是工作还是工资还是任何方面不存在什么兴趣不兴趣
... 1:01:16 AM
我今天之所以回复你是觉得你发了这么多我一直不回复会误解我对外国人有偏见还是啥的仅此而已
... 1:01:22 AM
明白吗？
... 1:02:03 AM
我对你一开始不存在什么好不好感
... 1:02:08 AM
你不要误会
... 1:02:49 AM
我也不是个高冷的人
 1:02:55 AM
 -- 错。我是现实的。我学过了哲学，经济学。我天天看书，学习。而且，我是努力的，不是懒的。我也有几个关系。所以我没有说我会做1百万，我就是说我要当个自己的老板。现实上的。我不是笨蛋。我自己写了基本书本。我有知识，我有文化，我也有大学专业。不要觉得我是个乐观主义的笨蛋。
... 1:03:21 AM
我不至于跟别人聊几句天都不可以
... 1:03:34 AM
所以估计你误解了吧
... 1:03:44 AM
我从开始对你不存在好不好感
... 1:04:12 AM
我是觉得你说的让我觉得确实存在文化差异
... 1:04:44 AM
比如中国人可能比较含蓄
... 1:04:57 AM
外国人可能比较直接
... 1:05:49 AM
如果你认为开始我跟你说几句话就是对你比较有好感的话我对所有人都有好感了
... 1:06:33 AM
还好你说了 不然我都没有意识到你是这么认为的
 1:06:34 AM
 《------ 这个是个重要的点。我说了--如果你一点都不要跟我聊天或做朋友--直接说。我不会浪费你的时间。我也不要浪费我的时间。说实话，我喜欢了你，可是如果你不喜欢我，那就停。没事的，因为我会理解，了解。我不要给你压力。我真的，真的喜欢你，可是如果你觉得我好丑或对你不够好--算了。
... 1:08:52 AM
这么跟你说吧 我跟你说话不是要发展啥 顶多只是个普通普通的朋友 这种普通的朋友每个人都会有很多
 1:10:10 AM
  真是的！美女同志，我从小的时候学习中国的文化，中国的历史，中国的共产主义，等等。我比好多你认识的中国人们懂更多中国的。所以请别对我说我是个老外。只有我的外貌是老外的，可是我的脑子，我的心，我的心里--都是100%中国人的。希望这个是清楚的！中国是我的真的祖国！
... 1:10:17 AM
我是觉得你发的一些信息已经超越我觉得普通朋友平时说话的言语
... 1:10:24 AM
所以我不想去回复你
... 1:10:32 AM
然后你发多了
... 1:10:51 AM
我就觉得不回复好像会显得我没有礼貌
... 1:11:05 AM
或者是人家会误解我对外国人有偏见
... 1:11:17 AM
随意我今天才回复你信息的
... 1:11:36 AM
我回复你是生活不容易 加油
 1:11:39 AM
你可以选择跟我不再聊天，可是求求你，别别别再说文化是不一样，因为又我的祖先是中国来自的，又我真的懂中国的文化！好吗？
... 1:11:45 AM
我没有问你工资吧？
... 1:12:01 AM
我本就不关心你这些东西
... 1:12:20 AM
所以不存在你觉得我知道你没钱怎么怎么地
... 1:12:30 AM
我交朋友不是看钱
... 1:13:21 AM
你说自己回复你工资多少赚多少
... 1:13:28 AM
我回复你赚钱不容易
 1:13:37 AM
你要记住一个对我--我是中国人一样。而且比好多中国人们我更爱中国，我更懂中国，我更理解中共，我更要中国的成功！我是中国的粉丝，我是中国的人。在我的生活比中国没有更重要的！！！
... 1:13:40 AM
你说了一些你的理想
... 1:13:56 AM
我发表自己对生活的看法 我说理想很美好
... 1:14:19 AM
不是仅针对你
... 1:14:23 AM
希望你明白
... 1:14:29 AM
谢谢
... 1:15:04 AM
也感谢你热爱中国
... 1:15:10 AM
我也热爱中国
... 1:16:05 AM
如果你只是跟我聊聊一些中国的文化说一些只是普通朋友之间的交流我是很乐意的
 1:16:22 AM
 哪里不懂？我的中文是自学的，可是比较清楚的。不懂的时候，问问，我说明一下。我天天学习中文努力的。未来的时候我肯定会更好的中文！
 1:18:17 AM
 --是的！因为我觉得了你是个好看的，聪明的，美丽的和可爱的女人。我要了熟悉好，我要了当你的很好的朋友。我要了我们发展我们的联系！因为我喜欢你了！！！
... 1:18:19 AM
开始说话那天我跟你说话本就是普通人之间的那种交流 很普通的
... 1:19:04 AM
然后你就开始发一些我看了感觉你想偏了的信息
 1:19:13 AM
我不要了我们一直当陌生人！可是看来你的要求是超级高。我不是白马王子。可惜。
... 1:19:35 AM
可能你听不明白
... 1:19:38 AM
 
... 1:20:17 AM
然后我觉得你我就基本没有回你什么消息了
... 1:20:20 AM
明白吗
... 1:21:09 AM
就是那时候我的行为已经在含蓄表态了
2021-07-29
... 1:21:34 AM
但是你一直发 我都有在看到信息 但是我没有回复你
 1:21:43 AM
 是啊。因为我不知道了你不喜欢跟我聊天。我不知道为什么你加了我，因为你不要跟这个“老外”聊天。我已经说了--我是文明的人。如果你那么不喜欢我，那么不要我--算了，我们可以互相删掉。没事的。对不起，抱歉我这个不够好的男人跟你试试了聊天！ 
... 1:22:19 AM
所以不存在只是到了今天你自己说你工资我看不起你什么的
... 1:22:30 AM
你明白吗
... 1:23:47 AM
我今天给你发的第一句话是生活不容易 加油
... 1:23:56 AM
我一直觉得不容易
... 1:24:04 AM
我是在鼓励你
... 1:24:11 AM
我没问你工资
... 1:24:20 AM
我本来就不关心
... 1:24:40 AM
所以不存在我知道你工资然后看不起你 明白吗
... 1:24:57 AM
而且八千的工资在海口不算少
... 1:25:03 AM
希望你别误解
... 1:25:05 AM
谢谢
... 1:25:27 AM
你给我你的名片
... 1:25:33 AM
我觉得你是个外国人
... 1:25:45 AM
你这么热心的给我你的名片
 1:25:56 AM
我早说了！ 你自己选择--1，2或3.你沉默了。我自选了慢慢跟你熟悉好好。可是如果你觉得我就是个不好的或不够好的老外--算了。我的目标是给你幸福，开心，好玩。如果你不要跟我一起玩，跟我一起试试幸福，跟我一起舒服--算了。我会理解和了解你。我有文化的。如果你要删掉--就删掉。没事的。   祝福你。
... 1:26:26 AM
我作为一个中国人 按照上面的QQ加你 只是觉得外国人在异乡挺不容易的
... 1:27:04 AM
我作为一个中国人给外国友人普通朋友一样的关怀 别人会觉得中国人挺不错
... 1:27:43 AM
外国人会更喜欢来中国
... 1:28:29 AM
我是不想外国人觉得中国人不行 觉得中国人排外 然后说不要去中国  说怎么怎么不好
 1:28:37 AM
好的。我已经不要浪费你的时间。我还没看完了你在上面发给了我什么信息，可是如果你真的不喜欢跟我做朋友--请删掉我。我没有反对。
... 1:29:59 AM
我希望至少我是中国人不至于让外国人觉得中国人对外国人不友善啥的
... 1:30:37 AM
你对幸福这个词怎么理解
 1:31:03 AM
  哈哈哈！我住在中国从2004年。我猜我比你知道和懂中国更多一点。放心。我没有对中华民族什么偏见的。我自己算是个中国人！！！
... 1:31:05 AM
至少在我眼里 幸福这个词
... 1:31:20 AM
不是随便乱用的
... 1:31:33 AM
所以我觉得这估计是文化差异
 1:32:00 AM
天哪。。。。。。你真的认为我是个普通的老外。真是的！  拜托！
... 1:32:06 AM
比如你说到那你你的目标是给我幸福
... 1:32:21 AM
我听了就会觉得很不妥
... 1:32:27 AM
因为幸福这个词
... 1:32:53 AM
是比如交往的男女朋友才会说
... 1:33:18 AM
或者是父母对子女说要给自己子女一个幸福的家庭
 1:33:28 AM
文化差异？文化差异？我已经那么多次说了我的生活从小的时候属于中国的，我学过了全部的中国文化，政治，等。你还以为有文化差异？！ 老天阿！
... 1:33:37 AM
所以我看到你发的那些信息我就不敢回了 
... 1:34:25 AM
中国人不会随便对异性朋友说希望给你幸福这句话的
... 1:34:30 AM
明白吗
... 1:34:53 AM
就比如说男的向女的求婚才会说我希望给你幸福
... 1:35:20 AM
普通的异性朋友之间都不会用这个词的
... 1:35:22 AM
 
 1:35:34 AM
算了吧。我们真的不合适。（我是责任的人，我要看完你说了什么，可是你的最后几个的句话真的给了我感觉你不会理解我这个中国粉丝，这个中国通的人。我已经也不太要我们联系。）
... 1:36:09 AM
哈哈哈
... 1:36:22 AM
加油 祝你好运
... 1:37:11 AM
我没说啥吧 我是想说你要注意幸福这个用词仅此而已
... 1:37:12 AM
哈哈哈
... 1:37:37 AM
算了还是不说了 不想被无限误解
 1:37:38 AM
美女，我已经有过了中国女朋友们，不要教我关于中国女性文化。在每一个地方是不一样的。
... 1:38:21 AM
看来好心也不一定会被认可
... 1:38:32 AM
算我多此一举
 1:38:37 AM
如果你要我看完你的全部的信息和慢慢回复你，我会的。不要的话，算了--马上可以删掉我。谢谢！
 1:39:11 AM
看来好人也不一定会被认可
 1:39:17 AM
所以。。。。。。
 1:39:46 AM
祝你好运找到你的白马王子！
... 1:40:04 AM
祝你好运
... 1:40:25 AM
 
... 1:40:33 AM
实在是不好意思
 1:41:08 AM
嗯嗯。
... 1:41:12 AM
没想到会给你带来这种不好的情绪
 1:41:14 AM
嗯。
2021-07-29
... 1:41:17 AM
我没有恶意
 1:41:42 AM
嗯，好的，没事。算了。晚安了！
 1:49:37 AM
我再说一次：我喜欢直接的联系和直接的态度（中国的北方人--西北的和东北的大多数是这样的：有什么说什么。我也是的。）所以，你自己想想--你不要我的话，可以马上删掉我。我发给了你很多信息，因为我喜欢了你，我希望了我们可以发展联系，可是看起来你不喜欢我。跟不喜欢我的人们，我就没有逻辑做朋友或联系。所以删掉我--就可以的。 
... 1:51:17 AM
我不要你的话这句话啥意思
... 1:52:22 AM
你也可以删掉我没事的
 1:52:45 AM
意思是“如果你不要跟我联系的话”或“如果你不要跟我做朋友的话”。
 1:53:02 AM
当然了啊!
 1:53:12 AM
但是问题是你要不要我？
... 1:53:17 AM
我其实很多时候都不太明白你说的话
 1:53:55 AM
我已经，看到了，你99%没有什么机会喜欢我的。所以，我猜，你并不要跟我见面，也不要跟我聊天。对吧？
 1:54:22 AM
 那好吧。我的错。抱歉。
 1:54:35 AM
告别？
 1:56:07 AM
  OK了吗？告别了吗？
 1:56:12 AM
是否？
 1:56:34 AM
求求给我个直接的“是否？“
... 1:56:34 AM
嗯
 1:57:04 AM
决定删掉？是？
... 1:57:07 AM
是
 1:57:14 AM
(OK) (OK) "

As you saw, just a complete waste of time. And she's pretending not to understand simple facts, simple logical constructions and thinking that I'm the one who don't understand her culture, my language isn't good enough and other excuses just to reject me. So, at the end, I felt really too tired, too hurt, too sad and I decided that it was for good that such a stupid (or pretending to be so stupid) person is not going to meet me.

Title: Rejection #41
Post by: Incel on June 09, 2023, 03:16:14 AM

Rejection #41

This one is as simple as this. There were 2 lovely Beckies on the beach, having some sort of picnic and I went closer, politely gave them my business card, and said "You may add me if you wish to make friends." And they said "Oh, thank you!", they were polite. And then... never added me and I never met them again. That's it.

Title: Rejection #42
Post by: Incel on June 09, 2023, 03:22:37 AM

Rejection #42

About a ghosted type one. A very short one indeed. Well, there was that nicknamed "Athena" female ("滤掉态度，关注信息") who was one that reads humanitarian books, knows concepts like "freedom", "rights", etc. and sometimes writes things that I don't understand like "红色，7，正北，1000毫升水，小心腿脚，运动，生活设计师。". And the thing is that I sent her some sentences but she didn't answer and deleted me. Very short type of ending:

"2019-09-26
 2:50:49 PM
在吗？
 2020-01-24
 7:14:29 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!    "

And nothing anymore.

Title: Rejection #43
Post by: Incel on June 09, 2023, 04:30:26 AM

Rejection #43

Also a ghosted type one. A comparatively short one.
So, there was that nicknamed "打不过数理化" teen girl ("中高考金榜题名.") who added me and said it's a mistake but I was thinking that it's just some who is going to "spy" me (maybe a friend of another one) or just a coincidence and I tried to make friends with her; I hoped that if she's good and pretty after she grow up there will be some good chance but... ghosted (should I say "As usual"?) and that was it.

"2021-04-05
別來無恙.& 12:52:54 PM
我是別來無恙.&
 12:53:08 PM
 
 12:58:11 PM
你好！
 12:58:20 PM
你是哪位？
別來無恙.& 1:33:23 PM
抱歉加错了.对不起哈.
 2:09:54 PM
我是外国哥哥，在海口。你呢？
 2021-04-06
別來無恙.& 1:14:18 PM
教英语的啊.
別來無恙.& 7:36:10 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
 7:37:21 PM
是的。我毕业了”哲学“，可是在海口我教外语的。也做网站。你也住在海口吗？
別來無恙.& 7:37:23 PM
[自动回复]看心情回。
 10:10:19 PM
我喜欢看书，写故事。也爱运动。武术，健身，瑜伽。
別來無恙.& 10:10:20 PM
[自动回复]看心情回。
 2021-04-08
 12:09:18 AM
你也住在海口吗？
別來無恙.& 12:15:44 AM
不是.
別來無恙.& 12:15:48 AM
镇.
 12:16:21 AM
海南的镇？
別來無恙.& 2:01:12 AM
嗯，
別來無恙.& 2:01:31 AM
在西秀这边.
 12:04:29 PM
好的。
 12:04:38 PM
你多大了？
別來無恙.& 1:19:51 PM
13
 7:36:23 PM
好的。
 7:36:44 PM
你有喜欢的运动吗？
 2021-04-10
 12:39:22 AM
我锻炼的是武术，瑜伽，健身。
 2021-04-11
 1:22:30 PM
 
別來無恙.& 1:22:33 PM
[自动回复]看心情回。
 1:22:40 PM
我的运动的照片。
 1:23:04 PM
我也喜欢写诗，故事，科学的书本。
別來無恙.& 1:23:06 PM
[自动回复]看心情回。
 2021-04-12
 1:23:25 PM
 
別來無恙.& 1:23:26 PM
[自动回复]看心情回。
 1:23:37 PM
看到了吗？
別來無恙.& 1:23:38 PM
[自动回复]看心情回。
 2021-04-13
 2:01:33 AM
在阿
 2:01:48 AM
我也是夜猫。
 2021-04-17
 1:26:15 PM
你的心情一直不好，还是只有跟我不太要聊天？
別來無恙.& 1:26:15 PM
[自动回复]看心情回。
 1:26:29 PM
 
別來無恙.& 1:26:29 PM
[自动回复]看心情回。
 1:56:58 PM
我不吸烟，不喝白酒，不吸毒。爱看书，做运动。我有特别文明和健康的生活。可以相信我。别害怕。
別來無恙.& 1:56:58 PM
[自动回复]看心情回。
別來無恙.& 11:31:33 PM
不好意思，最近要考试了没空，
 2021-04-18
別來無恙.& 12:30:53 PM
[自动回复]看心情回.
 12:30:55 PM
什么时候考试完？
 2021-04-19
 12:30:59 PM
五。一 肯定已经没有了。
 12:31:15 PM
那个时候大家都放假了。
 2021-04-21
 9:11:11 PM
哇哦！你穿衣服的真好看。
 9:11:22 PM
 
 2021-04-25
 10:39:36 PM
五。一 的时候要见吗？
 2021-04-26
 5:23:06 PM
五。一 的时候要见吗？ 还是你觉得我丑，不喜欢跟我见面?
 2021-04-28
 12:23:58 PM
 (哎呀 picture)
 2021-05-01
 2:24:11 PM
五。一 快乐！
 2021-05-02
 2:03:30 PM
看起来你一点都不要跟我聊天。删掉吧！我不要这样。"

Just realized that she's not willing even to make friends with me, so when I saw I'm 100% ghosted I ended this one-sided "QQ friendship".

Title: Rejection #44
Post by: Incel on June 09, 2023, 05:49:21 PM

Rejection #44

This is another one of all these many ghosted type rejections (hate to repeat myself but this is it, can't use other words).

So, it's about a "Haif゛兮" (""). For a long time she didn't send any message. I sent her some:


"2019-07-27
 2:20:12 AM
Hi! Long time no see.
 2019-09-13
 8:05:22 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
 3:46:41 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:42:39 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-03-03
 8:09:30 AM
(Happy birthday e-card)
 2021-03-03
 8:06:46 PM
(Happy birthday e-card)
 2021-08-12
 5:22:02 PM
已经不上QQ吗？
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Years of fruitless "communication". 100% ghosted and... as you can see that was just another useless "relationship".

Title: Rejection #45
Post by: Incel on June 09, 2023, 07:13:12 PM

Rejection #45

This is another one of all these many ghosted type rejections (but most of the time the chat was meaningful so I'm not sure if it's a 100% ghosting or just she forgot to leave me her new contacts... or, the worst happened  ::) I hope not). I don't know.

So, it's about a "calm" ("attractive and charming.")... :
"2019-09-13
 7:59:53 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2019-09-15
calm 3:48:53 PM
Thank you!
9:39:40 PM
So, are you in Haikou recently?
 2019-09-17
calm 1:55:02 PM
No, I have never been to haikou.
 2:14:41 PM
But I live here. When you're going to come?
 2019-11-05
 8:41:34 PM
Hi, my friend! How are you doing?
 8:41:37 PM
我已经好久在中国，所以我没有什么不懂的，可是要问你个问题：以前几个中国朋友们（男性和女性）对我说了“我喜欢你”（I like you），因为我们就是普通的好朋友们.今天我对一个海南的朋友说了“我喜欢你”，可是她认为了是我爱她的意思或我要爱她的意思。然后她说在中国不会对普通的朋友说“我喜欢你。”，可是我还不相信她，因为以前就是对我几个100%中国人说了这样。你也是中国人，你告诉我你觉的“我喜欢你”是太过份了或就是个正常的，普通的句子？
 2019-11-07
calm 7:06:40 PM
It depends.
calm 7:07:15 PM
When you say I like you to a girl, I think the girl will mistake it for I love you.
calm 7:07:51 PM
But if a guy say it to you, that means he likes hanging out with you.
 10:02:34 PM
Alright. Thanks!
How are you doing recently?
 2019-11-08
calm 1:58:51 PM
So far so good
calm 1:59:02 PM
I was late for work today.
calm 1:59:11 PM
Very unhappy for that
 1:59:46 PM
I was late once too. It's bad. But if you called them and said "Sorry, I'm not able to come on time, but I'm coming!", it's okay I think.
 1:59:58 PM
What do you work exactly, now?
 2:24:41 PM
And do you still like massages?
calm 6:35:18 PM
No, I use we chat more  often
 2019-11-09
 12:46:59 AM
你现在做的是什么工作的？
calm 10:06:54 AM
something about selling houses。
calm 10:07:11 AM
Are you surprised?
 2019-11-10
 12:09:02 AM
No. In fact it's a good job, isn't it.
 12:09:14 AM
And you're still in Haikou, right?
calm 11:22:11 PM
No, I don't
calm 11:22:25 PM
I have never been to haikou
 11:26:58 PM
Often I do forget it.
 2019-11-11
calm 10:29:06 AM
I have never been to HAinan either.
 2:29:15 PM
But how we know each other? I don't remember where we met for the first time?
calm 4:01:31 PM
I guess we have not met before.
calm 4:02:09 PM
Well, I also did not remem how we got to know each other.
 4:02:14 PM
We should then.
calm 4:02:33 PM
 
 2020-01-30
 3:25:01 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
calm 10:26:06 PM
Ok, are you safe with a mask?
 10:26:07 PM
[自动回复]你好，我现在有事不在，一会再和你联系。
calm 10:26:55 PM
By the way, is there anything that can't be left behind?
 10:26:56 PM
[自动回复]你好，我现在有事不在，一会再和你联系。
 10:32:01 PM
我原来非常注意我的身体，健康：天天洗手，洗澡，吃饭前除了洗手，我也洗脸（嘴巴）。所以我不会生病（没有住院了）。口罩有。我的父母是医生，所以我比较懂医学的。
当然，除了卫生，也要运动（我天天锻炼武术），吃健康的食物（我爱蔬菜莎拉和水果），不要吸烟（我不抽烟），也不要喝白酒（我只有喝点红酒，一个月一次左右）。这样。 
 10:32:42 PM
What do you mean with that "can't be left behind"?
calm 11:20:00 PM
I mean why do you want to stay in China?
 11:20:30 PM
当然！我热爱中国。我已经这么多年在这里。
calm 11:20:33 PM
Is there something u can't leave behind?
calm 11:20:42 PM
How long?
 11:20:44 PM
。我的意思是他们，大多数，没有对中国那么深的爱。经常他们来这边1-2年，上班一下，吃中国菜一下，旅游一下，摸一模中国女人们，后来换另外的国家。很少有对中国深爱的和责任心的老外们。可能2-3%。其它都是：“你在这里这么多年？！ 你疯了吗？！”。。。。。。 有些中国人也是这样的态度，他们觉的中国是不太好的，可是我喜欢这里的安全，和谐和稳定社会。
 11:21:10 PM
I just LOVE China.
calm 11:21:18 PM
Ok, got it
 11:21:34 PM
Almost 16 years so far.
 11:21:45 PM
So, where are you now?
calm 11:21:48 PM
Then how old are you?
calm 11:22:01 PM
I am in China, of course
 11:23:05 PM
No, I mean which city. Because I'm  in Haikou.   
 11:23:30 PM
我就是你的哥哥（不是大叔，不要担心。 ）
calm 11:24:02 PM
I am in nanchang
calm 11:24:23 PM
Oh, I am worried.
 11:24:25 PM
Oh, 江西.  I see.
 11:24:37 PM
Don't worry.
 11:25:08 PM
Of course, if there is something, let me know. Maybe I can help. Who knows...
 11:25:15 PM
It's like this:
 11:25:26 PM
 
 11:25:44 PM
Sometimes, of course...

2020-01-30
calm 11:32:33 PM
Like what?
calm 11:33:02 PM
I do not know much about what you can help
calm 11:33:20 PM
Just take care of yourself
 11:49:24 PM
因为你说你在worry，我说不要担心，因为我不是老人。但是如果你有别的worries可能我会帮忙；我也不知道我对你的问题能力是怎么样，可是我试试吧。
 11:50:05 PM
Of course, I'm trying to. You know I'm an educated and smart man.
 2020-01-31
calm 5:17:30 PM
I don't know much about you
calm 5:17:52 PM
What is your passion for life?
 5:18:14 PM
A few, in fact:
calm 5:18:53 PM
Let me guess!
calm 5:20:00 PM
You are a Caucasian， of medium height
 5:20:05 PM
OK, but I will give you the list anyway:
calm 5:20:30 PM
Probably a little fat.
calm 5:20:48 PM
Over 40
 5:21:01 PM
当然，我是白人，可是我认为了你问我关于我的生活的爱好和目的。所以我已经写了个LIST给你：
1) China. I love to learn the Chinese culture and to enjoy Chinesee things.

2) Sports (mostly wu-shu and gym).

3) Learning science.

4) Trying to make successful online business, because I want to become richer.

That's all I think...
calm 5:21:26 PM
 
calm 5:22:05 PM
Before you came to China, what did you do?
calm 5:22:56 PM
You may have lots of girls coming and going in your life.
calm 5:23:04 PM
That is my first guess
 5:24:15 PM
关于白人：对的，因为我是欧洲的。
关于年龄：是的，我比你大，可是不是叔叔，是哥哥。
关于胖子：以前是，可是后来我减肥了，现在吃健康的，天天做运动，已经瘦了：
calm 5:25:10 PM
Your Chinese is better than mine
5:25:16 PM calm撤回了一条消息
calm 5:25:25 PM
No bet
 5:25:41 PM
 
 5:26:16 PM
家里的东西。现在也给你看看我的身体，真的不是像大多数的老外们(胖子们)：
 5:26:24 PM
 
 5:26:54 PM
当然，我不是肌肉男子，因为我不吃那些”药“，肌肉是100%自然的。
calm 5:27:04 PM
Who took that picture for you?
calm 5:27:13 PM
Someone intimate?
 5:27:20 PM
可是我的意思是，我肯定，肯定，已经不会胖。胖是不健康的。
 5:28:13 PM
自拍的。现代的科学发明了“自拍”方式。比如你可以放你的手机在桌子上，几秒后它自动拍照的。
 5:28:32 PM
看看上面你发给了什么。
 5:29:29 PM
 ：教了历史，后来在电视台做了自己的哲学的和人类学的SHOW。也在报纸做了心理学的工作。
calm 5:30:12 PM
Ok, that's amazing
calm 5:30:40 PM
This is just getting interesting.
 5:31:19 PM
 - 我发誓，没有的。如果有的话，我会天天在电脑前面做9-10个小时吗？如果我有爱我的人，我肯定不会那么长时间在家里用网络在电脑前。
本地的（海南的）女孩子们，大多数，不喜欢老外们。她们害怕。99%有本地的男友或大陆的。
 5:31:57 PM
我知道，好多，男人们（包括中国的）喜欢跟很多女人们玩玩，可是我的情况肯定不是这样的。
calm 5:32:47 PM
So you have never married?
calm 5:33:10 PM
never meet that special one?
 5:33:37 PM
 - 没有，因为我的汉语是90%自学的；我从小的时候热爱了中国，所以自己找了汉字，自己学习了。我的语法不好（我只有猜怎么放单词一个一个的，可是不知道我用的是不是关于语法上对。但是你懂，就够了。）
 5:36:28 PM
等一下，你问我好多问题，可是你自己不说。 你也来一下，介绍自己的：有没有很多男朋友们，结婚了没有，离婚了没有，有没有孩子们？这样我们互相聊天吧。 因为这样的unilateral (only one side), 有点像在法院或警察的地方--只有他们问问题的。
calm 5:37:58 PM
I dated African boyfriend and American boyfriend before I got married
calm 5:38:15 PM
So a lot of information for you
calm 5:38:47 PM
I have a two year old daughter.
calm 5:38:57 PM
She is very very cute.
 5:39:02 PM
 谢谢你！好多中国人认为来这里的外国朋友，在他们的国家不会有好的工作，所以他们来这边。其实我有过了好的工作，可是我就是更爱中华人民共和国，因为这边的文化，安全，和谐，社会，政治是更好的。没有欧洲的和西方时间的那么乱。我就喜爱这边的生活，所以这里的工作没有那么好，可是国家和人家更好。
 5:39:30 PM
好的。Thank you for your honesty!
 5:41:04 PM
I will be honest too, I had a Chinese woman, but now we're not together anymore: 
calm 5:42:01 PM
Didn't you two get married?
calm 5:42:10 PM
Are you divorced?
 5:42:40 PM
 It's nearly impossible. 非常爱你的人，可能你不爱。你非常爱的人，可能她不爱你。所以机会是超级小的。离婚越来越多。爱没有那么容易。
 5:42:49 PM
没有。孩子们也没有。
calm 5:44:12 PM
When did you two part?
 5:47:28 PM
I really don't wont to remember the past. I just wanted to tell you something private (honest) about me, too. Because you sounds like an honest person.
 5:47:55 PM
Past is past. And makes me feel pain... So I do prefer to focus on the present ("now").
calm 5:48:24 PM
Ok
 5:48:32 PM
For example, now I'm writing a new e-book. And it will be ready soon. 
 5:48:42 PM
It's about the incels.
 5:48:55 PM
(involuntary celibates)
 5:49:29 PM
I think it's a good idea and may be helpful for them, because they're more and more. Some of them suicides... the situation is tragic...
 5:49:40 PM
And I feel it myself...
2020-01-31
calm 5:52:13 PM
Something about religion
 5:52:49 PM
不是。那些是voluntary celibates.
 5:53:13 PM
这些是这样：“我要女朋友，可是一个都不喜欢我。”
 5:53:42 PM
就是不会找到喜欢他的女人：那些超级穷的，胖的，丑的，不够聪明男人们。
 5:54:07 PM
包括矮的男人们。
 5:54:37 PM
因为现在，女人们，越来越多要：高，帅，富有。所以世界上越来越多男人们自杀。
 5:54:54 PM
缺爱男人们。
calm 5:56:31 PM
Haven't you heard?
calm 5:56:36 PM
Love is blind
 5:56:53 PM
所以我试试给好主意，比如：减肥，省多点钱，等等。
calm 5:57:18 PM
I guess your view is too pessmistic
 5:59:24 PM
我的专业就是关于人类的爱（哲学的人类学，硕士）。但是，说实话，没有女人会喜欢乞丐，矮男人，超级丑男人.
给你例子：
 《--- 这样的老，丑的，印度人，会不会找到女朋友？不会的。
 6:00:05 PM
No, it's just REALISTIC. 所以我就是写那个书本要帮忙有机会的男人们。因为可能40%是有机会的。
calm 6:03:12 PM
Sometimes love is beyond material wealth
calm 6:03:25 PM
You just need to find it
 6:03:46 PM
对这样一位： 或 ，没有那么多"love is blind". Love is blind 只有对比较好看的，比较有收入的男人们。女人们不会爱上穷，丑，矮男人。这个就是REALISM的看法。
calm 6:03:55 PM
If you fail to fine love, that is because you don't try hard
 6:05:24 PM
我不是说只有钱。我也说：外貌，身体，健康，等。当然如果只有穷，还可以的，因为有些穷人有机会结婚。可是我说全部的。事实：在世界上越来越多男人们自杀。
 6:06:40 PM
如果他try hard: ,你觉的会有正常的女人会爱上他吗？
 6:07:33 PM
有些男人们就没有机会。当然，我再说，我相信40%左右会有的，所以我就写电子书帮忙他们一下。
6:08:41 PM calm撤回了一条消息
 6:08:49 PM
比如这个丑的朋友： -- 他会的。慢慢会做好的皮肤，头发，肌肉，卫生。他会的。可是上面那个人没有办法的。
calm 6:09:12 PM
I always believe in love at first sight
calm 6:09:33 PM
Never lose heart
calm 6:09:40 PM
Keep looking
 6:11:08 PM
For love at first sight, the men needs to be:

