Still not if we don't count the race. You need to work out and to change your diet. What are you eating? Tofu and mantou and noodles? Eat chicken, fish, eggs, do sports. Become a man physically.
And can you sing and dance?
How do you imagine that Jpop-maxx? To color your hair and to buy some fancy clothes? Oh my... now it's not enough. Improve seriously your body and your diet first. Then learn how to dance and sing better. And at the end fashion-maxx in J-pop style.
Be something like him
(body shape) first.
You don't have to be V-shaped like Arnold but also you can't hope to be an attractive man with this body. There should be some girl who will like you only because your personality and your money but don't get surprised if later she falls in love with better looking guys. And now almost every one out there looks better than you.