It's like complaining that you have "only" € 4 000 000 when the neighbor has € 5 000 000.
Who cares he looks prettier when you're pretty enough? I had a proverb (my own) which meaning was: "
Many of the successful ones aren't the best ones.", i. e. you don't have to be the prettiest, the strongest, the richest, etc. to achieve what you want.