- good-looking
- not very poor
- good character


穷，丑，可怜男子们，都叫他们“吊死”(loosers),所以越来越少机会。
calm 6:12:59 PM
屌丝
 6:13:24 PM
Me? I'm not that bad: 1. 我超级有教育的（硕士哲学家），2.我是白人（人家最爱白的），3. 我是比较年轻（还没有到了”中年“），4.我很干净，天天洗澡，洗脸，洗手。5.我的身体越来越肌肉的，6.天天看书，学习多。7.比好多本地的人们更富有一点。

所以我不是那么incelish.
calm 6:13:25 PM
So funny
 6:13:46 PM
Yes, that's it.
calm 6:13:53 PM
Supper now
 6:14:24 PM
我自己没有那么灰心，可是我可怜他们，所以我的目标是写这样一本书。
 6:15:49 PM
他们天天要自杀。自杀的越来越高： 。所以我就可怜他们。I feel pity for them and I'm trying to help...
 6:15:50 PM
Yes, that's it.
 6:17:30 PM
关于宗教（religion）-- 100% NO. 我是科学的看法，我不相信那些假象的“上帝”，“天使”，“魔鬼”，等等bullshit.
我只有相信有证明的，科学的，事实上的东西。
 6:29:38 PM
我们不要说这些对你无聊的话题吧。重要的是你来海南的时候我们见面。   还有，无聊的时候，找我随便聊天你喜欢的话题。
calm 6:33:24 PM
I have never been to hainan
calm 6:33:54 PM
I will travel to hainan someday
calm 6:34:14 PM
I am the boring kind of people
calm 6:34:43 PM
I have little interest
 7:02:48 PM
Well, of course.
 7:03:07 PM
No, you are attractive and charming.
 7:03:22 PM
 
 7:03:28 PM
 
calm 7:36:19 PM
 
calm 7:36:38 PM
It may be deceiving
 7:38:54 PM
Of course! But, because I like the Chinese women very much (except the fat ones), I do believe, that in my eyes, you could be a really charming Chinese girl.
7:41:32 PM calm撤回了一条消息
calm 7:41:52 PM
I am the fat one
calm 7:42:08 PM
63 kg
 7:42:26 PM
But why? If you're 170 cm, then it's not that bad.
 7:42:34 PM
Depends how tall are you, in fact.
calm 7:42:48 PM
I am no more than 160
calm 7:43:11 PM
So you see, fat
 7:43:26 PM
Oh, then you have to be 50 kg. 减肥26斤，才是美女。
 7:43:38 PM
Fat is bad for health.
 7:45:22 PM
比如癌症：越胖越高癌症可能性： 。
所以，试试减肥。要算卡路里的。每天吃只有900卡路里。后来，1年后你会减肥的。
calm 7:46:04 PM
To be honest, I am not that fat
calm 7:46:30 PM
I have two giant boobs
calm 7:46:47 PM
That makes me heavy
2020-01-31
calm 7:46:52 PM
More or less
calm 7:46:56 PM
 
 7:56:35 PM
Every + kg. is already a problem for the body. 我以前（胖子的时候）有了好多问题：非常流汗，腿疼，膝盖疼。减肥后一点都没有，感觉越来越健康。
 7:56:48 PM
Wow?! Giant???
calm 8:00:55 PM
D or E cup for my size
calm 8:01:35 PM
I am never proud of them
 8:01:51 PM
I see. This, for sure, makes many men horny.
calm 8:01:54 PM
Actually, I dislike this situation a lot.
 8:02:15 PM
But, maybe 85-90% of the males think the opposite.
 8:02:30 PM
Even the women. More and more consider breast surgery...
 8:02:49 PM
So, you just may be okay with it; don't feel sorry.
 2020-02-01
 10:51:21 PM
 
 10:51:42 PM
How's it going? Bored or... ?
calm 11:38:24 PM
So far so good
calm 11:38:52 PM
Going to sleep
 11:44:16 PM
OK. Good night!
 2020-02-04
 3:13:00 PM
好可爱的图片，发给你：
calm 5:13:17 PM
What is it?
 5:13:27 PM
 
 5:13:40 PM
A picture. Just it.
 5:13:43 PM
 
calm 5:15:28 PM
Ok, can you go out?
 5:19:40 PM
Everyday or every other day I'm out. Buying some vegetables, fruit. Few minutes running. Some simple sports. Visiting some new corner or street.
 5:20:52 PM
当然我有口罩，用酒精。吃饭钱洗手，也洗嘴巴。天天1-2次洗澡。我是超级卫生的和干净的。所以从不住院了，我身体很好。
calm 5:21:32 PM
Good for you!
 5:24:24 PM
Yes. I'm different. All my life is according to science and safety...
 5:27:57 PM
比如回家的时候马上放外面的衣服在洗衣的地方。不会外面穿的衣服用在里面，坐下在床上，等。里面的衣服穿只有在里面。所以可能在家里一个细菌都没有。病毒可能也没有的。
好多外国佬没有我那么干净的。可是我就不是个简单的老外。我是科学看法的人。
calm 6:39:33 PM
Well, I am glad to know it.
calm 6:40:15 PM
The wuhan virus is spreading fast
calm 7:04:02 PM
Be more careful
 8:38:13 PM
说实话，有更危险的病。比如肝炎，包虫病，等。可是大家不知道，所以他们不怕。这个新型冠状病毒没有那么危险（只有2-3%死），可是天天在新闻，天天越来越多人害怕，所以他们觉的是更恐怖的。其实这个比SARS是更小的危险。SARS的死是10%的。
 10:14:38 PM
And how about your place? Are you limited to go out? How do you spend your days and nights?
 2020-02-05
 3:08:22 PM
那是“DICE”漫画的个非常非常感人的瞬间：
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 2020-02-07
 4:01:55 PM
Today I'll share with you my another's chat part:
 4:02:22 PM
这里是我的刚才的“差不多的存在主义”thoughts ；跟教授聊天了：
 
 
 
 
 
。
 2020-02-08
calm 2:09:56 PM
Haha, don't be judgmental.
calm 2:10:46 PM
You never really know a person unless you are together long enough.
 2:42:10 PM
You know most of these couples do not stay long... Most are just for 1 week to several months... So, I doubt it's related to the "personality"...
 10:01:38 PM
元宵节快乐！
 2020-02-09
 3:26:36 PM
你还好吗？昨天发给了你
 
，但是你什么也没有回复了。
 2020-02-10
calm 9:59:59 AM
Sorry, I don't use QQ  very often.
calm 10:00:14 AM
I use we chat more often
 2:11:50 PM
OK, when you miss me, you can use QQ to chat with me then.
 2020-02-14
 2:29:41 PM
情人节快乐！
 2020-02-17
calm 1:23:39 PM
 (coconut tree emoji)
 3:03:47 PM
Yes, a lot of coconut trees around me.
calm 4:01:46 PM
We have a beautiful day today
calm 4:02:27 PM
People will go back to work sooner or later.
 11:58:43 PM
Yeah, those who survive... I can't get any income now... even my last salary isn't available:
 2020-02-18
calm 2:02:31 PM
Where do you teach?
 2:03:21 PM
In Haikou. Mostly private students (一对一)，but also a school is hiring me for part-time job.
 2:09:03 PM
但是现在都不要上课，所以是痛苦的。但是没有选择的。外面的公司查不到全部的也不上班；没有人需要工人的。（而且很少会请老外上班的。）又无聊，又穷。。。。。。 这样。
 2020-02-20
calm 10:46:04 AM
Ok, many foreigners find their jobs as teachers in China.
calm 10:47:05 AM
Some teach in universities. Some teach in middle schools and some in kindergarten.
 2:53:45 PM
我知道 。我是说我现在这边没有的。"Many foreigners"是他们的事儿（我属于在这个"many foreigners"的定义，因为不会有中国国籍）。好多老外们回国了，其它：我一样现在上课不了。我只有分享我的情况，在海口市：学校还没开门了，外面差不多每一个公司和商店还不敢开门。这样。所以不会找到工作也没有人要出去玩玩一下，因为大多数觉的“病毒那里都有”。所以：又无聊，又穷。
 2020-02-29
 4:02:30 PM
Hi, attractive and charming friend of mine!
4:02:49 PM
我已经写完了和出版了我的第一个的英文电子书：...

 
 2020-03-01
calm 8:02:24 AM
Thanks for sharing
calm 8:02:28 AM
Way to go
 2020-03-08
 3:57:20 PM
三.八节快乐!
2020-04-04
 4:55:23 PM
我的第二本已经OK了： ...
 2020-04-07
calm 2:05:02 PM
But I can't read either of them
 3:38:38 PM
Well, it's just a photo (screenshot). I just want to show you my progress.
My third one: ...
calm 7:06:53 PM
I expect them to be good
calm 7:07:49 PM
So you start your teaching already?
 8:23:05 PM
No. Still no incomes. Hard life.
 8:32:04 PM
培训学校，小学，幼儿园，没有开学了。。。。。。
 2020-04-10
 6:33:04 PM
You're currently a teacher too?
calm 7:51:38 PM
Well, how do you know?
 11:23:33 PM
我用简单的逻辑：
1） 你的英语不错。
2）你问我关于我们这边有没有开学了（如果不是老师的话，很少担心学校开不开学）。
所以我猜你是英语老师（或其它老师），但是我猜了90%可能性你是当老师的。
 2020-04-11
calm 8:10:12 PM
Ok, way to go!
calm 8:10:30 PM
You are very smart
 9:06:06 PM
我就是真的爱学习的人。天天学习新的信息（科学的，哲学的，心理学的，历史的），天天做运动。所以比其它，大多数的，人们我是比较更聪明和更好看（身体）。就是要每天一点点对脑子和身体管理。
 2020-04-12
 3:46:03 PM
BOOOOOOM!
 
 
 4:23:47 PM
 
calm 8:37:47 PM
I have to say, your Chinese is too good to be true
 10:09:03 PM
 也是那样子的：好多年学习了，可是每天1或2个汉字。后来慢慢会的。但是：
1）好多人说我的语法是差的。我同意。因为我自学只有孩子的（单词的）。我不知道哪一个单词是第一， 哪一个是第二。。。。。。 就猜（用我的母语的语法逻辑和从中国人听的的汉语）什么是什么。
2）我的发音不太好，因为那些4个tones我不太会的。

所以，我爱学习，但是对我中文和汉语是爱好的水平（自学的水平），所以我没有专业的能力。（但是这个不是问题的，因为，大家大多数，听懂和看懂我的）。

3）我是比较聪明的人（已经习惯了学习更复杂的信息--哲学的，心理学的，等），所以，可能，对我学习外语是个比较简单的事儿。我会几门外语的（包括俄文，英文，中文，马其顿文；也会一点韩语和西班牙语）。
 10:20:09 PM
其实，我不明白为什么有比较多中国人认为一个外国人不会学习汉字的。我知道汉字的是比较难的和古代的方式（不太像个现代的写法）；我也知道许多老外们不是那么聪明的（大多数他们不太爱学习，对他们知识不是个价值，因为他们更爱：运动，酒，性爱，政治，电影，等。）但是每一个脑子（无论是中国的或外国的）可以学习图片（汉字）。比如：对个中国小孩子 "lei"“磊”是难的（对老外人也是难的）。对个中国小孩子"yi" “一”是容易的（对外国人也是的）。
---
所以如果从这个看法开始：“我们都是人。对人每一个人类的语言是可能学习的。”不会有奇怪"为什么（怎么）这个老外会汉语？！"
calm 10:55:48 PM
Don't be judgemental.
 10:57:28 PM
I'm trying to explain the things from an OBJECTIVE, philosophical and educated point of view.
Of course, I have no any intention to be judgemental: just explained why I can speak some Chinese better (plus I added the abilities of the foreigners to learn foreign languages.)
Take it as a pro explanation of the phenomenon.
calm 10:57:37 PM
You have interest and talence to learn.
calm 10:58:46 PM
But others may have no interest to learn Chinese
 11:01:29 PM
Mostly, the others, have no interest to learny anything. It's rare to see someone reading books (but scientific books, not just porn or religion); it's rare to see someone who is really learning and values the knowledge.
I like a scientists who said it: "80% of the people/population are not clever." He is right. Facts...
 2020-04-13
 3:16:43 PM
我给个简单的例子：你猜了关于我 ，就是因为你知道外国的男人们，大多数，一点都不懂卡路里的，随便吃，喝，很少会做运动（可能1：10做好的运动），所以他们60-90%是"a little fat" 或 obese.
但是我真的不是个ordinary guy：我算卡路里，做运动，找健康的食物（柠檬，鸡蛋，大蒜，苹果，椰子，等），不喝白酒也不吸烟，所以我的身体是那些男模特差不多一样的： 。
 2020-04-14
 4:10:15 PM
By the way, I wonder something: are you a Christian (基督教的)？
calm 8:38:09 PM
No, I have no religion.
calm 8:38:22 PM
A non-believer
 2020-04-15
 12:30:55 AM
哦。I asked this, because "Don't be judgemental." is one of the favorite quotes of the Christians. I wondered is that the case.
 3:50:18 PM
他们的看法是左右这样：“上帝知道。你是个人。人不太知道。所以你就不用脑子。就让上帝安排。”
可是我是哲学家。我的工作和意义就是用脑子，做分析，发明，发现。如果没有我这样的人们，人类不会有进步的。
calm 7:12:34 PM
I have no idea it is the quote of Christians.
calm 8:39:48 PM
But I do know all men created equal
 2020-04-16
 12:46:11 AM
其实没有created。是自动的（自然）的，进化论。 。原来没有了人类。后来慢慢有了。
 2020-04-20
 10:02:25 PM
”芝麻街“ （我的最后一个的工作地方）停了营业。我已经是100%失业的。（我早说了没有什么大希望的。）
 2020-04-21
calm 5:44:56 PM
Well, you can always sell your books and make a living.
calm 5:45:27 PM
I don't know much about your situation. Don't you have some savings?
calm 5:46:09 PM
If it is too hard for you, there are ways to get out of the trouble
 6:23:24 PM
No. I sell only a little amount of the books and they're just $0.99. Too many writers around the world. I can't rely on books.
 6:23:40 PM
Here we're not working since January. Savings are less and less.
 6:24:07 PM
I know. I already prepared my self to leave the world if till June no income.
 2020-04-23
 7:56:28 PM
如果没有工作的机会，我准备了6月份内自杀。不要饿的和没有爱的生活。
calm 10:21:28 PM
What? Suicide? That's terrible
 10:45:21 PM
Yes, I informed already all of the people who know me:
 2020-04-28
 3:11:37 PM
看那么歧视的，那么讨厌的公司：
 
。 我的公正的回答：
 
 2020-04-30
calm 12:59:00 PM
I am so sorry for this
 3:12:21 PM
Just wrong passport and wrong time... If I was a Canadian or an US citizen the things could be better... Anyway. Who cares? I'm going to die probably soon, if no incomes. Searching every day, but nothing, nothing and nothing.
 2020-05-01
calm 9:20:26 PM
I am sorry again
 2020-05-02
 4:12:34 PM
OK. 没有办法的。可是最好的是现在这个恶心的国家-美国，有特别多问题。希望未来的时候它已经不会当那么强的，那么会做其它国家的问题恶国。这边差不多每一个人觉的美国那么好，每一个人觉的美国的老师是最好的，美国的生活是最好的。并不是！我真的希望它会不存在的！因为它在世界上那么多人民有问题的！我不明白怎么还会有人喜欢美国?!... 这个是个非法的，恶心的，不好的，讨厌的国。英国也是差不多的。
 2021-01-16
12:58:00 AM
 2020-2-5 15:08:22

那是“DICE”漫画的个非常非常感人的瞬间：










 
 
 2021-08-05
 11:24:40 PM
你已经不用QQ吗？
"

And just nothing more... Still not sure what was that and what kind of ghosting it is... maybe she was sick of my idea to leave this world because of the "endless" lockdowns and poverty in China? I am not sure. Glad that didn't do it because I hope I'll find a better place soon! But this one, well it was a sort of rejection, if not 100% ghosted and it had some value for the incels (to see how bluepilled may be person even someone who's above the average like her), so I am sharing it with you all.

Title: Rejection #46
Post by: Incel on June 11, 2023, 04:49:53 AM

Rejection #46

It's the simplest one ever. I saw a good looking woman. Becky-tier. I said "Good evening!" and she heard me, she saw be but she didn't answer me.

Title: Rejection #47
Post by: Incel on June 11, 2023, 06:39:35 PM

Rejection #47

It's one of the hurting ones. There was a pretty Stacy-tier one working in a pharmacy. She was also educated in a law major or something. Clever one. And I met her in the pharmacy, then introduced her to some of my students, had some more visits. We had some online chats... and then the truth came: she was in fact using me as a trampoline to introduce her to some foreign Chads! I had to tell her that I saw it -- she is not willing to have even a simple, single date with me but when it comes to other foreign males "Oh, can you introduce some, please?" I wasn't good enough for her, she saw me just as a trapoline... Sad... and then I stop communicating with her. It was very hurting...
 The next one is even more ridiculous, there was also a moment like that ("Do you have any European friends?", "Could you introduce me to their QQ number?") but the situation was way more complicated and you'll see it if you read the next one (rejection #48).

Title: Rejection #48
Post by: Incel on June 11, 2023, 06:58:17 PM

Rejection #48

It's one of the most ridiculous ones. I think she was a friend of another one (who only knew how to spread lies and to hurt a man, being rude and lacking basic ethics) and added me to have some fun or to gather information about me, I don't know but this one also was a liar because pretended to live next to the sea but saying she is in a city situated in the middle of the country where there is no sea. So her nickname is just "1" ("我会发着呆 然后忘记你") and the ridiculous chats were like this:

"2:47:10 PM
在吗
 2:47:44 PM
在的。我在可是好多人是假的。这个是问题的。
 2:48:13 PM
我一直对她们是真的，我没有骗人的。可是她们都是坏的。
 2:50:47 PM
我不吸烟，不喝白酒，天天锻炼运动，天天看书。我的教育是高的，我的外貌是比较帅的。我喜欢中国，我会中文和其它几门外语的。我就是个好的人。但是她们呢？都是要骗我，伤害我，骂我。
 2:51:31 PM
因为她们是没有礼貌的，没有心的人。
 2:54:15 PM
但是你可能自己已经知道了。。。。。。
 3:12:29 PM
你为什么加了我?
 4:01:53 PM
你的朋友们，都加了我，后来第一个的开始了骗她们我不是我，我证明了我是我。但是你一个不相信了，开始了说我的证明是“烦人”的。第二个说了没有礼貌的，我也证明了，可是她一点都不要道歉。第三个一个是疯子：说了脏话对我的去世的母亲，对我，真的是个恶心的人。第四个开始的时候说了我们可以做朋友，我开始了开心，教了她免费的英语和哲学的，可是她删掉了我，因为看起来也不是个正常的人。现在你来了。我不知道你们到底要什么？
6 6:24:16 PM
I want to make a friend.
6 6:24:23 PM
Today is really boring.
6 6:24:41 PM
Because today is China's Ching Ming Festival.
6 6:25:33 PM
Are you there?
6 6:29:12 PM
Hello ?
6 7:28:04 PM
 9:19:43 PM
好的，可是我希望你不要跟她们一样对我不好的。我慢慢说明给你。我在，但是现在在做饭。
6 9:37:11 PM
Where are you from?
6 9:37:19 PM
I come from Chongqing, China.
 9:38:38 PM
我在做饭。晚饭后，我们再聊。
6 9:39:09 PM
OK
6 9:45:24 PM
Send me a message after you finish your dinner.
 9:46:18 PM
Sure, I will. I'm glad to make friends (but true friends).
6 9:47:00 PM
OK
6 9:47:37 PM
Do you play any games?
 10:00:20 PM
现在我慢慢说明一下：1. 这个是那位不又不喜欢我，又随便给大家我的QQ号码，又骗他们我的照片是假的！
6 10:01:13 PM
Oh, what a bad girl.
 10:01:16 PM
2. 这个是疯子的的混蛋。她说了脏话关于我的去世的母亲和我： 。
6 10:01:59 PM
Oh, my God!
 10:02:02 PM
3. 这个是随便相信的，不用自己的脑子。
6 10:02:23 PM
Um
6 10:02:42 PM
Really good and bad!
 10:03:12 PM
4. 这个也是奇怪的。说了喜欢我，我教了她免费的英语和哲学，可是后来删掉了我。真的不明白是什么意思。。。。。。
 10:03:26 PM
好的。现在你知道。
6 10:03:36 PM
ok
6 10:03:50 PM
 You are miserable...
 10:03:51 PM
那，现在我们慢慢聊天。
 10:03:58 PM
是谁给了你我的QQ。
6 10:04:06 PM
Ask where you're from?
 10:04:09 PM
是的。我比较可怜。
 10:04:30 PM
我告诉你，可是你先说你怎么找到了我。
6 10:04:30 PM
I was just looking for it.
6 10:05:05 PM
So can you tell me now?
 10:05:28 PM
不。我先试试检查一下你怎么找到了我的QQ。我要实话。
6 10:06:21 PM
I found it in the extended column.
 10:06:53 PM
你看，每一个人有信息怎么找到了我：     
 10:07:25 PM
 
 10:07:35 PM
 
6 10:07:45 PM
我在扩列里找到的
 10:08:48 PM
嗯。
 10:09:13 PM
我是欧洲的。欧盟人。
 10:09:22 PM
你多大了？
6 10:09:26 PM
What do you like to eat?
 10:09:43 PM
蔬菜莎拉。
6 10:09:47 PM
15
 10:09:52 PM
我不太玩游戏。
 10:10:08 PM
哦。你认识那些女孩们吗？
6 10:10:49 PM
no
6 10:10:52 PM
I like to eat fried chicken burger Cola
 10:11:59 PM
对你更好，因为她们不是好的人们。又没有礼貌，又笨，又不懂简单的证明和逻辑。以前没有见面了那么恶心的人们。
 10:12:18 PM
哦。我不太吃汉堡的。
 10:12:25 PM
现在你在海南吗？
2020-04-04
6 10:12:32 PM
Away
6 10:12:44 PM
I am in Chongqing
 10:13:15 PM
哦。很大的城市。我知道。
 10:13:28 PM
你在海口上课？
6 10:14:06 PM
Away
6 10:14:12 PM
I have classes in Chongqing.
 10:14:26 PM
你一直在重庆？
6 10:14:33 PM
Yes
6 10:14:40 PM
I think it's nice there.
6 10:15:10 PM
I like Japan very much.
 10:15:15 PM
Okay, if you like it. I'm glad for you.
 10:15:27 PM
Me too.
6 10:15:44 PM
I think the people there are very polite.
6 10:15:58 PM
And Japan has a lot of delicious and fun.
 10:15:59 PM
Most of them are.
 10:16:13 PM
And very good music!
6 10:16:15 PM
yes
6 10:16:31 PM
Do you follow stars?
 10:16:44 PM
Not anymore.
6 10:16:52 PM
OK
 10:17:43 PM
I just liked 1 before - Zhang Ziyi
6 10:18:19 PM
Do you have any European friends?
 10:18:45 PM
Yes, I do.
6 10:19:10 PM
Could you introduce me to their QQ number?
6 10:19:15 PM
I'd like to meet.
6 10:19:23 PM
I want to make friends with them.
6 10:20:05 PM
If it doesn't work, forget it.
6 10:20:09 PM
Thanks.
 10:20:23 PM
No. 我不会随便给其它人们的QQ。这样的是不好的，而且他们不会喜欢。
6 10:20:30 PM
ok
6 10:20:35 PM
Thanks
 10:20:39 PM
 
 10:20:56 PM
你找那么多老外们干吗？
6 10:23:12 PM
I'd like to meet.
6 10:23:20 PM
This is interesting.
 10:25:47 PM
Well... whatever.
 10:25:55 PM
Send me some photo.
 10:27:11 PM
 That's me.
 10:27:11 PM
I just liked 1 before - Zhang Ziyi (It wasn't sent, so resent.)
6 10:32:56 PM
ok
 10:33:12 PM
 
 10:33:17 PM
我也要看看你。
 10:33:19 PM
你要不要给你收入个英语群？那边可以认识好多外国人。
6 10:34:18 PM
Yes, thank you.
6 10:34:42 PM
[闪照]请使用新版手机QQ查看闪照。
6 10:34:49 PM
My eyes are so small!
6 10:34:52 PM
 
6 10:35:02 PM
ok
 10:35:05 PM
 
 10:35:15 PM
我看不到。
6 10:35:18 PM
 
6 10:35:24 PM
Is that all right now?
 10:35:25 PM
看到了。
6 10:35:37 PM
 
 10:35:44 PM
 
 10:36:13 PM
就是这个英语群的。
6 10:36:33 PM
ok
6 10:37:25 PM
I have applied for it. May I have your permission?
6 10:37:31 PM
ok
6 10:37:34 PM
Thanks
2020-04-04
 10:37:57 PM
Yes, they'll accept you there.
 10:38:04 PM
You're welcome!
 10:38:26 PM
我看到了你喜欢外国的，所以我就是要帮忙你的。我是好的人。 (I just accept it: if they don't like me, okay, be a trampoline, help them and hope you'll get some help too. Just world hypothesis.  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D )
6 10:38:35 PM
Yes
 11:34:44 PM
What are you doing now?
 11:40:24 PM
这个3249610547也是你的QQ。
6 11:51:11 PM
no

 11:53:30 PM
因为她也发给了我那种的照片。我觉的是一样的人。
6 11:53:40 PM
我看看
 11:57:32 PM
 
 2020-04-05
 12:02:38 AM
是一样的女孩子。而且我发现了你的英语打字的和句子的是一样的。没事。我可以再给你个机会，可是你要相信我，我的照片是真的。你看看我的证明: 照片和视频是一样的人（都是我）： 
 12:03:42 AM
所以，就别相信哪个笨的女孩子。我不知道她为什么骗你们，可是我真的是我。不相信的话，我们可以见面，你可以发现我就是这个外国朋友。
 12:06:03 AM
所以我们从新开始，我可以给你再次机会！
 12:12:02 AM
你知道我是个有非常高级的知识和教育的外国朋友。开始的时候我不相信了那个明星是你。现在我也发现了这个是一样的女孩子。我们要做直接的，坦白的，诚信的朋友！ 
 12:46:24 AM
所以，对你哪一个QQ号码是更方便的？这个还是那个？如果你更经常用那个，你可以再加我用那个号码。我们已经要做诚信的朋友！ 
6 1:31:42 AM
不
6 1:31:44 AM
这不是我
6 1:34:26 AM
抱歉
6 1:34:30 AM
我刚刚没有在这个号
 1:52:52 AM
不要担心，我们从新开始。我是好的。
 2:03:23 AM
最重要的是你不要担心我，因为那个女孩子她故意要你们不喜欢我。我是真的，我证明了我的照片跟我的视屏。而且有机会的话，我们可以见面，你可以发现我是个非常可爱的，好的，比较好看的，聪明的和友善的外国朋友。
 2:12:23 AM
  那个老板不让你在这个群？！为什么？
6 4:02:06 AM
不知道
6 4:02:08 AM
没关系
 4:02:29 AM
 
 4:02:56 AM
亲爱的，你怎么不睡觉？
6 4:03:03 AM
睡不着
6 4:03:05 AM
唉
 4:03:38 AM
是吗？有什么问题的吗？我在写书，所以我不睡觉。你呢？
6 4:04:31 AM
我没什么  我就是睡不着  不知道为什么
 4:05:38 AM
好的。我在。如果你无聊的话，跟我可以聊天。
6 4:06:58 AM
嗯嗯
 4:08:47 AM
什么都可以聊天。随便你。Just open your heart.   
6 4:09:13 AM
嗯嗯
 4:55:04 PM
你已经换了你的名字？已经是LB？
LB 7:50:34 PM
我喜欢呀
 7:51:30 PM
好，我也喜欢跟你做朋友！
 7:52:17 PM
你喜欢去什么地方的？
LB 7:58:50 PM
干净的地方 有山有水  很美
 8:06:07 PM
是的。
 8:07:07 PM
我喜欢白沙门公园和日月广场。万绿园也是很好的。你喜欢吗？
LB 9:36:47 PM
还好
 9:39:40 PM
你最喜欢那个广场？
 9:57:39 PM
吾月广场还是日月广场？
 9:58:24 PM
金牛岭公园，那边我经常去跑步和锻炼。真的不错。
 10:23:37 PM
你呢？
 10:23:44 PM
How about you?
 10:35:10 PM
说吧。 
 2020-04-06
 12:03:36 AM
心情不好吗？ 有事儿，可以跟我说话。我也比较可怜。。。。。。我可以了解和理解你！
LB 8:54:12 AM
我昨天很早就睡觉啦
LB 8:54:15 AM
抱歉
 2:16:12 PM
没事
 2:16:47 PM
你最喜欢那个广场？吾月广场还是日月广场？金牛岭公园，那边我经常去跑步和锻炼。真的不错。
你呢？
How about you?
LB 6:18:47 PM
我喜欢王者荣耀
LB 7:03:38 PM
Good evening
 11:08:23 PM
我是说你更喜欢万绿园还是白沙门公园或金牛岭公园？
 2020-04-07
 12:41:30 AM
关于广场，你更喜欢日月广场还是吾悦广场？
LB 8:41:39 AM
我不知道
 3:44:18 PM
你经常去什么地方的呢？
 3:45:59 PM
夏日海滩喜欢吗？还是更喜欢另外的沙滩？
2020-04-07
LB 4:44:27 PM
Other beaches.
LB 4:44:36 PM
I'm in class now.
LB 4:44:41 PM
 
 5:26:05 PM
已经开学了？
 5:26:48 PM
初三和高三开了吧？
 2020-04-08
LB 1:51:40 AM
yes
LB 1:52:00 AM
我们马上开学了
 1:58:11 AM
So good!
 1:59:04 AM
Sometimes we may go to the beach together. I like the beaches.
 2020-04-09
 2:49:08 PM
So, you trust me -- I'm a good and nice, handsome person. Don't believe that bad girl.
 2:49:53 PM
所以你要小心我--我是个好的，可爱的，好看的人。不要相信那个怀的女孩子。
LB 2:50:31 PM
哦
 2:50:55 PM
我住在红城湖路这边。你在哪里？
LB 2:51:14 PM
重庆
 2:52:28 PM
不是吧。怎么又来了重庆！你已经说了你喜欢这边的沙滩。重庆哪里有大海？我以为了你已经告诉了我你是在海口。
LB 2:53:02 PM
我本来刚开始和你说的时候我就在重庆阿
LB 2:53:07 PM
我说了我不是她
LB 2:53:11 PM
我不认识她
 2:53:13 PM
 就是。
LB 2:53:23 PM
……
LB 2:53:36 PM
你怎么知道重庆没有海滩
LB 2:53:41 PM
你又不了解
LB 2:53:46 PM
我是中国人
 2:53:46 PM
哈哈哈！
LB 2:53:51 PM
 
 2:54:10 PM
重庆是在大陆的中间啊！肯定没有大海！我给你看看地图！真是的！
LB 2:54:21 PM
 
LB 2:54:33 PM
我只是喜欢海滩
LB 2:54:39 PM
我没有说我去那玩
 2:54:48 PM
 
 2:55:50 PM
重庆从大海：1000公里。你真的认为我那么笨吗？
 2:56:19 PM
 因为我的地理很好。我没有你想的那么笨。
 2:57:12 PM
我的天啊。好吧。你不要诚信。就不要聊天。
 2:57:21 PM
删掉了。拜拜了！"
 Big waste of time, isn't it?... Pity...

Title: Rejection #49
Post by: Incel on June 12, 2023, 02:52:13 AM

Rejection #49

And the next one of this long rejections' list is the ghosted type... Long time no any communication, fruitless tries from my side... It was with one nicknamed "浅笑心柔" (""):

"2020-01-31
 7:17:38 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:52:13 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
 5:01:08 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
 2022-07-15
 12:58:45 AM
宝贝，你已经不用QQ吗？
 2023-01-11
 12:10:53 AM
还在广西吗？
 2023-01-21
 4:53:10 PM
 (nice photo)
 4:53:16 PM
越来越好看。
 4:53:24 PM
 (sexy photo)
 4:57:30 PM
喜欢吗？
 5:01:56 PM
要多一点吗？
 5:04:04 PM
 (more sexy photo)
 2023-01-27
 7:30:10 PM
怎么样？
 2023-01-29
 5:27:35 PM
不喜欢吗？"

And then I decided that I am more than ghosted and deleted this contact. So fruitless...

Title: Rejection #50
Post by: Incel on June 12, 2023, 04:51:08 AM

Rejection #50

This one is also a ghosted type one. And it was done by one of the very attractive Stacy-tier female nicknamed "wu(flower)wen". Honestly speaking I forgot where I met her for the first time but I think this is the one from a massage center because she said she's free only on Mondays. So, I bet 90% this is the one of two (there is another story which I'll share later). She said we may date when there is free time but later didn't connect with me, after long time just didn't answer where is she currently and... ghosted, as usual:

"2018-09-13
放开我北鼻 19:52:50
我是放开我北鼻 🍉
 19:53:12
你好！
 19:55:13
我是个外国朋友。
放开我北鼻 19:55:59
二＇，
 19:56:38
吃饭了吗？
 20:29:07
认识你很高兴！你是个可爱的，美丽的女孩子！ 
放开我北鼻 20:45:35
嗯
 20:45:35
您好，我现在有事不在，一会再和您联系。
放开我北鼻 20:45:41
在上班
 20:48:37
是吗？不好意思。你忙吧。下次我们聊天吧。 
放开我北鼻 20:49:00
好奇
放开我北鼻 20:49:14
为啥要认识我
 20:49:54
说直接：因为我觉的你是个美丽的和可爱的女孩子。喜欢你。 
 20:50:06
你是做什么工作的？
放开我北鼻 20:51:00
在二楼上班
 20:52:00
那边有超市吧？
放开我北鼻 20:53:09
对   
放开我北鼻 20:53:31
肯德基楼上。
 20:53:45
 好。你忙吧。
2018-09-22
 12:44:18 PM
你好！
 12:44:31 PM
是你的孩子吗？
 12:44:55 PM
 (a photo of a kid)
放开我北鼻 12:45:06 PM
我妹
放开我北鼻 12:45:09 PM
哈哈哈
 12:45:11 PM
你们好可爱！
放开我北鼻 12:45:17 PM
谢谢
 12:45:31 PM
客气了。
放开我北鼻 12:45:40 PM
 (handshake)
 12:46:23 PM
 (handshake)
 12:46:25 PM
你每个周末休息吗？还是不一定？
放开我北鼻 12:46:35 PM
星期一
 12:47:15 PM
哦。所以你们只有每周一天有空.
 12:48:46 PM
你的工作比较忙。
 2018-09-26
 1:32:52 PM
你好！ 在上班吗？
放开我北鼻 1:33:35 PM
在肯德基。
 1:34:09 PM
休息？ 好。
放开我北鼻 1:34:24 PM
吃饭
 1:34:30 PM
你住哪里？我在红城湖路这边。
 1:34:46 PM
好的。 
放开我北鼻 1:34:50 PM
嗯
 2:15:04 PM
你也住这边附近吗？我在红城湖路这边。
放开我北鼻 2:18:02 PM
嗯
 2:18:56 PM
你有男朋友吗？
放开我北鼻 2:19:09 PM
干嘛？
 2:19:40 PM
要请你一起去看电影或者一起去沙滩。
2:21:46 PM
所以先问你，你没有男朋友，因为如果你有的话，他不会让你跟我一起去玩。这样。实话。
放开我北鼻 2:22:04 PM
。。。。
 2:22:31 PM
4个可爱的点？ ;D 不懂你的意思。
 2:22:59 PM
是不是我的中文不清楚的？还是你就不要跟我出去玩的意思？
 2:26:29 PM
  (a question mark emoji and a pic)
放开我北鼻 2:26:36 PM
没事
放开我北鼻 2:26:44 PM
有空再约
 2:26:58 PM
好的。
 2018-10-27
 3:43:25 AM
今晚是我的生日！在看看好久没有聊天了。你好吗？
放开我北鼻 9:58:51 AM
好
 2:59:18 PM
  (okay emoji) (smile emoji)
我还在海口。你呢？
放开我北鼻 9:12:19 PM
不在海口在哪？
 2018-10-28
 7:40:41 PM
你在哪里？"
 And then... ghosted as usual. Sad, sad, sad... Well, maybe it was for good because people who work in these centers sometimes are not only providing massages but also other services (those ones that escortcels use, you know...)

Title: Rejection #51
Post by: Incel on June 12, 2023, 05:10:27 AM

Rejection #51

As I said there was also another case from a massage center (a smaller one). There were just two people -- an aunt and her younger assistant. The assistant was single and the aunt started to help us to know each other more. After the massage we went home together and we had a long conversation about our values, interests and, of course, about my incomes. And the girl made a conclusion that I'm not good for being a boyfriend but I'm very good for being a husband. I can't tell why she got it in this way; maybe because I'm not very wild, not very open and so on (what she imagines about "a real boyfriend" wasn't what I demonstrated as serious and rational point of view). For example, I said I like to save money. It was to her like "Oh, a boyfriend shouldn't save his money, he must treat his girlfriend like a princess but a husband should save money for the family."

Whatever. She wasn't very bright anyway and she was a bit tomboy style (just around 25%) and her looks were around 5/10 so I didn't miss her that much but I remember that I was rejected because I'm not a good boyfriend material for her and she is not searching for a husband yet.

Title: Rejection #52
Post by: Incel on June 13, 2023, 01:45:57 AM

Rejection #52

Oh, my God. Another short one. A 9/10 Stacy-tier woman who I met for the first time. I wanted to have a good conversation with her because she is new in our community and I said "Good evening!" to her but she was so busy with her cellphone that even didn't check who I am, what kind of looks do I got, etc. 0 attention...

Title: Rejection #53
Post by: Incel on June 13, 2023, 01:59:12 AM

Rejection #53

There was one that added me after I gave her my business card. Then she made it clear that she has a boy-friend soon. Okay. So maybe she added me to study a foreign language (I'm teaching part-time classes) but no, after I asked her if it's not about being her boy-friend is it about being her teacher she just ghosted me. Bad luck? Again? As I said, good luck is something that doesn't exist in my life. Her nickname is "莹丸子":

"9:23:23 PM
植物研究社
 9:24:23 PM
你好！ 我是个外国哥哥。住在海口，教外语的。专业是“哲学”的。我是欧洲人。
酱哒莹丸子 9:32:47 PM
嗯嗯
 9:33:39 PM
认识你很高兴！你是个可爱的美女！ 
酱哒莹丸子 9:36:14 PM
谢谢
 9:36:40 PM
 不客气！
 9:37:14 PM
我天天上网，因为除了外语和哲学，我也在做网站。希望我们可以经常聊天。
酱哒莹丸子 9:39:21 PM
我有男朋友了
 9:40:07 PM
好的。恭喜你！我没有女朋友了。
酱哒莹丸子 9:42:37 PM
祝你好运
 9:44:21 PM
谢谢 ，可是在我的生活没有这个机会的。 好运对我是不存在的东西。
 10:05:55 PM
你要学习英语吗？
 2019-08-15
 12:30:40 AM
 (pic)
 12:32:17 AM
你加了我的QQ，所以我要知道是不是你要学习英语？
 2019-08-16
 1:39:07 PM
你好吗？"
 Maybe she was this type of person who also don't know why is doing something. Like in this case: why, in fact, she added me, if she doesn't want a teacher? Just to tell me that she has got a boyfriend?!...

Title: Rejection #54
Post by: Incel on June 13, 2023, 05:09:14 AM

Rejection #54

This one is noticeable for saying only one sentence after being ghosted. And then, re-ghosted again (after saw my face). Take a look:

"2019-06-07
4:24:50 PM
端午节快乐！
 2019-09-13
 8:02:42 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
 3:51:03 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:46:46 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-01
 3:10:04 AM
(a Happy birthday e-card)
 2020-05-24
 3:27:28 PM
(a call attempt)
 3:27:40 PM
你怎么不说话？！
1847072100 3:28:00 PM
哪位
 3:28:41 PM
那个外国的朋友。看我已经发给了你那么多信息：
(screenshots of the messages)
 3:29:12 PM
让我们聊天吧。已经好久认识的。我要发展我们的联系。
1847072100 3:29:30 PM
(missed call)
 3:30:01 PM
 这个我不知道。
 3:30:07 PM
我在海口。你呢？
 3:30:59 PM
你会英语吗？
 3:31:21 PM
I'd like to say that we may meet in Haikou, in case you're here as well.
 3:31:28 PM
Where are you now?
 3:32:18 PM
在吗？
 3:33:02 PM
是不是你不相信我是外国的？
 3:33:11 PM
来，看看我就知道。
 3:33:52 PM
(video call; cam-to-cam)
 3:34:05 PM
看过了吗？
 3:34:38 PM
怎么了？
 3:34:44 PM
还不要说话？
 3:35:19 PM
好的吧。看起来跟你聊天是只有浪费时间的。删掉。"
 Well, I'm just not handsome enough for her, obviously... Incelish life.

Title: Rejection #55
Post by: Incel on June 13, 2023, 05:43:57 AM

Rejection #55

This one was a typical "hitting the wall" 5/10 female. She has a small clothes shop. At the beginning showed some interest but later, when she found out that I'm not money haver she just ghosted me for a long time. I tried to connect with her but the ghosting was solid. And one day I decided to tell her that I am already rich. (Won the lottery or something, I don't remember. Just a social experiment to see if she is going to un-ghost me. And she did!) Later (just a short time after the un-ghosing) she said to invite her and her close female friends to have some fun in an expensive KTV (karaoke bar) in the center of the city. I decided not to and the re-ghosting came soon. And then I had some last tries but she never answered. Probably because she decided that I am not stupid enough orand not generous enough for her.

She was nicknamed "阳光百合" ("上善若水，厚德载物！！！")
"2020-01-31
7:20:00 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 7:20:13 PM
(phone call attempt)
 7:20:16 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:34:37 PM
 (a pic)
 2020-08-26
 8:34:26 AM
 (Happy b-day e-card.)
 2021-08-05
11:26:05 PM
美女，外国哥哥想你了。 "
Ghosted, un-ghosted and then re-ghosted again. She just wanted some generous and stupid enough (to follow all what she say) according to what she showed me.

Title: Rejection #56
Post by: Incel on June 13, 2023, 06:32:05 AM

Rejection #56

This is about a low-tier Becky, hitting the wall, not more than 3/10. And she had a good trait, she had own business (ads related) but it wasn't that important to me. You know that for most of the man the status and the incomes of the females aren't very important and we focus more on the looks, abilities, personality and so on. So, she just wasn't very attractive to me and I didn't try any hard to reach her. Yes, she was the first one to ghost me but I also didn't feel so sorry or something but still, because I'm not a standardcel, I did some tries:

"2020-01-31
 7:13:45 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:51:08 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-01
 3:10:04 AM
(A Happy B-day e-card.)
 2020-04-04
 4:48:22 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
  2021-08-09
11:32:23 PM
美女，还做广告吗？"
 A bit boring but... just one of the 500 rejections, you know.

Title: Rejection #57
Post by: Incel on June 13, 2023, 08:16:18 PM

Rejection #57

This one is what you can call "the ultimate ghosting". She added me but she never ever sent even a single "Hi" or "yes", "no", "maybe", etc. Wow, the ultimate silence! Here, someone nicknamed "妗沅":
"2020-12-31
 2:35:26 AM
Hi!
 2:35:48 AM
Nice to see you !
 2:36:13 AM
How are you now?
 2021-01-10
 10:58:26 PM
不懂英文吧？
 10:58:31 PM
在吗？"

It was like I am talking to a wall.

Title: Rejection #58
Post by: Incel on June 13, 2023, 09:06:37 PM

Rejection #58

It was one that every time found excuses not to meet me. At the end asked me can she come with two males (like guards maybe?) and at the end started to send stupid jokes like "Go to have fun in Antarctica." and I decided that it's really hopeless to deal with this kind of unmatured person. It was someone who I met once in a bus and she was nicknamed "巴巴鲁" ("岁月因青春慨然以赴而更加静好，世间因少年挺身向前而更加瑰丽。"):

"11:53:21 PM
Hi！
 2019-11-16
 12:09:33 AM
Hi! Who are you?
 1:46:23 PM
你好！你是谁?
 2019-11-17
 10:38:50 PM
你怎么不说话？
33 10:39:45 PM
公交车上认识的呀
 10:40:12 PM
是吗？你是那个女孩子的？
33 10:40:19 PM
嗯
 10:53:17 PM
发给我个照片看看你是哪位的？
 10:53:25 PM
我也发给你我的一张：
33 10:53:31 PM
没照片，难搞哦
 10:57:18 PM
哦。好的。没关系。
33 10:57:40 PM
 
 2019-12-05
 2:17:59 PM
Hello!
 2:18:08 PM
Good afternoon!
33 2:25:39 PM
em，you too。
 2:25:40 PM
[自动回复]你好，我现在有事不在，一会再和你联系。
 2:35:35 PM
我去教小朋友们英语的。回家的时候再聊天。 Have a good day!
33 3:14:49 PM
嗯
33 6:16:10 PM
你要我的照片吗
33 6:16:15 PM
我刚刚拍的
33 6:16:18 PM
 
33 6:16:38 PM
你可能对我印象不深刻，因为我在公交车上，不像那三个女生跟你聊的那么多
 10:36:29 PM
谢谢！照片很好看！
 10:37:20 PM
没问题，我们慢慢聊天，慢慢认识的。   
 10:38:17 PM
你有什么爱好？我的第一个的爱好，在中学的时候是写诗。现在，有时，我也写诗。
 2019-12-06
_____________ 8:53:14 AM
我喜欢看电影呀
 2:08:47 PM
我也非常喜欢去看电影。
 2:09:51 PM
我的最爱的运动是武术。我从4岁开始了慢慢锻炼。所以现在我不是高手，可是我懂好多，好多武术的动作。我最喜欢李小龙的武术。
 2:10:25 PM
那，你有没有喜欢的运动？你做什么运动吗（比如跑步，什么的？）
_____________ 5:28:34 PM
嗯
 2019-12-07
 1:38:36 PM
运动
 1:39:09 PM
我不吸烟。吸烟不好。
 1:43:41 PM
我喜欢健康的生活，所以：运动， 不吸烟，不喝白酒。这样对身体很好。
_____________ 6:25:21 PM
跑步
 11:15:04 PM
跑步，别喝白酒，别抽烟。这样你会当健康。 
我每天学习新的信息，喜欢看电子书本，百科全书。天天学习新的科学的，外语的和其它信息。
 2019-12-08
_____________ 9:14:27 AM
 
 1:44:59 PM
我也做网站和网页。比如这个：
 2019-12-09
1:55:44 PM
所以，我觉的，我是个比较好的人。是不是？
_____________ 6:35:23 PM
哈哈，你这个网站肯定火。
 9:52:12 PM
 
 2019-12-10
 2:04:46 PM
我的父母是心理的医生。
 2:05:21 PM
如果你有其它问题的话，你可以问我。我希望我对你已经不是个陌生人。
_____________ 2:54:55 PM
我心理没有问题。
 2:56:06 PM
很好！ 所以，有空的时候要去看电影或其它地方吗？ 
_____________ 6:48:10 PM
不用了，谢谢
 10:38:50 PM
为什么你也怕我？！我人很好，为什么一直这样大家不喜欢跟我见面？！
 2019-12-11
 1:48:20 PM
我已经说了：我不吸烟，我不喝白酒，我教育好，我的父母是医生，我有高的文化，我天天看书，学习中文；我热爱中国，中国人。也在写诗，天天运动。我有好的生活。我是好的外国朋友。那，你为什么害怕？我还要改变什么？我不够好吗？
33 6:56:38 PM
不是哦，最近我在忙学业，没时间出来。
 2020-01-07
 2:25:14 PM
很快放假。 看看放假的时候你有没有时间。
33 5:11:42 PM
 
 2020-01-18
 2:25:50 PM
寒假了！         
 11:31:18 PM
对不对？
33 11:35:01 PM
是的
 11:37:25 PM
 所以，现在我看看，你会不会再说你忙。我已经很久等见面你。
33 11:39:34 PM
回老家了都
 11:39:54 PM
但是你会回来几天后。
33 11:40:09 PM
回来都开学了
 11:41:57 PM
清楚了。你就是害怕见面我。你说的这些都是借口的：上课的时候忙，放假的时候不在，回来的时候开学。100%不给我机会见面。
 11:42:01 PM
我真的不明白你为什么不喜欢我？我不吸烟，不喝白酒。我很聪明，天天看书，我有好的教育，好的文化。我爱中国。也是对大家非常有礼貌的，我不说脏话，不骂人，不大家。我人很好。你为什么不要我们见面？
 11:42:28 PM
没有问题。我以前有过了中国女友。没有了什么尴尬的，我是好的人。
 
 看到了吗？跟我一位中国女孩子不会有问题的。而且我只有请你见面，看电影或喝饮料。做简单的朋友们。为什么你那么不要我的？

2020-01-18
 11:52:44 PM
算了。
 2020-01-30
 3:39:52 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
卖老板的窝窝头. 3:58:01 PM
嗯
 4:04:40 PM
嗯呀。
 2020-02-05
 3:07:22 PM
那是“DICE”漫画的个非常非常感人的瞬间：
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 2020-02-07
 2:35:16 PM
家里好无聊 。今天要去公园。要跟我来的话，发给我信息。 
33 2:35:44 PM
疫情
 2:40:31 PM
疫情，但是我有口罩，而且我不会一直只呆在家里。 这样不健康，所以我出去做点运动，呼吸新鲜空气，买新鲜蔬菜，水果。这样。
 2020-02-14
 2:29:59 PM
情人节快乐！
 2020-03-30
 11:01:08 PM
你好吗？
 11:01:18 PM
已经出门吧？
 2020-03-31
 2:36:14 PM
我们见吧。
 2:36:21 PM
今天怎么样？
 2:39:50 PM
 2:55:46 PM
 2:56:24 PM
你好吗？已经出门吧？我们见吧。今天怎么样？
33 3:04:46 PM
我这边有两个男生也要来
 3:06:28 PM
你的保安们？
 3:06:37 PM
你怎么那么害怕我？
 3:06:43 PM
真可笑。
 3:07:18 PM
你见面你的喜欢的人，他们2个也来吗？ 
 3:08:02 PM
昨天看到了你已经有喜欢的人： 
 3:08:23 PM
所以你见他的时候，一直跟你的其它2个男生一起见？
33 3:16:24 PM
我喜欢我爸妈
33 3:16:30 PM
 
 3:18:56 PM
不是，你就是说你有喜欢的男孩的意思。关于妈妈和爸爸是另外的喜欢的种类。
33 3:19:22 PM
都是喜欢
 3:19:48 PM
所以你对我有恐怖的感觉？为什么？我的教育是高级的，我不喝酒，不吸烟。写书。天天读书，学习，锻炼。我人很好。为什么怕？
 3:23:56 PM
说直接的话，就好。我是坦白的。
 3:28:39 PM
好的。你跟你的2个或多点保安可以来见。你们要我们去哪里玩玩？
 3:32:29 PM
从1月份没有见了朋友们。所以随便你--我们见面，你如果那么害怕的话，可以叫2个或多保安跟你莱。你先说我们一起去玩玩哪里?
 3:39:54 PM
怎么了？跟保安一起也不敢吗？哎呀，哎呀。。。。。。
33 3:40:59 PM
去南极玩
 3:41:28 PM
是什么公园这个？”南极公园“还是什么？
33 3:41:49 PM
南极洲
 3:45:07 PM
我不是开玩笑。我是说真的。你到底要不要我们见面。如果那么害怕的话，来跟你的2个或多男生们。但是说我们去哪里？要不要在万绿园见？
 3:54:20 PM
这样的吧，我真的不要我们浪费时间的。如果你不要我们做朋友，见面，等，你就删掉我也可以。我不要给你压力。我希望了你是个合理的，要做朋友的女孩子，可是我觉的你又害怕，又不喜欢我的。所以我说：要见的话，来，不要的话，拜拜。
 4:23:09 PM
我不是开玩笑。我是说真的。你到底要不要我们见面。如果那么害怕的话，来跟你的2个或多男生们。但是说我们去哪里？要不要在万绿园见？

这样的吧，我真的不要我们浪费时间的。如果你不要我们做朋友，见面，等，你就删掉我也可以。我不要给你压力。我希望了你是个合理的，要做朋友的女孩子，可是我觉的你又害怕，又不喜欢我的。所以我说：要见的话，来，不要的话，拜拜。
 5:07:14 PM
自己考虑。我真的不要互相浪费时间的。
 6:00:51 PM
这个也发给你：
 6:01:06 PM
看起来你只有要网友。可是我觉的网友是无聊的。我喜欢去外面，散步，跑步，锻炼，喝饮料。我要我们一起出去这样做朋友的。不要只有看QQ上的单词。
 6:01:39 PM
所以如果你不敢的话，我没有办法的。
 6:55:25 PM
好吧。删掉。"

After I saw she is even not coming with her two guards and that she already has a male to like, I decided it's already time to delete this contact. I am really too patient, thus wasting a lot of time with these people.

Title: Rejection #59
Post by: Incel on June 13, 2023, 09:26:14 PM

Rejection #59

It is about someone who's a great example how personality matters too. You see, she is almost a 7.5/10 looks wise but when the personality is rejecting, difficult, hard, etc., you just can't rate her more than 3.1/10 altogether. So, I didn't try any harder to approach her online... Well she was nicknamed "L-娜" ("用自己的左手拥抱右手边的幸福，用右手抱紧左手边的爱情。"): That's why it was as short as this:

"2020-01-30
 3:47:59 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:43:42 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-08
 2:26:06 AM
已经不上QQ吗？
"
There are these situations where you know your efforts are 100% ineffective and then you just don't try any harder. This is (was) one of them.

Title: Rejection #60
Post by: Incel on June 13, 2023, 09:38:49 PM

Rejection #60

 Another simpy ghosted one. The significant is that the girl was nearly 9.5/10 according to my taste but... that's it. Nicknamed " " (pig head emoji) ("很多时候  心里明明不是那样想的却控制不了自己而说出相反的话"):

"2019-06-07
 4:25:15 PM
端午节快乐！
 2019-09-13
 8:03:13 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
3:45:19 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:41:06 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-10
 11:21:58 PM
美女，已经不上QQ吗？
 11:24:01 PM
加了你的微信。"

She didn't add me there (WeChat) at all. In a word, it was so fruitless and time wasting... and sort of very sad.

Title: Rejection #61
Post by: Incel on June 14, 2023, 04:52:49 AM

Rejection #61

This one was a very strange, sort of selfish girl. I met her in some shop as far as I remember, she added me and started to push me to help her finding a job. I spent time to search for her and when I found she said it's not close to her place and she needs job exactly near her village area... gosh... at least she could make it clear she is searching for jobs only in her area... And later on, when I started to ask her to meet up, she started to ghost me and then I decided to leave it this contact soon because I didn't want to spend more time with someone who obviously only uses me as a job hunter or something.

Here it is, she was nicknamed "馨怡" ("静静美好"; "无聊中"):

"2019-02-23
习惯了 10:50:27 PM
我是习惯了，你的沉默
 10:52:18 PM
你好！
我是个外国朋友。来自欧洲的，欧盟人。
 10:52:22 PM
你是哪里的？
习惯了 10:53:55 PM
我们是海南的
 11:00:38 PM
好的。我也住在海口。我是在红城湖这边。
 11:01:05 PM
 这个是我的照片在工作的地方跟中国老师。你也发给我一张吧。
 11:16:50 PM
我已经看到了。这位是你吧：
习惯了 11:23:59 PM
哦，你住在红城湖那边啊？
 11:24:18 PM
是啊。你也是吗？
习惯了 11:24:38 PM
我没有住在红城湖
 11:34:25 PM
你是大学生吗？
习惯了 11:34:38 PM
没呀，我出来工作了
 11:34:53 PM
我已经毕业了。现在做网站，网页。有时教外语的。
习惯了 11:35:36 PM
噢
 11:36:44 PM
是吗？那你现在做什么工作的？
11:36:57 PM习惯了撤回了一条消息
习惯了 11:37:49 PM
还没找到工作？
 11:41:59 PM
那，你要做什么工作的？
习惯了 11:42:26 PM
都还没找到，我叫朋友帮我找了
 11:56:24 PM
你可以告诉我你喜欢什么工作的，然后我也会天天找为了你。
 2019-02-24
12:11:07 AM习惯了撤回了一条消息
 12:11:56 AM
在饭店吗？食品的服务员？
习惯了 12:12:16 AM
对啊
习惯了 12:12:47 AM
今天你看到我们5个人的那些人呢？
 12:19:04 AM
好的。没事。我天天会看到这样的。比如工钱的是1800到1900元。
 12:19:20 AM
是的。看到了你们。
习惯了 12:22:11 AM
哦，好的
习惯了 12:24:10 AM
你看的话，你就回我信息一下
 12:24:55 AM
当然。我天天上网，因为我做网站。我一定会的。
习惯了 12:25:40 AM
谢谢
 12:28:31 AM
不客气。 
习惯了 12:29:27 AM
 
习惯了 12:29:35 AM
 
习惯了 12:41:09 AM
那你什么时候帮我们找到工作？
 12:42:34 AM
我天天去外面。看到的时候，马上告诉你们是什么饭店，在哪里。可能2-3天后你们会有的工作。我真的天天会看好多饭店找人（服务员和厨房的工人）。
习惯了 12:43:59 AM
我们在忠介路
 12:53:41 AM
好的。我会找到比较附近的。
习惯了 12:54:41 AM
那明天帮我找咯
 12:55:33 AM
明天我有好多课，所以不知道会不会，可是1-2天后肯定的。 相信我。
习惯了 1:30:19 AM
我一两天才能找到啊
 1:31:28 AM
肯定了。这类的工作附近好多。不要担心。
 1:32:23 AM
我已经在床里。晚安，亲爱的朋友！再聊！ 
习惯了 10:40:36 AM
嗯
习惯了 11:02:54 AM
你帮我找苍西村那里的工作了
 10:07:02 PM
你好！我在那边不知道工作的。在和信广场要吗？
习惯了 10:20:45 PM
我不去那边，那边太远
 2019-02-25
 10:36:51 PM
晚上好！我不知道你找到了没工作，可是今晚我看到了个厉害的工作。给你看看：
 10:37:07 PM
 
 10:42:18 PM
你可以试试，因为工钱是真不错的！住你好运！ 
 11:38:03 PM
你可以试试，因为工钱是真不错的！祝你好运！ 
 2019-02-26
 7:54:39 PM
这个是更好一点：
 2019-02-27
 1:26:56 PM
你好。希望你已经有好多机会找到你的一份好的工作！
 8:33:54 PM
你好吗？
 8:55:28 PM
已经三天没有跟我聊天了。我发给了你好工作的建议。我要跟你聊天。你还好吗？
 您发送了一个窗口抖动。
 您发送了一个窗口抖动。
 您发送了一个窗口抖动。
 10:52:48 PM
一点都不要聊天吗？
习惯了 10:54:13 PM
嗯嗯
习惯了 10:54:17 PM
我找工作了
2019-02-27
 10:55:41 PM
还没找到了吗？你看到了--我天天会找到发给你好的建议，因为我天天出去，而且我觉的你是个漂亮的女孩子，所以我希望我会帮忙你的。
 10:58:25 PM
你有男朋友吗？没有的话，要不要我们一起去玩玩一下：喝点饮料 ，看电影 ，等等 。
 11:14:27 PM
考虑一下。我在等你的回答。 
 2019-02-28
 3:04:32 AM
已经是3点种，我觉的我要睡觉，所以我先不等你的回答，因为我累了，明天6点种要起床。明天聊天吧。晚安！   
 1:45:49 PM
下午好！
习惯了 1:51:59 PM
嗯嗯
 1:56:20 PM
我是这样的：不抽烟，喝一点酒（但是只有红酒，不喝白酒）。我天天做运动（武术），天天看书（喜欢心理学的和历史的，这类的）。我写诗，我是比较浪漫的男子。还有，我的学历是很好（硕士）。我的爱好是做网站和写电子书。喜欢看电影，大海，学习汉语。
你觉的你会喜欢我吗？
 2:44:04 PM
其实，最近没有人喜欢我的。我不知道为什么这样。好可怜，可是没有办法的。已经习惯了大家说我不好看，她们不喜欢我的。所以。。。。。。看来你也不要我，对吗？
 3:08:45 PM
是否？
 3:22:53 PM
好的。我再去上班。今晚我看看你的决定。没有的话，就没有。我理解。
 9:49:34 PM
已经不要聊天吗？
 10:18:47 PM
好吧。不要麻烦你了。祝福你！告别！ 
习惯了 10:22:24 PM
我叫你帮我找附近工作啊！
 10:25:55 PM
亲爱的朋友，我不住在你的地方，所以我没有附近你的工作建议。我发给你的是不太远的工作（坐公交车需要只有20-25分钟），可是你觉的是远的。我没有办法的。
习惯了 10:27:02 PM
我住在苍西村懂不
 10:27:40 PM
当然懂。我看到了地图了。
习惯了 10:28:14 PM
懂就行
 10:28:56 PM
 
 10:29:12 PM
我懂因为我住在海口几年了。
 10:29:46 PM
好的。所以关于其他的问题--你不要，对吗？
 您发送了一个窗口抖动。
 10:34:00 PM
 
 您发送了一个窗口抖动。
 10:39:18 PM
好吧。不要麻烦你了。祝福你！告别！ 
"

Title: Rejection #62
Post by: Incel on June 14, 2023, 05:39:25 AM

Rejection #62

Nothing special, another "ghosted forever" one. I sent some messages, no answer... as usual.

Here: her nickname was "国民村花*" ("当三角形有两个直角的时候，我不再爱exo；当对顶角不再相等的时候，我不再爱exo。"; "我不是你想叫来就来想叫走就走的宠物，所以你也不要把你当成人"):

"2019-09-13
 8:05:18 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
 3:46:33 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:42:35 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-12
 4:27:30 PM
已经不上QQ吗？"

Ghosted forever... as usual.

Title: Rejection #63
Post by: Incel on June 14, 2023, 07:44:57 PM

Rejection #63

About one who said that she never liked me from the very beginning. Made me want to cry... but this is it, when you're dealing with some sort of inceldom. Her nickname changed to "2230016669" and doesn't allow people to add or re-add her. Maybe something happened like another one is using her account already or she met some difficulties in her life and decided to limit the access? I don't know but something that I remember is that she doesn't like me and she doesn't like anybody else, as she claimed (no idea if she is "Chad only"/"Chang only" standard or she is too depressed, or something...)

"10:40:32 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
 10:40:43 PM
 (big Hi! lovely pic)
 10:40:52 PM
刚才回家了。
 10:41:04 PM
认识你很高兴！ 
 10:41:49 PM
我是个欧洲的，欧盟人。住在中国几年了。现在当作家和教外语的老师。
正义 to the end! 10:41:55 PM
 (handshake)
匸㕕 10:41:56 PM
 
匸㕕 10:42:00 PM
你好
匸㕕 10:42:03 PM
嗯嗯
 10:47:17 PM
你的名字真厉害！  刚才看到了怎么读！谢谢你让了我学习新的汉字！  我非常爱中国的文化！ 
匸㕕 10:48:22 PM
哈哈  谢谢你喜欢中国的文化
匸㕕 10:48:30 PM
 
 10:50:10 PM
客气了。我是个100%的中国迷。   
匸㕕 10:52:10 PM
嗯嗯
 2020-10-02
 1:51:04 AM
双节快乐！住你幸福   
匸㕕 2:06:10 AM
双节快乐  同乐
 2020-12-25
01 6:55:17 AM
 
 2:43:39 PM
   Thank you!
01 3:26:34 PM
嗯嗯
 2021-01-16
 12:55:06 AM
 
 (my new cool gym photo)
会等 11:46:51 AM
  (thumb up emoji) (thumb up emoji)
 1:22:17 PM
 (big xiexie emoji)
 1:22:35 PM
有空的时候找我聊天或见吧。
会等 1:23:51 PM
可以的
 1:24:46 PM
  (smiley) (thumb-up emoji)
 2021-01-30
 2:43:01 AM
(About her new status that she's outside alone and can't go back home.)
 真的？现在你还再外面吗？要帮助吗？
姐姐不回来了吗? 3:16:26 AM
啊?没关系，您不用操心
姐姐不回来了吗? 3:16:31 AM
我明天的车就回去了
 3:18:11 AM
 好的。你知道我是个好的朋友。
姐姐不回来了吗? 3:18:49 AM
嗯
 1:56:26 PM
(About her newest status that her heart is lonely, "a lonely heart")
  哎呀，宝贝，我的心脏也是这样
姐姐不回来了吗? 2:09:41 PM
嗯
 2:11:08 PM
回海口的时候，我们见吧!   
姐姐不回来了吗? 2:12:29 PM
为什么
姐姐不回来了吗? 2:13:40 PM
见面干嘛
姐姐不回来了吗? 2:13:47 PM
有什么事吗
 2:30:41 PM
怎么那么冷心呢？
 2:32:05 PM
为什么害怕我？我不吸烟，不喝白酒，写书，写诗。是个文明的，好的男人。天天学习，锻炼。我是个合理的人。你怎么不要见面？害怕什么？还是你觉得我丑？
姐姐不回来了吗? 2:32:35 PM
没害怕，觉得奇怪，为什么要见面，也没什么事
 2:34:09 PM
因为我们都是孤独的，我们可以一起玩玩，而且除了玩玩，我会教你英语，瑜伽，武术，哲学。我们会有个非常有用的和好玩的友谊。 
姐姐不回来了吗? 2:37:03 PM
玩什么
姐姐不回来了吗? 2:37:08 PM
去哪玩
 2:40:39 PM
比如这样，第一次我们去看看博物馆，第二次去看电影，第三次去看海边，公园。。。。。。海口有好多好玩的机会。而且如果你喜欢什么地方，你也可以告诉我，我们一起去。这样。哪里都可以（除了那些吸烟的地方--我不喜欢抽烟的。 ）
姐姐不回来了吗? 2:42:15 PM
你请吗，没钱，不去
 2:45:00 PM
啊。这个不是钱的问题，比如去博物馆是免费的。去到海边只有要4元。电影票是只有20元。肯定我会请，没事。
 2:46:35 PM
而且，我不知道你爱喝什么，可是渴了的时候，肯定我也请你喝你的最爱的饮料。真的不要想钱。
姐姐不回来了吗? 2:47:04 PM
再说吧，比较宅，不怎么出门
 3:24:38 PM
看起来你不太相信我，会不太喜欢我。
 3:24:52 PM
  :(
姐姐不回来了吗? 3:24:58 PM
没有
姐姐不回来了吗? 3:25:10 PM
真的不怎么爱出去玩
 3:26:36 PM
好的，清楚了。如果个人喜欢跟我一起，她不会找那么多借口--钱，比较宅，等。 没有人喜欢我的。
姐姐不回来了吗? 3:28:06 PM
我本来就不喜欢你，我谁都不喜欢
 3:28:43 PM
好的。谢谢你的实话。我已经不麻烦你的。
姐姐不回来了吗? 3:29:11 PM
额好
 3:29:32 PM
   :(( :((
姐姐不回来了吗? 3:29:46 PM
哭什么"
Very strange -- at first accepted that we can meet, then started to ask what we'll do (why have to meet if there is no need to meet), she is poor to go out (even I speak I may pay for all), she prefers to stay at home and so on excuses... till the end when she said she never liked me and... even asks why I'm crying... Low EQ and obviously now high IQ person. But I also should realize that I'm just too incelish and can't hope too much before I get more maxxed someone to like me. I am not that type of incel who'll only remain a crying, sad person. I make efforts every day!

Title: Rejection #64
Post by: Incel on June 14, 2023, 08:04:41 PM

Rejection #64

And another "ghosted forever" one. I sent some messages, no answer... the remarkable here is that I even sent an e-mail (just so happened that she had an e-mail)... well, it was a 4/10 hitting the wall aunt nicknamed "心灵的港湾" ("即使没有你，我也能活的更好更精彩！"):
"2019-09-13
 8:10:56 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
 7:13:29 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
 3:51:58 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-05
 8:07:24 AM
(Happy Bday e-card)
 2020-02-14
 2:46:28 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-02-05
 8:10:27 AM
(Happy Bday e-card)
 2021-08-12
 9:51:45 PM
你好！已经不用QQ吗？
 2021-08-15
 3:45:39 AM
微信呢？
 3:53:06 AM
我发给了你个email
 2021-09-02
  3:33:48 PM
不要聊天吗？
  3:36:26 PM
删掉？
  3:43:43 PM
 (OK)
  3:43:58 PM
  (a screenshot of the deleting option)
  3:44:06 PM
  (a screenshot of the delete button)
  3:44:12 PM
OK?"
 This is it... as usual.

Title: Rejection #65
Post by: Incel on June 14, 2023, 08:26:16 PM

Rejection #65

Another "ghosted me" one. The significant here is that the woman was some hitting the wall with kid according to her photos but high-standards (high level pickiness) so the ghosted result was logical. Nicknamed "自在的风" ("爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈……"), from Taiwan according to her profile:

"2019-09-13
 8:11:09 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
 7:13:38 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
 3:51:24 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:46:42 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-12
 6:05:17 PM
已经不用QQ吗？
 2021-08-14
 1:33:39 AM
现在我加你的微信。"

But no result... no QQ's, no WeChat's replies... ghosted as hell. Rejections... so normal in the inceldom world.

Title: Rejection #66
Post by: Incel on June 14, 2023, 09:44:40 PM

Rejection #66

This one is about another honest type woman who said that "I don't like you." ("I just want you as a (free) teacher and a common friend.') Sort of primitive, sort of hurting but much better than those who pretend to like you or wasting your time more than her. So, she was some university or college student, nicknamed "-丧." ("fooled like a fool but still wishful thinking playing a one-man show"):

"2019-02-23
-曲终人散🍃 10:50:24 PM
我是-曲终人散🍃
 10:50:40 PM
你好，你好！
 10:50:55 PM
我是个外国朋友。欧洲的，欧盟人。
 10:51:02 PM
你是哪里的？
-曲终人散🍃 11:36:55 PM
定安
 11:38:42 PM
不错的。安静的地方。我以前去过了。
 11:39:05 PM
 -- 是你吧？
-曲终人散🍃 11:39:09 PM
对
-曲终人散🍃 11:39:17 PM
你来中国多少年了
 11:39:43 PM
8年了。
 11:40:32 PM
 这个是我的照片。
-曲终人散🍃 11:40:58 PM
好巧哦，我是学航空专业的
 11:40:59 PM
现在我毕业了。在做网站和网页。有时教外语的。
-曲终人散🍃 11:41:08 PM
现在我也是学英语
 11:41:31 PM
 
🐅 11:41:35 PM
Good.
 11:41:44 PM
Where do you study it?
-曲终人散🍃 11:42:48 PM
I am studying in Gui  Linyang, Haikou
 11:44:26 PM
I know it. It's far away.
-曲终人散🍃 11:44:34 PM
yes
-曲终人散🍃 11:44:49 PM
It's a long way to go to school.
-曲终人散🍃 11:45:47 PM
I feel so troubled.
 11:46:42 PM
Yes. From Haikou downtown to there is around 50 minutes by bus.
 11:46:48 PM
Where do you live now?
-曲终人散🍃 11:47:09 PM
haikou
 11:47:41 PM
我在红城湖这边。你呢？
-曲终人散🍃 11:47:51 PM
忠介路
-曲终人散🍃 11:47:59 PM
I often go to school by bus.
-曲终人散🍃 11:48:06 PM
Because it saves money.
 11:48:35 PM
Yes. You're right! Only by bus. Is it still 5 yuan?
-曲终人散🍃 11:48:52 PM
Four yuan
 11:51:49 PM
I see.
 11:52:10 PM
What do you like to do? Tell me about your hobbies, if you wish.
-曲终人散🍃 11:53:12 PM
Dancing, singing,
-曲终人散🍃 11:53:38 PM
Learn English.
 11:54:49 PM
我会帮忙你关于你的英文。 
-曲终人散🍃 11:54:59 PM
thank you
 11:55:28 PM
I also like to sing. And I like Chinese kung-fu, reading books (philosophy and psychology). I like watching movies, too.
 11:55:38 PM
You're welcome!
-曲终人散🍃 11:56:45 PM
I think it's good.
 11:57:11 PM
Yes, thanks! 
-曲终人散🍃 11:59:17 PM
我现在回姐妹那边  然后休息明天去学校报名
 11:59:43 PM
OK. Take care!
-曲终人散🍃 11:59:43 PM
回归学校生活
 2019-02-24
 12:00:23 AM
I'll support you! 
-曲终人散🍃 12:00:51 AM
OK
-曲终人散🍃 12:03:54 AM
What's your name?
 12:08:32 AM
xxxxxxxxxxxxx。
 12:08:46 AM
英文的是xxxxxxxxxxxxxx。
 12:08:50 AM
你的呢？
-曲终人散🍃 12:09:17 AM
My name  is  Mo Anfan
 12:11:16 AM
I like it! 
-曲终人散🍃 12:11:42 AM
Are you kidding?
 12:12:19 AM
No。我就觉的是好听的。
-曲终人散🍃 12:22:18 AM
我不喜欢这个名字
-曲终人散🍃 12:22:20 AM
 
 12:23:18 AM
你有英语的名字吧？
 12:29:19 AM
没有的话，我选择给你个好听的英文的名字：Wendy。
-曲终人散🍃 12:29:53 AM
wendy什么意思
 12:30:12 AM
英文的女性名字。
2019-02-24
-曲终人散🍃 12:30:16 AM
中文翻译是什么
 12:30:20 AM
它们没有什么意思的。
 12:30:43 AM
可是最有名的Wendy是PETER PAN的女朋友。
-曲终人散🍃 12:30:58 AM
我不懂
 12:31:10 AM
彼得潘
 12:31:32 AM
 
-曲终人散🍃 12:31:48 AM
我没有听过
 12:31:49 AM
 
-曲终人散🍃 12:32:22 AM
我对外国的了解很少
-曲终人散🍃 12:32:35 AM
人物我都不懂
 12:32:51 AM
没关系。跟我聊天的，天天，慢慢你会学到好多东西。我的专业是“哲学”，我真的会给你好多有意思的知识。
 12:33:34 AM
很快你会的，因为你已经有我。    相信我。
-曲终人散🍃 12:33:35 AM
OK  thankyou
 12:33:51 AM
Well. It's my pleasure!   
-曲终人散🍃 12:35:48 AM
Thank you for helping me with my English.
 12:37:30 AM
I will help you with your English and with your other knowledge.
-曲终人散🍃 12:37:38 AM
我非常喜欢欧洲的化妆品   你懂化妆品吗？
 12:37:58 AM
What you want to know -- just ask me. I will answer you all. 你什么也会问，我什么也会回答你。
-曲终人散🍃 12:38:28 AM
OK
 12:39:21 AM
知道，可是现在越来越多欧洲女人们不太用它们，因为都是化学的。对皮肤不好。有些会做皮肤癌。所以欧洲的女人们越来越喜欢自然的品：黄瓜，牛奶，鸡蛋，这类的。
-曲终人散🍃 12:40:07 AM
我看到那个雀斑女神五官超好看的
-曲终人散🍃 12:40:15 AM
脸上都是雀斑
 12:56:38 AM
说实话，你那么漂亮，你有自然的美丽和魅力，你真的不需要恋情化妆的。It's just my honest opinion for you.
-曲终人散🍃 12:57:38 AM
爱美之心人人都有
 1:02:32 AM
Everyone has a heart for beauty.
-曲终人散🍃 1:03:00 AM
对
-曲终人散🍃 1:03:25 AM
好了休息明天去学校报名呢
-曲终人散🍃 1:03:49 AM
good  night!
 1:04:57 AM
是的。我也是晚安，美女！ 
 10:08:10 PM
Hello!
How are you?
-曲终人散🍃 10:09:16 PM
I am fine  thank you   and you?
 10:09:55 PM
Working all the day long... a bit tired.
 10:10:06 PM
What are you doing?
-曲终人散🍃 10:11:25 PM
Cleaning
 10:11:36 PM
 
 2019-02-25
 12:28:51 AM
今晚我教你个外国的，欧洲的知识： “EU“ 是 ”欧盟“。有些欧洲是欧盟，有些欧洲不属于欧盟。
-曲终人散🍃 8:11:03 AM
good morning!
-曲终人散🍃 8:11:10 AM
ok
 1:32:06 PM
Hi! Good afternoon! 
 1:32:19 PM
How are you? What are you doing?
-曲终人散🍃 1:33:13 PM
午休时间
 1:33:45 PM
Nap time?
-曲终人散🍃 1:34:17 PM
yes
 1:34:18 PM
“nap” 知道吗？
-曲终人散🍃 1:34:31 PM
午睡时间
 1:35:00 PM
Do you have a nap? 就是：Are you sleeping?
-曲终人散🍃 1:36:03 PM
no
 1:37:08 PM
好。所以你已经学了新的单词（nap）。  我说了，我天天会帮忙你学习好多新的知识。
-曲终人散🍃 1:39:56 PM
thank you！
-曲终人散🍃 1:40:25 PM
I'm going to bed now.
 1:40:30 PM
You are so welcome! 
 1:42:25 PM
好的。休息好。 有空的时候我要请你一起出去（比如我们会去看电影,开心一下，同时我也会教你英语。）   
-曲终人散🍃 1:42:46 PM
OK
-曲终人散🍃 8:10:20 PM
good evening！
-曲终人散🍃 8:20:35 PM
Are you busy?
 10:33:17 PM
Hello! Yes, I was busy, because I was outside to teach some English.
 10:33:31 PM
Now I'm at home and I'm watching the Oscars.
 10:33:38 PM
 
 10:34:04 PM
Thank you for your messages! I like we being in touch! 
-曲终人散🍃 10:36:28 PM
I  hope  so!
2019-02-25
 10:37:31 PM
真的。I'm for real!   
-曲终人散🍃 10:38:16 PM
OK   I see!
 10:40:07 PM
Where do you live now? In the GuiLinYang dormitory, right?
-曲终人散🍃 10:40:32 PM
yes
-曲终人散🍃 10:40:42 PM
I'm in the dormitory now.
 10:41:19 PM
Good. And how many classmates are there in your dormitory room?
-曲终人散🍃 10:41:58 PM
Eight
 10:43:00 PM
Wow! Really?! Are there all of the rooms all 8?!
-曲终人散🍃 10:44:12 PM
Other dormitories are 11
 10:44:27 PM
Oh! Even worse! 
 10:44:59 PM
我们的，在欧洲的真的没有那么多一起的。我们的大多数都是2个到3个一起的。
-曲终人散🍃 10:45:18 PM
其他宿舍十一个人   我们宿舍才八个
 10:45:22 PM
对我来说8-11是真的”恐怖“。 
 10:45:45 PM
嗯嗯。我明白。。。。。。
-曲终人散🍃 10:46:16 PM
I'm going to wash my face.
 10:46:54 PM
好的。Go to wash your pretty face. 
-曲终人散🍃 10:56:16 PM
hello
 10:56:36 PM
Hello!
-曲终人散🍃 10:58:32 PM
  ;D
 10:59:07 PM
  You're so lovely.
-曲终人散🍃 10:59:21 PM
Today is the first day of school.
-曲终人散🍃 10:59:48 PM
 
-曲终人散🍃 10:59:56 PM
why？
 11:00:13 PM
Yes, I know. And your major is 航空职业, right?
-曲终人散🍃 11:00:13 PM
yes
-曲终人散🍃 11:00:54 PM
How do you know?
11:01:16 PM
Because you're pretty and your character is nice, cheerful, funny and humorous.   
-曲终人散🍃 11:02:02 PM
How do you know?
 11:04:24 PM
I just think like this. And I believe it's so.
-曲终人散🍃 11:04:45 PM
yes
11:05:35 PM-曲终人散🍃撤回了一条消息
-曲终人散🍃 11:06:14 PM
I am a lively and lovely girl.
 11:08:53 PM
Oh, yes! I think the same! And also, you're a very pretty girl. I like your face and I like your body. I am honest. 实话说。 
-曲终人散🍃 11:09:59 PM
I'm  shy
11:11:30 PM-曲终人散🍃撤回了一条消息
 11:11:53 PM
好的。不要再说这样的。对不起我！
11:12:07 PM-曲终人散🍃撤回了一条消息
 11:12:18 PM
哦！真好看的身体！有瘦的，有性感的！
11:12:28 PM
很好啊！
-曲终人散🍃 11:12:54 PM
oh  no
11:12:55 PM
我的是只有171.非常合适我的。 I'm shy, too...
-曲终人散🍃 11:13:39 PM
I don't think so.
-曲终人散🍃 11:13:54 PM
 
 11:14:13 PM
我真的喜欢你的照片。为什么删除了？
 11:14:48 PM
我是个直接的男孩子。我有什么说什么。我真的喜欢你。100%实话。
-曲终人散🍃 11:15:01 PM
因为我不暴露照片的
 11:16:15 PM
我也不会暴露你的照片。只有我自己看看。我会保密的。我是责任心的。I'm very responsible.
-曲终人散🍃 11:17:09 PM
I don't like that
 11:17:23 PM
What you don't like?
 11:19:03 PM
你不喜欢什么？
-曲终人散🍃 11:19:35 PM
我也不知道我不喜欢什么
 11:20:15 PM
  好吧。
 11:20:22 PM
 
-曲终人散🍃 11:20:33 PM
I'm going to bed now.
-曲终人散🍃 11:20:59 PM
Good  night!
 11:21:11 PM
Alright. Have a sweet dream! 外国哥哥会想你的。
 2019-02-27
 1:25:53 PM
下午好！ 今天教你另外的一个欧洲的知识：Aristotle （亚里斯多德）是最有名的古欧洲大哲学家。
-曲终人散🍃 1:26:58 PM
OK
 1:27:19 PM
 
-曲终人散🍃 1:28:29 PM
The exam failed.
2019-02-27
 1:29:11 PM
Sorry to hear that. Do you have another exam?
-曲终人散🍃 1:29:46 PM
no     Communication skills
-曲终人散🍃 1:30:13 PM
English Test 96
 1:30:20 PM
What you will do next?
-曲终人散🍃 1:30:51 PM
补考
1:31:30 PM
OK, I wish you good luck!
 1:31:45 PM
它（补考）是什么时候的？
-曲终人散🍃 1:31:52 PM
考不过拿不到毕业证
-曲终人散🍃 1:32:24 PM
Next week
 1:33:15 PM
明白了，可是没有毕业证的话，你还会有好多好的工作。比如看看昨天我看到了什么：工钱不错，工作不难：
 1:33:29 PM
 
 1:33:47 PM
工资是不是很好？
-曲终人散🍃 1:40:32 PM
我不喜欢这些职业
-曲终人散🍃 1:40:43 PM
我喜欢翻译官
 1:42:41 PM
我也不喜欢教外语，我喜欢写电子书本，可是经常在一辈子我们不会有我们的理想的工作。
 1:43:01 PM
明白。
 1:43:14 PM
 祝你好运，真的。
-曲终人散🍃 1:43:37 PM
我是想读翻译官   我父母叫我学航空
-曲终人散🍃 1:44:46 PM
I don't like this major at all.
 1:44:51 PM
I think 翻译 is better for you, because you already understand English and you can improve it.
-曲终人散🍃 1:46:27 PM
I think so.
 1:48:16 PM
Me too. If you practise with me everyday, I may guarantee it! For real.
-曲终人散🍃 1:48:46 PM
no no
 1:50:09 PM
为什么不？
-曲终人散🍃 1:51:03 PM
我觉得没必要这样
 1:54:20 PM
好的。没关系。不过我们会见面，玩玩，对吧？我很喜欢你。
-曲终人散🍃 1:55:27 PM
中国那么多好看的女人  为什么要这样呢
 1:56:59 PM
因为我不要那么多，我要只有跟你见面啊。我觉的一个够了，我不要做花心的男子。
-曲终人散🍃 1:57:46 PM
我觉得没必要这样  我只是把你当成我的老师   外国朋友
 1:59:01 PM
那，你不是已经同意了我们去看电音吗？
 1:59:24 PM
怎么突然已经不喜欢我？害怕我什么？ 
 2:01:04 PM
还记得吗? 为什么已经不喜欢我的? 你找到了男朋友还是你害怕我是老外？怎么啦？
 2:03:50 PM
   你怎么对我这样的？我不明白。 我真的希望了我们会见面。
 2:04:55 PM
你对外国人有偏见还是就不喜欢我？你觉的我不好看还是你害怕我？慢慢说，我会理解。
-曲终人散🍃 2:07:40 PM
我不喜欢你   我只是把你当成我的朋友
 2:08:43 PM
好吧，我明白。对你的眼睛我的外貌是丑的。理解。谢谢你的诚信！
 2:09:07 PM
祝你找到个帅哥！ 祝福你！
-曲终人散🍃 2:10:22 PM
可能你的理解错了
-曲终人散🍃 2:10:31 PM
看电影不一定是喜欢
 2:11:20 PM
嗯嗯。好的。随便。我理解。我明白。对你的眼睛我的外貌是丑的。理解。谢谢你的诚信！ 祝你找到个帅哥！ 祝福你！
"

Sent a photo and then deleted it... admits she doesn't like something and then saying she doesn't know what is this something... maybe you noticed all these contradictions... it wasn't easy to manage this contact but I did my best when it came to patience, romantic attitude, respect, free language and culture knowledge teaching, etc. But when they don't like you, the personality isn't helpful. Have to maxx more.
By the way, notice how more and more often I gave them time to decide and to be "a warm approach" but when I see that they not see me as "a dating material"; not liking me at all, I am stopping the time consuming (and not rewarding at all) communications.

Title: Rejection #67
Post by: Incel on June 15, 2023, 04:31:59 AM

Rejection #67

Another stange one who ghosted me (she said she is just interested in finding a teacher but even after I tried to make an appointment about teaching still get ghosted)... Some people are really confused...

Well, someone called (nicknamed) "wu":

"2018-09-26
 12:41:49 AM
KFC
 12:46:41 AM
 Hello! I like the mermaid.   
 12:51:49 PM
你好吗？
啾啾 2:17:16 PM
hha
 2:17:42 PM
你好，你好！
 2:17:48 PM
你多大了？
啾啾 2:17:55 PM
20
 2:18:22 PM
 好。
 2:20:07 PM
我是个外国朋友，欧盟的。你是哪里人？
啾啾 2:27:33 PM
中国
啾啾 2:27:50 PM
你的职业是什么?
 2:28:07 PM
肯定。可是我的意思是你是海南的还是大陆的？
啾啾 2:28:27 PM
噢~
啾啾 2:28:33 PM
大陆的
 2:28:44 PM
做网站，网页；写电子书本；教外语的。
 2:29:11 PM
我以前在大陆上班了。最近只有在海南。你是大陆哪里的？
啾啾 2:30:16 PM
很不错
啾啾 2:30:21 PM
你的中文很好
啾啾 2:30:25 PM
广东的
 2:30:46 PM
因为我爱学习中文，我喜欢中国的文化。
 2:31:03 PM
我在珠海上班了。
 2:31:18 PM
你这边是大学生吗？还是打工？
 2:33:45 PM
你的职业是什么?
啾啾 2:37:49 PM
大学生
 2:38:01 PM
学习什么？
 2:38:15 PM
我毕业了“哲学与人类学”的。
啾啾 2:41:21 PM
我是商务英语专业的学生
 2:41:53 PM
So, your English should be okay so far?
 2:42:06 PM
Do you have a photo?
啾啾 2:42:53 PM
no good
 2:43:30 PM
慢慢学习；有机会的话，我也会帮你联系好好你的英文。
啾啾 2:43:41 PM
i don't like take the picture
 2:43:44 PM
有照片吗？发给一张1吧。
 2:43:59 PM
好吧。
啾啾 2:44:20 PM
你不是老师吗?为什么要照片?
 2:45:26 PM
老师不是人吗？ 每一个人会要照片。这个是这么简单的。
 2:45:49 PM
你为什么加了我？因为你找老师还是因为你要我们做朋友？
啾啾 2:46:58 PM
之前你在肯德基
 2:48:18 PM
好的，可是你为什么加了我？因为你要老师还是你要友谊？
啾啾 2:49:12 PM
老师
 9:08:12 PM
好的。我刚才下课了。
 9:08:20 PM
你要什么时候开始？
 2018-09-27
啾啾 11:52:16 AM
你有时间的时候
 1:04:14 PM
明天下午，好吗？
 2:24:02 PM
明天，下午，16：00种， 好吗？
 4:58:30 PM
是否？
 4:58:49 PM
 5:00:59 PM
 5:01:06 PM
(Tried to make calls, videocalls, sending message/screenshot)
 
 您发送了一个窗口抖动。
 您发送了一个窗口抖动。
 5:42:09 PM
是否？
 8:11:47 PM
喂？有人在吗?
 2018-09-28
 2:36:03 PM
到底要上课还是不要？
 您发送了一个窗口抖动。
 2018-09-29
 12:55:39 PM
好吧。你一点都不理我的信息。一点都不回答我。算了。
 2018-10-27
 3:43:44 AM
今晚是我的生日！在看看好久没有聊天了。你好吗？"
 This ghosting was one of the most strange ones and sort of rude enough. She could just say she's not going to study... such a time waster!

Title: Rejection #68
Post by: Incel on June 15, 2023, 05:25:48 AM

Rejection #68

Okay, this one was comparatively polite but in one moment ghosted me too... I wasn't sure if she is really in Wuhan or not...

"2018-10-27
 2:21:59 AM
今晚是我的生日！在看看好久没有聊天了。你好吗？
applause 7:23:37 AM
生日快乐呀
applause 7:23:51 AM
我很好 你呢
 3:02:13 PM
  谢谢！
还可以。
我还在海口。你呢？
applause 4:08:03 PM
我在武汉
 4:08:38 PM
哦。好的。 
applause 4:20:03 PM
嗯嗯
 2019-02-14
 1:51:27 PM
情人节快乐！。。。。。。
小方本方🤫 6:38:47 PM
 (rose emoji)
 9:35:48 PM
谢谢你，亲爱的朋友！
 9:35:59 PM
现在你在哪里？
 9:45:43 PM
 <-- Not bad! I like it.
 9:46:21 PM
 <-- Really pretty!
小方本方🤫 10:54:43 PM
这是我老师
 10:56:03 PM
你不是21岁的女孩子吗？怎么你的老师看起来也是一样的年龄？
小方本方🤫 10:56:27 PM
她很年轻
 10:56:44 PM
你在学习什么？在海口吗?
 11:04:08 PM
 <-- 这个不是“变态”的意思。就是那个日本的性感的女孩们等等。
 11:05:09 PM
你在学习什么？在海口吗?
 11:05:19 PM
我是个外国朋友。你知道吧。
 11:29:28 PM
怎么不说话？
小方本方🤫 11:30:15 PM
我在开会
 2019-06-07
 4:25:23 PM
端午节快乐！
🐳 4:35:30 PM
端午安康
🐅 4:36:17 PM
  :)
🐅 4:36:20 PM
我是个外国朋友。你知道吧。
🐳 4:38:08 PM
我知道
🐅 4:38:51 PM
那，很好！ 我还在海口。你也在。有空的时候要见面。
🐳 4:40:50 PM
不好意思我不在那边
🐅 4:41:07 PM
回来的时候吖。
🐅 4:47:29 PM
我已经减肥了，每天锻炼。身体越来越好看： 。
🐅 4:48:23 PM
而且我还不吸烟，不喝白酒。天天写诗，写电子书。我的中文也越来越好的。
🐳 5:37:11 PM
so？
🐅 5:38:22 PM
What I mean is that now I am bettet than before and it'll be good and fun for you to meet me; I'm not just an ordinary foreigner.
🐳 5:41:17 PM
better
🐅 5:41:34 PM
So?
🐳 5:41:49 PM
nothing else
🐅 5:42:47 PM
所以我们见面吧! 你什么时候要回来到海口市？
🐳 5:43:17 PM
我不是海口的
🐅 5:44:08 PM
无所谓。我也不是海口的。我是外国人。而且在海口有好多大陆的人。
🐅 5:44:19 PM
你什么时候要来海口呢？
🐳 5:48:53 PM
可能不会去了
🐅 5:49:18 PM
你住哪里？
🐅 5:56:49 PM
你在哪里？
🐳 5:56:57 PM
武汉
🐅 5:57:31 PM
你还在武汉啊。
 2019-09-13
 8:00:46 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
 3:44:42 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 3:44:58 PM
你过得怎样？
 2020-02-07
 10:09:35 PM
 (pic)
 10:09:42 PM
我是那个外国的朋友。
 10:09:48 PM
你还好吗？
 10:11:53 PM
(phone call attempt)
"
 I hope she is alright but if she really was in Wuhan at that time... the first COVID-19 virus, you know...

Title: Rejection #69
Post by: Incel on June 15, 2023, 06:30:19 PM

Rejection #69

Ghosted type rejection. As usual. Done by someone nicknamed "﹏ㄨ青春如此纠结 ﹏ㄨ青" ("我爱的人选择了他爱的人，爱我的人选择了不爱他的人。", "※ 我只记得你转身以后我哭了，我只想说我会让你后悔的"). As usual, I sent many messages, years of fruitless communication:

"2019-09-13
 8:12:57 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
 10:35:54 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
 3:49:28 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:47:27 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2:47:37 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2:47:47 PM
在吗？
 2021-01-02
 8:10:39 AM
(Happy Birthday e-card.)
 2021-08-13
 1:50:14 AM
已经不用QQ吗？
 2021-08-15
 3:32:55 AM
微信呢？"
Ghosted to oblivion.

Title: Rejection #70
Post by: Incel on June 15, 2023, 06:53:22 PM

Rejection #70

For the readers I'm trying to make this e-book more interesting, not very boring and thus I try to diversify the ghosted type rejctions with ones who happened offline. Here comes one of them. There was one with a dubious marriage (never saw her husband around; not clear if she is married or separated or divorced). She agreed to meet up and to chat. We met in a kind of public area. She was still busy with her business talks, chats, actions so the conversation wasn't smooth. Later, online, step by step she started to ghost me and I just saw it: maybe she expected something more (not especially the looks, but maybe, in this case -- the income, the personality, I don't know... or just suddenly changed her mind). And that was all. No regrets. It was just a 3.5/10 auntie type person.

Title: Rejection #71
Post by: Incel on June 15, 2023, 07:18:49 PM

Rejection #71

Ghosted type one. Met her in a KFC and gave her a business card. After some short chats, well... ghosted. Surprised?

Nicknamed "向日葵":

"2019-09-30
🌻 1:29:28 AM
我是🌻
 1:29:43 AM
?
 2:52:25 PM
你好。你是哪位？
 7:26:03 PM
 ?
 7:26:20 PM
你是中国人还是外国人？我是外国朋友。
🌻 7:26:33 PM
你是我在肯德基的那个
🌻 7:26:42 PM
你给我的明信片加你的
🌻 7:26:47 PM
那个女孩
 7:27:22 PM
是吗？很高兴认识你！
 7:27:45 PM
我天天上网，我们可以经常聊天。
 7:27:54 PM
我住在海口市。
 7:28:25 PM
教英语，写电子书本，学习。
 7:30:36 PM
我的专业是”哲学“。
 7:30:41 PM
你是哪里的？
🌻 7:30:46 PM
海口
🌻 7:30:49 PM
我先吃饭哈
🌻 7:31:02 PM
我不常看www
🌻 7:31:05 PM
Qq
 7:31:21 PM
好。   
 7:32:08 PM
有空的时候找我见面：可以去看电影，或在沙滩，公园。开心就好。   
🌻 7:32:32 PM
好的
 2020-01-24
 10:38:48 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
 3:44:26 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-01
🌻 6:08:14 PM
加油
 7:20:17 PM
嗯。你现在在哪里？我在海口。
 2020-02-02
🌻 9:29:52 PM
海口呢
 9:31:32 PM
很好。我也在这里。无聊的时候可以见面啊。 
 2020-02-03
 3:05:25 PM
我不吸烟，不喝白酒，我写诗，我写电子书本，天天锻炼武术，天天看书。你害怕什么？我人很文明，也很好。
 3:05:57 PM
 不要担心，不要害怕。我-好。 
 2020-02-14
 2:41:01 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-02-23
 4:42:12 PM
(a pic)
 6:53:53 PM
你还好吗？
 2020-02-24
 9:31:45 PM
 (a call attempt)"

 She said we can meet but later didn't do it. Just ghosted me. Not good enough for her. Incelish...

Title: Rejection #72
Post by: Incel on June 15, 2023, 08:12:58 PM

Rejection #72

It was with an online female nicknamed "268243" which I met from an online English QQ group. Obviously she was searching for a foreign boyfriend (or something similar as relationship) because she insisted to have video-chats, to watch photos, to know my nationality, age and even the height. But she was the type "Only I can see you/watch you, you can't." and tricked others to send her their photos and nothing in return... so I refused to follow this model ("Only I send you, you just judge my looks and don't show yourself!")... but still, I was too generous to send her a photograph of mine... she insisted to continue giving her more information about me, without showing herself... and at the end she decided to ghost me. Let it be.

"2020-03-31
 10:01:45 PM
Hi, Barbara! Nice to meet you around!
 10:01:51 PM
How are you?
 10:05:29 PM
Do you speak any English?
 10:05:37 PM
I'm from Europe, a EU person.
Barbara 10:06:04 PM
Hi
 10:06:23 PM
Where are you from, Barbara?
Barbara 10:06:42 PM
China
Barbara 10:06:52 PM
English and Chinese
 10:06:57 PM
I suppose so.
 10:07:04 PM
Are you in Haikou?
Barbara 10:07:10 PM
Which one do you prefer?
Barbara 10:07:13 PM
Yeah
 10:07:29 PM
English, because my Chinese isn't very good.
 10:07:36 PM
Me too. I live in Haikou.
 10:08:34 PM
What are you working currently?
Barbara 10:12:05 PM
Now I'm in guangzhou
Barbara 10:12:14 PM
But I will back to海口 soon
 10:12:33 PM
It's nice to hear that.
 10:12:49 PM
I'd be glad to be your friend!
Barbara 10:13:14 PM
What's your nationality
Barbara 10:14:41 PM
Are you A student?
 10:16:40 PM
I'm from the EU. I'm a teacher and a writer.
Barbara 10:17:47 PM
What is EU
Barbara 10:18:12 PM
Are you an  English teacher?
 10:18:18 PM
The European Union, it's in Europe. A big thing.
 10:18:36 PM
Yes. My major is "Philosophy". I write books and I do teach English as well.
Barbara 10:19:02 PM
There are 27 countries in EU?
Barbara 10:19:10 PM
Which one is your country?
Barbara 10:20:07 PM
Where have you been to China?
 10:20:41 PM
Yes, there are.
 10:21:26 PM
Well, I'll keep it as a secret for now. Later, if we become good friends, I'll tell you more details about the country. I think it's not important though.
 10:21:54 PM
I've been to Heilongjiang, Jilin, Liaoning, Shanghai, Guangdong, Macao (Aomen) and Hainan.
 10:23:57 PM
The important is people to meet someone who is valuable: for example I don't smoke, don't drink hard alcohol, I'm a sporty man (wushu and fitness), I like to write poems and I do write e-books. This is good. The nationality means nothing.
 10:26:11 PM
By the way, I have white skin, bigger nose, blue-green eyes, brown hair. And I'm not fat.
 10:26:23 PM
Maybe you may like me. You may add me.
Barbara 10:35:29 PM
I'm ugly
Barbara 10:35:39 PM
Neither beautiful nor sexy
 10:36:53 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
 10:37:22 PM
But I didn't mean that. I don't need a girl to be pretty or sexy... I just value the inner beauty. 
Barbara 10:37:44 PM
I'm lazy and stupid
 10:38:24 PM
Why do you think you're stupid? I don't know about the laziness... but I think you're a clever girl.
Barbara 10:39:41 PM
Where do you get the picture of your head portrait?
 10:39:58 PM
It's my favorite plant. It's in Hainan.
 10:40:23 PM
The photo is taken in Haikou, near the Hairui's palace museum.
 10:40:34 PM
I like plants.
Barbara 10:40:44 PM
Cannot be seen clear
 10:40:46 PM
And I'm a fan of the local, Hainanese nature.
Barbara 10:40:55 PM
So I cannot recognize what it is
Barbara 10:41:17 PM
But do you wonder the impression of this picture?
Barbara 10:41:23 PM
In China
 10:41:33 PM
 
 10:42:07 PM
Yes, you may tell me. What's the impression? 
10:42:25 PMBarbara撤回了一条消息
Barbara 10:42:41 PM
In China，Only middle-aged women use this kind of picture as their head portrait
Barbara 10:42:46 PM
Haha
Barbara 10:42:50 PM
But you can use
Barbara 10:42:55 PM
Because you are special
Barbara 10:43:01 PM
You can use what you like
 10:43:12 PM
Oh, I see. But I just love plants, so... I'm a romantic man.
 10:43:26 PM
I can use my ex-image then.
2020-03-31
Barbara 10:43:39 PM
No you don't need to change
 10:44:03 PM
It's okay. 
 10:44:15 PM
I like when people are honest to me!
Barbara 10:44:17 PM
Sorry
 10:47:49 PM
What are you sorry for? I'm glad you said it. I love the honesty!
 10:48:05 PM
Because I'm a very straight and honest, frank man too.
10:48:23 PM
This is my ex-avatar. That time I was heart-broken.
 10:48:34 PM
But, I can find something else...
Barbara 10:49:07 PM
What is avatar?
 10:50:10 PM
The picture like that 
 10:50:24 PM
But the original meaning of "avatar" is a Buddhist thing.
 10:50:53 PM
It shows "a god, who was born as a man on Earth", to protect people. It's according to the Buddhism.
 10:51:45 PM
I've changed my avatar. This is a dish of food. I can cook some simple dishes like this one.
Barbara 10:57:49 PM
Tomato and potato
 10:57:50 PM
[自动回复]你好，我现在有事不在，一会再和你联系。
Barbara 11:00:58 PM
(She tries to make a video-call, to see/watch me)
Barbara 11:01:48 PM
 你的通话时长较短，是不是遇到问题了？试试语音测试向导，帮你解决问题。
Barbara 11:02:00 PM
?
 11:02:09 PM
Brb. Wait. I started to take a shower right now... BRB.
 11:10:05 PM
I'm back.
 11:10:21 PM
Well, yes, it's the exactly what you said.
Barbara 11:10:34 PM
Can I see you
 11:10:35 PM
Mashed potatoes and tomatoes.
 11:10:50 PM
Sure, we may exchange photos, if you wish so.
 11:11:02 PM
 
Barbara 11:11:06 PM
Cannot be video call？
 11:11:36 PM
Not now, because it's late and the neighbors may feel not comfortable. I am very silent at night.
Barbara 11:11:59 PM
Are not you live along?
 11:13:55 PM
我的中文不太好，可是我试试翻译一下：我说我的“邻居”。比如我是在102，邻居是103和101公寓。所以晚上的时候，因为墙好差，我不要他们觉的我是吵人。我也希望他们不吵。对我安静的生活是价值观。
 11:14:07 PM
And I'll send you a photo without beard.
Barbara 11:14:18 PM
Okay
Barbara 11:14:48 PM
May I know your height
Barbara 11:15:06 PM
And your age
 11:15:38 PM
 (A photo of mine.)
 11:16:07 PM
OK. Sure. But now let me first see your photos. Step by step. One thing in a time.
Barbara 11:16:14 PM
You are teaching children english?
 11:16:27 PM
Yes. And also I'm a poet and a writer.
Barbara 11:16:38 PM
Is English your mother tongue?
Barbara 11:16:43 PM
You are so brilliant
 11:17:06 PM
Waiting for your photos.
Barbara 11:17:21 PM
But I never promise you to change photo
 11:17:52 PM
Thanks! I have a lot of hobbies.而且除了英语，我会几门外语的。
现在你发给我你的照片，如果我已经发给了你我的。
 11:18:39 PM
这样的话我已经不会告诉你我的年龄或我的其它什么的。原来我说了：
 11:19:11 PM
如果你只有要我发给，我回答你，但是你不要公平的，我也不会的。The choice is yours.
 11:22:24 PM
对了。我问你个问题：如果我们做VIDEO-chat, 我能看见你吗？还是只有你要看我的？
 11:23:57 PM
对了。我问你个问题：如果我们做VIDEO-chat话, 我能看见你吗？还是只有你要看我的？
Barbara 11:28:10 PM
有可能也让你看我
 11:29:14 PM
我喜欢不自私的，公平的友谊。不要只有我说，只有我发给，只有我。互相的，平等的，是我的核心价值观。
Barbara 11:30:04 PM
You are too serious
 11:32:44 PM
如果你发给你的照片，可是男人不发给你会觉的怎么样？如果只有你问你问题呢？我真的不喜欢这样的。是的，我要SERIOUS，责任心的态度。我不要玩玩，我不要开玩笑。我希望这些小事情可以公平一点。我不要人家利用我的。怎么只有我发给，你不发给？为什么只有我要回答你的问题，如果你一张照片都没有发给我的呢？抱歉，可是这样是不对的。
Barbara 11:49:45 PM
But I never send my picture to stranger
 11:51:28 PM
好吧。随便你。我说了我们EXCHANGE，你不说了早点你不要。你希望了只有你看我，可是不要我看你。非常不公平。   
Barbara 11:58:50 PM
Sorry
 2020-04-01
Barbara 12:06:15 AM
Do you like share your private event with others?
Barbara 12:28:14 AM
What can I get if I see you?
Barbara 12:28:18 AM
Money?
 12:39:03 AM
So, why did you lie the other person?
 12:39:29 AM
你怎么一直这样骗？他们让你看，你不让。他说的你可能是男人。
 12:39:48 AM
为什么要我们的照片，视频？你到底要做什么？
2020-04-01
 12:40:15 AM
是不是你卖我们的照片和私人的信息？你是什么人？
 12:41:52 AM
 (screenshot)
 12:45:10 AM
希望未来的时候你可以发现这个方式不是好的。
 2020-04-04
 4:48:42 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ..."
 That was all. Nothing more.
 A very selfish person. But she said it about herself too: "lazy and stupid". This is a good self-portrait. Nothing of value was lost. No regrets.

Title: Rejection #73
Post by: Incel on June 15, 2023, 08:19:54 PM

Rejection #73

Just a "hi" and never answered anymore. I even can not call it ghosting. It never began!

Some nicknamed "和伊苏":

"和伊苏 9:59:21 PM
你好
 2019-09-13
 8:05:52 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 8:06:08 PM
你是在海口吗？
 2020-01-30
 3:47:19 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:43:07 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-11
 2:39:28 AM
已经不用QQ吗？"

No comment. Inceldom. That's it.

Title: Rejection #74
Post by: Incel on June 16, 2023, 02:09:46 AM

Rejection #74

Ghosted but for good because when I'm watching this profile again I see it's a scam. Those kind that they promise you a lot of money if the woman get pregnant. In this profile we read: "王琪30岁，本人是浙江人，嫁富商，至今未有儿女，夫妻二人做检查，结果老公患有先天性不孕，爱人家财万贯，实在接受不了财产无子女继承。故夫妻商量决定来异地寻一个健康男士，帮我圆母亲梦，有缘合作前期付你60万，怀孕成功付你200百万，电话详谈188-xxxxxxxxxxxxx
" ("Wang Qi is 30 years old. She is from Zhejiang Province, married to a rich businessman, and has no children so far. The husband and wife had an examination, and the result was that his husband suffered from congenital infertility, and his wife has a wealth of money. He really cannot accept the inheritance of property without children. So the couple discussed and decided to come to a different place to find a healthy man to help me fulfill my mother's dream. They were destined to work together and pay you 600000 yuan in the early stage. If they were successful in pregnancy, they would pay you 200 million yuan. They will talk about it over the phone at 188-xxxxxxxxxxxxx"). LOL.

The current nickname is "期待真爱的到来" ("本人王琪，寻找一位健康的男士一起生活2个月，怀孕重谢，有心帮助我电话联系我188-xxxx" ("I, Wang Qi, am looking for a healthy man to live with for 2 months, getting pregnant and would like to thank you for your help. Please contact me by phone at 188-xxxx")).

I sent messages as usual:

"2019-09-13
 8:09:05 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
 7:11:26 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
 3:53:59 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:45:04 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-06-11
 8:55:34 AM
 2021-02-07
(Happy B-day e-card.)
 4:30:07 PM
现在你在海口吗？
 2021-08-14
 11:35:03 PM
已经不上QQ吗？微信呢？"

Ghosted for good. Not liking to chat with scammers!

Title: Rejection #75
Post by: Incel on June 16, 2023, 06:04:30 AM

Rejection #75

Well, one of many ghosted ones: "蒋芳菲" ("写真哦~是不是很美呢！喜欢的还有更厉害的哦~"):

"2019-09-13
 8:06:28 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
 3:47:33 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:43:19 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-08
 2:25:27 AM
已经一点都不上QQ吗？"
 Ghosted me so long that I even don't remember where and how we met. Offline or only online. All I know (see) she's someone from Hunan and she's 30. No idea if the info is legit. But how cares? When you're ghosted usually this is forever.

Title: Rejection #76
Post by: Incel on June 16, 2023, 06:56:00 AM

Rejection #76

It was someone very confused who really didn't know what exactly wants. At first said that some of her classmates recommended me to be her teacher and she is eager to study English. Later started to speak that her parents aren't willing to let her meet me and even to teach her for free, without money, gosh... in one moment I wasn't sure is it a joke, is it someone who is so full of contradictions or it's just because after she saw my photo she decided that I'm not enough good-looking for her. At the end I was the one who stopped this communication because I am getting wiser and when I see there is no chance, I don't waste any more time. Her slogan "我很可爱哦" ("I am very lovely, ah!") Exactly the opposite, according to what she demonstrated during this time wasting chat (chats):

"2020-03-31
仙女大大 3:19:53 PM
我是仙女大大
 3:20:22 PM
 
 3:20:26 PM
你好！
 3:20:31 PM
你是？
 3:22:59 PM
刚刚做了个QQ？ 
 3:23:06 PM
这样有什么用？
 3:23:45 PM
说直接的话，就好。我是坦白的。
仙女大大 3:25:43 PM
你好呀
仙女大大 3:25:57 PM
？？
仙女大大 3:26:01 PM
什么鬼
仙女大大 3:26:17 PM
你是我同学好久以前推荐的
仙女大大 3:26:26 PM
今天想起来加了呀
仙女大大 3:26:41 PM
我想跟你学习英语可以吗
3:27:13 PM你撤回了一条消息
 3:27:20 PM
哪个？
 3:28:02 PM
哪个同学？
仙女大大 3:28:22 PM
是叫王思雨的同学推荐的
仙女大大 3:28:41 PM
他是我上辅导班的同学
仙女大大 3:28:54 PM
他告诉我你英语很好
仙女大大 3:29:00 PM
还是一个外国人
仙女大大 3:29:12 PM
所以我想跟你学习
 3:30:45 PM
我真的不知道王思雨是谁，但是他说的对了。我是外国的，也是教外语的人。
仙女大大 3:31:53 PM
你为什么脾气这么大
仙女大大 3:31:57 PM
？
仙女大大 3:32:10 PM
他说你们是在公交车上认识的
 3:34:37 PM
请问，什么意思脾气大？！我就说我不知道那个人是谁。但是他（她）说的对：我真的是教师，也是外国的。这个不是脾气大的表达。我就是友谊上跟你聊天，因为你刚才加了我，我不知道你是谁，我慢慢问问。
仙女大大 3:35:42 PM
哦
仙女大大 3:36:01 PM
有时间一起学习英语吗
仙女大大 3:36:04 PM
？
 3:36:05 PM
好的。有过了这样情况一次。我们认识了在巴士上，聊天了跟几个女学生们。后来她们加了我的QQ，可是大多数后来不要了我们见。我不知道她们为什么害怕我的。
仙女大大 3:37:00 PM
可能中国的女孩都有戒备心吧
 3:37:07 PM
是的。当然有。因为现在们的学校不上课。我一直在家里。已经3个月左右没有见了人。所以我也会很高兴有个新的学生。
 3:37:38 PM
不是都这样的。我以前见面了好多开放的。可是这些就是非常容易害怕人的。
 3:37:53 PM
每一个人的心里不一样。
 3:38:25 PM
不是国籍的。比如在外国的国家也有这样：有些是勇敢的，有些是害怕的。什么都有。
 3:38:45 PM
你要学习一周一次还是一周两次？
仙女大大 3:39:36 PM
1次
仙女大大 3:39:54 PM
不过疫情期间我父母不让我出去
 3:40:33 PM
没事！我现在有个网络上的学生。她的父母也这样说的。所以我们用微信教课。你有微信吧？
仙女大大 3:40:48 PM
有
仙女大大 3:41:20 PM
你电话号码多少
仙女大大 3:41:54 PM
我过一段时间就要回广东了
 3:42:02 PM
它不是电话的，是名字的。给你加我：
 3:42:10 PM
(giving her my WeChat nickname)
 3:43:18 PM
一个小时是80元的。半个小时是40元的。如果你觉的合适你的话，我们可以今天开始。比如1个小时后。
 3:45:22 PM
好不好？
 3:47:48 PM
我的微信是 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx .
仙女大大 3:47:49 PM
    ;D ;D ;D
仙女大大 3:47:57 PM
没钱怎么办    :(( :(( :((
仙女大大 3:48:05 PM
奥对了
仙女大大 3:48:17 PM
我还不知道你长什么样子呐
仙女大大 3:48:34 PM
你有照片吗
 3:48:57 PM
没有慈善的（免费的）课。我也要买吃饭，没有免费的食物。
 3:49:09 PM
有。
仙女大大 3:49:43 PM
可以看看吗
仙女大大 3:50:16 PM
我也有
仙女大大 3:50:29 PM
照片
 3:50:51 PM
好的。可以兑换。 
仙女大大 3:52:00 PM
嗯嗯
 3:52:17 PM
(a photo of mine)
2020-03-31
仙女大大 3:53:18 PM
你上课的时候吗
仙女大大 3:53:33 PM
 (photo)
仙女大大 3:53:52 PM
这个是我
 3:54:29 PM
是的。
仙女大大 3:54:38 PM
 (another photo)
仙女大大 3:54:48 PM
前面那个是没有化妆
仙女大大 3:54:54 PM
后面这个化妆了
 3:54:56 PM
 很好看。
 3:55:26 PM
化妆没有需要吧。你够漂亮。而且化妆对身体不好。
仙女大大 3:55:41 PM
好的
仙女大大 3:56:01 PM
只是有时候会
仙女大大 3:57:39 PM
你是哪个国家的?
仙女大大 3:58:48 PM
我觉得我姐姐跟漂亮
 3:58:50 PM
[自动回复]你好，我现在有事不在，一会再和你联系。
 4:02:04 PM
欧洲的，欧盟人。
 4:03:05 PM
没关系。每一个人会有比她更美或更丑。最重要的是健康和成功。有健康和成功的话，什么都好。
 4:12:48 PM
所以？你真的不能去外面见面？
 4:22:49 PM
欧洲的，欧盟人。

没关系。每一个人会有比她更美或更丑。最重要的是健康和成功。有健康和成功的话，什么都好。

所以？你真的不能去外面见面？
 5:07:41 PM
 (pic)
 5:07:45 PM
怎么了？
 5:34:32 PM
你的原来的目标是找到个免费的老师？
 5:35:37 PM
可惜没有的。
 5:36:21 PM
这个也可以发给你：
仙女大大 5:37:16 PM
什么意思啊
仙女大大 5:37:32 PM
我们才刚刚认识
仙女大大 5:37:47 PM
互相了解一下怎么了
仙女大大 5:37:55 PM
你发这个有什么意思
仙女大大 5:38:33 PM
我不知道我坐了什么
仙女大大 5:38:36 PM
做
仙女大大 5:38:48 PM
这么人身攻击我
仙女大大 5:38:51 PM
什么意思啊
仙女大大 5:39:16 PM
我就是说我没钱
仙女大大 5:39:27 PM
也没说一定要学
仙女大大 5:39:46 PM
去哪里?
仙女大大 5:40:04 PM
我跟你很熟吗
 5:43:43 PM
意思是：你到底要不要我们见面，做真的朋友，还是只有找了个免费的老师？
 5:44:07 PM
 应该的。但是我要直接的，不要浪费时间的。
 5:45:02 PM
 ？？？？？？？？哪里有攻击？！
 5:46:07 PM
你怎么先说了我脾气大，现在你说我攻击你？！这个都是在你的想象里面。我跟你说特别礼貌的和友善的。
仙女大大 5:46:47 PM
这什么意思
仙女大大 5:47:31 PM
我觉得你说话牛头不对马嘴
仙女大大 5:47:37 PM
茕茕孑立
 5:47:46 PM
 这个我明白，可是我不明白你怎么认为了一个人可以免费上班。如果你是个老师你可以天天教免费吗？又累，又无聊（重复英语的是个无聊工作），又没有钱。 这个在科幻的书本也没有。 
仙女大大 5:47:50 PM
沆瀣一气
 5:48:15 PM
 比如公园，海滩，海口的地方好多，好美。
仙女大大 5:48:24 PM
仙女大大 5:48:44 PM
仙女大大 5:48:59 PM
仙女大大 5:49:12 PM
仙女大大 5:49:19 PM
(Her voice messages which are not available anymore. Below - the same.)
 5:49:27 PM
 比如公园，海滩，海口的地方好多，好美。
 5:49:28 PM
 是的。你要加熟，就说还要怎么熟。因为如果我们不见，怎么熟？目标就是：越来越见面，越来越熟。对不对？
仙女大大 5:50:08 PM
 5:50:11 PM
 意思是“真的父母不让你出去吗？”
仙女大大 5:50:14 PM
仙女大大 5:50:32 PM
不能
 5:50:42 PM
 这个成语我不懂。
仙女大大 5:50:44 PM
我父母不给
仙女大大 5:50:57 PM
emmmmmm
2020-03-31
 5:51:08 PM
 是什么意思？
仙女大大 5:51:40 PM
沆瀣一气，茕茕孑立，醍醐灌顶，
仙女大大 5:51:54 PM
你可以去网上查一下
 5:52:00 PM
   是不是骂人的？
仙女大大 5:52:11 PM
不是啊
仙女大大 5:52:15 PM
我骂你干嘛
 5:53:02 PM
 这些我要慢慢听。等一会儿。
仙女大大 5:56:03 PM
我觉得你的思路有点奇怪
 5:56:18 PM
明白了。你就是要免费听课，可是没有钱，所以试试没有用。我现在的收入很少。只有一个学生。不能免费教课的。不要生气。理解老师的劳动。
 5:57:15 PM
你不要跟我出去，你不要教你课。加我有什么意思的？
 5:59:20 PM
我的思路是科学的：就是我看有没有用+有没有意思。如果你要跟我联系，可是又不要我们做“老师-学生”联系或见面和发展友谊的关系，有什么意思的？！看起来你只有要网友。可是我觉的网友是无聊的。我喜欢去外面，散步，跑步，锻炼，喝饮料。我要我们一起出去这样做朋友的。不要只有看QQ上的单词。
 6:02:27 PM
这个你明白吧？你只有要网友。但是我觉的网友是无聊的。我喜欢去外面，散步，跑步，锻炼，喝饮料。我要我们一起出去这样做朋友的。不要只有看QQ上的单词。（这样才能熟。只有在网络上熟不了。）
 6:04:09 PM
网络上的翻译不是对的： 。
我的中文是自学的，所以有些成语和有些特别的单词我不懂。
 6:05:58 PM
但是这个不是重要的。重要的是我们看看我们2个有没有机会发展什么的。比如发展友谊。关于友谊我这样看： 我觉的“网友”是无聊的也是比较假的。我喜欢出门，喜欢散步，跑步，锻炼武术和其它运动，喝饮料（我不喝酒，不吸烟。我的教育是膏的，文明的）。我要我们一起出去这样做朋友的。不要只有看QQ上的单词。（这样才能熟。只有在网络上熟不了。）
 6:26:40 PM
你同意吗？你觉的这个我说的对吗：”重要的是我们看看我们2个有没有机会发展什么的。比如发展友谊。关于友谊我这样看： 我觉的“网友”是无聊的也是比较假的。我喜欢出门，喜欢散步，跑步，锻炼武术和其它运动，喝饮料（我不喝酒，不吸烟。我的教育是膏的，文明的）。我要我们一起出去这样做朋友的。不要只有看QQ上的单词。（这样才能熟。只有在网络上熟不了。）“
 你发送了一个窗口抖动。
 6:30:13 PM
   :) :)
仙女大大 6:41:03 PM
既然没有意义
仙女大大 6:41:09 PM
再见
 2020-04-01
 12:41:39 AM
随便你。
 "
She wanted to teach her for free. LOL. It's hard to explain that teaching is labor, it's boring, it makes you tired (mentally) when you repeat and repeat things that you already know... you are a human who needs the money, you can't just work for free when there is no free stuff for you. She also wanted to waste time online chatting endlessly without any real meeting outside, come on... I felt good that even rejected I stop wasting my time with her.

Title: Rejection #77
Post by: Incel on June 17, 2023, 05:37:54 AM

Rejection #77

Someone who met in the bus. Added me but... ghosted as usual... Never good enough! So incelish...

Nicknamed "x" (""):

"9:57:18 PM
你好👋
 9:57:30 PM
好！
ᵕ̈ 9:58:17 PM
请问你来自哪里呀
 9:58:41 PM
欧洲的，欧盟人。我住在海口。你呢?
ᵕ̈ 9:59:12 PM
欧洲哪个国家呀
 9:59:56 PM
欧盟。
ᵕ̈ 10:00:09 PM
你的联系方式是提前写好的吗
 10:00:11 PM
你呢？湖北人？
ᵕ̈ 10:00:56 PM
欧盟不是一个组织吗
 10:01:10 PM
不懂。什么方式？我有QQ，e-mail,这样的。
ᵕ̈ 10:01:46 PM
是啊
ᵕ̈ 10:02:00 PM
你在公交车上面写的还是之前写的
 10:02:59 PM
是的。欧盟是在欧洲的。给你看看一下： (EU map)
ᵕ̈ 10:03:47 PM
那你所在的是哪一个国家呢
 10:04:00 PM
看到了在公交车里你跟你的朋友说我，然后看到了你可能喜欢我，所以我写了给你我的QQ，因为我也觉的你是个好看的人。
ᵕ̈ 10:04:29 PM
不好意思您可能误会了
ᵕ̈ 10:04:48 PM
并不是那个意思
ᵕ̈ 10:04:53 PM
不好意思让您误会了
ᵕ̈ 10:05:09 PM
抱歉
 10:05:21 PM
不会吧。你告诉了他我是老外，什么的，然后你们看了我长时间，我觉的你喜欢跟我聊天。
 10:05:32 PM
怎么了？其实不喜欢我吗？
ᵕ̈ 10:05:44 PM
抱歉让您误会了
ᵕ̈ 10:06:09 PM
只是觉得在公交车上面看到别的国家的人比较新奇
ᵕ̈ 10:06:16 PM
没有其他意思
ᵕ̈ 10:06:17 PM
抱歉
 10:06:25 PM
我是个好的老外，我不吸烟，不喝白酒，也是高级的教育。我教孩子们： (photo of my teaching students)
 10:07:09 PM
要做朋友吗？
ᵕ̈ 10:07:15 PM
感谢您愿意来我们国家
ᵕ̈ 10:07:31 PM
好啊
ᵕ̈ 10:07:50 PM
请问您年龄多大
 10:08:03 PM
我已经几年在这里，我从小的时候喜欢中国。所以我已经住这里。
 10:08:18 PM
为什么问这个阿？！
 10:08:31 PM
xx岁，怎么了？(Said my biological age; I look younger because I'm healthy, sporty and with young heart.)
ᵕ̈ 10:08:53 PM
中国是个让人有安全感的国家我出生在这里我也很自豪
ᵕ̈ 10:09:05 PM
我就是问问而已
ᵕ̈ 10:09:14 PM
那您可以当叔叔了哈哈哈哈
 10:09:26 PM
又和谐的，又好的。我热爱中国。
10:09:34 PM
什么？！
 10:09:39 PM
你不是17岁吗？
 10:09:54 PM
 (screenshot)
 10:09:59 PM
  (screenshot)
 10:10:09 PM
真的，假的？
ᵕ̈ 10:10:12 PM
是啊
ᵕ̈ 10:10:14 PM
17
ᵕ̈ 10:10:18 PM
哈哈哈哈哈
ᵕ̈ 10:10:24 PM
开玩笑的
 10:10:34 PM
所以，你出生的时候我就是3年级的11岁的男孩子。
ᵕ̈ 10:10:49 PM
好的
ᵕ̈ 10:11:20 PM
请问您现在在哪当教师啊
 10:12:20 PM
现在6岁的孩子们比你11小。未来的时候如果他们叫你“阿姨”，你可能不会高兴吧。为什么要伤害人跟这些“大叔”，“叔叔”，等? 我觉的没有需要看年龄那么多。
 10:12:49 PM
在个培训学校，也做教教。我毕业了哲学与人类学。这里教外语的。
ᵕ̈ 10:13:09 PM
抱歉是我开玩笑过头了
 10:14:41 PM
嗯。
ᵕ̈ 10:15:37 PM
那就先聊到这了
ᵕ̈ 10:15:44 PM
我要洗漱睡觉了
 10:16:39 PM
好的，亲爱的美女朋友。有空，再聊。外国老哥住你晚安！
ᵕ̈ 10:17:05 PM
好的你也是
ᵕ̈ 10:17:08 PM
晚安
 10:17:32 PM
嗯，晚安
 2019-10-01
 3:25:20 PM
过节快乐！
 2019-10-01
 3:26:12 PM
今天我很高兴，因为是中华人民共和国的70岁生日。我从小的时候爱中国。天天锻炼武术。
 2019-10-02
 3:49:18 PM
你好吗？我在写我的一个电子书本。我也写诗。
 2019-10-03
 2:53:07 PM
下午好！我在喝果汁。我不喝白酒，我不吸烟，因为我喜欢健康的生活。我非常健康。
 2019-10-08
 2:27:36 PM
明天要见面吗？我们可以去看电影或去公园。
 2019-10-10
 4:28:23 PM
有问题吗，亲爱的朋友？你为什么不喜欢我？
 2019-10-14
 2:30:30 PM
说吧，为什么不喜欢我？
 2:30:39 PM
(call attempt)
 2019-10-15
 9:04:12 PM
回答！
 9:04:18 PM
(video call attempt)
 9:04:31 PM
(video call attempt)
 9:04:38 PM
回答我！
 2019-12-13
 3:43:55 PM
我不吸烟，我不喝白酒，我教育好，我的父母是医生，我有高的文化，我天天看书，学习中文；我热爱中国，中国人。也在写诗，天天运动。我有好的生活。我是好的外国朋友。那，你为什么害怕？我还要改变什么？我不够好吗？ ??? "

As you see, even when they don't know your chronological age (you're sporty, healthy, with young heart and young fashion) when they think you're not handsome enough... they ghost you. So, we should try harder to build better bodies, to learn more and to try be richer. Never give up!

Title: Rejection #78
Post by: Gay on June 17, 2023, 07:05:17 PM

Rejection #78

Sometimes I wonder if some of those who ghosted me are normal at all? Some of them look crazy. For example this one who added me and then didn't say a word, 0 response. Ghosted instantly. So, why?! Take a look but to me it looks like a crazy one:

"小天"

"我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
 9:31:48 PM
你好。
 2019-09-13
 8:01:37 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
 3:42:38 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:39:11 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-08-16
外国人 8:52:00 AM
(Birthday e-card sent.)
 2020-11-03
 12:34:07 AM
最近你在海口吧。"

0 responses. Crazy stuff. No comment.

Title: Rejection #79
Post by: Gay on June 17, 2023, 07:12:21 PM

Rejection #79

Ghosted! A good-looking Becky, high-tier Becky

"糖果的味道" ("逛个街累死人啦～" "只要你很努力，就可以实现你的梦想。") :

"2020-01-31
 7:10:08 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:50:17 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
 4:59:56 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom  ...
 2023-02-16
 2:59:44 AM
过得好吗?
 2023-03-03
2:53:03 AM
 (rose emoji)
 2023-04-09
11:05:46 PM
                                                 HELLO！                           
 2023-05-04
 5:22:10 AM
还在中国吗?
 2023-05-10
 9:29:09 PM
今晚要不要做个热情的聊天？ 
小兔 9:29:17 PM
 (a sexy pic)
 2023-05-13
小兔 2:07:38 AM
好吗？"
 Nothing was useful to make her say a word. So, her slogan isn't correct for her case. (只要你很努力，就可以实现你的梦想。 = As long as you work hard, you can achieve your dreams.) I worked hard on this relationship but nothing achieved. Ghosted achievement.

Title: Rejection #80
Post by: Gay on June 17, 2023, 07:46:21 PM

Rejection #80

At the beginning I thought it's some Harvard educated girl who just need some support. Later found out it is someone who uses fake photo to promote prostitution services (which are illegal in China) and it was surely some very big liar. Had to delete her (him)?

"12:33:21 AM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
Cola 12:33:30 AM
您好
 12:33:43 AM
Hello! 
 12:33:50 AM
My pleasure!
 12:34:00 AM
Are you in Haikou now?
Cola 12:34:12 AM
yes
 12:34:41 AM
Cool. The Hainan island is an amazing place.
 12:34:57 AM
Did you really graduated in Harvard?
Cola 12:35:44 AM
i english evey bad
 12:36:49 AM
没事，我的中文还行。我看到了你写的 ，所以发了你英文的。没关系。
 12:37:21 AM
现在你在海口干什么？我教外语的。我是欧洲的，白人。
Cola 12:37:43 AM
 (OK)
 12:38:25 AM
(avatar's photo) 是你吗？
12:38:35 AM
现在你在海口干什么？
Cola 12:38:40 AM
嗯 会所经理
 12:39:22 AM
哦。什么会所？
 12:39:34 AM
那个照片，是你吗？
Cola 12:39:41 AM
嗯
 12:40:21 AM
看来你是模特一样。 
 1:21:19 AM
你在找什么？
Cola 2:03:56 AM
？
 2:30:25 AM
你想要什么？What are you searching for?
Cola 2:34:37 AM
money
 2:35:31 AM
这个我们都想要。我的意思是你在找男朋友，还是另外的关系？
Cola 2:35:47 AM
都不找
 2:36:53 AM
是找你的会所人吗？
Cola 2:37:04 AM
不闲聊
 2:38:12 AM
我想要爱，性爱，友谊。我的心和身体lonely.
Cola 2:38:48 AM
你去找别人
 2:41:50 AM
那，你在信息平台交流找什么？我要帮你。
Cola 2:42:10 AM
不用
 2:42:49 AM
关于钱，我怎么会给你？
Cola 2:43:00 AM
不用
2:44:01 AM
有点不正常。
Cola 2:44:18 AM
不想闲聊
 12:48:44 PM
  你好！希望你的心情好一点。
Cola 1:38:16 PM
嗯
 11:23:32 PM
哇！学生妹 水疗！ 我特别喜欢！
 11:23:44 PM
是中学生吗？
 11:29:35 PM
多少钱一次?
Cola 11:35:03 PM
快餐 1000
Cola 11:35:06 PM
过夜1500
 11:36:07 PM
是中学生吗？我喜欢年轻一点。
Cola 11:38:44 PM
17-26岁
Cola 11:38:47 PM
都有
 11:39:53 PM
真的！太好了！给我看看17岁的照片吧。
Cola 11:40:43 PM
 
Cola 11:40:43 PM
 
Cola 11:48:23 PM
要安排吗
 11:49:05 PM
我找到了这个  (After pretending I want to be a escorcel (which I can't be because it's not just illegal in China, it's too expensive), I got some photos but then I saw one in another website which shows it's a photo of somebody else, who isn't an escort. And I showed one of them to prove that I found the lie.)
Cola 11:49:35 PM
海口
Cola 11:49:46 PM
 (photo)"

Deleted because this one had the nerve to continue the fake photos thing.

Title: Rejection #81
Post by: Incel on June 19, 2023, 12:09:33 AM

Rejection #81

About one that I met in the bus. Obviously she wanted only to use me as an online "friend" who only helps for free but never can have even a simple date like watching movie together. She said she will introduce me another one which may watch movie with me together, that one also deleted me, when I asked what in fact is going on, she started to lecture me how she is only a middle school student, how there are many rapes, kidnapping and so on in China and can't trust foreigners and other semi-ideological cliches which only made the situation bitter. I tried to explain that I an educated, respectful, liking her culture person who is not like those who she is afraid of but it all was useless, banal and I decided to delete her after she showed me that she is going to delete me too.

" " (a sheep in case you can't see it) ("愿祖国繁荣昌盛🇨🇳"; "你爸爸" ) Notive the contradiction in the slogans: "May the motherland prosper and prosper" and "(I'm) your dad.":

"您好
 2019-11-16
 12:09:14 AM
您好！您是哪位？
我爱数学 8:54:11 AM
你好
我爱数学 8:54:30 AM
我是昨天在公交车上的女孩
 1:43:16 PM
你这边写了是男的： ，图片上是男人： ，这边是男孩： 。。。。。。 一点都不想女孩子的QQ。
 1:45:27 PM
 你是这位吧： (photo and photos above to make sure who is the person herself)
 2:05:33 PM
对吧？
我爱数学 2:10:56 PM
奥是的是的
我爱数学 2:11:01 PM
 (photo)
 2:12:08 PM
好的。
我爱数学 2:12:29 PM
因为这个是我们班数学课代表我数学不好所以要用他头像
 2:15:24 PM
我的数学也不好。我只有喜欢有些高级的，哲学的数学--比如：虚构单位, 无限，等等。
 2:16:19 PM
我更喜欢那些有单词和句子的：文学，历史，社会学，政治学，哲学。这类的我懂比较好。
 2:16:40 PM
我天天上网；我们什么都可以聊天。
 2:17:07 PM
我是直接的，坦白的外国朋友。
 2:40:53 PM
And, of course, we may chat in English, too (if you wish).  Have a good day! 
我爱数学 3:03:48 PM
ok
我爱数学 3:04:19 PM
have a good day！
我爱数学 3:17:48 PM
你觉得中国和你们国家最大的差别是什么呀？
 10:41:11 PM
最大的差别是语言的。汉字是特别的，不是字母。我们的语文用字母。所以我觉的最大的差别就是中国的汉字，因为汉字要学习好长时间，是很复杂的。 当然，我喜欢它们，因为我爱中国的文化，可是觉的是很难学的。
 10:41:53 PM
其它的差别是筷子的。我们的那边是用勺子和叉子。
我爱数学 10:42:52 PM
但是我觉得你学的真的很好   
 10:55:12 PM
我就用拼音 ，电脑自动做汉字的。我看懂汉字，可是我不会写。
我爱数学 10:55:41 PM
奥，但是也很厉害啦！
 10:56:28 PM
谢谢。我就是从小的时候非常喜欢中国和中国的人民，中国的东西，所以慢慢学习全部的，包括汉字的。
我爱数学 11:05:37 PM
不用谢啦！我也要努力学习英语！
 11:11:16 PM
每天找个不知道的单词，自己提高英语的水平。比如现在你看看你已经知道全部的颜色吗？Red, green, purple,... 学完了吗？
 11:34:21 PM
这边，好多学生们还不知道”灰色“(gray, grey).如果你已经知道，你可以加点更特别的颜色：bronze (青铜色), magenta (洋红色)。这样的。
 11:35:33 PM
第二天，你可以复习，后来想另外的话题，比如：“自然”。后来想想：“我知道”小山“(hill)吗？”如果不知道，马上学习：hill, waterfall, river, 等等。
 11:35:58 PM
每天一个话题，每天复习，每天新的单词!
 2019-11-17
我爱数学 8:41:42 AM
好的谢谢
 10:38:33 PM
不用谢。
我爱数学 10:39:05 PM
嗯嗯
我爱数学 10:39:21 PM
你觉得中文难写吗
 10:40:14 PM
是的。因为是复杂的。
我爱数学 10:51:24 PM
我觉得英语语法好难
 10:52:14 PM
是的。比中文的语法是更难的。
 10:52:32 PM
这个是我教课的时候： (photo)
我爱数学 10:53:25 PM
哇哦
 10:53:51 PM
  :D
我爱数学 10:53:59 PM
  (thumb ups)
 10:57:29 PM
我看到了你说你羡慕你还不是18岁的。但是我觉的你不要着急，因为年轻比老是更好。 而且现在你也是个美丽的女孩子。 你比很多18岁的是更漂亮。
我爱数学 10:58:20 PM
嗯嗯谢谢呀！ 
 10:59:08 PM
不用谢，我说的是真的。 
我爱数学 11:01:49 PM
   :D :D
 11:02:34 PM
 (rose)
我爱数学 11:02:58 PM
  (two roses)
我爱数学 11:03:17 PM
你们国家的女孩子是什么样子的呀？
我爱数学 11:10:32 PM
OK我看看照片
11:11:51 PM
什么都有：胖的，瘦的，高的，爱的。 我可以发给你照片看看那边的人们。。。。。。但是，大多数我不喜欢她们，因为她们是白人。我喜欢黄人（东亚洲）。
我爱数学 11:12:33 PM
   :D :D
我爱数学 11:13:10 PM
你为什么会选择来海南呢？
 11:14:42 PM
好的，我在找随便有些学生们的照片。
我爱数学 11:14:53 PM
嗯
 11:15:05 PM
 (photo)
我爱数学 11:15:45 PM
哇哦
 11:16:00 PM
左右这样的，没有什么大魅力的。。。。。。
 11:18:15 PM
海南，因为：1、没有冬天。冬天是麻烦的：冷，冰，雪，等。这边一直是夏天或春天一样，所以我喜欢这边的温度。2、这里的自然是热带的：椰子，木瓜，等--好漂亮。3、这边有大海，我爱大海。4、这边的空气没有大陆的那么污染的，我爱健康的空气。   海南--什么都好。
我爱数学 11:20:44 PM
嗯我也这么认为
我爱数学 11:20:59 PM
时间不早了睡觉吧！
我爱数学 11:21:14 PM
 (pic)
我爱数学 11:21:20 PM
晚安
 11:21:40 PM
好的。晚安！ 
 2019-11-18
 3:31:45 PM
Good afternoon! 
 3:31:52 PM
How are you?
我爱数学 7:32:17 PM
I’m fine thank you
我爱数学 7:32:36 PM
 (pic)
我爱数学 7:32:51 PM
吃泡面
 11:10:08 PM
你怎么有这么多钱？我也要。
 2019-11-19
我爱数学 12:23:28 PM
哈哈哈
我爱数学 12:24:01 PM
不是啦这个是一个恶搞的图片
 2:14:08 PM
我以为了是你的家。
 2:14:30 PM
你好吗？
 2:15:59 PM
那个(photo)是哪一个女孩子？
我爱数学 9:32:34 PM
上次公交车上在我旁边的女孩子
我爱数学 9:59:15 PM
我想问你一个问题
我爱数学 9:59:55 PM
如果一个人你不想理她，然后又怕她伤心怎么办
 11:00:30 PM
哦。
 11:11:28 PM
但是，“她”有很多种类：比如她是奶奶，她是妈妈，她是姐姐，她是妹妹，她是另据， 她是同学，等等。。。。。。 先要看她是什么人，后来要慢慢考虑怎么办。
我爱数学 11:24:31 PM
同学
 11:26:23 PM
跟同学和同事经常是有这样的问题。我理解你。在这样的情况就是要说实话，直接的。这个是最好的。另外的选择是：什么都不说，可是这样是不太好的。
 2019-11-20
我爱数学 12:12:35 PM
好的吧
 12:12:36 PM
[自动回复]你好，我现在有事不在，一会再和你联系。
我爱数学 12:12:37 PM
谢谢鸭
 10:16:01 PM
没事。这样是小的哲学的帮助。未来的时候，如果你有什么其它问题，找我；我是试试帮忙你的。
 2019-11-21
我爱数学 6:38:25 AM
好的好的谢谢
 1:10:43 PM
有空的时候你喜欢去什么地方的？
 1:11:12 PM
我喜欢公园，沙滩；看电影。
我爱数学 6:37:52 PM
我喜欢书店甜品店
 10:55:28 PM
   :) 有空的时候，我们可以一起去吧。 :D
 2019-11-23
 3:25:20 PM
要去看电影吗？
 2019-11-25
 2:06:10 PM
你怎么啦？害怕我吗？  ::)
我爱数学 6:36:32 PM
不好意思前几天不敢回信息
 10:37:05 PM
为什么？
 2019-11-26
 4:13:03 PM
为什么不敢？我不是个好的，有礼貌的，有教育的，爱中国的人吗？怎么可能害怕我这样的人。我不吸烟，我不喝白酒，我锻炼武术，我天天看书，我学习中国的文化，我也在写诗，写故事。我觉的我人很好，你怎么”不敢“回信息？如果有问题的话，让我知道。
我爱数学 7:27:18 PM
？？？
我爱数学 7:27:38 PM
是我妈妈拿着我手机不敢看手机不敢回信息
我爱数学 7:27:42 PM
   (thumb ups)
我爱数学 7:27:47 PM
 (pic)
我爱数学 7:27:47 PM
  (pic)
我爱数学 7:28:37 PM
看电影没有时间不过你可以问问我同学
我爱数学 7:29:26 PM
(QQ contact of her classmate)
我爱数学 7:29:33 PM
这是我同学你可以问一问她
 11:12:12 PM
(OK)
我爱数学 11:41:14 PM
 (polar bear thumb up)
 2019-12-02
 2:11:12 PM
 (screenshot)
 2:11:47 PM
你为什么说了你的同学可以喜欢跟我聊天，见面，去看电影，等等，可是她就删掉了我？
 2:12:43 PM
      (screenshots)
 2:13:20 PM
我没有说了什么不好的。我聊天了文明的，礼貌的。她随便删掉了我。你知道为什么吗？
我爱数学 7:30:59 PM
俺也不知道也
 2019-12-03
 2:07:36 PM
你们都就是害怕我。我不知道我有什么恐怖的？我有什么不好的？可是你们都就是不喜欢我的。事实。
我爱数学 7:34:19 PM
那么就随便你咯
 10:51:52 PM
“随便”我什么？
我爱数学 10:58:03 PM
你不知道随便是什么意思吗？
我爱数学 10:58:15 PM
她有好多意思
我爱数学 10:58:17 PM
哦
 11:01:09 PM
不。我知道，可是不会找到你的意思。我是说，我发现了你们害怕我，但是我不明白我这个好人有什么恐怖的？如果是随便我的话，我要中国人不怕我，我要他们喜欢我，可是怎么办？“随便"是如果我有能力，如果我有选择，可是我没有这个控制（我不知道为什么你们那么怕我的）。
 2019-12-04
我爱数学 12:18:24 PM
要不我这么跟你说吧
第一我们现在是初中生女生作为一个女生我们是不会跟任何一个成年男子单独出去也许在你们国外不会这么感觉但是这里中国
第二没有，在家长的同意下，我们是不会出去跟任何一个陌生出去玩的当然这不只是针对你一个人中国就出现过许多类似于未成年人跟陌生人出去玩，然后失踪被杀害被强奸的许多案例为此，所以我们现在中学女生都是提高了警惕的如果你约我出去玩，那我肯定会带上很多人的。请问你能消费得起吗？
第三以上这些条例不都是只针对你一个人，而是说，在中国我们就应该遵守中国的法则。中国的女生跟外国的女生是不一样的，他们是不会随便跟一个陌生男子出去玩的
所以也请你尊重我们，谢谢！
难道在你们国家那边的女生就会这么随便吗？我们并不是害怕任何一个外国人，而且我们也不不会因为你是外国人我们就对你有另一种看法，你喜欢中国这很好，我们也喜欢外国人，但是我们也希望任何一个人可以尊重我们。
如果你还有什么不理解的，可以再问我。
 2:29:59 PM
第一， 这个不是外外国或中国的问题。在每一个国家有人会做朋友还是不做朋友。有些初中生女生有成人的朋友们，有些没有。无所谓是在那个国家。而且我已经好多年住在这里，我中国通了。
第二，当然你要问你的家长。我天天见面小学生们和中学生们。他们的（她们的）父母知道。他们（和她们）都是中国人！
第三，我是个文明的，有教育的人。我不要聊天那么没有礼貌的“杀害”，“强奸”和其它讨厌的话题！！！在中国我们就应该遵守中国的法则！我没有什么非法的。我是合法的，有教育的文明的共产主义者！我不像那些其它外国混蛋们！
第四，如果你觉的我是那么“陌生”的话，为什么你要了加我的QQ呢？
第五，我爱中国，我不喜欢西方的国家，所以他们的事儿是他们的事儿。我只有爱中国和中国的共产党。
第六，我没有什么不理解的。我就明白你不喜欢我，就够了。
 2:43:17 PM
第七、我从我的4岁的时候非常尊重中国人们！我热爱中华人民共和国！所以如果你觉的我不尊重，你100%错了！如果我不尊重你们的话，我怎么从2004年在这里? 我怎么从2004年不回国？我怎么只有有中国朋友？我怎么不跟老外做朋友？就是因为我的尊重是非常厉害的！
 2:46:51 PM
第八，我以前有过了这样的情况：“我肯定会带上很多人的。请问你能消费得起吗？”，我说了”没事“，可是后来她们要我全部自己付钱给她们，因为“你是男人，也是老外，你要付钱！”。抱歉，可是我不是个富有的外国人，我住在中国，我的收入是中国的，我不是土豪，我父母也不是有钱的人们。所以我不要大家利用我的。当然我会免费教你英语，我会付钱给你看电影，喝果汁，买送给你数学书本，等，但是我不会付钱给你的“很多人”。
 2:48:25 PM
第九，我希望了我们会做好的，普通的朋友们。可是你们真的怕我，真的不喜欢我。不是我的问题，因为我是个非常好的人：写诗，不喝白酒，不吸烟，锻炼武术，热爱中共，热爱中国，天天看书。我没有错的！
 2:49:23 PM
现在再发给你一次，全部的：
第一， 这个不是外国或中国的问题。在每一个国家有人会做朋友还是不做朋友。有些初中生女生有成人的朋友们，有些没有。无所谓是在那个国家。而且我已经好多年住在这里，我中国通了。
第二，当然你要问你的家长。我天天见面小学生们和中学生们。他们的（她们的）父母知道。他们（和她们）都是中国人！
第三，我是个文明的，有教育的人。我不要聊天那么没有礼貌的“杀害”，“强奸”和其它讨厌的话题！！！在中国我们就应该遵守中国的法则！我没有什么非法的。我是合法的，有教育的文明的共产主义者！我不像那些其它外国混蛋们！
第四，如果你觉的我是那么“陌生”的话，为什么你要了加我的QQ呢？
第五，我爱中国，我不喜欢西方的国家，所以他们的事儿是他们的事儿。我只有爱中国和中国的共产党。
第六，我没有什么不理解的。我就明白你不喜欢我，就够了。
第七、我从我的4岁的时候非常尊重中国人们！我热爱中华人民共和国！所以如果你觉的我不尊重，你100%错了！如果我不尊重你们的话，我怎么从2004年在这里? 我怎么从2004年不回国？我怎么只有有中国朋友？我怎么不跟老外做朋友？就是因为我的尊重是非常厉害的！
第八，我以前有过了这样的情况：“我肯定会带上很多人的。请问你能消费得起吗？”，我说了”没事“，可是后来她们要我全部自己付钱给她们，因为“你是男人，也是老外，你要付钱！”。抱歉，可是我不是个富有的外国人，我住在中国，我的收入是中国的，我不是土豪，我父母也不是有钱的人们。所以我不要大家利用我的。当然我会免费教你英语，我会付钱给你看电影，喝果汁，买送给你数学书本，等，但是我不会付钱给你的“很多人”。
第九，我希望了我们会做好的，普通的朋友们。可是你们真的怕我，真的不喜欢我。不是我的问题，因为我是个非常好的人：写诗，不喝白酒，不吸烟，锻炼武术，热爱中共，热爱中国，天天看书。我没有错的！
我爱数学 6:10:22 PM
那么我现在要告诉你的，是这里是中国，我们现在是未成年人，我们不会跟一个任何男子出去玩，而且你刚说的，我们真的很害怕你对不起，因为你是成年人，我们不会单独一个女孩子去跟一个成年人出去玩，而且你是男的，谢谢！
我爱数学 6:11:44 PM
而且相对于你刚刚说的我百分之百错了，那么现在我给你倒一个歉可以吗？
我爱数学 6:13:51 PM
我希望你能区分的出脏话和礼貌，用语是什么有区别，像强奸杀害之类词语在法律上把他们经常讲，那你按这么说的话，那你的意思是律师，他们都是骂人的，如果你不理解他，请你学好中文了之后再来显摆
我爱数学 6:14:04 PM
那么也很感谢你喜欢中国
我爱数学 6:14:58 PM
那么我现在要告诉你的，是这里是中国，我们现在是未成年人，我们不会跟一个任何男子出去玩，而且你刚说的，我们真的很害怕你对不起，因为你是成年人，我们不会单独一个女孩子去跟一个成年人出去玩，而且你是男的，谢谢！而且相对于你刚刚说的我百分之百错了，那么现在我给你倒一个歉可以吗？我希望你能区分的出脏话和礼貌，用语是什么有区别，像强奸杀害之类词语在法律上把他们经常讲，那你按这么说的话，那你的意思是律师，他们都是骂人的，如果你不理解他，请你学好中文了之后再来显摆那么也很感谢你喜欢中国 ！
我爱数学 6:18:15 PM
bua bing bi liu谢谢你喜欢中国 拜拜啦
11:25:10 PM
不要歉，可是我要说明一下：如果一个人对我（这个好的人）说“强奸“和”杀害”，对我是非常伤心的，因为在我的共产主义的思想中这些是最讨厌的，最低等，最不好的。我从我的小的时候试试做个很好的人：看书，锻炼，不吸烟，不喝白酒，学习好，努力工作，等。所以如果你告诉我你害怕我因为这些的事情，我觉的非常，非常伤心的。在法律上肯定有这样的单词，可是上下文是另外的一个。
嗯，我学习好中文，我也会其它4门外语的，你不要担心我的外语的学历和能力，因为我的中文比好多中国人的是更好一点的（他们自己这样说了，而且我也发现了）。重要的是你学习好，因为我已经是硕士，我的学习（教育）成功了100%，但是你的还没有。
我第一次听说未成年人不会见面成人。好多人们不会关年龄那么多，但是如果你们有这样的规则话，我理解，因为中国是个自由的国家，每一个人这边有自己的自由的选择，所以我理解你们的选择。中国加油！ 拜拜了！
"
It was so painful to see that someone is thinking of me as a potential criminal or disrespectful person (when I'm one of the most educated, respectful, helpful and good people around)... Not sure if all this was because of the paranoid education she got in school and at home or all these were just excuses because to her I was just an ugly and old person.

Title: Rejection #82
Post by: Incel on June 19, 2023, 12:42:55 AM

Rejection #82

And here that short chat with her classmate (of the one above, #81, I mean) that was probably with the same "What if you're a bad man? How you don't respect us, you foreigner?..." (it's so sad to think about all this).

"5sy1111" (""):

"11:19:29 PM
我是奶熙
 11:19:52 PM
Hello! Nice to meet you!
 2019-11-27
奶熙. 1:02:03 PM
nice to meet you too.
奶熙. 1:02:57 PM
 (pic)
 1:48:31 PM
Hello! 我们已经见面了在那个公交车吗？ 还是你是她们的另外的同学？
 3:47:22 PM
  (anime pic)
奶熙. 6:21:23 PM
同学
奶熙. 6:21:42 PM
 (pic)
10:43:12 PM
是的，你是她的同学，我知道。可是我们已经见面了那个时候在公交车吗？还是还没有？
 2019-11-28
奶熙. 6:36:44 AM
没有
奶熙. 6:36:49 AM
 (pic)
 2:12:19 PM
好的。没关系。
 2:12:36 PM
你喜欢外国的文化和外国的人吗？
奶熙. 7:51:52 PM
俺喜欢English
奶熙. 7:51:56 PM
 (pic)
奶熙. 7:52:03 PM
可是学不好
10:36:11 PM
没事。如果我们每周见面一次，聊天用英语的，你慢慢会的。就是要联系。有空的时候，要见面吗？"

And here she deleted me! Just like this... Inceldom and loneliness...

Title: Rejection #83
Post by: Incel on June 19, 2023, 12:58:51 AM

Rejection #83

Another one who just said don't want to chat with me, nor meeting me.

"开心果拿铁酪柿" ("永远在一起"):

"8:54:21 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
 8:54:35 PM
 (pic)
 2020-03-17
 2:29:36 PM
How are you?
 2:30:15 PM
让我们聊天。我是个欧洲的，白人，在海口的朋友。
 2020-03-21
 3:09:23 PM
你好？
shmily 3:18:46 PM
你好
 3:18:47 PM
你好，我现在有事不在，一会再和你联系。
 3:19:10 PM
 (pic)
 3:19:17 PM
How are you?
 3:19:30 PM
我是个欧洲的，白人，在海口的朋友。
shmily 3:19:40 PM
fine
shmily 3:19:43 PM
/嘲讽
 3:20:09 PM
Do you speak English well?
shmily 3:20:24 PM
No,i don't
 3:20:48 PM
OK.没关系，我的中文还可以。
 3:20:56 PM
你也在海口吗？
shmily 3:21:04 PM
是的
 3:21:16 PM
很好。我喜欢这里。
 3:21:38 PM
现在我教外语，还有写书。你做什么的？
shmily 3:21:47 PM
大学生
shmily 3:21:54 PM
写书？什么书
 3:22:22 PM
很好。我已经毕业了。我的专业是人类学和哲学。你在读什么专业的？
shmily 3:22:38 PM
我学的是教育学的
 3:23:12 PM
第一本是关于人类的问题。第二是关于中国的国家和人民。现在在准备写关于减肥的问题。
 3:23:20 PM
好。
 3:24:20 PM
我经常在上网，因为又写书，又学习新的信息，又看新闻的。所以，我们肯定可以聊天。
shmily 3:24:51 PM
哦这样啊，那你很优秀
 3:25:45 PM
是的。我就喜欢天天学习和天天做运动。这样是和谐的发展。
shmily 3:35:18 PM
哈哈哈好
 3:36:17 PM
  :D
 3:36:19 PM
你的家乡是海南的还是大陆的？
shmily 3:40:38 PM
海南的
 3:41:01 PM
好。
 3:41:18 PM
海南是最好的中国省。我这样认为。
shmily 3:41:38 PM
各有各的好，谢谢你如此夸赞我的家乡
 3:43:05 PM
 客气了。我最喜欢这里，因为空气没有污染，冬天不太冷，自然（椰子树，大海，等）是热带的。 
shmily 3:43:35 PM
是的，没错
 2020-03-22
12:06:54 AM
我的新的书本已经OK了： (screenshot)
shmily 12:56:54 AM
Good job!
 12:57:59 AM
Thanks!
 2020-03-23
 3:50:45 PM
我的以前的书本是这个：(screenshot) 。 现在再开始了个新的。
 2020-03-24
 3:43:57 PM
你还好吗？
shmily 4:09:05 PM
？挺好的
 9:04:05 PM
好的。我们是好朋友。
 9:04:13 PM
你在干什么？
 2020-03-25
 3:01:31 PM
今天要见吗？
shmily 3:03:26 PM
？
 3:05:16 PM
见面
 3:05:27 PM
今天你要我们两个见面吗？
shmily 3:05:34 PM
不
 3:11:12 PM
为什么？
shmily 3:11:21 PM
因为我不会和你见面
 3:12:36 PM
我介绍一下自己：我是文明的人，有好的教育。而且，我不吸烟，也不喝白酒。我的爱好是写书，学习科学的信息和锻炼武术。我的外貌是比较好看的。父母是心理学的医生。我热爱中国。我住这里已经几年了。
shmily 3:13:13 PM
好的
 3:13:17 PM
你自己说了我很优秀。现在怎么偶然害怕见我？是不是要发给你照片先？
 3:13:30 PM
同意吗？ 
shmily 3:13:51 PM
1.我不是害怕见你，是我不会和陌生人见面
2.我们本来就不熟
 3:17:35 PM
那，怎么2个人会熟？就是如果他们先见，聊天。这样。我也要我们熟。所以我请你见。比如我们可以喝点饮料或只有坐下在外面，聊天。给你免费英语课。这样熟一点。
 3:17:53 PM
有没有另外的方式熟？
shmily 3:18:59 PM
不好意思，没有两个人还没聊天时间1天就见面了的
2020-03-25
 3:41:51 PM
有。可是我理解你需要更长时间。你要我聊天跟你多久？左右10天或2个月？左右给我time period?
 3:42:48 PM
还有，你要我们聊天什么话题的？对你重要的是什么信息？
 4:45:45 PM
有。可是我理解你需要更长时间。你要我聊天跟你多久？左右10天或2个月？左右给我time period?
还有，你要我们聊天什么话题的？对你重要的是什么信息？
4:46:49 PM
这个是我教课的时候： (photo)
 4:47:50 PM
我在大连： (another photo)
 4:59:59 PM
你要我聊天跟你多久？左右10天或2个月？左右给我time period?
还有，你要我们聊天什么话题的？对你重要的是什么信息？
shmily 5:03:02 PM
我不喜欢聊天
 5:04:24 PM
天啊！你刚才说了你要我们熟。我请你见面，可是你不要这样熟。所以我建议我们熟聊天的时候。可是这样你也不喜欢。求求你，告诉我怎么我们2个熟如果又不见面，又不要聊天？！
 5:08:37 PM
说，我们怎么熟？
 5:11:34 PM
跟另外的人们你熟怎么样子？你们用的方式是？
shmily 5:11:51 PM
我没有很多朋友
shmily 5:11:59 PM
大多独处
 5:13:43 PM
我也是。但是我要找到个可爱的女孩子。我缺爱，特别孤独的。很少会在外面聊天，因为我害羞，尴尬。在网络上呢，经常女孩子们怕我（你现在一样）。我怎么找到个会要见我的人？我真的特别孤独，特别伤心。
shmily 5:15:06 PM
额……这个我不会
 5:16:19 PM
好吧。看起来你一点都不要见我，不喜欢我。可能我真的太丑。我已经不会浪费你的时间。祝你健康，幸福！
告别！
 5:28:42 PM
如果你真的不要给我机会，可以删掉我。你决定。"

To sum it up: "We don't know each other, needs time to know better... oh, wait! I don't want to chat with you (so we can't know each other better) and I don't meet you. I am a loner.", so I told her I see that I'm just someone ugly to her (as a university student she couldn't be so paranoid like those middle school students above, in case they really were), so I guess it was because she doesn't like me... have to improve myself a lot more! And I let it be. I don't want to press people who're hopeless.

Title: Rejection #84
Post by: Incel on June 19, 2023, 01:10:55 AM

Rejection #84

A fast one: "Do you want to meet up?", "No, I'm okay." ("I don't need it."), "OK, bye!" type.

"我在未来等你 " ("真讨厌那种感觉 心里难过 却又不知道为什么 只是一个劲的难过    [em]e327811[/em]") The slogan shows some psychological problems, isn't it? ("I really hate the feeling of feeling sad in my heart, but I don't know why it's just a constant sadness"):

"2019-06-07
🐅 4:23:53 PM
端午节快乐！
我在未来等你💗 6:13:49 PM
同乐
🐅 6:14:48 PM
 我是个外国朋友。你知道吧。
我在未来等你💗 6:15:06 PM
嗯嗯知道
🐅 6:15:19 PM
那，很好！ 我还在海口。你也在。有空的时候要见面。
我在未来等你💗 6:18:06 PM
我在秀英
🐅 6:20:04 PM
有空的时候我们会去公园还是看电影，去沙滩。你喜欢什么地方？
🐅 6:27:42 PM
我已经减肥了，每天锻炼。身体越来越好看： 。而且我还不吸烟，不喝白酒。天天写诗，写电子书。我的中文也越来越好的。

🐅 7:02:28 PM
有空的时候我们会去公园还是看电影，去沙滩。你喜欢什么地方？
🐅 7:23:57 PM
怎么啦？不要吗？
🐅 9:56:12 PM
(call attempt)
 您发送了一个窗口抖动。
 您发送了一个窗口抖动。
 2019-06-08
我在未来等你💗 1:34:31 PM
不用了
我在未来等你💗 1:34:39 PM
昨天没注意看QQ
🐅 2:52:37 PM
不用的话，你可以删掉我，因为只有做网友是没有用的的。"
 Just enough wasting time.

Title: Rejection #85
Post by: Incel on June 19, 2023, 01:24:55 AM

Rejection #85

Another one of those who ghosted me and even didn't say a word. Why she added me then?! So crazy...

"6":

"我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
 1:15:43 AM
你好！你在海口吗？
 2019-09-13
 8:07:11 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2019-12-03
 2:10:49 PM
(call attempt)
 2:10:57 PM
 (pic)
 2:11:07 PM
说吧。
 2020-01-15
 4:23:47 PM
你好！你在海口吗？
 4:23:52 PM
(call attempt)
 4:23:55 PM
你好！你在海口吗？
 8:56:31 PM
 (thumb up)
 8:56:38 PM
你好！你在海口吗？
 2020-01-16
 2:40:53 PM
(call attempt)
 2020-01-30
 3:48:31 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:44:13 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-03-05
 8:52:38 PM
你好！你在海口吗？
 2020-04-04
 4:58:07 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ..."

So many messages from me and in return 0... it's crazy. Deleted.

Title: Rejection #86
Post by: Incel on June 19, 2023, 01:33:06 AM

Rejection #86

Ghosted type rejection... Sort of pity because it was a clever Becky-type one:

佳尤🥰兒釹 ("优点:好奇心强、有创造力、心胸开放。           缺点:爱幻想、执迷不悟、退缩不前。" "☆女生要做到的8荣8耻：以饭后洗碗为荣以不做家务为耻以按时回家为荣以彻夜不归为耻,以和睦婆媳为荣以刁难他人为耻,以照顾小孩为荣以整天去玩为耻,以听老公话为荣以指挥老公为耻,以温柔体贴为荣以泼辣刁蛮为耻")

"2019-06-07
4:26:36 PM
端午节快乐！
 2019-09-13
 8:08:54 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-24
 7:11:17 PM
过年好！ Meet well the Chinese Mouse Year!   
 2020-01-30
 3:57:15 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-05
 3:07:14 PM
那是“DICE”漫画的个非常非常感人的瞬间：
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 2020-02-14
 2:44:51 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2021-08-04
1:45:14 AM
你已经一点都不上QQ吗？"

Sorry... but this it the inceldom.

Title: Rejection #87
Post by: Incel on June 19, 2023, 09:43:14 PM

Rejection #87

Ghosted type rejection... Some "笑笑" ("") that I even don't remember well, which means that she ghosted me long time before my last messages:

"7:19:24 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:53:06 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
 5:06:57 PM
今天我可以给你 words of wisdom ...
 2020-09-06
 8:18:29 AM
(Birthday e-card.)"

 Had to delete her as well... Ghosted, ghosted and ghosted... inceldom life.

Title: Rejection #88
Post by: Incel on June 21, 2023, 05:59:51 AM

Rejection #88

Someone who wasn't sure at all what is the thing she wants (or couldn't express it). Nothing happened and I think that I was ghosted again (or maybe I deleted this contact because it was clear how confused she was). So she was some "初秋~繁花入梦" ("") that wanted to join one of our English-Chinese QQ groups:

"2018-11-10
 2:41:18 PM
Hi!
 2:41:24 PM
  :D
初秋~繁花入梦 2:41:54 PM
你是
 2:43:15 PM
我是个外国朋友。欧洲的，白人。我住在海口。你呢？
初秋~繁花入梦 2:43:49 PM
我住在海南
 2:44:08 PM
你会英语吗？
 2:44:28 PM
Where are you? Are you in Haikou?
初秋~繁花入梦 2:46:12 PM
我不住海口
初秋~繁花入梦 2:46:32 PM
我不会英语
 2:46:51 PM
我的中文还行。
 2:46:55 PM
你在哪里？
初秋~繁花入梦 2:51:47 PM
你是外国人发你照片给我看啊
 2:55:58 PM
你在哪里？
初秋~繁花入梦 2:57:41 PM
我在万宁的
初秋~繁花入梦 2:57:43 PM
干嘛
 2:57:56 PM
我在海口。
 2:58:01 PM
  :)
2:59:36 PM你撤回了一条消息
 3:01:21 PM
希望你看到了我。
 3:11:27 PM
然后呢？
 3:16:57 PM
你到底要什么？加入了英语群，我让了你。要了照片，我发给了你。那现在为什么离开了？
 3:24:01 PM
初秋~繁花入梦
初秋~繁花入梦 3:24:30 PM
什么照片我没看到
初秋~繁花入梦 3:26:01 PM
我刚刚有事并没有拿手机
3:26:06 PM你撤回了一条消息
3:26:25 PM你撤回了一条消息
 3:26:36 PM
看到了吗？
初秋~繁花入梦 3:26:41 PM
看到了
初秋~繁花入梦 3:26:57 PM
那你找我有什么事
 3:27:32 PM
是你参加了我们的英语群。我要了知道你找什么，你需要什么。
初秋~繁花入梦 3:27:48 PM
哦
初秋~繁花入梦 3:28:13 PM
现在不用了
初秋~繁花入梦 3:28:15 PM
谢谢
 3:28:33 PM
你什么时候要来海口？
 3:28:41 PM
可气了。
初秋~繁花入梦 3:28:44 PM
我去海口干嘛
 3:29:24 PM
比如：读书，上班，玩玩，等等。好多万宁人们来海口住的。
初秋~繁花入梦 3:30:03 PM
我没时间
 3:30:20 PM
那，你有照片吗？
初秋~繁花入梦 3:31:15 PM
我现在有事，先不跟你说了
初秋~繁花入梦 3:31:24 PM
很高兴认识你"

Just another zero result.

Title: Rejection #89
Post by: Incel on June 21, 2023, 09:30:55 PM

Rejection #89

The one of a few that I couldn't call a 100% rejection because, in fact, I rejected her more or less in some moments. Well, at first we had to stop the communication because she wanted me to be in her place not she to be in my place (climate differences like I like sea and warm she likes mountains and cold)... later because I felt that her ex-boyfriends and lovers were too many (that period I was young and afraid or just felt sick if a woman had many previous "activities")... but she was with a great personality and a helpful, polite person, with good heart (looks, just a low-tier Becky, around 4/10 at her best photos) so I was in touch with her again, and again... The last time the contradicion was that I wanted to stay in China forever and till the very end I hoped China is the best... later realized that I wasn't right and I should leave it like many other Chinese citizens and foreigners did already. Here is the chat from the period when she already went to get married in the USA and became her living there (and I still was hoping and believing that China isn't a tyrant person kingdom but a great real socialistic republic.) The problem is that she never ghosted me and at the end seems she did but... maybe she just die from COVID or from some crime or something else over there? I hope she didn't but in case she did, I send her my last "Rest in peace" words because I do respect her as a person a lot (not because I want to sound like a black humorist or a bad guy):

She was nicknamed "寒" (""):

"2019-07-22   
 12:18:39 AM
You're living in the US now?
 1:51:37 PM
还是只有随便写了？
   2019-07-28   
10:21:47 PM
我结婚了，现在居住美国
 10:41:50 PM
Congratulations! At last you found a man after so many not good ones.
 10:42:00 PM
你幸福了没有？
 10:53:05 PM
美国的社会是不是不太安全的？
   2019-07-30   
12:21:40 AM
你原来非常喜欢了西方，西方人，等。可是我一直对你说了要小心，因为他们没有中国社会的那么安全。
寒 3:33:40 AM
谢谢！ 不是我喜欢，是没有办法才过来。因为他不喜欢在中国生活
寒 3:36:06 AM
他和他家人以及他的朋友们对我都很好，我在这里也很好
 2:56:22 PM
就是，没有很多我这样喜爱中国的外国人。我已经15年了这边，一直这边。最后的11年多都在热带的天堂海南岛。 :D
 2:56:42 PM
好。你们在哪里？
   2019-07-31   
 2:17:41 AM
而且，关于生孩子要特别小心。不要着急，因为未来的问题会越来越多。(!)
 3:22:23 PM
(pic)
很有用的。不要当胖子。美国佬，大多数，胖子们。你的爱人胖吗？
   2019-08-07   
 11:54:12 PM
(pic)
   2019-08-08   
 2:39:40 PM
在美国天天开枪。恐怖的。小心一点。我原来知道了它是个乱的国家，所以从不说了我不会去在这样的地方了。我喜欢中国的安全和和谐。
   2019-08-09   
 3:59:20 PM
 ::) ::)
   2019-08-15   
 12:28:47 AM
我怎么觉的你不太幸福了？ ???
   2019-08-22   
 4:12:40 PM
别担心，你会找到更 (pic)
   2019-09-11   
 4:16:30 PM
9/11. Remember...
   2019-09-13   
 7:36:31 PM
中秋节快乐！
   2019-10-01   
 3:22:37 PM
国庆节快乐！双击查看原图
   2019-11-05   
 8:40:10 PM
美女，在吗？
 8:40:13 PM
我已经好久在中国，所以我没有什么不懂的，可是要问你个问题：以前几个中国朋友们（男性和女性）对我说了“我喜欢你”（I like you），因为我们就是普通的好朋友们.今天我对一个海南的朋友说了“我喜欢你”，可是她认为了是我爱她的意思或我要爱她的意思。然后她说在中国不会对普通的朋友说“我喜欢你。”，可是我还不相信她，因为以前就是对我几个100%中国人说了这样。你也是中国人，你告诉我你觉的“我喜欢你”是太过份了或就是个正常的，普通的句子？
   2019-11-11   
 2:41:51 PM
你怎么已经一点都不回复我啊？
   2019-11-15   
 2:15:59 PM
是不是已经发现了在西方的生活没有你想的那么理想的？我告诉过你了，可是你不听了我的话。
   2019-11-24   
寒 7:23:56 AM
没有，我很少上QQ, 现在都是微信联系的
寒 7:25:15 AM
朋友之间是一般不会说“我喜欢你”， 一般只会赞扬朋友的好，或者你可以说“我挺喜欢你这个朋友”
寒 7:27:28 AM
我10月1日开始上班的，平时也不会看QQ。 所以我没有回答你并不是你说的那些，我只是没有打开QQ而已。
   2019-11-25   
 2:53:51 AM
(Okay emoji)
   2020-01-30   
 3:25:09 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！双击查看原图双击查看原图
   2020-02-14   
 2:50:51 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！) 双击查看原图
   2020-03-27   
 1:53:31 AM
COVID-19 hits the USA worse than China. Seems the US can't take good measures as China did... so, keep safe and strong over there!双击查看原图
   2020-03-29   
 4:11:46 PM
我早点说了美国没有那么好。
   2020-04-03   
 2:05:48 PM
看，中国那么快已经好了，美国越来越多问题了。美国就是有假的理想。并不是个理想的国家。
   2020-04-04   
 4:47:28 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
   2020-06-10   
 8:05:31 AM
(Happy birthday e-card.)
   2020-06-12   
 12:47:49 AM
美国越来越差。我说了，那边不行。
   2020-08-24   
寒 9:43:24 AM
是不行，没办法。但是他和他家人朋友都对我很好
   2020-08-28   
 5:33:12 PM
他们个人（具体人）会有好的。但是社会，政治，安全，都是差的。很容易乱，很容易开枪，等。可能现在你明白：好多中国人有理想的想象关于美国。美国的现实不是理想的。 ::)
   2020-08-31   
 11:11:55 PM
你现在有资本吗？要不要做什么商业的？比如外国菜饭店，外语培训学校，商店。。。。。。？
   2020-11-17   
 2:52:11 AM
看来又可怜，又穷吧？
 2:54:32 AM
美国真的是个差的国家。。。。。。 疯狂的政治，COVID，等等。我10年多以前跟你说了不要那么喜欢西方的，你不相信了我；那，现在你才知道。这边，在中国，也不是完美的，可是比美国好一点。
   2021-01-15   
12:30:07 AM
(Screenshot of my chess victory)
(thumb up emoji)
   2021-01-16   
 12:52:15 AM
(My gym pic.)
   2021-07-18   
1:08:42 AM
How is it going? Are you still alive?
   2021-07-26   
 11:55:21 PM
Oh, pity girl. The West killed you, maybe?  :(( Rest in peace, sweet soul! (hug with mask emoji; anti-COVID emoji)
   2021-08-11   
 2:16:00 PM
REST IN PEACE! 删掉了。"

Well, I was really wrong. Yes, the USA is not a safe place and they're full of problems but still a better choice than the present tyranic kingdom like Chinese state. I'm adding this not 100% rejction because it's good for your study and experience (how sometimes the most big hopes may turn to be wrong) and to keep the memory of this good Chinese person.

Title: Rejection #90
Post by: Incel on June 22, 2023, 04:23:48 AM

Rejection #90

Instantly ghosted. This is it (when they add you and then you're making a monologue. Sending sentences, questions, pictures, photos but you never get any answer.) Here is this another example. Someone nicknamed "メ风逝无迹メ" (""):

"7:13:26 PM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
  7:13:51 PM
  :D
  7:14:36 PM
 (Big "ni hao" picture)
  7:14:48 PM
会说英语吗？
 2021-11-05
 9:45:27 PM
不要聊天吗？
 2022-11-18
 2:07:42 AM
在吗？
 2:08:05 AM
("xiang ni" picture)
外国哥哥想你
 2022-12-05
 5:05:50 PM
 (a rose)
 2023-01-10
 12:06:50 AM
I feel so lonely...
12:08:19 AM
哇，你知道 
(William Wordsworth and R. M. Broderick)
(thumb up)
 12:08:37 AM
You should be really familiar with the British culture.
 12:08:48 AM
I am from Europe, by the way.
 12:11:13 AM
要照片吗？
 2023-01-20
 4:07:48 AM
 (a sexy pic)
 4:08:28 AM
身体比较肌肉的，因为我天天做运动的。而且，看书，不喝白酒，不抽烟。
 4:08:44 AM
要多一点吗？
 2023-01-26
 8:19:03 PM
怎么样？
(more sexy picture)
 8:19:13 PM
喜欢吗?
 2023-04-13
 11:58:38 PM
在吗？
 2023-04-15
 7:44:15 PM
想我吗？
 2023-05-13
 1:14:26 AM
如果一点都没有说话，删。"

Well, instantly ghosted and, logically, deleted. Time waster...

Title: Rejection #91
Post by: Incel on June 22, 2023, 04:49:57 AM

Rejection #91

Another very confused one who didn't know what she wants exactly and said that another classmate is using her account, but she added me instead that pretty one who wanted to take a photo with me that day because her partner doesn't allowe her to add me... and deleted me (without saying even "a bye") suddenly. Childish and confusing.

Someone nicknamed "散场了~" ("Lose it. Maybe you don't belong to me."):

"让你失望了. 11:19:37 PM
我是让你失望了.
 11:20:06 PM
 ("hello" pic)
 11:21:49 PM
我是个外国朋友。认识你很高兴！ 
 2019-11-03
让你失望了. 10:21:12 AM
你好
 12:27:37 PM
  (pic) (pic)
 12:28:41 PM
你要了跟我照片一起，可是我昨天没有准备了好。现在发给你2张照片。刮胡子的后我更好看一点。
 12:29:08 PM
你也发给我你的照片吧。
让你失望了. 12:30:46 PM
我不拍照的 
 12:33:00 PM
昨天你说了要拍照一起，所以你肯定会拍照。 但是如果你不要发给我你的照片，没事的，我理解。
 12:33:32 PM
你是海口的女孩子吗？还是其他地方的？我是欧洲的，欧盟人。
 12:41:33 PM
我也在想你是黎族女孩子吧？我觉的你特别美。 
让你失望了. 12:47:21 PM
嗯
 12:48:27 PM
我猜了对吗？你是个漂亮的黎族的女孩子。   
让你失望了. 12:49:25 PM
我不是那个跟你说要一起拍照的那个 
让你失望了. 12:50:00 PM
是戴着黑色帽子的那个女孩
 12:50:38 PM
她为什么不要加我？
让你失望了. 12:51:52 PM
这个……
让你失望了. 12:52:13 PM
她对象不给加
 12:53:29 PM
明白了。
让你失望了. 12:53:49 PM
我加你不可以吗？ 
 12:55:33 PM
可以的，可是我原来要了跟她做朋友。我不知道了她已经有对象。
让你失望了. 12:56:23 PM
额……
 12:57:31 PM
你没有对象？
让你失望了. 1:00:38 PM
没有
让你失望了. 1:02:02 PM
   ::) ::)
 1:02:04 PM
 (photo)？
 1:02:16 PM
他呢？
让你失望了. 1:02:22 PM
跟我发小一起用的
让你失望了. 1:02:31 PM
那个是别人的照片 
让你失望了. 1:02:41 PM
不是本人
 1:04:19 PM
太复杂的。 我给的QQ号码那个漂亮的女孩子不加我，另外的一位加我，可是她不是本人的。什么都复杂。
让你失望了. 1:05:20 PM
额……
让你失望了. 1:06:03 PM
昨天那个是你的学生吗？
 1:06:11 PM
哎呀。。。。。。好吧。
 1:06:27 PM
要走了。下了。
让你失望了. 1:06:44 PM
好吧……
 11:16:40 PM
关于你的今天的问题：是的，他是我的一个外语学生。
 2019-11-04
 1:47:40 PM
你好。
2:19:43 PM
在吗？
让你失望了. 2:25:25 PM
嗯
 2:25:53 PM
关于你的那个问题：是的，他是我的一个外语学生。
 2:26:06 PM
你好吗？
让你失望了. 2:33:48 PM
知道了
让你失望了. 2:33:56 PM
还行吧
 2:34:24 PM
  :)
 2:34:31 PM
好的。
让你失望了. 2:35:39 PM
嗯
 2:37:36 PM
我要问你，请问你为什么加了我？ :D 你要和我发展什么样的关系？
让你失望了. 2:38:07 PM
好奇  ::)
让你失望了. 2:38:20 PM
朋友吧
 2:46:39 PM
你多大了？现在做什么工作的？还是读书？
让你失望了. 2:48:20 PM
15
让你失望了. 2:48:22 PM
学生
 2:48:52 PM
我以为了你们都是大学生们。
让你失望了. 2:49:02 PM
没有
 3:13:04 PM
你们才15岁，可是已经有对象们，非常开放的女孩子们。  :o :)
 3:13:20 PM
你以前有过了几个对象？
让你失望了. 3:59:03 PM
没谈过
让你失望了. 10:49:19 PM
(voice message)
 2019-11-05
 3:07:32 PM
你说的这个我不懂。
2019-11-05
 3:07:44 PM
你的意思是什么？
 8:35:09 PM
小妹，在吗？
 8:46:23 PM
我已经好久在中国，所以我没有什么不懂的，可是要问你个问题：以前几个中国朋友们（男性和女性）对我说了“我喜欢你”（I like you），因为我们就是普通的好朋友们.今天我对一个海南的朋友说了“我喜欢你”，可是她认为了是我爱她的意思或我要爱她的意思。然后她说在中国不会对普通的朋友说“我喜欢你。”，可是我还不相信她，因为以前就是对我几个100%中国人说了这样。你也是中国人，你告诉我你觉的“我喜欢你”是太过份了或就是个正常的，普通的句子？
让你失望了. 9:36:14 PM
   ::) ::)
让你失望了. 9:36:19 PM
这个我不懂哦
 9:37:18 PM
你对你的朋友们（女孩子们和男孩子们）会说“我喜欢你”吧？
让你失望了. 10:51:49 PM
会吧
 10:52:29 PM
好！我也觉的没有什么问题的，可是那个人有点奇怪。
让你失望了. 10:52:42 PM
噢
 10:54:13 PM
   (3 lovely emoticons)
 2019-11-06
 10:46:43 PM
有空的时候你喜欢去什么地方的？
让你失望了. 10:47:09 PM
在家吧
 10:48:31 PM
我喜欢去公园，海边，电影院。这类的地方。
让你失望了. 10:48:58 PM
我也想，但是实力不允许
 10:49:53 PM
但是去公园或沙滩是免费的。 不需要实力。
 10:50:24 PM
电影是有点贵，可是去一周一次还可以的。
让你失望了. 10:50:26 PM
关键我家没有沙滩公园这种东西
让你失望了. 10:50:36 PM
电影院就更别说了
 10:51:05 PM
你的家不是海口吗？海口的公园和沙滩好多。
让你失望了. 10:51:46 PM
不
让你失望了. 10:51:46 PM
在定安那边的
 10:51:59 PM
哦，知道了，那边没有。
 10:52:13 PM
你现在在海口住吗？在海口上学？
让你失望了. 10:53:11 PM
没有
让你失望了. 10:53:24 PM
只是来这上学而已
让你失望了. 10:54:30 PM
难不成你去过定安？
 10:55:18 PM
我以前去过了。
 10:55:51 PM
好的。如果你要的话，有空的时候我们可以一起去看电影在海口。我会请你。
让你失望了. 10:56:13 PM
哦
让你失望了. 10:56:23 PM
不用了，谢谢
让你失望了. 10:56:33 PM
  :-[
 10:56:46 PM
好吧，只有我们一起去公园或沙滩，怎么样？
让你失望了. 10:57:10 PM
看一下吧
Foreigner @ 10:57:25 PM
好。 
让你失望了. 10:57:28 PM
嗯
让你失望了. 10:57:31 PM
时间也不早了
让你失望了. 10:57:40 PM
该睡觉了 
 10:57:53 PM
 ("good night" pic)
让你失望了. 10:58:01 PM
嗯
 2019-11-25
 2:09:05 PM
好久不聊天，为什么？"

What to comment more? It's just a terrible waste of time.

Title: Rejection #92
Post by: Incel on June 22, 2023, 05:44:59 AM

Rejection #92

It's a type that I can call "It never began", i. e. the ghosted instantly one. Someone nicknamed "光！" (""):

"2:24:37 AM
我们已经是好友啦，一起来聊天吧！
 2:24:48 AM
你好！
 2:25:07 AM
我住在海口。我是欧洲的，白人。
 2:25:11 AM
你呢？
 2020-10-29
 10:20:15 PM
在吗？
 2020-11-17
 3:12:47 AM
 (a pic)
 "
 Never began. Yes. That's right.

Title: Rejection #93
Post by: Incel on June 22, 2023, 08:42:05 PM

Rejection #93

Ghosted type rejection. Some nicknamed "海那边是故乡", middle-aged, not much information about her, except that she wasn't in the same city:

"2020-01-31
 7:11:40 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:50:40 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-04-04
 5:01:29 PM
今天我可以给你words of wisdom ...
 2021-01-09
 12:50:25 AM
(Happy B-day e-card.)
 2021-08-09
 11:31:41 PM
已经不上QQ吗？
 2022-07-23
 1:55:49 PM
我的新的照片：
  (gym photo)
  (another gym photo)
 2022-12-05
5:10:50 PM
 (rose emoji)
 2023-01-10
 11:52:46 PM
不喜欢吗？"
 Oh, so ghosted... as usual. Inceldom at its highest levels.

Title: Rejection #94
Post by: Incel on June 22, 2023, 09:01:16 PM

Rejection #94

One hitting the wall type female, from a travel company who just ghosted me from the very beginning.
Well, nicknamed "吴娜" ("“人”的结构就是相互支撑，“众”人的事业需要每个人的参与。感谢你的支持！"):

"2019-06-07
 4:22:12 PM
端午节快乐！
 2019-09-13
 8:00:08 PM
中秋节快乐！ 
 2020-01-30
 3:47:08 PM
现在好多外国人离开了中国，因为害怕病毒的，可是我不要离开。我爱中国，我在这里。中国加油！ 
 2020-02-14
 2:43:02 PM
Happy Valentine's Day! (情人节快乐！)
 2020-10-15
海南旅游（吴娜） 1:54:58 AM

(Here sent something that I can't see but maybe it was something auto-response or whatever.)




 1:55:25 AM
  (rose)  :D
 2020-11-11
 1:20:18 PM
亲爱的吴娜，你还好吗？
海南旅游（吴娜） 1:20:18 PM
[自动回复]你好，我现在有事不在，一会再和你联系。不再提醒
 3:30:57 PM
有空的时候找我玩玩吧。
 2020-11-12
1:22:31 PM
你真的不理我！
 2023-01-09
1:42:23 AM
那这个我的喜欢吗?
 (a very sexy pic)
 2023-03-09
 2:15:56 AM
三八节快乐 (rose)
 2023-03-13
 3:48:06 AM
吴娜， 你还好吗？
 2023-04-09
 11:05:12 PM
                                                 HELLO！                           
 2023-04-17
 5:15:26 AM
在吗？"

And deleted like the rest who're ghosting me so badly. Inceldom, brocels... inceldom.

Title: Rejection #95
Post by: Incel on June 26, 2023, 07:16:57 PM

Rejection #95

The best looking even hitting the wall type, an elder Stacy (cool body, at least 7.5/10 Stacy-tier person), that at the beginning I perceived as an younger or the same age person. She was a dancer and a dance teacher. At the beginning showed some real interest every time when we met on the street, in the lift, etc., but later when we exchanged the contacts she started to behave coldly from the first chat. It was like "Why are you asking me this? You sound like a policeman." (in answer of some elementary, normal question like "Are you married?' or "What is your occupation now?") and soon it was like a semi-ghosted, fruitless chat... Later, once I tried to talk to her (I had some beers outside and met her by accident in the public transportation) and she was polite and smiling but nothing more and still didn't warm up the chats, the further communication. I think she had some issues, can't think of the reasons why she did so... But, just count it as a rejection #95.

Title: Rejection #96
Post by: Incel on June 26, 2023, 07:29:18 PM

Rejection #96

Well, this is a ghosted type, but before it, it was full of fake promises and excuses (like, "Sure, let's meet.", "Oh, right now I'm in another town." and "I have to go to work tomorrow.")

Nicknamed "乞丐" ("beggar") (''''):

''2018-07-08
 17:19:15
你好！ 现在你在海口吗？
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 18:09:45
在啊
18:09:45
您好，我现在有事不在，一会再和您联系。
 18:30:43
有空的时候要我们去看电影，去沙滩，喝饮料，这样吗？       
 2018-07-09
 14:36:58
 (resend)
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 14:53:55
可以啊
 2018-07-14
 17:18:04
 周日吧。明天。好吗？
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 17:18:29
我在三亚，没有时间了，
 17:19:27
   :o
 17:19:30
跟男朋友吗？
 17:23:07
  ::)
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 21:16:18
跟姐妹
 23:43:21
OK. 什么时候回来海口呢？
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 23:53:08
明天
↪帆布鞋的骄傲↪ 23:53:20
只是我后天要上班
 23:54:44
(hug emoji) 好的。
 2018-09-20
15:02:05
你好！
 15:02:19
怎么不找我？  :)
 15:02:50
已经2个月多没有聊天了。你还好吗？
 15:49:43
  ???"

Ghosted 100%... That's the way it is. The life goes on.

Title: Rejection #97
Post by: Incel on June 27, 2023, 04:49:49 AM

Rejection #97

About some married one who agreed to meet me but after saw my photos disagreed, i . e. started to ignore me for hours and then, LOL "We are just friends" ... Didn't pass the looks threshold obviously. She was intelligent, artistic and knowledgeable person, so I think she valued/liked my other sides (artmaxxed, edumaxxed, knowledgemaxxed (especially sinology-maxxed) but that time I wasn't gymmaxxed enough and no wonder I didn't pass her looks criteria.

'EmilyZhou'''("生活的哲学，潜心修行，接受世界的不同，做这个世上独一无二的你。"):


''2018-07-31
EmilyZhou 22:18:15
我是EmilyZhou
 22:18:31
Good evening!
 22:22:21
晚上好啊！
 22:22:31
Why did you add me?
 22:24:26
请问，你为什么加了我？
 22:34:33
If you don't answer, I'll delete you.
 22:34:43
不要说话的话，我删掉。
 22:38:59
Okay, bye!
 22:39:08
好的。拜拜了！
22:39:26
 (screenshot of the delete option)
22:39:34
 (screenshot of the delete button)
22:39:41
 (OK)？
22:39:47
 (OK)
Deleted. But then she re-added me.
 2018-08-01
EmilyZhou 12:58:26
我是EmilyZhou
12:58:48
 (Screenshot of all my unilateral messages)
12:59:33
Yesterday already we wasted some time. I hope today to chat and to be okay. Otherwise, I'll not add you again anymore.
 13:00:21
昨天已经浪费了时间。今天你再加了我，可是我希望我们会真的聊天或者我已经不会再加你。
EmilyZhou 14:13:27
很抱歉
EmilyZhou 14:14:12
Qq用得比较少，所以没及时看到信息回复你
EmilyZhou 14:14:16
Sorry
EmilyZhou 14:15:36
看到你对学习的态度，所以才加你
18:29:05
好的。我是欧洲的，欧盟人。白种的。你是哪里的？
EmilyZhou 18:38:53
中国人
EmilyZhou 18:39:17
你现在是在中国吗
18:40:09
嗯。我住在海口的。
18:40:16
你是大陆的吧？
EmilyZhou 18:40:21
海南的
18:40:28
现在你也住在海口吗？
EmilyZhou 18:40:29
那你现在在做什么
EmilyZhou 18:40:31
是的
 18:40:52
本地的？哦。你有点想大陆的。可能你的爸爸是大陆人吧？
18:41:09
我的人类学比较好，所以我这样猜猜的。
EmilyZhou 18:41:12
我是本地人
EmilyZhou 18:41:16
谢谢
EmilyZhou 18:41:39
但是祖先是大陆的
 18:41:43
不用。你的英语好吗？我们会用英语聊天。
EmilyZhou 18:41:49
可以
18:42:04
就是。我马上觉得你的祖先不会是海南的。
EmilyZhou 18:42:06
我在阿联酋待过一段时间
EmilyZhou 18:42:33
May I have your name?
EmilyZhou 18:42:45
周新尾EmilyZhou
 18:43:01
Sure. My name is xxx.
 18:43:21
You have a very pretty face, I like it. Really.
 18:43:29
What do you work now, in here?
EmilyZhou 18:44:22
Thank you. I am just photogenic
EmilyZhou 18:44:40
Now I am working in insurance company
EmilyZhou 18:45:33
How about you
 18:45:36
I  see. But, still, I think you look very well (face and body).
 18:45:54
Working on some websites and webpages; teaching some English.
 18:48:26
You're living and working in Haikou, right?
 19:07:55
懂了没？
 19:30:26
我是说我做网站和网页；我也教外语的。我的专业是“哲学与人类学”，我是硕士的。
 20:21:27
我不吸烟，不喝白酒。我喜欢锻炼武术。
 20:21:49
非常喜欢天天看书，学习越来越多的信息。我会5门外语的。
EmilyZhou 20:36:37
Sorry. I’m kind of busy right now. I will talk to you later
20:37:46
Alright. I hope we may talk later!     
EmilyZhou 22:21:50
Do you use WeChat
22:25:10
No. I don't use it at all.
EmilyZhou 22:27:52
Ok
EmilyZhou 22:28:10
Facebook?
22:28:11
Yep. Only QQ.
 22:28:23
No. Facebook is forbidden in China.
 22:28:40
在中国是不行的。
 22:28:50
而且FACEBOOK有什么用的？
 22:29:08
Mostly useless and time-consuming.
EmilyZhou 22:31:01
可以翻墙
EmilyZhou 22:31:08
Use vpn
EmilyZhou 22:31:25
Nothing. Just asked
 22:33:20
可以的，可是我不要问题的。我爱中国，我爱中国的共产党，我不太要用禁止的网站。没有什么需要的。有百度，有BING，有QQ，有WIKIPEDIA就够了吧。不要VPN什么的。我真的不需要那些美国的FACEBOOK，TWITTER，什么的。对我没有用的。
(Adding that there is no more Wikipedia in China too. I'm also not sure if there is something more banned but Yahoo and LinkedIn were the last (that was shut down in China) I knew about.)
 22:33:29
 嗯，好的。
EmilyZhou 23:03:08
Good
23:04:14
Yeah...
 23:04:27
So, do you have a boy-friend?
EmilyZhou 23:04:48
I'm married
 23:04:53
How about you
 23:05:23
I'm okay.
2018-08-01
 23:05:35
Where is your husband now?
EmilyZhou 23:05:49
In Hainan
EmilyZhou 23:06:05
What means ok
 23:08:16
OK.
 23:08:24
Well, I'm single.
 23:08:31
So, he's in Haikou, or?
EmilyZhou 23:24:51
Sometimes in Haikou
 23:25:43
I see. So, often you feel lonely, right?
EmilyZhou 23:26:27
Depends how you look at it
 23:26:51
Of course.
 23:27:04
If you wish we may meet soon.  (glasses with champagne emojis)
EmilyZhou 23:27:53
Ok
EmilyZhou 23:28:01
Can I see your picture
23:28:35
Yes.
23:30:54
  (photo 1 normal type)
  (photo 2 model style type)
 2018-08-02
12:07:10
所以？
 12:07:30
是不是你不喜欢我的外貌？
 12:40:04
说实话；如果你不要我的话，我会介绍给你另外的一个外国朋友。他比我更强。
EmilyZhou 12:50:15
没有啊
EmilyZhou 12:50:43
What do youmean stronger
EmilyZhou 12:50:54
We are just friends
 20:25:49
就是我觉得你要了见面我，可是看到了我的照片后，你不太想。可能我不是你喜欢的类型吧？
 20:26:04
就是他有更多肌肉。
EmilyZhou 21:41:40
我不看重这些
EmilyZhou 21:42:22
加你为好友，只是把你当朋友看，别无他想
EmilyZhou 21:42:43
I hope you don’t misunderstand
 21:44:43
好吧。随便你。如果是只有朋友的话，没有需要问人发给你照片。外貌对友谊不是重要的。
EmilyZhou 21:46:07
我加你为好友你第一反应是不是想知道我长啥样
EmilyZhou 21:46:20
至少在脑海里有个印象
 21:48:08
对我外貌的是无所谓的，因为我不是外貌协会的。
EmilyZhou 22:32:18
如果你无所谓你就不会评论我的长相的
 22:34:00
因为我认为了你要我们见面，你要外国男友，什么的。可是如果是只有对普通的朋友，一点都没有关系外貌的。
 22:34:40
我还觉得你要了我们见面，可是看照片后已经不要。我不是你喜欢的男子。
EmilyZhou 22:36:26
我已经结婚，我为什么还要男朋友
 22:37:06
我不知道了你已经结婚了。而且你说了你的老公不在，你孤独。。。。。。
 22:37:38
我真的不明白你为什么找老外？免费英文？情人？
EmilyZhou 22:38:22
我有老公，那意味着我已经结婚。我没有说我孤独，是你认为。。。
🐅 22:39:17
好的。如果你那么关你的老公，为什么还要加老外男子呢？说直接的。我们不要浪费时间。
EmilyZhou 22:39:28
拜托，我在国内工作的时候有很多外国同事，在国外同样也有很多外国同事朋友。不要以为中国女孩子加老外就是想入非非
EmilyZhou 22:40:17
我不知道你是男是女，我加你是因为你的学习态度吸引我
 22:40:21
我什么都不以为，只有不明白：1.你有老公 +２。你有很多外国朋友们。你还在找什么？
EmilyZhou 22:41:23
 (screenshot of our previous chat where she circles the moment where speaks about she likes my attitude about the learning/study)
22:42:10
你哪里知道我的学习态度？！  　我一点没有表达了它。我只有说了一般的。
22:42:25
看到了，可是这个好像个接口。
EmilyZhou 22:42:37
麻烦你去回看群聊天记录
 22:42:57
不用。我还记得。
 22:43:49
好的。看起来我们的联系不会有用的。你已经有老公，你已经有很多外国同事们和朋友们。我对你会有用吗？
EmilyZhou 22:46:49
麻烦你不要误解中国女生加你为好友就会有什么想法，我很纳闷你为啥要发两张图片，我不知道你想表达什么。作为朋友不一定要有利益才能成为朋友
EmilyZhou 22:47:05
中国有句话说朋友多了路好走
EmilyZhou 22:48:17
就像中国一样，有好多好邻居，但是也需要和其他国家建交，保持友好关系
 22:49:50
同志，我已经住在中国１５年了。我非常好知道笨的的女生们。我马上告诉了你的外貌是东北的。我的知识对中国是高手的，专业的。中国很大：什么都女人们有。不是只有一种的。所以不要认为我不懂。
 22:51:49
你要了发给你照片，所以我发给了你。
 22:52:10
 (A screenshot about how she agreed to meet up soon but wanted to see my picture.)
 22:52:37
我说了我们会见面，你说“OK了，我能看看你的照片吗？”忘记了吗？
 22:53:30
无所谓。算了。
 23:04:31
打错了：*笨的 －－要说“本地的女生”。我已经中国通了。什么也清楚了。
 23:04:38
拜拜。
EmilyZhou 23:15:05
朋友之间第一次见面本来就要先看照片
 23:15:05
您好，我现在有事不在，一会再和您联系。
EmilyZhou 23:15:36
  (bye-bye) (bye-bye)''
 Deleted. And it's over. Yes, it never began.

Title: Rejection #98
Post by: Incel on June 27, 2023, 06:46:25 AM

Rejection #98

A very strange Stacy who years later (as I see now) become a middle--tier Becky. Why strange? Because at first she got my business card but didn't contact with me. Later added me but pretended that she just added my number by accident (i. e. she never met me before)... It wasn't clear what is she up to but, as usual, it never began and then it was over:

"儿女双全" ("永远身体健康快乐……" "宝宝妈妈很爱你"):

2018-09-12
 12:14:10
你好
 12:14:35
你好！
 12:25:30
你好吗？你是谁？  :)
 2018-09-13
 12:52:20
  ???
 12:52:32
请问，你是？
 14:21:00
说吧。为什么不说话？！我是个外国朋友。你呢？
我只想给你宠爱 14:36:12
哦
我只想给你宠爱 14:36:26
你是老师吗？
 14:40:45
  (resending my questions in screenshot mode)
 14:42:20
第三次问一下：你是谁？ ???
我只想给你宠爱 14:43:00
我随便加你的
我只想给你宠爱 14:43:13
你也不认识我
我只想给你宠爱 14:43:32
我的名字陈亚丽
 14:44:12
不是的。你已经有过了我的QQ号码。看看：  ;D (a proof that she added me via the concrete QQ number which is unique)   
 14:45:03
所以，你直接说谁给了你我的QQ？你想要什么？（我喜欢坦白的女孩子。 :D ）
我只想给你宠爱 14:45:32
我不想要什么
 14:45:52
好的。拜拜！  (OK) (respect emoji)
我只想给你宠爱 14:46:02
请问你是教英语的老师吗？
 14:47:40
请问，如果你不认识我，为什么你觉的我会是教英语的？说实话吧：谁给了你我的QQ号码？（我已经看到了你不是随便加我的，有人给了你我的QQ号码。）所以，说实话，我是非常直接的男子，我会理解。来。
我只想给你宠爱 14:49:10
是你给我Q号的
14:49:47
哪里？
 14:50:34
在哪里（在哪个地方）？
我只想给你宠爱 14:50:50
是以久之前你给我的Q号，还对我以后要是小孩可以学英语，可以找你教！
 14:52:08
好吧、我相信你。
 14:52:15
是的，我是外教。
 14:52:25
做教教。
 14:52:48
也是一名网站管理员。
 14:52:52
  :)
我只想给你宠爱 14:53:06
在白沙门，游泳那边那个海边，小卖部卖水和卖吃的那里？
我只想给你宠爱 14:53:50
很久了，好几个月的事了，现在才加你
 14:54:09
OK。我以前经常去过了白沙门。
 14:54:18
所以我忘记了。
 14:54:28
好的。清楚了。
 14:54:37
你要教你的孩子吗？
我只想给你宠爱 14:54:41
是你用纸写你的Q号我的
 14:54:52
嗯。
我只想给你宠爱 14:55:13
多少钱一个月
 14:55:35
不是一个月。是一次的。
我只想给你宠爱 14:55:54
一次多少钱
 14:57:03
价格是这样的：幼儿园的孩子们：70元， 小学生们：80元，初中以上：100元。
 14:57:44
一个小时的。
我只想给你宠爱 14:57:53
哦！
 14:58:16
   :) :)
我只想给你宠爱 14:58:50
等他以后小学，再给他教。
我只想给你宠爱 14:59:21
不好意思，打扰问一下你而已！
 15:01:55
没事，亲爱的美女！  :-* (rose)
我只想给你宠爱 15:08:30
我不是美女了，是妇女了。
我只想给你宠爱 15:08:42
  ;D
15:09:21
可是我觉的你的外貌特别漂亮，而且身体性感的！
 2018-09-14
我只想给你宠爱 11:10:11
没有啊！
 12:56:02
我一直说直接话。在我的眼睛里，你就是个美女。 
我只想给你宠爱 13:10:55
你怎么知道我是一个美女？
 13:12:04
我看到了你的QQ上的照片。   
我只想给你宠爱 13:12:41
哦
 13:35:22
现在你做什么工作的？
我只想给你宠爱 13:37:27
没有做工作，只在家里带孩子。
 13:37:52
哦。好。 "

As I said she never called me back. It was naive to think that she'll call me to teach her kid when the kid is in the primary school. By the way she's not the one and only. There are often those promises that they don't keep. Some of them even think that it's just being polite (that strange definition of politeness: I'll lie you that I'll do something in the future and you see, I'm being polite.) I don't know what happened with her but she just ghosted me and never met her again. It's over...

Title: Rejection #99
Post by: Incel on June 27, 2023, 06:55:03 AM

Rejection #99

One of the most high-tier Stacies ever. Looks, well, 9.5/10 or around. She was introduced to me by a friend who said that she is a very open girl (sharing with her friends, like him, that she's having a rich, elder lover; something like sugar daddy). I decided to try my luck and as an incel-tier or incelish person just... it never began.

It was difficult to chat with her. It was rare when she answers and the chats were short like this:

"2018-08-10
22:23:29
你什么时候准备来海南？
 2018-08-12
xxx的朋友 20:47:06
没那么快
 20:47:55
我以为了你是说2018的夏天（现在的）。
 2018-08-14
xxx的朋友 20:37:47
  ;D
 20:39:50
。。。。。。"

And logically at one point I decided to stop this cope and got more realistic so just deleted this fruitless and highly impossible contact. I don't mean that the rest were possible but this one was obviously impossible because she targets only very rich males.

Title: Rejection #100
Post by: Incel on June 28, 2023, 07:01:26 AM

Rejection #100

It was a funny one because it was ''predestined'' to be so. What I mean? Well, too many factors that made the situation clearly "It's over" or "It never begins": far away (thousands miles away), age gap (I don't mind very much but usually many of them are agecucks, i. e. ageists.), I'm not more than a 5/10 (usually they'll search for a 7/10 and above) and it was like a fun for me. Well, there was a small, tiny hope because she was nicknamed "lonely." ("众里寻他千百度，蓦然回首，那人却在，灯火阑珊处。" which means "Searching for him thousands of times in the crowd, suddenly looking back, the person was in the dim light.") but I didn't think of it as more than a 0.1% or 0.2%. That's why I behave more humorously than usual (jester type chat):

"lonely. 6:04:07
hi

 6:05:36
Hi

 6:05:41
Where are you now?

 6:05:50
I am in Haikou, Hainan. And you?

lonely. 6:07:46
I am in Hangzhou, Zhejiang

 6:08:01
I see.

 6:08:15
Do you have a boy-friend? Or you're really lonely?

lonely. 6:10:15
I don't have a boyfriend, I'm very lonely

 6:11:46
Wow... me too.

 6:11:54
Show me a photo.

 6:17:14
Do you have a picture? Show me one, please. :D

lonely. 6:19:31
Sorry, I don't like taking photos.

 6:24:30

(2 gym photos sent)
 6:24:41
My photos. Do you like me?


I am sporty.


And clever.

 6:27:10
And I do yoga.

 6:27:49
(yoga photo) (okay emoji) (thumb up emoji)


 6:28:31

(another yoga photo) (thumb up)

 6:28:54
Don't you think I am a great person? 8)

 6:31:43
I think you don't like me. Right?

 6:32:07
If this is the case, no problem. You can delete me. It's okay. (peace emoji)

"

Juts taking it easy. Inceldom but... take it easy, brocels.

Title: Rejection #101
Post by: Incel on June 28, 2023, 09:39:46 PM

Rejection #101

There was one from another province who came to talk to me on a ferry when I was back from a very pretty SAR of China called "Macau" (a.k.a. "Macao" or "Aomen"). Then she said she will add me and she really did. At last when we had to meet she avoided it and said she's having a person who already likes and I decided to end this relationship because it was like "Sorry, man, but you're too ugly for me I need you only as a friend just because you're sort of unique (foreigner which is a comparatively rare around, educated and knowledgeable) but nothing more because, you see, I like another type of men!" and... as usual, it never began:

Nickname "怒火 (fire)", which means "anger; fury; wrath; ire; flames of fury":

"2018-07-30
G 14:07:17
我是G
 14:07:52
你好！
 14:07:58
我回来了！
 14:08:04
你在哪里？
G 17:49:01
hello
G 17:49:09
good  night~
G 17:50:39
I'm  sorry~I have  just  got up
 17:56:09
I see. Where are you now?
 17:56:35
My photo from Macao: 
(One of my best photos from that time.)
18:21:13G撤回了一条消息
G 18:21:28
In  a  very  distant  place
 18:22:47
我希望你回来海口的时候我们会见面。
18:23:02G撤回了一条消息
 18:24:31
 (a rose)
G 18:30:32
thank   you~
 18:31:04
  YOU　ARE　WELCOME！
G 18:32:42
Have  you   eaten  dinner?
 22:11:58
Yes. 
 2018-07-31
 13:31:35
Good afternoon! Where are you today?
 2018-08-02
 22:02:46
怎么已经一点不回答我？
宝盖莹 22:02:52
对不起
宝盖莹 22:02:54
最近很忙
宝盖莹 22:03:03
我是在乡镇下面的
宝盖莹 22:03:06
你找不到我的
宝盖莹 22:03:08
   :-[ :-[
 22:03:41
哦。我明天要去三亚。可能八月份我一直在三亚。
宝盖莹 22:03:55
去三亚哪里?
 22:04:35
三亚市。
 22:04:50
市内。
宝盖莹 22:05:13
什么旅游景点呢
 22:06:43
不。我去那边教课。
 22:06:58
教英语。
宝盖莹 22:07:38
这样啊
宝盖莹 22:07:45
今天我也去三亚了
 22:08:39
我去明天到9月。
 22:09:03
如果你再去的话，我们一定会见面。 (rose)  :D
宝盖莹 22:15:20
好的
 22:17:00
(a shaved face photo)
 我刮胡子的时候更可爱。  :)
宝盖莹 22:17:35
是的是的，今天去三亚看见很多外国人
 22:18:09
那边大多数是俄罗斯人。
宝盖莹 22:18:23
那他们在这边居住吗
 22:19:11
他们都是旅游的。我居住。很少外国人爱在中国居住。
宝盖莹 22:19:29
哦，这样啊
宝盖莹 22:19:40
因为我知道
宝盖莹 22:20:08
你们美元换人民币会很多…所以在这里买房应该对你们来说不难
宝盖莹 22:20:26
美元一直在升值
 22:23:06
有些外国人是穷人。有些也不用美元。这个是美国的币。
宝盖莹 22:34:16
哦哦
宝盖莹 22:34:33
我在考虑要不要买美元，等升值卖出去
宝盖莹 22:34:34
   ;D ;D
 22:35:18
我不懂这些外币的买卖。
宝盖莹 22:35:30
哦哦
宝盖莹 22:35:33
好呗
宝盖莹 22:36:16
你喜欢理财吗
22:38:34
喜欢，可是我没有那么多钱。我比较穷。
宝盖莹 22:39:11
你在海口买房多少钱呀？
宝盖莹 22:39:25
理财不需要多少钱的
 22:39:29
200 000.
22:39:41宝盖莹撤回了一条消息
宝盖莹 22:40:10
200 000一平方?
2018-08-02
 22:41:25
怎么可能？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？？
宝盖莹 22:41:31
哈哈
宝盖莹 22:41:38
那就很便宜了
 22:41:51
６４００　元　一个平方米。
22:42:14宝盖莹撤回了一条消息
宝盖莹 22:44:06
那就一共31平方米这样?
宝盖莹 22:44:24
房子应该挺温馨的吧！
 22:44:33
是啊。就是。我是穷的，我买不了大的公寓。
宝盖莹 22:44:43
没事，慢慢来
 22:44:54
很少的，不舒服的。可是我没有钱买大一点的。
宝盖莹 22:45:40
可以去美国工作，去那边挣钱，在回来中国买大公寓
宝盖莹 22:45:47
    ;D ;D ;D
宝盖莹 22:46:15
毕竟那边的币比较值钱
 22:48:01
不是的。美国的价格很高。省钱很难。好多美国人没有自己的房子。他们住在车里面还是在街上。
宝盖莹 22:48:43
这样吗！
宝盖莹 22:49:59
海口很多外国人
宝盖莹 22:50:05
黑人，白人
宝盖莹 22:52:38
不是
宝盖莹 22:52:40
三亚
宝盖莹 22:52:48
三亚很多外国人
 22:52:50
嗯。
 2018-08-09
 13:43:54
那，现在你在哪里？怎么又不找我聊天？  :((
宝盖莹 13:44:04
我准备回家了
宝盖莹 13:44:06
   ::) ::)
13:44:10宝盖莹撤回了一条消息
宝盖莹 13:44:18
准备离开海南了
 13:44:53
哎呀，我们一点都没有了机会见面。  :(
13:45:02
我回来了海口呢。
宝盖莹 13:45:03
那么想跟我见面吗
宝盖莹 13:45:05
  ;D
宝盖莹 13:45:07
哦哦
宝盖莹 13:45:09
好的
 13:45:16
对啊。因为我喜欢你了。
宝盖莹 13:46:06
 ;D ;D  为啥呀
宝盖莹 13:46:10
我又不漂亮
宝盖莹 13:46:12
   ;D ;D
13:46:41
因为我喜欢南方的姑娘，对我你是个非常美丽的女孩子。
 13:47:03
而且看来你的性格是比较好的。
宝盖莹 13:47:04
 (3 photos of her)
宝盖莹 13:47:13
对啊
宝盖莹 13:47:19
还行，和蔼那种吧
 13:47:28
 (a heart emoji)
宝盖莹 13:49:40
你不是有老婆了吗
 13:50:06
 (a cool photo of mine)
 13:50:11
没有的。
宝盖莹 13:50:21
上次那个不是你老婆
宝盖莹 13:50:24
?
 13:50:33
是我的同事伙伴。
宝盖莹 13:50:47
哦哦
宝盖莹 13:51:02
可是我有喜欢的男生了！
宝盖莹 13:51:04
   ;D ;D
 13:51:26
好的。祝福你们。
宝盖莹 13:51:49
你觉得我哪里漂亮呀
宝盖莹 13:51:52
  ::)
 13:52:21
无所谓。我不知道了你已经有喜欢的男生了。祝福！拜拜。
宝盖莹 13:52:27
好的
宝盖莹 13:52:28
  ;D
"

After rereading the chat during posting it in this e-book I am thinking that except the looks maybe there was another reason -- she was emphasizing; focusing too much about all those the dollars, trading, finance, property, earnings things... well, in a word, she thought that I am too poor for her. And then started to speak that she has a person (a male) she likes... and still wanted to continue to receive my words of admiration (that "tell me more how I am pretty" stuff) but I decided that it's good not to waste my time with some kind of a girl who thinks that I'm not enough attractive and not rich enough for her.

Title: Rejection #102
Post by: Incel on June 29, 2023, 05:55:06 AM

Rejection #103

Some "南烟" (the meaning is "Southern smoke") ("世界总是一样的，只是我们的心情和遭遇不一样而已。") who ghosted me and then de-ghosted me only to send me some spam. Ridiculous rejection, isn't it?

"2018-09-16
南烟 22:11:04
我是菲菲，好久没联系了，最近怎么样呢？
 22:12:41
这边有台风。在家里上网。你呢？
 22:23:01
  ???
 22:37:27
说吧。怎么不说话？
 2018-09-17
南烟 3:03:47
给你说个一天能收入七八百块的兼职，不用出门，动动手就行了。Q群875978698，赶紧来吧，赚了钱要请我吃大餐哦
 13:15:21
I see. In fact you don't care about me, you just wanted to send me this spam. No, thanks!"